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Is it normal for a guy to come in his own hand after sex with a woman?

March 03 2018

Further from the threads on guys who get up and leave and returning the favour. I had a double whammy. I was asked to go camping by a guy i had been seeing and had a connection with. Apart from only having sex twice over 3days and nights. (Which wasn't enough for me). When we finished a session on the Friday he got straight up, left the caravan and me, walked outside and logged straight into a dating site on his phone. He couldnt move quick enough. But thats not all..His profile says he gives oral. He doesnt. He never did it once. Even after receiving and he always insisted on finishing by coming in his own hand. Has anyone ever encountered this? Is it normal? Cause i think its odd? And kind of rude. I could live with the hand thing but not without oral. Im not a bloody Saint. So i got up the courage to politely ask him why? It was a fair and legit question but no. He instantly blocked me. Fuck you, no explanation. Blocked. So that was that. The end. I had been putting up with it because i'd developed feelings and we communicated a lot and did have chemistry. But it never seemed to translate in the bedroom for me and thats where the truth tends to play out. Yeah....don't lie in your profile. Seriously. Dont put in there that you want a relationship and you give oral when you dont. Honestly, you live and learn. LC.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    You are very beautiful and none of that is normal , I hope you find someone that will treat you the way you want and the way you should be treated - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    All I can say is WTF... seriously... even if things didn't go well or how I planned... If I asked you camping with me, it would be all about you and me and our adventures in and out of the bed.. If I asked to spend time with you, I would be focused on you, not planning my next hookup... some people are just strange. I get you might put you give head and not really enjoy it, but I wouldn't put it there if I wasn't going to do it.. further more... I can cum in my hand anytime I like.... WTF would you do that unless it was to do kinky stuff like use it as body lotion on your partner... I'd be cumming anywhere else but in my hand.... Sorry I can't give answers as to why, other than WTF.... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    8 years ago

    Asking politely soothed the inevitable, if you had have taken to him with a wooden spoon, given him the look of a thousand curses, splashed some of one of your lotions, called it potion and put a spell on him. You may have had more satisfaction with closure. 'Put another log on the fire" Mado Mado Tara xx

  • gazpacho

    gazpacho

    8 years ago

    Finishing in the hand.... Don’t be offended if he’s comfortable with that. Women do it too. I mean bring themselves to orgasm when there’s a partner there. It’s often efficient, when a finish is just not happening and you’re late for a doctor’s appointment. As for the “not going down” situation, I’m at a loss. Try telling him during one of these sessions that you want to hear munching sounds, and ask him to stick his tongue in your arse. A bit of dirty talk may be all the encouragement he needs? :p I love these questions, we forumites are forced to invent a scenario to elicit a reasoned response. Hugs Gaz

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    So I came into this thread ready to defend what sounded like just someone with specific penile sensitivity issues who needs to finish off by wanking himself, but whoaaaaa! There's just soooo much WTF in all the rest of his behaviour.....I can't even begin.... :/ Anyway, the bit about needing to finish by wanking is not super unusual. It doesn't necessarily mean that there's anything wrong with you, or your technique, or anything else. Sometimes the sensitivity just isn't there to cum any other way except by one's own hand, where there's full internal control over the exact type of touch and response, etc. At any rate, all the rest of his behaviour sounds so crap that I don't want to "defend" him. But I reckon it's likely that explains the hand bit anyway. It's not you, it's him. Sounds like he was really bad at communicating that anyway, along with all the rest of the badness..... Sorry to hear that happened to you.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    more thoroughly. He would reach orgasm, then quickly pull-out of me and catch it in his hand. I did offer my stomach but he declined. LC.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I had been putting up with it because i'd developed feelings and we communicated a lot and did have chemistry. But it never seemed to translate in the bedroom for me and thats where the truth tends to play out. ''I had been putting up with it'' is a phrase that speaks volumes. In these sorts of situations there are almost always red flags, warning signs....signs that we choose to overlook for many reasons. I've done it myself in the past, often. I'm not going to comment on whether the cumming in the hand thing is normal because I don't think it's appropriate to do so without knowing more information. Same with him not giving oral. The getting straight up and logging into a dating site though, is incredibly disrespectful. As you say, it's a learning experience. When we feel in our gut that things aren't quite right, it's usually because they're not.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Mmmmm I love tummies. Sorry that's how I took your original post.. to catch it rather then finish the job at hand.... No pun intended. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I’m sorry 😐 nothing much to add. You seem like a beautiful soul, I’ve read your posts and I think you seemed very excited about this guy? Don’t question it. It’s just weird. And ummm jumps up after sex to check in online? Prick! Definitely not you. Sending you hugs 🤗 Head high, shoulders back. Smile! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    When I was married, I used to pull out and catch it in my hand.....still do mostly.... For me, it’s cleaner...I go off and just wipe my hand or wash it off....as compared to ones stomach or back....or wherever... As for the dating site thing....that’s a bit different, yet it could just be how he processes the scenario. While it’s not entirely a good explanation, his response to your question is enough for me to know his head just isn’t very nice to him.... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • gazpacho

    gazpacho

    8 years ago

    Oh. That’s just weird, if he’s not going to eat it, or smear it in your hair or something. No. The guy is not right. As for Anti.... cleaner? Oh gawd, you carry a handkerchief don’t you Felix? Blow on her guts, get down there and lick that clean before Daddy gets his razor strap out. Hugs Gaz

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    the hard way that he's just not a good guy. Like his come is so precious he wont share it and all the other odd behaviours that escalated towards the end. Serious control issues and repressed rage toward the feminine. I dont need that in my life. LC.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    think it's you. There are guys who just aren't good at sex and intimacy. I met this guy once, funny as fuck what happened after, I'll get to that, but you know when we're new to this and meet people you're not really into but feel obliged to go through with it? I did with a few, quickly learned that by doing them a favour, they in turn, end up being fucktards anyway. So I went to this guys place, wasn't into him at all right from hello, but thought it would be rude to leave. Fast forward a bit, had really bad sex, was regretting the decision to stay, then walked out to the kitchen to get a drink, he sat on the couch but conversation was like pulling teeth, I then noticed he was on his phone and jokingly asked if he was arranging his next fuck, and he was! 😁 I couldn't get out of there fast enough. How rude, the guy was revolting anyway, no way I'd do that now. Fast forward maybe a few months, was at a place in Freo having lunch with extended family group, walked up to the bar with my son to order a drink. I thought the barman was acting strange, looked nervous but seemed quite rude and dismissive. The penny hadn't dropped but I commented to my son who told me off for making a judgement 😀 few seconds later the guy dropped and smashed a glass. It was only then I realised who it was. Two reasons, he obviously didn't leave a lasting impression, I blocked him out of my memory, but I'm pretty sure he told me he did fifo 😂 You should have seen the look of sheer satisfaction on my face then. I waltzed around with a huge smile enjoying his himiliation. Fuck it, he deserved it. Gotta feel sorry for the next chick he met lol Your weekend omg you poor thing. That would have been so uncomfortable and massively disappointing

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Sorry for the long post

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'Brunette_Dragon' I had been putting up with it because i'd developed feelings and we communicated a lot and did have chemistry. But it never seemed to translate in the bedroom for me and thats where the truth tends to play out. ''I had been putting up with it'' is a phrase that speaks volumes. In these sorts of situations there are almost always red flags, warning signs....signs that we choose to overlook for many reasons. I've done it myself in the past, often. I'm not going to comment on whether the cumming in the hand thing is normal because I don't think it's appropriate to do so without knowing more information. Same with him not giving oral. The getting straight up and logging into a dating site though, is incredibly disrespectful. As you say, it's a learning experience. When we feel in our gut that things aren't quite right, it's usually because they're not. Also in nature as time progresses in new age technology advancing, the human mind adapting lesser than the speed of rate the mind develops naturally in this time of ages marked. Science of human behaviour is suggesting the behaviour deemed disrespectful as mentioned above, is showing as the same chemicals our brains produce of addictions. It's a fuzzy outlook where and at what rate culture morphs to meet the demands by progress, in a world system lead by greed and power streaming above and beyond the laws mother nature intend. It may be too and as well incredibly instinctual disrespect, unbeknown by reckoning of addictive personality and cultural traits. We are to be seen as primitive into the future looking back in histories pages, the effects of technology in it's first days a new beginning. Just pondering :) Mado Mado Tara xx

  • EarthQueen

    EarthQueen

    8 years ago

    So just adding. Sorry that he didn't turn out to be what you hoped and hugs xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    It gets caught in my braces mate 😂😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    8 years ago

    If this is the same man you posted about (in the "why guys don't go down" forum), The one where you posted "Perth girls can message me if you want to know" or is this another man? Also as for coming in his hand, maybe he's had a bad experience with a prior partner who didn't like cum on her sheets and it was his way of cleaning up. Or maybe he doesn't cum that often and his tip was extra sensitive. He's probably trained to hold it (a behaviour over time). He could be stopping his ejaculation. Either way, I don't see a problem with it. To be fair, I don't think he was totally into you in the first place. Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I often talk about peoples agenda's, we all have our own. I certainly feel for you in this in this situation. When feelings come into it, becomes more complicated. As far as the sex goes, why he does that is maybe what he is conditioned to do and there is nothing wrong with that as some of the guys have mentioned. we all have our sexual habits. Each guy is different. Communication comes as advice all the time on the forums. When feelings are invested from a woman's point of view, it can be hard to communicate our feelings as we come across as all needy. I think some people put what they think people want to hear in their profiles just to get what they want, again their own agenda and we only find out their true colours on meeting and spending time with them. Unfortunately people lie to get what they want with total disregard to others. Getting straight on a dating app is just plain disrespectful and rude. I certainly feel for you but this guy wasn't worth your time. I read a lot of your forum topics and replies, You are a genuine soul who just deserves so much better. Hugs Hun move on and find someone better. I know there are guys out there who are worthy of your time and energy. Ms Midnight

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Yep, researchers are certainly discovering that technology these days can lead to behavioural addictions, people constantly needing to check their phone, needing the constant validation of likes, etc. Regardless of the reason, what he did was disrespectful. Addicts can be some of the most disrespectful people on the planet. They may not mean to act like arseholes and not do the things they do with the intention of hurting people, but the effect on others is the same.

  • RedHotCoast

    RedHotCoast

    8 years ago

    Learn to masterbate, cum in handy.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    8 years ago

    in the age of arseholes

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    Why we should get into the sex part of a relationship very early before emotions develop and we make excuses to ourselves about the substandard sex part. End up loving the personality but finding yourself looking elsewhere and it all goes pear shape.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    To answer the topic headline.... is it normal? No But then what’d normal? (And do we want that anyway??!) So the real question should be... “Is this what I want” (or need) Your clear response was a no - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Involved in oral. Sometimes even the funniest, most intelligent and delightful women just don't trigger the desire to remain buried with your tongue. It's a biological signal that you weren't destined for long term compatibility. (coupled with his disrespect) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Not a nice comment at all. Very disappointing to say the least. LC.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Nasty. LC.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    My mind keeps flashing back to watching my girlfriend teach her daughter that you should put your hand over your mouth when you cough. She referred it to “catch your cough “ Maybe it’s something his dad taught him as youngun. Lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    To be fair, if you’re not into someone, why on earth would you go away for a camping weekend with them. Sounds like my idea of hell. Usually guys that are after a root, and they aren’t that into you, are in and out, enough pumps to come, and are still doing their flys up as they are run out the door type of thing.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'Lovechild17' more thoroughly. He would reach orgasm, then quickly pull-out of me and catch it in his hand. I did offer my stomach but he declined. LC. It sounds like there was no condom, and that is disturbing given that he turned out to be such a scumbag.He sounds like one of the Janus family. Hugh Janus?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'Lovechild17' He would reach orgasm, then quickly pull-out of me and catch it in his hand. I did offer my stomach but he declined. I am really shocked at the amount of ppl on here that dont use protection. With all the std's out there is it really worth the risk even though you hear so many guys complain that they hate jackets or cant fuck with jackets. If it was a relationship I understand the blowing in the hand/stomache or elsewhere. Even when I see someones std checks I still dont trust if they had seen someone in the time from getting it done to the time of seeing me.

  • SugarSugar69

    SugarSugar69

    8 years ago

    I have to agree with the phone thing. It's disrespectful no matter the reason. Some people think it's ok to jump on the phone straight after sex like you don't exist anymore but then wonder why you didn't stay the night. Sometimes I shake my head in disgust. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Could be a control thing. You’re not worth of my spoof, kind of thing. Anti? Thoughts?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    A lot of control issues there. LC.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'Redux'It's a biological signal that you weren't destined for long term compatibility. - Posted from immobile Bollocks

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Well there has to be a reason why with some women you feel like you've died and gone to heaven whilst down there. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    What category do the rest of us women fall into then? If we are not "die and go to heaven" material? Seriously fuck off mate. LC.

  • LetsFrolic

    LetsFrolic

    8 years ago

    Is he is a weirdo. I love oral and would never come in my hand.. maybe he was paranoid or some weird fetish though - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    That's unreal..ever heard of..forget him as hes obviously a wanker who thinks only of himself..I do enjoy exciting and stimulating a womans sexual needs...without it ..sex is unfulfilling and can assure you my skilled oral tongue would be all over ,in ,up and inside.tasting..and exciting...before you started on my thick eager hardness...just to start...!!Steve

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    and needed a bag over my head i might concede. But I'm not that. LC.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    The males turn this into a me, me, me, pick me

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    I meant. Oh dear

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Redux is talking about that chemistry - or I think it’s related to phermones and nature’s way of saying who you’re biologically compatible to breed with. It’s got nothing to do with a person’s looks or personality, it’s a subconscious thing. That thing you often can’t explain. So he wasn’t saying anything disrespectful or personal. That’s my take anyway.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    A real weirdo to me! Be selective, you seem like a classy woman! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Too late

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Reading through the posts, you should take some solace that is is definitely not you, but a guy with some serious issues to deal with.And please don't fall into the trap of accepting that sort of behaviour, you deserve better, any of us do. Likely the guy has an addiction to the tech and a real FOMO complex. I hope you find someone who will not only pay you the attention you deserve, but you really click with as well

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    To hear his side of the story

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Jebus.....Takes all kinds I guess. No condom???

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'AnnieWhichway' The males turn this into a me, me, me, pick me Feeling a bit toe'y Annie

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    As I'm sure you have by now from recounting to yourself and others. It seems like you really dodged a bullet in the long run. Potential relationship or not. It could have developed into something extremely negative. So in the end this is a strange, but positive thing.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    No that’s not normal! Thats for the women ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    What a wanker. I'll come give you some oral pleasures with no reciprocation to try rebalance things. ;) I mean you can reciprocate if you like. I certainly wouldn't complain. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I've read and benefited from your posts over time and you are intelligent and empathic and ( I think) attractive, however I wasn't using that as a value. CandyD has described my intent better than i, tying pheromones with chemistry - thank you CD. I sincerely apologise that I offended you and wish the best for you. X - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    a lot of thought and courage to raise this topic. I knew it would expose myself and I do make my face visible because i believe in leading by example and postings that are real. For those few mean people and you know who you are, i want to say, this is someone's life. My personal life and the different aspects were very upsetting for me and still are. LC.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Some men have gotten so used to 'doing the job themselves', not knocking that, masturbating is a very healthy thing to do, but some can only get off by their own hand. That could change but only if he trusted you and you saw each other long enough to work it out. Lot of them have trouble fully relaxing, partly resulting from the belief they have to delay orgasm. If you've ever read one of my posts about that, I get a bit passionate about the subject, they shouldn't have to delay at all, but should want to go for more rounds or continue pleasuring us. The fear of coming too quick has them using certain techniques solo, over time they lose the ability to just be in the moment and be allowed to freely enjoy their orgasm as it naturally happens. I really think it's as simple as that, absolutely nothing to do with you, he would be the same with all women, lucky us 😏 As for the other rudeness being on his phone, I've already had my say about that, there's no excuse for that, it's fucked up. He sounds like a selfish prick who didn't appreciate the luxury of being with you. You do deserve better xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    You can fuck along! and your friend. LC.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    All I said was I’d be interested to hear from the guy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    You keep on being you. You're a beautiful person, inside and out, love how open and honest you are, and genuine. Love your presence on the forum. You're pretty special xx

  • gazpacho

    gazpacho

    8 years ago

    I think it’s time to say “next”, LC. I love saying next. It means I’m still in control. ✌️ Can’t touch this. People do stupid mean and selfish things. Next! A person is a lazy shag. Next! Someone misunderstands you. Next! This fool cums in his hand but I like it On my tits. Next! It’s Friday. Next! Lol. Hugs G

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Lol. 😂 LC.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    It looks like Elsie is turning it into a pick me fest.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I haven't said anything because I don't know enough, all I know is what you say and I'm not here to agree with everything, anyone says. So my thoughts are... We can debate what was going on for him till we're blue in the face, but not having any idea really... I can't help thinking the person most important to you in this scenario, is you! You've stated here what it is you wanted but you needed to do it there. You obviously didn't and don't feel happy about the weekend, listen to yourself and be satisfied you are doing the best for you. That's what really matters, Peachy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    We humans are complex creatures, and unless we’re caught up in the moment of sheer passion which can end very suddenly and messily, with a flood of released hormones into the body, very suddenly, what felt like a great idea 💡 10 seconds ago, can change into WTF!! And let me get out of here!!! I find the sensitivity of my penis changes, the pleasure of entering a pussy for the first time, then that might dull off, to it almost feeling too sloppy and no feel, I need to get it out into the air to allow it to dry and feel to return, Then I might feel he orgasm coming, try too hard, then miss mine, almost have a “dry cum” I might even feel like calling it a day and rolling onto my back for rest and sleep. I might even feel like a pee but can’t. I might want to come but can’t. I might even have to have the wank only I can do, to scratch that itch! Probably what happened with OP’s partner. Any of those situations are only going to be eased with an understanding partner, with whom you can communicate with. If there’s nothing between you but “You’ll do” then it’s never going to be any good after the come has gone! It doesn’t excuse bad manners, however when you choose a bed fellow, make sure it’s one, that when things get difficult you can talk to each other! After all they just maybe a storm whilst you’re shagging and the ceiling may come down on the pair of you and you may be trapped there until the SES come to rescue you! M_D4 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Im sorry. I took your comment as implying that what happened was my all fault. Sorry im a bit emotional. LC.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I can’t understand why a guy would rather cum in his own hand, even when a sexy lady has offered her stomach to cum on. Sounds like you are better off with him gone

  • AKAHunk

    AKAHunk

    8 years ago

    LC this fellow obviously has some issues, probably more than one. I'd started writing then deleted a long post about his different issues, but it's pretty simple, he's messed up in a variety of ways and it's probably lucky you found out early before there was any more attachment. From what I've seen of your posts and profile you'll have no trouble finding a good man (or woman!). D

  • egr2please69

    egr2please69

    8 years ago

    So sorry for what you endured Lovechild17. My goodness, what a selfish, self centred pratt. Nobody in there right mind would behave like that. You obviously developed sonething for him but it was purely a one way street. Better off without him and move forward in your life. There seems to be a lot of people here who are liars about either there situation or what they like in here. As painful as it is i guess you will have to possibly endure more pain as you weed your way through the chaff to find what you are looking for. I'm not Mr Right but at least if we ever met i say what i mean and i mean what i say. I would treat you like a lady and show you the respectvyou deserve. He obviously had none for you and treated you accordingly. Good luck goibg forward young lady, i hope you can find what you are looking for and a real man who is man enough to treat you right. 😊😙 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Shower together before sex is the best. Smell good and fresh 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    ... That is some strange ass shit, miss. Really frickin strange. I know it might seem harsh but I would've ended it from the get go just because of the wanting to catch his cum in his hand without any kind of explanation as to why he wanted to do that. Like if he said oh it's just less messy then I guess that might make some sense, tenuously... But the rest of his actions are just rude and not normal (though who amongst is entirely normal), and the rudeness alone is unacceptable. Sounds like you dodged a bullet in the end. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Checker

    Checker

    8 years ago

    Sounds like a wanker. Your openness to share it seems at first glance pretty genuine. It's hard to measure a persons character over the net. I'm sure when you find someone as well intending as yourself, the sex will inherently be much better and you'll not have to worry about tactless form post coit. Peace. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Dear Lovechild, I would happily go down on you any day of the week and not come up for air until you pull my hair and cry enough for now. I (m47) enjoy giving oral, even if I get nothing in return. Happy to prove this with an "oral only for you " session to prove that we do exist. Xx Rick

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    You have all helped immensely. Even though i was afraid to share and feeling embarrassed about something so out of my control. LC.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    8 years ago

    I'm not getting caught in a line up to lick your puss, sorry babe, I'll be keeping the fire burning for you with some good hard wood, tending to the damper and sneaking up behind kangaroos pouring salt on their tails, makes them easy to catch.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Youre too funny 😂 Yes the line up. Oh dear? But for the hundreds of people who visited my profile today it was good to have some fresh energy through. Cleared the cobwebs out. LC.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Man I'll eat any body part a woman throws at me I love it either they're page or skinny women I don't care I'll eat them all lol - Posted from rhpmobile

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'MrMojoRisin' It looks like Elsie is turning it into a pick me fest. Yes. Time to unfollow. Our work here is done.. . Mado.. .. Bring the batmobile around and pick me up

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    8 years ago

    ............./\./\ Mado /``\ (black ears and matching cape) ........|...\.^./...| ......./....|.B|...\ ...../...../......\.....\

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    that moment of a good climax and unloading inside a lady is just the ultimate, couldn't ever imagine withdrawing and finishing of by hand what a waste, seriously OMG And as for going down on lady, that is just the best turn-on knowing that you are making her hornier, and the hornier that lady is the better the climax together mmmmm

  • Soulmates

    Soulmates

    8 years ago

    Could he have a disease that he thought he could prevent you getting by cumming in his hand? Some people are selfish & ignorant.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Yeah I believe there is a very logical explanation, but it starts way before you perform oral. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Sorry to hear about your encounter. Sometimes it is best to fuck on the first date. 😁 As for the cum in the hand. Reminded me a night after a RHP event. 8 of us makeing some noise on a hotel when one of the fellas jumped up, cum in his hand and off to the bathroom he went. Still no idea what it was about. We all had a giggle tho. Cheer up chick. There is more men out there who would love to pamper and spend a weekend away with you. 😁 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • TakingMyTime

    TakingMyTime

    8 years ago

    LC - yes you are a brave woman to share your experience on here. I am so sorry to read about your experience and to hear that you were treated so disrespectful after sex - it is not expected or acceptable to jump on to a site straight after sex with a person only to find out they are still shopping for another straight up especially seeing that you had developed feelings for that person - I am also sorry that he has since blocked you and does not want to discuss your feelings and the events of the day. Always difficult to have just sex when emotions become involved. You are an attractive woman and I believe you will find someone who deserves you. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    There's nithing wrong with catching it in his hand if it's something you both want. Getting up and going straight on a dating site so wrong and disrespectful and if he can't shiw you respect then there was no future as a couple or play friends. Good luck or better luck in the future. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Odd. Move on. You obviously deserve better. Who logs on after having sex with someone? Would only be ok if you were both looking for a 3rd person or another couple. Even then he shouldn't be doing that straight after. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'shiozza' Man I'll eat any body part a woman throws at me Ok, time for me to unfollow as well before my eyeballs sustain permanent damage

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    ...he has three fingers inside you and you're thrashing the mattress. Mind, the bastard would want to be sure it was the hand attached to those fingers. ⚡️ - Posted from rhpmobile

  • gazpacho

    gazpacho

    8 years ago

    The guy who jumped up and cum in his hand? Same MO. Same crime. Same guy? Lol. Hugs Gaz

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    No. Said guy not the camping type besides he would of had his lovely wife there too. I think he just got overly excited and no one was free for a cum shot. 😁 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    And the camp was buzzing. Packed full of families all having a good time, kids running a muck playing. Mums and dads with a drink in hand. We were sitting there having a drink and i asked with a smile, "Are you a people watcher?" Cause i am 😊. Got nothing back? Even five beers didnt ungrumpify the grump. Then a family pulled into camp with a full camper trailer close on dark. Him and her had that baby fully erect and set up in under 20mins. So i commented "Shit, those two have got their act together!" Cause i knew we fucking didnt and i was also having a dig at him. I was over it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    sorry to hear of your experience...B Dragon nailed it we think...denial aint a river in Egypt...very human though...it may be repressed mysogynistic rage but it may just be he is disrespectful dismissive indifferent and didnt care....wouldnt it be great if you could tell earlier? Good luck next time...statistically unlikely to be that bad again consecutively...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I agree. Respect should be absorbed as a way of life from childhood. Sadly there have been a few recent threads from women putting effort in and not receiving what they deserve. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • theredlordau

    theredlordau

    8 years ago

    WTF is all that is needed! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Such a shame you had a not so enjoyable weekend LC. Who knows with the cumming thing, I would agree with others though that it may have been habitual for many reasons but as you offered yourself I cannot imagine why he did not oblige. As far as the phone thing goes that is just distasteful and rude. It is almost like saying well cheers, now I'll move on to the next. Well I hope the next for you is worthwhile and bloody fantastic toe curler.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    But let me reaffirm what everyone says. The guy is a loser. I can almost understand the hand thing, but if the lady wants oral then the lady should get oral. Don't write it if your not gunna do it. Simple. Hope you find the guy you deserve. Best wishes. Kenny - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Most men I've met have lied in their profiles - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Yeah nah that's strange behaviour. You dodged a bullet! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    First I'm trying to figure out what guy doesn't like to munch on a good pussy , I would be down there before you would even get the chance to give me some head.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I don’t know one guy who would pass up oral giving. I love it. Saying that I guess it’s not for everyone obviously. Shouldn’t lie on profile, but in this day and age it’s prob very common. As for hand thing. Sorry I can’t explain. If your offering tits etc as alternative well I know what I would be doing. Maby he thinks it’s good moisturiser. Was his hands smooth???? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    We like camping 😜😜😜😜👅👅👅👅👅 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I can think of many places I'd rather cum with/on you xxxxx - Posted from rhpmobile

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