M61
Fair play.
May 01 2016
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
More info OP? I have no idea what you mean?
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RHP User
10 years ago
At first I thought yours was a post about judgement of potential playmates. But I see now, it's a forum thing. There were groups before I came along... In my time, there used to be several groups that I was part of and decided in the long run to have nothing to do with. That was years ago but I'd be surprised if there isn't a group or multiple groups still, lol. It won't have anything to do with RHP though because it is not in the forum proper. Not their problem. ;-) Cheers, Peachy 🍑
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RHP User
10 years ago
There used to be when I joined four years ago,a FB group called the Secret Pies. Perhaps they still exist,I have no idea. Twice I have been accused of orchestrating a group of women here.,nothing could be further from the truth. Do posters talk about other posters ,probably but that would be in p.m or when they meet up in RL. Also many people know each other through meet and greets. People gossip,it's part of the human condition Amos,are they gossiping about you ?,maybe...but not necessarily in a bad way...is it vilification ,? Only if the gossip traducing your character is spread around. The best thing to do in that case is to ignore it.Cyber bullies want you to respond,it feeds them. Don't feed them and they will go away. Q
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RHP User
10 years ago
I get ignored by a lot of the regulars on here. Don't worry about it, just carry on. I, on occasion, get to know the odd one mainly through messaging, but either way, it's just a forum and an opportunity to have our say. Whether people respond or not doesn't bother me. It's my choice to come on here. If I don't like it or don't feel like it, I bugger off and do something else, not very often clearly But, pictures op, that's the issue I have with your type of profile. I don't trust anyone I can't see and rarely talk to those profiles, there are security issues at hand here. I make no apology for that. So that's my honest response to your question and you must know that's a problem and the root cause?
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RHP User
10 years ago
...there are surely cyber bullies on every online forum these days, just as there are bullies everywhere in real life too. There are the ones who belittle people deliberately, and then there are those who don't even realise they are being offensive until someone lets them know. This kind of online social interaction brings out the same personality traits in people as being face to face, in my opinion. It's no different. A stranger is just as likely to be a smiling assassin to your face as they are to your profile picture, a wanker is going to be a wanker and a genuine, caring person is quite likely to remain so, whatever social circles they move in and out of. Don't let it bother you amos. Maybe there are( or were ) little sewing circles of gossips who also happen to be members of RHP....who cares what other people say or think. Fuck em! If gossip is the highlight of their day then they need to get out more.
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MsJonesy
10 years ago
I've never heard of that before. Always rumours about fb pages etc, but really Who.Could.Be.Bothered. I am certainly not a member of any fb page, not even on that damn waste of time time site. Are you asserting they are using this other medium to decide who is 'in' and who is 'out'? If their world is that small and petty, you have dodged a bullet by not being involved with them.
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RHP User
10 years ago
As i have the Illuminati Hotline on speed dial, i asked them ur question. Sorry Amos but they said no such thing exists 😕 read this on an ecard once so u know its true:- Ya know who can't b trusted? People who don't drink, those f***ers are up to something 😜 (especially me) Good luck on ur investigation though.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Is that your personal experience, that people don't interact? Or is your whole comment just hearsay? I am new and I haven't felt like people don't converse with me. I believe that some comments go through an approval process and others don't which probably means people comments can get easily over looked. To me that says more about the couple and the way that they have fit into this forum than anything else. Just my opinion. As any social group you have the loud ones, the funny ones, the wallflowers, and people that don't really fit in for a variety of reasons. MsJonesy, Facebook is another way for people to stay connected, exchange information, exchange pictures. Would it really be so wrong for people to be friends on FB or have a group? I assume has to be closed group because it would be too risqué for normal FB friends. Doesn't sound like a hanging offense to me?? Weird.
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RHP User
10 years ago
If there is, I must not be one of the cool kids as Ive only read about it on here in public.... By the sounds of it Amos; you're knowing more about it than most..... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I cant see how the forums can have a secret society somewhere else. But obviously the couple you chat with have some insider info. Maybe they run it. Lol. Amos, people get on the forums and throw their opinions into the mix. You were interacting a fair bit, then went quiet. Thats normal for a large percentage of posters. They ebb and flo, depending on life and mood and giving a fuck. I must admit that I know brisbane forum ppl a lot better than any others, as Ive either met them at local m&g's or a few of the girls go as a group to some of the venues up this way. Nothing secret or sly about being social. Personally Im still waiting for my invite from the forum Illuminati secret society.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I was just forum flicking and reading the topic on writing your own flirts. Amos, there was interaction from your post with the OP and others about your suggested flirt sounding very much like a Kevin Bloody Wilson song. Is that not forum interaction that you are talking about? Or do you need something more?
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RHP User
10 years ago
..untill they were exposed and all hell broke loose. Some old members will remember.... Im not aware of anything these days, although I wasn't aware back then either. In all honesty, who really cares. I for one don't as if Im going to fear some insecure, paronoid, cowardly and probs narcissistic group of fools hahaha Not in this lifetime. I suggest to those members who don't post coz of the above.... take a leap of faith. I know it can look daunting when the regs go off in tangents with each other, remember tho, these pen friendships have been built up over years. 💋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
10 years ago
I have been made aware of this sort of thing, a secret group in FB, that existed way before my time and I find that childish how they did pick and choose who to interact with, if that is the case. I do not want to be involved in taking sides in something that existed milleniums ago! Not my business and such child play. And who has the time and energy to be involved in such silliness. Like Don Quixote battling the windmill. Lol.. I was being cajoled into being involved against this cyber bullying but that is just one side of the story and I really couldn't be stuffed being involved in somebody's fight in FB or any other medium. When I did not respond to that person's drive to be involved, I have turned into the bad guy. Really? Pfft. Who I interact with is my business, whether people agree with me or not. To tell me how to interact with whomever is an insult to my intelligence and ability to make intelligent decisions on how I lead my life, not keen on control freaks or censorship. It is natural that we interact better with certain people through shared experiences and common traits, i.e. humour, kindness, intelligence, etc. I am selective with whom I interact with. Is that vilification. No. I just choose the best experience for myself here in RHP as in real life. Why not. Life is too short to spend time with toxic people.
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'soretongue' As i have the Illuminati Hotline on speed dial, i asked them ur question. Sorry Amos but they said no such thing exists 😕 read this on an ecard once so u know its true:- Ya know who can't b trusted? People who don't drink, those f***ers are up to something 😜 (especially me) Good luck on ur investigation though. You dill. Funny as....
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Deep_Purple' Personally Im still waiting for my invite from the forum Illuminati secret society. Yessssss, the infamous Forum Illuminati Secret Society klan, AKA as "FISS" or collectively the "Fellowship of Forum Fizzers" AKA as the "FFF" I was banned for life from the invisible empire and threatened with a neutering by the grand imperial poo-bar for several infringements, not the least being 1) failing to master the art of the secret handshake & 2) refusing to wear the gold spandex sequin encrusted posting suit to the nightly group web cam sessions.Anybody wanna buy a slightly soiled gold spandex body suit? 🕵👁
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RHP User
10 years ago
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madotara69
10 years ago
well was a few years back, it was a group by invitation (lifestyle) that would discuss the topics of these forums in a non public thingy, I noticed when the mobile app was released into the palm of everyone in the whole wide world, and with in mind limited to keeping the kiddies out of the sandpit, cheating the entry pass, reading wot all the dirty fuckers think in spontaneity, horny, with rude and crude, down write dirty intensions up for ideas, moderation got a big fancy seat with a big widescreen and possibly under 'conditions !' with new friends, balloons and party hats, spike the punch, hit it DJ, groovy flashing lights 'n mirror ball, karaoke rock stars, making the big bucks, living the dream. Yeah one of the posts back then, it wasn't a link, more likely a slip of the tongue text. Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting '0z_boy' 🏃 I love this, where do you find these things, dying laughing here. Hate to think how many 'infringements' I've had on here. Your run for cover picture might have come in handy. ffs Where were you when I needed you
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Stirry' If there is, I must not be one of the cool kids as Ive only read about it on here in public.... By the sounds of it Amos; you're knowing more about it than most..... - Posted from rhpmobile No that's where you're wrong. You are one of the cool kids. Aren't you having Summer's baby
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' We're talking about the Chillout Lounge, available only to those with instant posting, and rarely used... *sharp intake of breath* ixnay ethay illoutchay oungelay entionsmay amos - I don't know about the group you're talking about, but the facebook groups I can neither confirm or deny the existence of were just a bunch of people who knew each other (some from forums, some real life, some crossing over from one to the other). Like any group chatting about stuff you'd get the odd "ugh, did you see the shit some fucker posted" - no different to "dammit, Janice just won't shut up at a meeting". But never any coordinated plotting against people. I don't see any difference to whether people are plotting against other people on facebook, kik, rhp or anywhere else - you could accomplish the same thing via RHP messages - would that be any better? I've never heard of groups actively plotting the downfall of other forum posters, they can't stop you posting.
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RHP User
10 years ago
There is no other like me I am willing to admit that as I different in a way ! I herd something about the chat rooms being quite tight and there got there cool kids in there Honestly I rather stay a out cast , I like to go eat worms !!!these days !! Lol Anyway it's funny when u find out about things about yourself that you never knew lol And so on and so on Fuck people life's to short to waist your precious time on pointless others if ur got a problem with someone grow some balls and tell them to there face ! Just there's no point to waist ur time on others as life's way to short to waist it on bullshit ,.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I don't want to belong to any club that will accept me as a member ...Groucho Marx...what he said 😑Q
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RHP User
10 years ago
I asked this question because occasionally in a casual convo ( nothing sexual or offensive ) i may direct my reply to something someone has said, and in some cases i get the zilch reply . Notice I said in some cases , certainly not all . Does it offend me ? Not really , pisses me off more than anything because I think its rude , but even then its only for about a minute , then I move on. I live by the principle you can change the way you think yourself , but not others. Total waste of time. I was bought up in a era where manners were everything and I guess I'm still getting accustom to the way the world is today. Lily , I hope your rant wasn't aimed at me . No way would I try and tell another person who they should and shouldnt talk to. ? but I think you would agree you dont just shut a person out because their opinion differs to yours ? A forum is a forum and a topic a topic. Things will always be said we dont agree with. You just dont take your bat and ball and go home. Just my opinion..
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RHP User
10 years ago
Today I received messages stating what I posted was absolutely on the money. ? Food for thought. ?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Do people expect that they will have numerous responses to a comment that have made? Most likely regulars post very similar things often so after awhile you don't really read all comments. My bad. 😇
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RHP User
10 years ago
Peeople with IP will get responses moreso than some posts that dont show up for half a day or more. They get lost in the flow of banter sadly. I think we should all have instant posting. Mods should moderate a bit more and it will run smoother. Also, I will only join a gang if I get to wear a patch on my vest. The FFF'ers.
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aussian43
10 years ago
There is the Secret Men's Business forum (and I assume a matching Secret Woman's Business forum) which the fairer sex should not be able to see. Not sure how that works with couples accounts, do they see both?
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MsJonesy
10 years ago
I can't copy and paste so bear with me folks.... You say people don't respond to comments you make. Are you referring to comments you post on a forum or messages you send people? I was once accused of not replying to a message, given a bit of a dressing down about it and labelled as a snob. Umm....the message started with 'I just wanted to let you know. ...'. I read it, thought yeah thanks for sharing, no reply required. Not my fault they decided I should answer when they randomly decided to share something with me. Nor did it ask for my opinion or engage me to reply. If you have directed a comment on a forum specifically directed to someone, well they may not have ever gone back to that forum, never knew there was something languishing there just waiting for their input. I know I don't always go back to topics I am following. I will scan my feed and if the short version of posts catch my eye I might saunter back into the forum. ...if there isn't a bright shiny new forum waiting to be read.💎💎💎
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RHP User
10 years ago
Have to say that I love these threads/forums espescially when you get to know what the "regulars" are really like on here! Ladies and Gent's chill out! Feel the love! It's all about the SEX surely? As that hot as young lady "star" said lifes to short ! I should know as I've cheated death and then some! You only get one shot so make it a blinder! Love all you RHP peep's xxx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm NOT one of the cool kids and I'm NOT BATMAN! - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsJonesy
10 years ago
I just noticed Candy queried my opinion on fb way way back in this forum. No, it is not a crime to have friends or groups on fb. I certainly see the benefits for many when their family and friends are scattered far and wide. How you use it is totally your choice; I am exercising my choice as well. I choose to keep my life fb free; too much clutter, too much useless information. I can contact friends and family by phone, email, text, skype, snail mail, kik etc etc etc. Then we get to correspond/talk about the stuff which matters to us. 👍
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' "Following" all topics you comment on means everyone else's responses show on your feed, so you're less likely to miss any. Oh if only I had all day to go back to a topic numerous times to see what was added. Pfffttt 'Nobody is going to do that more than once and surely, not everyone is reading every single comment and thread. Are they????
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ask the mods for instant posting.You have been here long enough Q
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RHP User
10 years ago
A few of you should have IP by now. Message customer support and ask them to grant it.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'amos444' Today I received messages stating what I posted was absolutely on the money. ? Food for thought. ? Not really. I've posted my opinion here, and I'd like to see people put their money where their mouth is. Cheers, Peachy
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RHP User
10 years ago
When I was here many years ago, I was made aware of a "secret" FB page for forum members of RHP. It was administered by a prolific male forum poster who was well liked and respected but I do not know if he started the page or how long it had been going. I wasn't a real forum poster then, but a reader with the odd contribution here and there I was friendly with this administrator in RL and he invited me to join this group and I did Id be lying if I said it didn't make for a interesting read, however it was not a nice place to be and based on some of the things I read I was surprised that my friend, who was held in high regard in the forums, was part of this page/group. It seemed at odds with the person I knew. It was not pleasant page nor group I can just remember when it all blew up as Inspirit stated and a lot of collateral damage happened, but to the best of my knowledge all the main players have long since gone. I don't recognize anyone now. And I think the only people that were around at that same time I was, was Inspirit and Peachy who I don't think were part of the FB group. I think I'm correct ladies ??. Does it exist now ? I have no idea, maybe a version of it does, but really does it matter ? People will always judge you based on real or imagined information, but its how you conduct yourself in times of adversity and in day to day life, with grace and integrity, is all, we all , should be concerned about Instant posting would be nice. :-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Amos, why do people need to pm you to say they agree with your post? Why cant they say it on your forum? Thats how diversion is created IMO... Them and us mentality. Keep it guarded and seperate? Then you tell us on here that you have had multiple private conversations about your topic. Isnt that doing exactly what you think others do? And rubbing it in our face by telling us that? Hhmm
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Deep_Purple' Amos, why do people need to pm you to say they agree with your post? Thats how diversion is created IMO... Them and us mentality. Keep it guarded and seperate? Then you tell us on here that you have had multiple private conversations about your topic. Isnt that doing exactly what you think others do? And rubbing it in our face by telling us that? Hhmm "Why cant they say it on your forum?" Cause he mods block it which is why the "the me and us mentality" exists..........its actively fostered in the background.
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RHP User
10 years ago
That your topic was quite sanctimonious and just a platform to brag that you are a part of a small group of people who like to private message you to share info with,away from the forum. So is that a clique or what? Im out. All the best Amos
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RHP User
10 years ago
I was going though an old topic the other day and noticed someone had quoted me / replied to me way back when and I had never noticed it as i never went back to the topic as i've already had my say on the matter. Be different if you got a notification when someone quotes you, but you dont.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think many people get ignored because of how they pester people, both in chat, in these forums, and and in messages. You may not be one of those people Amos, but so many guys (in particular) end up getting shut down when they present some poor woman, couple or guy with their 50th "Hello what you doing" whisper for the day.
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'amos444' I asked this question because occasionally in a casual convo ( nothing sexual or offensive ) i may direct my reply to something someone has said, and in some cases i get the zilch reply . Notice I said in some cases , certainly not all . Does it offend me ? Not really , pisses me off more than anything because I think its rude , but even then its only for about a minute , then I move on. I live by the principle you can change the way you think yourself , but not others. Total waste of time. I was bought up in a era where manners were everything and I guess I'm still getting accustom to the way the world is today. Lily , I hope your rant wasn't aimed at me . No way would I try and tell another person who they should and shouldnt talk to. ? but I think you would agree you dont just shut a person out because their opinion differs to yours ? A forum is a forum and a topic a topic. Things will always be said we dont agree with. You just dont take your bat and ball and go home. Just my opinion.. Are you kidding me? You asked for an opinion and I gave you mine, just like anybody else who posted. Why should it be a rant anymore than others? Why are you singling me out for this? I can't see any good reason why you would feel so defensive about my post, but not my issue. If you don't like the responses when you pose a question in the forum, don't pose a question. simple. As you said, it is a forum where there will be different viewpoints. That is blatantly obvious. You seem to be harbouring a big chip on your shoulder. How that involves me is just baffling as I really dont have anything to do with you outside the forum. Never have, never will. Leave you to it. Pfft.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
There is the secret TV/TS business (STB). It's an exclusive club. Not many of us. Maybe it is the one that you speak off OP?
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RHP User
10 years ago
The first rule of fight club... Seriously its all gettin a bit out of hand isn't it? Who REALLY gives a shit? It someone wants to act like a twat, let them! If someone wants to talk cod shit let them! I_touch, star, bring some love back in the room! Lol xx Lets all go to club 103 and hug it out! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Good question.. So here's my reply. The few that messaged today have had first hand experience,s where they were directly effected by the actions of others. Do you really think they want more of the same by posting their thoughts here. No , and I'll support their reason for not posting. Besides ' I'm really surprised by the anger some are openly displaying. Why ? .. hit a nerve ? Further, . Im not a part of any group , never have been and never will. Before today i had nothing whatsoever to do with these people , so stop poking your finger into fresh air and second guessing. There's been some good posts with good comments and suggestions.. Can we keep it that way ?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'CandyDelicious' Do people expect that they will have numerous responses to a comment that have made? Good point. This place and Fb are the only social media I personally use...but I'm sure that lots who post on social media forums do so expecting a response in kind, whether it's a question or not. I do so myself. That's interaction. But some are bean counters too...counting the "likes" and from whom. And engineering comments to fuel the "likes" and so on.
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MissBishere
10 years ago
I am puzzled by this whole topic. Are you actually asking if there are secret groups that control the forums by manipulation or are you pissed that you post something and someone didn't respond as you thought they should. Either way you cant control other people so best not to worry about it. I've never heard of any secret Facebook groups. 🤔 Does that mean I am not one of the cool kids? 😪
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RHP User
10 years ago
Let's be the uncool kids! Who's with me? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'S_OnTheLoose' amos - I don't know about the group you're talking about, but the facebook groups I can neither confirm or deny the existence of were just a bunch of people who knew each other (some from forums, some real life, some crossing over from one to the other). Like any group chatting about stuff you'd get the odd "ugh, did you see the shit some fucker posted" - no different to "dammit, Janice just won't shut up at a meeting". But never any coordinated plotting against people. I don't see any difference to whether people are plotting against other people on facebook, kik, rhp or anywhere else - you could accomplish the same thing via RHP messages - would that be any better? I've never heard of groups actively plotting the downfall of other forum posters, they can't stop you posting. It was my unequivocal experience that coordinated plotting against people did take place. Peachy
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RHP User
10 years ago
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'PeachyPearL' Quoting 'S_OnTheLoose' amos - I don't know about the group you're talking about, but the facebook groups I can neither confirm or deny the existence of were just a bunch of people who knew each other (some from forums, some real life, some crossing over from one to the other). Like any group chatting about stuff you'd get the odd "ugh, did you see the shit some fucker posted" - no different to "dammit, Janice just won't shut up at a meeting". But never any coordinated plotting against people. I don't see any difference to whether people are plotting against other people on facebook, kik, rhp or anywhere else - you could accomplish the same thing via RHP messages - would that be any better? I've never heard of groups actively plotting the downfall of other forum posters, they can't stop you posting. It was my unequivocal experience that coordinated plotting against people did take place. Peachy Peachy - I don't recall any coordinated plotting of nefarious schemes against people I'm sure there was plenty of bitching about something someone or other said, but I don't recall plotting as is being said here. Perhaps I missed this "fallout", I was on here all that time ago when there were the groups - but then I had other forums that were more interesting and forgot about this place for quite some time and wasn't following what happened here or on FB - I haven't logged into that fb account in months. What can you even do to some on here anyway? Call them an asshat and have a minion "quote with reply" adding 'yeah what he said'? Amos - I think you should be surprised if an online community of any size that has been around for many years _doesn't_ have one or more "shadow" communities that either parallel, or branch out and take on their own life. Every single one of the forums I've been on has had this happen where a group of people have splintered off and it has either lasted, or gone for a few years and then died. I don't know if that happens more or less now that the golden age of vBulletin/phpBB has passed and people just have facebook groups - but they all do. The car forum I was on had multiple parallel universes, even Australia Vogue fashion forum had multiple splinter forums, amusingly one called Rogue, and another called multi-dimensional women (WMD for short). Get a group of people together for a long time, and eventually they'll split into multiple groups that share members (and if theres one thing RHP knows how to do, it's sharing members)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Gov76' The first rule of fight club... Seriously its all gettin a bit out of hand isn't it? Who REALLY gives a shit? It someone wants to act like a twat, let them! If someone wants to talk cod shit let them! I_touch, star, bring some love back in the room! Lol xx Lets all go to club 103 and hug it out! - Posted from rhpmobile or jelly wrestle
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'CandyDelicious' Quoting 'Summersolstice' "Following" all topics you comment on means everyone else's responses show on your feed, so you're less likely to miss any. Oh if only I had all day to go back to a topic numerous times to see what was added. Pfffttt 'Nobody is going to do that more than once and surely, not everyone is reading every single comment and thread. Are they???? candy candy candy 😈
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RHP User
10 years ago
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm seeing a lot of paranoia here. If you're getting all worked up because a couple of posters didn't respond to a comment you made in the forum then you should probably be taking a break or giving the forums a miss completely. I think the only 'secret group' in operation here is the one you're now apparently a part of OP.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Much ado about nothing.
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RHP User
10 years ago
It was meant to be a joke. .... mum. Lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
I_TOUCH I'm in! Jelly wrestle it is! - Posted from rhpmobile
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abcplus1
10 years ago
We get ignored by everyone on here. Forum posts or PM's. We have tried to make contact with several people who frequent the forums........ We are clearly not their type, so we move on. That's the best option.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Mooche' People will always judge you based on real or imagined information, but its how you conduct yourself in times of adversity and in day to day life, with grace and integrity, is all, we all , should be concerned about Instant posting would be nice. :-) My sentiments exactly. Who gives a rats what other people say about us in private circles? Well, obviously some do care. What someone else thinks of me is none of my business. What I think of myself and my conduct, and if it lets me sleep peacefully at night is far more important.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am a part of several group chats on fb with numerous Rhp people. I do not recall talking about anyone I had never met though, and certainly don't remember discussing forums. There is a world outside of Rhp - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well said .. I think that sums it up in a nutshell.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I don't have supporters , imaginary or real. There are ppl I bounce off just like everyone else.. But nice try.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I don't get worked up.. That's just your way of trying to paint the wrong picture. But you already knew that.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Luck_Dragon' I'm seeing a lot of paranoia here. If you're getting all worked up because a couple of posters didn't respond to a comment you made in the forum then you should probably be taking a break or giving the forums a miss completely. I think the only 'secret group' in operation here is the one you're now apparently a part of OP. ha i said something very similar and my comment was not published.... I knew the stonemasons where running the show!
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
People dont respond personally to your posts and you think its due to conspiracy or a society of secret handshakes? Maybe they are just not into you. Try putting some personality into it. Speaking only for myself and not my secret group, l tend to warm to people who have some sort of individuality about them. To me, OP, you are just a blur. Just one of thousands. Someone may have a piccy of their big toe but it reasonates a bit of reconition when you see the big toe about the place. I dont give a fuck if you have a picture up or not. Up to you. I'm just saying my opinion. Now im off to my Buffaloe meeting.......Fred Flinstones giving a speech.
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's just good OP, that you're here I reckon.....giving voices to all those who are the victims to this rampant abuse, etc. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Mooche is correct,as I said before the group was called the Secret Pies on Face Book. Someone sent me a page where Peachy was definitely being vilified..it was about four years ago and nasty stuff. I have no idea if they still exist ,I doubt it .Most of those forum posters have long gone . Q
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'amos444' I don't get worked up.. That's just your way of trying to paint the wrong picture. But you already knew that. it bothered you enough to post a forum topic about it and state that the RHP mods should do something about it. As for your last sentence, I have no idea what you're talking about but it sounds like more paranoia.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes ... of course it does..
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RHP User
10 years ago
Rampant abuse .. OMG.. How over dramitic is that ?
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Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
I get in here, say what I want to say and get out, most of the time, sometimes interacting with others, sometimes not. But I do know and have formed friendships with a lot of the regular forum posters. I've also met many of them, through meet and greets and yes I do speak to these people outside the forums, in real life. So for me it's actually about at lot of different things, if I have time, if I like what's been written, if I don't like what's been said, if I have a strong opinion about something, sharing experiences, something I'm passionate about, or if I'm in the mood to be social. 💋
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RHP User
10 years ago
About the same as this thread eh?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
hey Amos, When I joined three years ago I used to read this phrase constantly as some poor fcker was crucified for something willfully misinterpreted. I still occasionally see something like this but the air in the forums has become a hell of a lot sweeter recently. I occasionally post with a real opinion now, hell I even started a thread (it actually scared the hell out of me). I think it's pretty even ground for everyone. I often mean to revisit a topic then I forget which one o actually wrote on, so replies don't happen for various reasons. Most were already stated. It's a great topic, I learnt about instant posting and its perhaps put into context that there may have been a bit more 'in crowd' than was obvious on the page a while back. I also think that the more you post, the more cred you have. We all like to think we are valid and real, expressing ourselves as such. Maybe face pics do help? I rarely have one public. Who knows... If you enjoy it, do it. It's 2.30am and whether you like my comment or not, you guys are probably the only peeps who might appreciate me hollering at you right now. 😝 L_D xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta1' Mooche is correct,as I said before the group was called the Secret Pies on Face Book. Someone sent me a page where Peachy was definitely being vilified..it was about four years ago and nasty stuff. I have no idea if they still exist ,I doubt it .Most of those forum posters have long gone . Q I knew the FB group you meant, it still exists but is completely unused. I didn't say people weren't bitching about other people - but I don't see any difference to bitching about someone on here, there or over the phone. (don't recall any "plotting" or what dastardly plot you could come up with to get someone... what would you do? "ha, you took the bait and I totally destroyed your argument with facts"? send them a nastygram and block them so they can't reply? I doubt there is anyone who has posted in the forums who hasn't had at least a few people get shitty with them about something they've posted.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' Boom. Heard it, didn't see it, thought it was sniper or artillery
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RHP User
10 years ago
That you like a opinion of a post , then someone gets there nose bent out of joint and blocks you ... Very Sommer Hieghts High Jam'me I haven't any interaction with that person - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
How do you know you have been blocked?
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'Pink_Sprinckles' That you like a opinion of a post , then someone gets there nose bent out of joint and blocks you ... Very Sommer Hieghts High Jam'me I haven't any interaction with that person - Posted from rhpmobile How do you know you are blocked? Maybe they have their profile down and are taking a break? some people I know here do it but they can still post. Dont take it personally. They may not even know you exists.
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RHP User
10 years ago
No surprise which side u bat for or your supporters.. This thread hits a nerve so passing it off as trivial only brings more attention to yourself, so keep up the good work. lol.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Not taking it personal at all 👍 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Please indulge ??? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I will leave you to your naivety Q
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have never spoken to that person Summer .. Geez people need to cheer up and get a root that's what we're all here for hey ?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Dont let it get you down that people dont converse with you here.... it happens to many of us I am sure there are many private groups that have come about through RHP, its only natural. Yes , I was a member of the Secret Pies. It was a fabulous group, created by an extremely popular female rhper at the time. (Not a male as alluded to by Mooche) The purpose of the group (which at one time had over 80 sexy, funny, witty, diverse members from across Australia and overseas) was to share banter and pics without any moderation. We had a fabulous time there.....it was so fast paced, instant interaction. Like most good things, many folk there became busy with real life again. Some of us are still here on RHP....some have moved on. Those of us who are still here are having a great chuckle at the misconceptions of the group spouted by people who were not members.
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'Pink_Sprinckles' Not taking it personal at all 👍 - Posted from rhpmobile No worries. Just to let you know so you dont get too stressed out about it. Some people are not aware that you can hide your profile to not be viewed or not receive messages. Whatever their reasons, they just want to be left alone. Keep having fun here...
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'Pink_Sprinckles' I have never spoken to that person Summer .. Geez people need to cheer up and get a root that's what we're all here for hey ?? - Posted from rhpmobile I'm sure as hell trying.. Now where are those hot cubs???? .
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'PeachyPearL' At first I thought yours was a post about judgement of potential playmates. But I see now, it's a forum thing. There were groups before I came along... In my time, there used to be several groups that I was part of and decided in the long run to have nothing to do with. That was years ago but I'd be surprised if there isn't a group or multiple groups still, lol. It won't have anything to do with RHP though because it is not in the forum proper. Not their problem. ;-) Cheers, Peachy 🍑 Amos, so I have no reason to disbelieve the idea that there could be a multitude of groups. With varying outlooks. One of the groups in my time was run by a man, maybe that's the one you mean Mooche, you're right that I wasn't in it. I think you might be surprised by the number from the beginning of the forums who still hang around or pop in and out. :-) Thank you for your post Q, it's been dark here under the carpet but I'm well on the way to seeing the light of day. Oh yes, and ignorance is bliss imo. What I don't know can't hurt me. People will believe what they want to believe. There will always be more followers than leaders. The way people's minds can work to justify bad behaviour scares me. The forums do seem to have a less controlling atmosphere most of the time lately. There some people who I might not always agree with but do admire the workings of their minds and hearts. Cheers, Peachy
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'ruby_blossum' Dont let it get you down that people dont converse with you here.... it happens to many of us I am sure there are many private groups that have come about through RHP, its only natural. Yes , I was a member of the Secret Pies. It was a fabulous group, created by an extremely popular female rhper at the time. (Not a male as alluded to by Mooche) The purpose of the group (which at one time had over 80 sexy, funny, witty, diverse members from across Australia and overseas) was to share banter and pics without any moderation. We had a fabulous time there.....it was so fast paced, instant interaction. Like most good things, many folk there became busy with real life again. Some of us are still here on RHP....some have moved on. Those of us who are still here are having a great chuckle at the misconceptions of the group spouted by people who were not members. Thanks Ruby Blossom, just to clarify, the male I alluded to, I never believed started it, the FB page, but he was for want of a better word, an administrator who was able to invite and grant people access to it like myself. I agree that it allowed for instant interaction without moderation, and the sharing of pics etc that you mentioned, and it was fast paced ,however at the time I joined and I'm thinking that was back in 2009 maybe, I found that it was a place where there was very little discretion, and sadly there was present, persons who took to deliberating hurting and causing trouble for some members of the group and members of RHP. That's why I left the group after perhaps 8 months or so, because this did not sit well with me.And my understanding is, as Inspirit said, it all blew up a couple of years ago, when someone said or did something or slept with someone they shouldn't have with etc etc etc and it all turned to shit. I was no longer a member at that time although I heard about it all through my mate but it was some time ago and my recollection, I admit, is a bit vague.
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RHP User
10 years ago
You shouldn't let your frustration at not being acknowledged by a non-existent secret society of people hit your nerves then eh?? If you would like though, I do have a phone number of a life coach that operates out of Wagga Wagga that can help you if you're struggling :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
You should be pleased that the Grand Poo Bah has allowed us to post in your thread. He's been very accommodating lately. Think he got a root and.... ..........eh?...........oh............ok......... Sorry. I have to go. I'm not allowed to speak further in your thread.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Mooche, my experience is that the main group I was in, that Ruby_B is talking about was started in late 2011 by a woman. No doubt about the date. Threads effected by the group are still in the forum. I must also add, it wasn't everyone who used the group in a negative way (some had no idea and some just didn't get involved) and that I've made my peace with a mixture of people from this group in the meantime and I'm glad for it. If 2009 is right for the group you're thinking about, it may be the group I knew of through other RHPers. I've been posting since mid-2007, 9th anniversary coming up. Cheers... One more sleep till Friday, Peachy
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta1' I will leave you to your naivety Q that people weren't plotting the downfall of a forumer? It was all very Mean Girls with Gretchen Weiners (her father invented the Toaster Strudel) screaming we should totally stab Caesar.. so fetch. Mooche: I'd forgotten about all that till you posted about it - yeah, that sounds like the gist of it, I never really knew exactly what went down (phnar :p ), but I do recall a few people sniping at each other on there, then doing the "lets ignore each other" then doing the "so and so has blocked me, so I can't see what she said, but you tell her from me". But none of it made much sense and didn't interest me so I paid no attention to it. I don't think that definitely killed that particular group, many people moved onto another group - but like any forum, as people's interest wanes, participation dwindles below a critical level and everyone gets out of the habit of posting in it. You need the influx of new blood to reinvigorate things.. even if just post the umpteenth one about "single men send me messages I don't like" or one of the other old standby topics for here. (I'm not sure of the dates of any of these groups, it was back in prehistoric times when Sal and Andy roamed these halls)
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RHP User
10 years ago
My goodness some of you have been here a long time! 2009 is 7 years ago! From your description and what a friend has told me about the old days it sounds a bit like the chat rooms. People whispering, and forming sub groups, people sleeping with each other and leaving husbands and wives for people they came to know through the chat rooms, huge vendettas and people going on massive rants. Were there ever secret chat rooms on RHP I wonder? All sounds very soap opera! Love it. :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
sounds like a different group to The Secret Pies See Amos, there have always been breakaways from RHP....many by the sound of it. Secret Pie's didnt come along til late 2009 and was set up by a female. It was fun at the time, yes there were personality blow outs at times (x100 because of the speed it ran at) just like here on the forums. Generally most folk kissed and made up. The funniest thing is the posts made by people who weren't even on rhp at that time trying to tell us what did or didnt happen Hey S_ .....bet you have been called many things n your time, never naive though.... til now . Just too funny.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'AnnieWhichway' You should be pleased that the Grand Poo Bah has allowed us to post in your thread. 🙌 🙌 🙌 🙌 🙌 🙌 🙌---------👺
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sorry Mooche,meant to say... sounds like a different group to The Secret Pies See Amos, there have always been breakaways from RHP....many by the sound of it. Secret Pie's didnt come along til late 2011 and was set up by a female...unlike the group you have mentioned in 2009.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Is that the best you got ? surely you can be more creative than that.. ummm, probably not.. but you'll try
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'S_OnTheLoose' Quoting 'Qefenta1' I will leave you to your naivety Q that people weren't plotting the downfall of a forumer? It was all very Mean Girls with Gretchen Weiners (her father invented the Toaster Strudel) screaming we should totally stab Caesar.. so fetch. I am going to assure you I was no longer part of the 'Secret Pies' group when they decided to start a thread in the group about me and then use the forums to follow up and make me their target and the blame because a popular male left the forum. I am also going to say there were a lot of posts in the group based on what such and such had written in the posts on RHP alright... usually followed up by an influx of indignant RHPers onto RHP to put the accused under pressure. That was my main bug bear. Relevant based on the idea that a group might behave that way different to what you noticed when you were there. Oh yeah... and I have no idea what your post to Q means. It's not a program I watch and wondered if you'd mind dumbing it down for me. Dear ?, when I saw you'd posted on that thread I mentioned above and not stuck up for me, your supposed friend who introduced you to the group, I should have deleted you then. Please remember to take responsibility for your part in the end of our relationship. I didn't give up on you. Peachy
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's interesting to see how some people really need the last word all the time. Every one twists things to suit themselves usually. Not much point arguing in circles. Is it?
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