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Is a hand on your throat really a turnon?

December 30 2014

I've noticed recently, when watching porn, the guy putting his hand onto the woman's throat while fucking her. It's always been a bit of asphyxiation mime, as far as I can tell. Are there any women out there who've tried this and found it erotic? I feel it might be a bit of a scary turn-off. Enlighten me please.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    There's all kinds of reasons for hands on threats. Pressure, even light, on my windpipe freaks me the hell out. I can't and won't do it. Ever. But... give me a guy I know and trust, who knows how to take me by the throat and firmly press my carotid arteries, avoiding my airway entirely, catching me as I collapse and whispering in my ear as I fade and ensuring that I come back to his complete control of my body and the most deliciously intense orgasm shaking my body... Yes please. Any day of the week 😉 x - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    once only after a casual fb put his forearm across my neck and not letting pressure off until he cum I realised how venerable I could be in such a position . Thus breathplay is out for me. Now spanking well bring it on! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • totallygenuine

    totallygenuine

    11 years ago

    Hey Shesays so does that mean I passed? Lol 😛 TG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I bet there is a few peoples from this site that would dearly love to place there hands and/or ummmmmm a really really strong piece of rope around this outstanding magnificent gorgeous subsonic talented vulgarian sub humans larynx/throat until there was no more sign of life coming hence forth lol, to those of you who would like to give it a go,i've changed,honestly i have lol, Bhahahahahahaha

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Yes 👍 Passed. Niiice 👄

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    do it here, and you'll be told to stop. if you dont , you'll be sent. its not sexy.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Don't knock it until you've tried it !! It heightens your orgasm and the fear factor and sheer dominance of the act is very exciting ... Just sayin , don't flay me 💋 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Yes, I am very submissive so rough sex does it everytime! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    i think it's very hot but I'm a little submissive so it may be linked.. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I like it when my partner does it, but it's not firm or tight , he does it very gentle..no squeezing..the reason I like it is it's a mild form of dominance...I like seeing him in that rageing sexy male-driven dominating light lol Not sure how I would feel with someone else doing it, just confirm beforehand.

  • m3bmw

    m3bmw

    11 years ago

    We both love it. Either when the mr does it to the mrs, or the other way around. Mr actually loves being choked by his normally submissive Mrs, especially when were both cumming together.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    You don't go into it lightly and only with someone you trust............ Just gotta say, I love it, especially when it's done to the artery at just the right pressure, have experienced the most amazing orgasms through it........ However, if an idiot thinks I'd take it from anyone, they'll be limping away from that one.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'On_Safari' And yup. I think it's a Dominant lusty move, similar to grabbing a fistful of hair or giving a good hard slap. No asphyxiation required here, just both knowing a squeeze is all it could take. Just my thoughts... but not to squeeze, and a guy that has big hands even better nothing like having the Alpha male experience

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'jsk6767' I bet there is a few peoples from this site that would dearly love to place there hands and/or ummmmmm a really really strong piece of rope around this outstanding magnificent gorgeous subsonic talented vulgarian sub humans larynx/throat until there was no more sign of life coming hence forth lol, to those of you who would like to give it a go,i've changed,honestly i have lol, Bhahahahahahaha but there is one or two that I would like to put the boot into them and on their throat. But then I think nahhhh, I could kick all day at the groin and never hit a single ball

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    A hand on my throat, a yank of my hair, a slap on my ass, being told to suck or beg like a good little girl, these are a few of my favorite things ;) I love a man who is dominant in the bedroom and I love being manhandled, but only by someone I trust implicitly. We recently had an experience with some breath play involving a belt and it was amazing! I ended up a quivering wet mess after the most intense orgasm I've ever experienced. Can't wait to try more! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I absolutely love it when it's done properly. Lack of oxygen makes my brain go into overdrive and it heightens my senses. I can feel more intensely and tend to be more sensitive under a choke hold. To me, it has nothing to do with power or control by the choker. If anything the choker is the one that needs to constantly monitor the welfare and pleasure of the person they are choking. Getting the right amount of choke, I think, is rather hard work. The pressure needs to be strong enough so as not bring up a choking cough. But it must not be so strong that I end up with a bruised neck or windpipe. There's also the trust issue. I'm lucky to be at a stage where I can completely trust my partner with this choking thing to override the instinct to punch him in the face.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I LOVE breath play. I love Yoga so control of my breathing is strong on my list and can help me reach orgasm so so quickly. That being said, I can only do it with people I've been with for a while and that I trust intensely!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    most acts of dominance, once the heat turns up, arouses me. .......Hand on throat , fist full of hair , firm grip on my hips, light slap etc ........I don't get into the submission of bondage but I adore a dominant manly man !!!!! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    My wife loves it so much that if our sex gets to a certain point of intensity & I haven't choked her she tells me to & guides my hand to her throat. Our next step is for me to choke her while someone else is fucking her.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I am definitely one who loves my throat being grabbed during sex, at the right time. I'm also very, very guilty of grabbing guys throats while I'm on top. I get too caught up in the moment. I haven't had any complaints though - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Enjoylifealways

    Enjoylifealways

    10 years ago

    No I do not like it at all but hair pulling that I like ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    For me it's a definite yes! Although it depends on the situation. I love a little bit of rough play - hair pulling, hand on throat, a little forceful - makes me feel extremely desirable and therefore turned on. Time and place though

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    But have a read of my profile and give yourself an idea of how you can add violence to sex while still being deeply intimate - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I enjoy it but only with men I trust and we have a safe word. For me, it's about submission and trust.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I have been asked to do it before. In the moment with someone you really care about I think it adds a thrill of danger when you feel completely safe in their arms. Dunno, I wouldn't do it without knowing they wanted to do it.

  • MnauMnau

    MnauMnau

    10 years ago

    First of all - Porn is porn, not a reality. Not a good place for an education. ;) I've done it, it's very hot when you can see your partner to enjoying it, rolling eyes, moaning, pushing you away, cumming... Things to keep in mind when doing it - IF YOU CAN! - You are in control, so don't get too excited. - you learn yours and partners limits as you go, you may push them a bit further every time - everyone reacts different way When you are on top of her, don't lean on her neck/throat with your full weight. You supposed to squeeze the neck. That's my way of doing, don't take it as a manual. Only my opinion ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I love it so much. :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I was seeing a woman many years ago who wanted me to do this. I am pretty open minded so i gave it a go. She kept wanting me to squeeze harder, the whole breath play thing i suppose, but i felt really uncomfortable with it. Perhaps in a more long term relationship with lots of trust and respect i might be willing to try again but otherwise its just not my thing. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    A couple of past playmates loved it. At first I would love it and they were skeptical, but once they relaxed and let go they loved it. My last playmate loved it so much so begged for it and went crazy when taken in doggy and jut holding her throat. It drove me crazy too, but that always happens when the ladies are enjoying themselves.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Love the feeling of a hand tight around my throat and 1 grasping my hip holding me down as he takes what he needs 😍 or from behind 1 around my throat the other grabbing my breast squeezing my nipples 😍😍😍 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I love having a guys hand around my neck, its a huge turn on for me

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Hair pulling, pinning my arms, restraints etc I'm all good with. But my ex used to grab me by the throat and not for erotic purposes 😕 So for me the experience would only be traumatic and maybe end in injury for my partner. But I can see how others might find it hot.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'natashaj0701' I love having a guys hand around my neck, its a huge turn on for me Or not You wrote in your profile "Two words: hard core." Saw that in another member profile for JaayBaby

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    For a thoroughly unique perspective, YouTube: Bill Burr, romantic scenes in comedies.... Hilarious 😂😂😂 **click the "thumbs up" button if you liked it.... 👍**

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