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Girls making the first move.... yes or no?
May 02 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
I certainly don't object to a woman making the first move... although there is something kinda exciting about making the first move and waiting to cop a knee in the groin, drink in the face or hyena like cackling laughter... why steal that thrill from us? . A forward lady is always pretty sexy, especially when there's that flirting and tension floating around... a pushy woman who just thinks she can pick you up because she has a vagina is not. . Surprisingly I've learnt two pickup lines from a lady, which is more than I've learnt from men... secretive bastards.. Do you want some chewing gum? Think of a number between 1 and 10 but don't tell me what it is. . Haven't tried either of them, I prefer to stalk ladies and casually bump into them when they put the garbage out.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Jean_Girard' Haven't tried either of them, I prefer to stalk ladies and casually bump into them when they put the garbage out. I'll let you bump into me....over and over and over and over and over again ;) P.s. Nice pick up lines!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'HotSexyChilli' ... oh wait, I don't wear PJs giggity giggity....
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'HotSexyChilli' Quoting 'Jean_Girard' I prefer to stalk ladies and casually bump into them when they put the garbage out. So that's why the garbage man always stops and grins when I run my rubbish out last minute while still in my... ... oh wait, I don't wear PJs Can you guffaw? If you can actually guffaw, I just did!
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RHP User
15 years ago
I know that you have asked this question to the guys...but just had to share my experience! Yes, if I find a man very sexually attractive to me I will go up and start talking or just walk by with a smile and maybe even whisper in his ear that he is cute. < My best pick up line and one that never failed (I have been using this since my 20's).... < "All I need to know is your first name, no last name, no swapping of phone numbers! I just want sex with you tonight!" < Always worked! And even ended up with 2 long terms relationship out of it. One guy even went back to the same nightclub and stalked me out till I went out with him hahaha! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Sure beats the guesing games and missing or mistaking subtle hints for just being friendly! or worse reading more into the signals than there really is.Although there tends to be that feeling of "this a gee up right" ? and you wonder if your being set up as the buttof some joke.Pick up lines.....nope. Then again I have never used any either, always thought they were lame.Cheers Nev
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RHP User
15 years ago
So is telling someone you are so horny that you could rip their head right off at themoment a little too aggressive?? Well I did send an apology afterwards that said something like.... I didn't mean what I wrote earlier. I would never rip your head off in uncontrollable"I have to fuck you right now" frenzy of passion. No I would probably stroke it though maybe put it in my mouth. Suck it. Yeah. I would definitely suck it, drink up all those juices.... Thanks ok.Right? xxMeeks
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RHP User
15 years ago
So is telling someone you are so horny that you could rip their head right off at the moment a little too aggressive? I did send an apology later that went something like........ I didn't mean what I wrote earlier. I would never rip your head off in uncontrollable"I have to fuck you right now" frenzy of passion. No I would probably stroke it though maybe put it in my mouth. Suck it. Yeah. I would definitely suck it, drink up all those juices.Thanks ok. Right?xxMeeksPS Is anyone elses screen totally screwed up??
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RHP User
15 years ago
Is this thread hurting anyone else's eyes as much as it is mine???
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RHP User
15 years ago
Lol I had to use my x-ray vision to read what you two were saying
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RHP User
15 years ago
An assertive woman is extremely sexy, in my opinion. It shows self-esteem and confidence, which are qualities I think men value (or should value)as much as women in the opposite sex. It's always attractive when a woman breaks out of her defined gender role.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I may be in the minority or just have been hit a few too many times with the ugly stick, but this has almost never happened to me. When it has? Love it, fantastic. It breaks the mold a little and I have to tell you it dfoes wonders for the self esteem!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well speaking as a couple here we absolutely love it when a woman will make the first move as it removes any possible misunderstanding and is so damn sexy to boot !!!We find the confidence and forwardness a sheer turn on, even moreso when the lady in question is open in what she wants to get, experience and what she will do to us. That said, as a couple we do also try to approach girls at times but it is or at least can be intimidating, thus having a girl approach one or both of us is from our perspective simply sexy.From a male side, well Gazz loves it as he is a little shy in asking anyway as he does not want to offend any lady by misunderstanding her manner and thinking she is flirting when all she is doing is being friendly. Shell and Gaz
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RHP User
15 years ago
Someone broke this thread?I prefer women to be a bit forward.... I'm too stupid to pick up on the serupticious hints.HugsStalku. :p
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RHP User
15 years ago
Let's see here...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Now about making men cry? | Those were tears of laughter. Na na na na naaaaaa na....Meeka broke her own thread! |
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RHP User
15 years ago
So...I hear some of you hot chicks actually like smart guys? Is that all bullshit or do you want to root? | Oh sure...right here on the table is fine. | Thanks.
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RHP User
15 years ago
It was still easy to read, just click and drag your mouse over to highlight the secret code but the message box is all mis-shapen like someone has taken something big to it and left it a little out of whack. Now THAT'S one hell of a first move
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RHP User
15 years ago
Honest...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Agressive or Pro-active? So is telling someone you are so horny that you could rip their head right off at the moment, is a little too aggressive?I did send an apology later that went something like........I didn't mean what I wrote earlier. I would never rip your head off in uncontrollable"I have to fuck you right now" frenzy of passion. No I would probably stroke it though maybe put it in my mouth. Suck it. Yeah. I would definitely suck it, drink up all those juices.Thats ok. Right?xxMeeks
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RHP User
15 years ago
lolz Meeks... If I got a message like that, I'd be too busy with my hands down my shorts to respond.But don't let that deter you... keep doing what you're doing! :p Guys lke to know where they stand!HugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
There you go, and no, Meeka...not entirely your fault. Just watch who you quote and how you quote them. | Quoting 'dontgothere' It was still easy to read, just click and drag your mouse over to highlight the secret code but the message box is all mis-shapen like someone has taken something big to it and left it a little out of whack. Now THAT'S one hell of a first move
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RHP User
15 years ago
It would almost be too cruel to leave poor little DGT using her fingers to play with her little button to be able to read...wouldn't it? Besides they do say it can cause blindness...and hairy palms, even if you are a hot chick. It would be funny as hell...but a bit cruel. Wouldn't it? |
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RHP User
15 years ago
Wow Chilli..... now bark instructions... hehe.HugsS
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RHP User
15 years ago
Writing in invisible ink is great for weeding out the not-so-smart men, no? Hehe ... Ya gotta be cruel to be kind, is that not how it goes? ;-)
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RHP User
15 years ago
You know there is a difference between smart men and clever men...and those who think they are either? | *twirls his cyber-blaster and puts it back in the holster* | ...just don't forget that some men who are clever and smart really like hot chicks that are either or both too. |
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RHP User
15 years ago
Chilli, I think you and I would be a truly scary duo. The pint size twins. Although I am only 5 ft or there abouts. Does that mean you get to dominate me? xx Meeka
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yes please oh god if only more women would take the first step. Please please do so.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Chilli, I think you and I would be a truly scary duo. The pint size twins. Although I am only 5 ft or there abouts. Does that mean you get to dominate me? xx Meeka oh lord I can see it all now.... match this thread to the fancy dress thread.... and there you two are ... dressed as naughty leprechauns... swinging your whopping big strap ons around menacingly at each other.... and then you sopt me. I'm shaking.HUgsStalky.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I think if you are a hot enough guy, girls will make the first move.. If they don't, well you know that you..... :) x dave
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'HotSexyChilli' I know exactly what you mean, Stalky, and thanks for the invitation DefinitionSopt (verb)The act of Spit Roasting a shaking male by throwing him to the ground and simultaneously deep throating and ass ramming him with oversized strap ons to the effect that his tremors become shudders of increasing strength and velocity until such a time as the Spit Roasters are satisfied that the Spit Roastee has been basted and cooked to perfection.Come on Meeks, we've got some work to do here Actually I meant "SPOT" but let's not quibble over the semantics while there's wrestling to be had... :p.HugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' You know there is a difference between smart men and clever men...and those who think they are either? | *twirls his cyber-blaster and puts it back in the holster* | ...just don't forget that some men who are clever and smart really like hot chicks that are either or both too. |
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RHP User
15 years ago
mmmm I want too although I don't! Now I am feeling very old, I want the guy to ask me out or ask me for hmmmm (if that's the case) then I get to say yah or neh... If he is intuitive, he will get alot of me. I suppose I am frightened of rejection. ps. repeating subject, wish I had the confidence. xxx Awsome post. Very interesting.
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RHP User
15 years ago
....this is where I'm a little behind the times. I still like a guy to make the first move. I have the confidence once interest is confirmed, but as BlackStilettos said, rejection is frightening. I like a man that is intuitive and can be confident also. Very appealing.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'MissSuziWong' Damn...that was pretty clever I guess. | Thanks!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Oh yeah - bring it on - has only happened to me once and it was GREAT It pays to keep fit and it is surprising how many women will come up and touch you seductively when they have had a few drinks and a feeling more relaxed. Definately a turn on. Not so good if your mates are really pissed and want some of the action though, can get a bit tricky..... Very large stry that one
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'HotSexyChilli'made the first move and I don't see that changing, it's not that i wouldn't love to get in there like Funloving but I instinctively wait for a guy to initiate, and when he does I will always take time to chat for a while even if I have no interest. I'm never out on my own, and I think it takes courage for any guy to approach more than one girl on a night out. I guess I assume if a guy is interested he'll make a move. If he's not interested enough to approach me, then it would be a waste of time for me to make that move. Chilli xx Exactly! glad I am not alone on this one... xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hey girls, Most guys are preoccupied with something - if you are at all interested in having him as a potential partner at least please say hello. if he smiles at you he wants your ass - not literally but figuratively - or maybe he does - whatever turns you on. Do not be shy he may be watching the football or some bimbo across the roon and not even see you otherwise
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RHP User
15 years ago
You walk past, look them in the eyes and smile. If they smile back you walk up to them, bat your eyes and say " would you like to be tied to the wall or the bed?"Easy.
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RHP User
15 years ago
well 4 me im up front no beating round the bush i say it how it is n yes i have asked guys out just walked up to them n said would u like to go out 4 a drink n dinner,n it works 4 me....im not scared to ask them out at all.........i even asked them do u want to fuck...as i c it u have to b up front n say what u want guys r not mind readers....rednwetpussy.....
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RHP User
15 years ago
And i am not offended
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RHP User
15 years ago
I think therer is something very sexy about a woman, being assertive and making the first move. it makes me think, wow, confidence maybe even tell you exactly what she wants, probably gonna be very good in bed!!!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'MistressT'You walk past, look them in the eyes and smile. If they smile back you walk up to them, bat your eyes and say " would you like to be tied to the wall or the bed?" Easy. The look on their face would be so priceless with that one Mistress T, that I actually think Im going to have to take it on a test run somewhere
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dickbanger
15 years ago
not if ur shy!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Out of all the lame 'scores' I've made at the pub , one was very easy , she scored me , gorgeous young little blonde , as I'm walking through the crowd just comes straight up to me and says "I wanna take you home and fuck you" , simple as that , became rather excited then and there. I know some guys get a bit disturbed or flustered around very forward women , but personally I love it , if she's a nice girl that is , and I still find it flattering even if she's not so good looking. If she's a nice person and she's coming on strong , yeah for me that's a hell of an aphrodisiac , I guess it suggests to me that she's strong hearted and also will be confident in bed , and is confident about herself in general ; hot. I love it when girls make the first move or ask me on a date coz I'm often too shy to do it , although that's changing ;) and no a woman can't be too forward with me , the more forward the better , strangely when they're on the attack then my responses are not at all shy , if they even say something outrageous like the things previously mentioned , then I'll naturally try to trump that , but that's just me , everyone's different.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Chilli, Krissy_G, Blackstilettos and alldanite. Are you all serious? You are all the most outrageous outgoing contributors to the forum. So are you seriously expecting us to believe that you are shy in social situations!! Really? Especially Chilli and alldanite.. I think you are having us on. xxMeeka
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Chilli, Krissy_G, Blackstilettos and alldanite. Are you all serious? You are all the most outrageous outgoing contributors to the forum. So are you seriously expecting us to believe that you are shy in social situations!! Really? Especially Chilli and alldanite.. I think you are having us on. xxMeeka I have only met Blackstilettos out of the 4 you mentioned Meeka and must say that I can't believe that Blackstilettos can't flirt!! She has the best personality, is friendly, very approachable and great to chat with! I am with you Meeka...she is having us on! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
in any social situation , but it's the FIRST move that's the one I'm historically shy about , ok there's been a few notable and usually drunken or drugged up exceptions , but up until very recently I've always totally choked on the first move. Even if the girl or even girls have been giving me all the body language and 'f__k me' looks in the world. For me it comes directly from super low self-esteem as a little kid , my old man messed me up in that regard , told me I was useless unendingly , so that's the remnant. Amazing that 30 years later it still has it's effect. But it IS dying in the arse now , I CAN approach girls and make the first move , it just freaks me out that's all lol. Once it's rolling then I usually become Mr flirty to the max , very relaxed and casual , spontaneous too. Funny eh , hard to understand maybe unless you've seen it or felt it. That's why I'm great on the net , I can pick up on here SO easily because it's one step removed , that initial encounter is in space so it's a piece of piss , in person I'd be shitting my panties. And when I meet said net folk it's so easy because the ice as far as I'm concerned has already been broken , game on....so look out if ya meet me!!!! LOL. Loz
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RHP User
15 years ago
I've been thinking and thinking about it, and I just don't think or can't remember ever having trouble with flirting or making that first move Im kinda 'good to go' with both. Im an incurable flirt and if I decide that I want sex...well you'll sure as hell know about it. I'll just make the decision and bust a move obviously I chose my victims well, i mean if i dont feel the mutual attraction happening the chances of me wanting to sleep with him are nil, but if its there....why are we wasting time? Although I do remember one time where I had to put in a bloody lot of effort , he was on a tour bus thing with mates and I was out with a gf , landed my eyes on him and thought , "Ive gotta get me some of that " He must have said no, he couldnt come back to the room with me half a dozen times before I started getting narky, and just blurted out, "Oh for fuck's sake, how hard is it to get a root these days?" . he got a laugh and I got my root So sometimes it pays to be a persistant little bitch and chip away at a worthy cause
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RHP User
15 years ago
You got a way with words LOL
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RHP User
15 years ago
What works with guys like me , but NOT all guys , is something really really sexual like world famous "I wanna suck you dry" man if I hear that shit from a half way decent girl I am toast. Of course you'd better be ready to do it....
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RHP User
15 years ago
With the long-term relationaships, did you ever learn what their surnames were? :P B
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'alldanite'You got a way with words LOL Obviously Im not always that way, or necessarily that crass when I make a move, but he made me work for it that night. It doesn't happen often, but I need it every now and then just to knock me back down to size for a while. lol Thinking back now, it was most likely all show for in front of his mates, cos once we were behind those closed doors he didnt let me sleep till very late the next morning. So he was playing the game, and playing it well, good on him well worth the effort in the end
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RHP User
15 years ago
Sheesh girls, all you have to do is say hello and carry a conversation. How hard is that. I ride a unique motorcycle and drive a unique car, all you have to do is make a comment to me about them and away we go.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I am a virgin afterall... | ...what happens if one of them says "yes".
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'yes_I_am_naughty'With the long-term relationaships, did you ever learn what their surnames were? :P B Naughty are you asking me? If we're talking about that particular night, I wasn't even interested in his first name Thats not a normal thing for me to do, just an example of what I can be like when in the mood lol.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'yes_I_am_naughty'With the long-term relationaships, did you ever learn what their surnames were? :P B But seeings as I said that I ended up with 2 long term relationships out of it...Lol...Yes I did get to know their last names! One of them told me that night (as he was a local cop and wanted me to call him...this was the one that stalked me back at the Club just a few doors down from the Police Station as I didn't call him) and the other one I knew his last name within about 2 weeks! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
I know you're not normally like that , it was just so nice to hear about the strength of your desire and then that just blurting as a result , actually that's very hot , although outwardly crass it really just shows your humanity and that you're very real , he was such a lucky bastard especially when you were on fire like that :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' Quoting 'Meeka100'Chilli, Krissy_G, Blackstilettos and alldanite. Are you all serious? You are all the most outrageous outgoing contributors to the forum. So are you seriously expecting us to believe that you are shy in social situations!! Really? Especially Chilli and alldanite.. I think you are having us on. xxMeeka I have only met Blackstilettos out of the 4 you mentioned Meeka and must say that I can't believe that Blackstilettos can't flirt!! She has the best personality, is friendly, very approachable and great to chat with! I am with you Meeka...she is having us on! xFunlovingx Dear beautiful women!!! and forum contributors. This is a really interesting post. Seriously!! I would break out in a sweat of the thought to ask a guy out or proposition him. Secondly the rejection part, I have been rejected and call it a hangover, I won't put myself in that position again. You may say Oh Cry Me the Nyal River....yeah I will lol. You have me correct! I am confident, and all you say about me and thank you xxxx. Absolutely confident, outgoing in social situations. I use to present to auditoriums full of people I never knew, no not those type of shows, I am talking events such as hosted long service awards evenings or Golden Slipper & Melbourne Cup functions. I have no problem with that. That is also why I like the drinks nights. I am flirtatious, I admit that but sometimes I forget that I am because that is the way I behave naturally. As to asking a guy on a date or proposition, it's an entirely different thing. Mop and bucket to isle 3 please lol I just prefer the guy to make the first move or couple for that matter. Never gonna happen. xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
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RHP User
15 years ago
To all the ladies that find it hard to approach a guy in real life...do you have the same problem with rejection online? Does that make you not flirt and say that you want someone whilst chatting to them online? For me I don't see the difference! < I remember years ago I was sitting in a park having a burger when a homeless guy sat down next to me. I was going through my mind how to approach a guy that I really really really wanted sex with! I was like alot of you ladies....too afraid of rejection! He saw the cigarettes that I had on the picnic table and then looked at me and said "Do you know what is wrong with people these days"! I said "No"! He said.."Everyone is so afraid of rejection, I don't get it...I see that you smoke fancy schmancy cigarettes (Cartier), what happens if you walk into a shop and they don't sell them?" I said "I would just go to another shop" To which he replied "But that is rejection...same thing if someone rejects you..you just move on and go elsewhere, you know that the shop you went to doesn't sell that brand so you don't go back and ask them again, same as being with a person you like...if they say no, you just move on and don't ask them again"! To me, he made alot of sense and that Friday night, I walked up to the guy and told him straight out that I wanted to have sex with him....we did...a few times!! And I am so glad I ran into that man...as he changed the way that I saw things after that...now I have no fear...if I like him....I approach him...if he doesn't like me...I move on! < We all have Egos and we all don't want them flattened...but come on girls....all the guys on this post have said it is hot when a girl approaches them...and every guy I have approached have found it quite hot too! < GO GET 'EM xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' To all the ladies that find it hard to approach a guy in real life...do you have the same problem with rejection online? Does that make you not flirt and say that you want someone whilst chatting to them online? For me I don't see the difference! < I remember years ago I was sitting in a park having a burger when a homeless guy sat down next to me. I was going through my mind how to approach a guy that I really really really wanted sex with! I was like alot of you ladies....too afraid of rejection! He saw the cigarettes that I had on the picnic table and then looked at me and said "Do you know what is wrong with people these days"! I said "No"! He said.."Everyone is so afraid of rejection, I don't get it...I see that you smoke fancy schmancy cigarettes (Cartier), what happens if you walk into a shop and they don't sell them?" I said "I would just go to another shop" To which he replied "But that is rejection...same thing if someone rejects you..you just move on and go elsewhere, you know that the shop you went to doesn't sell that brand so you don't go back and ask them again, same as being with a person you like...if they say no, you just move on and don't ask them again"! To me, he made alot of sense and that Friday night, I walked up to the guy and told him straight out that I wanted to have sex with him....we did...a few times!! And I am so glad I ran into that man...as he changed the way that I saw things after that...now I have no fear...if I like him....I approach him...if he doesn't like me...I move on! < We all have Egos and we all don't want them flattened...but come on girls....all the guys on this post have said it is hot when a girl approaches them...and every guy I have approached have found it quite hot too! < GO GET 'EM xFunlovingx hiya xfunlovingx I get all that, big time but I don't like shopping lol great point though...fark I wish I was brave mmmmm not! and I wish I was deadset sexy to ask a guy out or proposition him....oh well my next life I guess! Although I do ask, why do guys WAIT to be asked????? Step up you lovely horny lads and ASK us!!!! You would be happy what you find.. xxx See I was too busy sweating before talking about asking a guy out coz I forgot to colour my post. Mop and bucket please xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Good point Funloving. So do you ladies send flirts and emails to men online? Tell me you do! Blackstilettoes. . .I understand when you are really keen on a person that it is nerve racking and I too get really shy and tongue tied. But if it is someone that you just want to shag why not just ask them? If they say no, so what. Not that I am out there asking boys for a shag every weekend... and yes if I got knocked back a lot I would most likely get a complex about it. Hehehehe. I obviously don't do it enough. Online or via text I am fairly direct I think. I don't want to miss out on fun because a guy wasn't sure that I wanted him or not.xxMeeka
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well Krissy that is why you should make the move more often!! He sounds HOT!xxMeeks
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RHP User
15 years ago
Actually now I don't need to chase girls outside and make the first move coz I've got plenty of action. But for those rare occasions where I really like someone I'm gonna take Funlovin's advice and go for it. Yep life should be lived at least a little close to the edge. For some of us it takes more guts to do that than it does to go sky diving or head into the amazon on foot or travel through a war zone , it's a major adrenaline rush even lol note to self : use the bathroom first :P ok I'm not quite that bad anymore but I was not so long ago. Loz
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RHP User
15 years ago
Oh I agree Chilli. I also, as most woman on here do, get loads of messages and flirts. So I only go searching for single blokes only once in a blue moon. BUT if you saw someone one, say on the forums, that you were interested in, you would send them an email. Right? I like the boys who play hard to get... it's a challenge. xxMeeks
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RHP User
15 years ago
The whole head-ripping off thing works for praying mantises (mantii) lol ... Maybe you're just getting in touch with your primordial side when you put words to those feelings :P
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RHP User
15 years ago
This one time at band camp....A woman wanders up to me wearing nothing but a bathrobe and a pair of dunlop volleys... and she says "would you like to fuck my boyfriend?"I can tell you that was a hell of a good night... a very assertive woman and they were both a heap of fun.HugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
I've sent flirts and messages to men , and I'm certain that at least a couple of them have been from the forums. And some from my profiles views that I have looked at and decided, "Yep" lol A couple of them who are repeat profile viewers (haha repeat offenders) even admit to viewing my profile to see what Ive been up to on the forums *waves helloooo* and if that doesn't scare them off I dont know what will
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RHP User
15 years ago
So Chilli, I do believe I sent you a flirt awhile ago asking to see your photos .... I am still waiting. :)xxMeeks
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RHP User
15 years ago
Sometimes it doesn't matter what you do Meeka For instance I must have sent Stalky a dozen flirts, I even told him I had grown my armpits for him...you know, just for him! Pumped my biceps up until they're ready to pop, and even glued some hair on my arse Just no fucking pleasing some men .
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RHP User
15 years ago
... really? Yippee..opps I mean, that would be wonderful. | Just promise you will be gentle with me...you know, show me the ropes? | Quoting 'HotSexyChilli'YES | Now just so we don't get confused what with this being my first time and all...you just show me where the ropes are and... | ...I think I can take it from there. | | Seriously...I just read about it on the internet.
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RHP User
15 years ago
You're really selling this virgin side aren't ya CM . Meeks this thread has raisied another question for me, obviously I dont have trouble initiating or busting a move, but there is one area that Im not very good at, and that's ending a fwbs busted move. I'm not talking about anything one of, but more the ones where you have given it a few red hot goes and it just isn't quite cutting the mustard, but in that time you've realised that this is a person who you could be friends with outside of the sex. Obviously we form connections with some of them and start to actually care about their feelings, but thats my problem once I care how my words affect them I have trouble with saying...ummmmm I've tried but you still haven't made me cum how the hell am I supposed to say anything like that without bruising an ego or worse? I know it's inevitable that I have to cut it off at some point but I tend to let it go a couple times more at my own expense kind of thing (some would call it a sympathy root) *and no you cheeky little fuckers reading this, it does not mean I will be handing them out* I'm only talking about those I have already established a connection with Does anyone else have trouble with 'this ' side of it?
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RHP User
15 years ago
DGT I will have to think about that one. But how do you form a such a strong connection so quickly? As for Stalky well I stalked him for months and months before he even gave me a look in. But my persistence paid off in the end. But that is my point exactly if you want something why not go for it. xx Meeks
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RHP User
15 years ago
Nah i haven't really Stalked Stalky, was just mucking around but to answer you, I may not just be talking about on rhp with fwbs, those that I do have I spend a lot of time getting to know (and vetting lol) before the actual sex begins, that is my way to potentially lessen the chance of a mis match in the bedroom and therefore try and avoid my problem area.... the downside is, I actually get to know them better and as soon as I stop looking at them like a piece of man meat I care how my actions affect them I like to pretend to be a bitch but my concience always kicks me in the arse if I actually am one Im also not talking multitudes here, just a couple, but its something Ive had trouble with for most of my life I think and thinking back more thoroughly I've ended some relationships very badly , I guess you could call it sabbotaging to get it over with as opposed to just telling them it's not doing it for me. It was easier to walk away with them hating me, for the wrong reasons than it was for me to admit the truth. It's an area that Im trying to work on, but it's still not any easier in my head.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hey don'tgo...... my iphone wouldn't let me do the quote thing - I wasn't quoting you but interested in what you wrote anyway! :P Quoting 'dontgothere' Quoting 'yes_I_am_naughty'With the long-term relationaships, did you ever learn what their surnames were? :P B Naughty are you asking me? If we're talking about that particular night, I wasn't even interested in his first name Thats not a normal thing for me to do, just an example of what I can be like when in the mood lol.
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RHP User
15 years ago
The ones I dont consider a friend, I have no trouble telling to 'watch the door doesn't smack their ass on the way out'
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RHP User
15 years ago
If it's like that do you both a favour and chop it very nicely and quickly , plenty more fish in the sea for both of you. Nothing worse than trying to make it happen again and again and you're just not getting her there , or anywhere special. That's a fate worse than a fate worse than death , that's what will bruise the ego more than you 'ending' it. Plus hey I never actually said this and you can't prove anything but , do some creative white lying for those that you know are a bit touchy , make some shit up as to why you 'can't' see them again. Yep there could be a million reasons that you could make up. But if you reckon they can handle the awful truth then tell them why you think it didn't happen ; could be really useful info for them for the next girl. And let's face it orgasms are a funny fucking thing with girls (and sometimes even with guys) , it's about chemistry as much as technique , attitude etc. I've seen girls have multiples easily that normally just don't cum , and I've seen girls who normally cum easily looking at their watches. Ok some guys are just masters at oral for example and can make 9 out of 10 girls cum like that , but some they just can't get. Any guy who says he always makes all the girls cum , every time , is a liar , just in the same way as altho Brad Pitt is very attractive to perhaps most women still there are hundreds of thousands of women out there that just aren't that attracted to him. Anyway let him down easy and then be friends with out benefits , all good in the hood. Btw for fucks sake don't tell the other girls that he didn't make you cum , coz they might then pass him by and miss out on the guy that would have made them have multi-multiples. Btw I always make all the girls cum without exception , they call me Don Juan and señorita you could never find a better lover in all the world , mwah mwah forget everything I said ;)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Adn and obviously Im trying to be that way, I mean I want to to be that way, but I dont want to be a hurtful cow in the same breath. But I just wanted to be able to be honest about it without my usual stepping around it with a white lie. And I'd never bag them out to another woman, I fully realise one woman's vanilla is anothers choclolate etc. I guess I should just stop trying to give them another chance to step it up so to speak, and only because I figure we've come this far to establish something so why not try and make it happen. But in rock bottom honesty with myself I know deep down if Im not 'feelin' it' Im just not feelin' it yeah I know I know, cut it off LOL going to have my teaspoon of cement right now, thanks Don Juan ya know all
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RHP User
15 years ago
I am a bit of a know-all online aren't I? Oops lol I figure you already knew all that but hopefully somebody somewhere benefits :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'HotSexyChilli' How, you say Meeks??? Lengthy screening process and many long phone conversations... Ok as I said on another thread my screening process is pretty non-existant. Although the people that I have met and actually clicked with are all people that I have "vetted" through the forum, that is reading what they write etc. So I should probably see the lesson in that. You can't become emotionally attached to someone because you've had long conversations on the phone can you? Again I am not a phone person so I avoid talking on the phone at all costs. That is including with friends. Rather face to face. I don't know. I must be weird, but for me if I like their picture (oops that's not personality first. *smirk*) and the emails flow between you easily. That is a few emails not millions, then just met up and see how things go. That way if things don't click so well in the bedroom you haven't invested a lot of time and you don't bother contacting them again and it's all good. Isn't it? Am I really a man??? lol. xx Meeks
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RHP User
15 years ago
Not really a phone person as someone just a minute ago found out LOL ok with some exceptions , there have been some great phone conversations and flirty stuff/phone sex , but the phone ain't my thing because I just can't see their body language or facial expressions which for me are much more important than their words in terms of communication. So I like to meet up in the flesh asap and see how it goes then. But I gotta agree with Chilli that you can develop something on the phone , it's entirely possible , but I like to cut to the chase. Ok it's different perhaps if I'm looking at something interstate , then I'll usually want to get to know them fairly well before I go to the effort of jumping on a plane. Nope there's lots of girls like you , that do it your way , it's not just a man thing at all. In fact I hardly ever get girls contacting me on here that want to talk on the phone first , sometimes they want to email or txt quite a bit , but generally they all want to meet in the flesh asap like me. Loz
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RHP User
15 years ago
Location comes into the play of it for me too. Im not in a highly populated area so everything requires travel and accomodation, for that reason firstly the back and forth contact is very important so that neither person is wasting a trip on possibly only a few bedroom clicks at least. If it were easier ...say in the same city it prob wouldnt be so much of an issue, and id be more inclined to go with a few more blow and goes LOL . Chilli if I get this under control I'll happily share the formula with you
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erotictouch4u
15 years ago
Quoting 'BlackStilettoes' I suppose I am frightened of rejection. Don't know why, I woudn't expect you get ANY rejections
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RHP User
15 years ago
Best one liner a chick has used on me - well it wasn't even a liner, she smacked me on the backside as I walked past!! so I turned around and slapped her back... lol! Best one liner a guy has used on me - "OMG! its Marion! Marion from Masterchief!! OMG I just love you... will you please sign my shirt" .... Of couse I will you sweet thing... who shall I make it out to? hmmm? xoxox Marion My best one liner.... "hey Stallion - are you broken in or looking to be broken?" - and I actually used this this doozy at a rodeo.... gotta love pick up lines that suit the location.... lol!
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RHP User
15 years ago
did recently was so simple and forward lol , she just super casually walked up and shook my cock like she was shaking my hand , and said "How ya going? Nice to meet ya" with a dirty smile and casually walked off. Ok it was at a kind of a swingers party , but it was hot lol She got a good serve for being so bold. Loz
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'alldanite'did recently was so simple and forward lol , she just super casually walked up and shook my cock like she was shaking my hand , and said "How ya going? Nice to meet ya" with a dirty smile and casually walked off. Ok it was at a kind of a swingers party , but it was hot lol She got a good serve for being so bold. Loz You mean that sh*t actually happens in real life?? ... Some days, I wonder if you're not a real-life, walking porno alldanite ...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'flirty_bi_fem' Quoting 'alldanite'did recently was so simple and forward lol , she just super casually walked up and shook my cock like she was shaking my hand , and said "How ya going? Nice to meet ya" with a dirty smile and casually walked off. Ok it was at a kind of a swingers party , but it was hot lol She got a good serve for being so bold. Loz You mean that sh*t actually happens in real life?? ... Some days, I wonder if you're not a real-life, walking porno alldanite ... He is a walking porno the little tart bless his cotton jocks
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RHP User
15 years ago
she does all the time at partys , she's a VERY naughty girl , cheeky little Asian :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Of course I am trying to sell it for chrissake...don't you know that if you keep something long enough it eventually becomes an antique and has value to somebody, all you have to do is find the right collector. | Quoting 'dontgothere' You're really selling this virgin side aren't ya CM | Okay so what if it's not in "mint" condition...I will throw in a box of Tic Tac if that's what it takes to close the deal. Come on, at least bid. | I heard that and saw your hand up! Sold to DGT for...hold on now. How to you make change for a 5 cent piece... | ...without 1 cent coins? | | You know you got a hell of deal on the Tic Tac...don't you?
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RHP User
15 years ago
What is the best pick up line a woman has used on you ? Thats the problem.I am an honest person and women always try to sleaze their way onto me.I have never been asked out for a drink or lunch.I dont see why a woman shouldn't just keep it simple instead of creating a complicated dramatic scene.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Scuba seven, I would never sleaze myself onto you. In fact if you even think that a woman trying her best at being forward is sleazy then just keep riding that bike mate. cos in one thread you bake them for not being forward and then the next you do it for being sleazy. No one is ever going to get that ' minute perfect hit moment' with you obviously work out what you DO want before you start bagging the stuff you dont.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'dontgothere' Scuba seven, I would never sleaze myself onto you. In fact if you even think that a woman trying her best at being forward is sleazy then just keep riding that bike mate. cos in one thread you bake them for not being forward and then the next you do it for being sleazy. No one is ever going to get that ' minute perfect hit moment' with you obviously work out what you DO want before you start bagging the stuff you dont. CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Then if you follow up with something like "Hey..I really like your shoes" the ice is broken and with a bit of luck you can use your charm to melt her down from there. | Quoting 'Scubaseven' I am an honest person and women always try to sleaze their way onto me. Now you know...there is about a 1:1000000 chance that "yo yo, ho...you tryin' to sleaze my ass" is gong to work. If you esclate that to the power of the ratios here on this site it becomes a number so finite that Einstein would struggle with it...well, I suppose it is all relativity. | Quoting 'dontgothere' In fact if you think that a woman trying her best at being forward... Yo yo, hold on there, DGT...I know the boy deserved a kneeing but when you moved like that I couldn't help but notice your very beautiful new necklace? Okay, so I was checking out your cleavage too but hey...I am just a mere mortal male. So come on, sleaze me, please me... | ...just don't tease me! | | And please, don't make me cry any more. That really hurt...you know?
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RHP User
15 years ago
a good flick in the nuts with a wet tea towel to let you know you're alive CM c'mon I know you love it, you've told me ..like a million times...more more more
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'dontgothere' Scuba seven, I would never sleaze myself onto you. In fact if you even think that a woman trying her best at being forward is sleazy then just keep riding that bike mate. Big difference between "hi, how are you" to "my gf/wife wants to fcuk you".If women cannot be forward and nice, then they should stay away from me.Why are you so angry anyways?Anything to do with the fact that you have to source men out on the internet?lol.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Scubaseven' Quoting 'dontgothere' Scuba seven, I would never sleaze myself onto you. In fact if you even think that a woman trying her best at being forward is sleazy then just keep riding that bike mate. Big difference between "hi, how are you" to "my gf/wife wants to fcuk you". So obviously it is the men that are sleazing onto you and not the women themselves!! If women cannot be forward and nice, then they should stay away from me. Why are you so angry anyways? Anything to do with the fact that you have to source men out on the internet? So it is ok for you to be on the internet to look for women, but it is not ok for women to come on here? If it wasn't for us women coming on the net you would just have a site full of gay men! lol. I think that your profile says it all....DTG or myself or anyone else for that matter don't have to say anything bad about you...you say it all for yourself on there! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yep thats it, I find it terribly hard to get a shag just for the record though I wasnt angry, just pointing out that you seem to want to 'not' get a shag simply by saying things like that. Look maybe I could give you one of mine, Im feeling generous tonight
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hows that working for you?
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RHP User
15 years ago
The men aren't quoting properly Chilli. I think DGT may have been replying to Scuba's slightly disguised reply to her. Funloving was clear in her agreement with DGT and God only knows who JG is on about! I've managed to clean two beds full of vomit and I think I've managed to keep my finger on the pulse tonight! Where are everybody else's fingers??? :-O
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