Men on RHP

December 04 2015

Following on from Adam_Eves-: Women on RHP, the thread we had to have about our beloved single men. How hard is it to deal with the men here. Dont get me wrong, there are many good ones, but sadly let down by the ones that appear to lack the manlihood we require to connect. Men who fail to turn up or cancel at last moment. Yes we all have to at different times but there are men that have no intention at all to show. Men who pose as women or couples. Men who send sexist messages demanding we hook up at their whim. Men who want us to be their prostitutes. So we have had the single women bash. Lets hear your experiences regarding the single men who may have been so difficult to deal with. I could go on......and on...... Auntie Annie

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Interesting research out of Tel Aviv University on the male/female brain thing. I think it would interest you.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Whateverway' (Annie pulls up a stool, a big bucket of the shit in the other hand....) I hope your not going to start throwing it ! (that was a joke )

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Sounds like the words of a man to me, but we all knew that right? 😁 mmm bit of a 'grey' area though 😉

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Forums....... "Online discussions" There are no rules really, you can agree or disagree with posters. Voice your opinion, cop some flack, have a laugh, raise indignation, get annoyed, learn something new, make friends, make enemies, feel sympathy, be shocked, realise you just posted something you wish you had not No edit button! But...at the end of the day its just a bit of fun. Long may they continue

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    We all have our moments. Generally a fun time and positive. The regulars post prob too often according to others. But nearly all of those too many posts are positive. And when we post the odd negative post to describe our feelings and/or experience, the snipers come out. But rarely see the snipers post in a positive fashion. Its usually to have a go at the regulars complaining we are too negative. So with that said, who would be the more negative? The snipers should balance their own act first. Like all real conflicts, the snipers are the lowest form. Hiding and taking pot shots at those of us in full view. Our hearts on our sleeves.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Your "us and them" mentality is not helpful. The low life snipers and the never wrong regulars. Fuck that !I make plenty of positive comments, many of which are sniped by your regulars. Some of your regulars snipes deserve being commented on. Your popularity has gone to your head I think. Quoting 'Whateverway' We all have our moments. Generally a fun time and positive. The regulars post prob too often according to others. But nearly all of those too many posts are positive. And when we post the odd negative post to describe our feelings and/or experience, the snipers come out. But rarely see the snipers post in a positive fashion. Its usually to have a go at the regulars complaining we are too negative. So with that said, who would be the more negative? The snipers should balance their own act first. Like all real conflicts, the snipers are the lowest form. Hiding and taking pot shots at those of us in full view. Our hearts on our sleeves.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Bye Jack

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    The old slight-and-run, charming.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    That was just my sense of humour,not everyone gets it of course.you should understand that surely 😀xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting '50wetfigs' Interesting research out of Tel Aviv University on the male/female brain thing. I think it would interest you. if you meant the one looking at MRIs of brains in the latest PNAS, that one almost seems like a "quick need to publish something and get eyeballs" paper, saying "brains are pretty much the same... except they all have variations".I can look at suitcases, and they're mostly fairly similar in the broad sense - but I can't tell what people have packed inside them. Considering how complex brains are at a lower level, and that chemistry is such a huge influence in brain function beyond just how big and connected certain regions are, this just doesn't seem like much of a paper. (disclaimer: I haven't read the full paper yet, just abstracts and discussion)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    nice flamingo

  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Whateverway' We all have our moments. Generally a fun time and positive. The regulars post prob too often according to others. But nearly all of those too many posts are positive. And when we post the odd negative post to describe our feelings and/or experience, the snipers come out. But rarely see the snipers post in a positive fashion. Its usually to have a go at the regulars complaining we are too negative. So with that said, who would be the more negative? The snipers should balance their own act first. Like all real conflicts, the snipers are the lowest form. Hiding and taking pot shots at those of us in full view. Our hearts on our sleeves. Sooo right there. And some of their bitterness are reflected in their cheap shots at the regulars... And most of the shots are aimed at mostly at the women. And they throw shit from their high horses... but the shit is still stuck in their hands.. Lol. Climb the stairs of morality and righteousness, but their bitter words and attacks contradict their high and mighty attitude. Bah!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I thought it was quite the funny piss take.... Your post was quite the irony indeed :) Loved it.... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Koko yes.Annie no.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'K1092' Hmm, looks like I started something by asking what the definition of a real man was. Sorry about that everyone. For what its worth, "real" to me is something you can touch. Whether or not we are each others "cup of tea" will always be up for debate. I've never aspired to the real man thing, at it's base level it's a beer swilling, fuckin fuckin fighting fuckin bogan who hates wogs, asians, soccer and the poofters who play it. Fucks women and drives a fuckin v8 ute. Massive generalisation of course !Or it could be strong, directed family man who helps the weak.Or a sensitive young artist barring his soulOr.....or....or....Me, I'm an oversensitive new age bastard.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    As I have been here,there is always someone saying its the regulars fault that more people don't post.It takes some degree of bravado to post .....But it is actually how someone feels about themselves and their place in the world that affects how they respond here..it's not what happens or what someone says,it's how you respond . And as someone once said,I think it was FDR.you can please some people some of the time,but you can't please all of the people all of the time xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    It was a piss take, I put on the biggest smelly slab of tuna and caught half the school with a single cast LMFAO! Seriously this is the easiest forum to wind up and watch go nuts. Real Man? As always the perception will be greatly varied. Am I a real man? I don't know.. What kind of a man am I? One that I am completely comfortable being.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    The term "regular posters" is a term thrown about by the snipers. Not me. Just quoting a common description thrown in the mix by who ever is put out by a comment. Your statement "Popularity gone to my head" Bahahaha And your statement further back about being careful of my gender alignment or my balls will drop off. Well my balls are firmly attached proven by the fact i have no need to close my profile when things don't go my way..........Lol. So as OP of this thread shall we get back on topic please? Or if you wish to continue the discussion open your own thread and we will tackle it there under a suitable title. Till then im bowing out because i dont want the thread closed.

  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    10 years ago

    Quoting '50wetfigs' Your "us and them" mentality is not helpful. The low life snipers and the never wrong regulars. Fuck that !I make plenty of positive comments, many of which are sniped by your regulars. Some of your regulars snipes deserve being commented on. I do agree. You do make plenty of positive comments and I for one do not snipe at it. I do get it when some comments can be misunderstood, the nuance and intent of the message lost in the written form, as the form has no tone as S pointed out. I don't see you as one of the lurking opportunistic snipers who come out only to hit the low blows. You make comments in other forum topics without malice so kudos to you. And I have seen you apologize when you believe you were in the wrong and/or misunderstood something. That to me demonstrate some EQ, intelligence and empathy. If I read your comments and agree with it, I will say so and likewise if I disagree. I have had you disagree with my posts before and ok with that. Gave me a different perspective on the subject matter. We all have our good and bad days on the forum. I am no different from you. If people disagree with my comments, they can post their opinions and they are entitled to it. Whether I care to respond or let it affect me, it is my choice. It is a forum, only censored at the mods' discretion.

  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'RuggedlyRugged' It was a piss take, I put on the biggest smelly slab of tuna and caught half the school with a single cast LMFAO! Seriously this is the easiest forum to wind up and watch go nuts. Real Man? As always the perception will be greatly varied. Am I a real man? I don't know.. What kind of a man am I? One that I am completely comfortable being. Well played. It is funny looking back... But I still am unsure what a real man means. It is a contentious issue in the forum, surprisingly. For me a real man is a man of integrity, substance and empathy. I dont think we need anything fake or false to lure a man of this calibre into our loving arms. Surely he can see thru all the fake facade?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Lilly, thanks, that actually means a lot, I am not made of stone.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    "A woman can get through any situation on her own. But a real man wont let her." Something I learnt this week actually. Thanks for the lesson Mr Real 😄

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Once told me that a real man Takes care of his family Loves unconditionally Is kind and protective Never raises his voice, threatens or hurts people Opens doors and is polite I've since added Kind to animals Forgiving Is the best father possible She was the biggest influence in my life until I became an adult and I miss her dearly. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I get a message from a guy apparently keen to meet me, had my attention, smoking hot, body was like a machine, message was polite, awesome I thought, so replied nicely and favourably saying well if these are recent pics and you look like this, i'm in 😁 my message was brief but happy and positive, then nothing, no reply from him?? So to all the men having this happen, i'm guilty of not responding so pot calling the kettle black a bit, but he hit on me? So strange, anyway, no big deal, could have been someone having a laugh with stolen pictures, or was having a dry spell, who knows

  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' I get a message from a guy apparently keen to meet me, had my attention, smoking hot, body was like a machine, message was polite, awesome I thought, so replied nicely and favourably saying well if these are recent pics and you look like this, i'm in 😁 my message was brief but happy and positive, then nothing, no reply from him?? So to all the men having this happen, i'm guilty of not responding so pot calling the kettle black a bit, but he hit on me? So strange, anyway, no big deal, could have been someone having a laugh with stolen pictures, or was having a dry spell, who knows settle my dear petal... I hear you however, there may be a valid explanation for the tardiness. where to start? Maybe he was working and pre=occupied with his day to day work and family demands... and may not have time to respond ASAP? Maybe something came up, like his kid or a parent got sick. Why get mad and let things affect you unnecessarily? Not all of us are able to respond in time at the whim of the sender as we all have different priorities outside RHP. Well, I do.. my work, career , businesses and kids come first. RHP is not that high in my priority list. sometimes, I dont even open my emails for days. And it is the silly season. so many social and work functions. time is at a premium for single working parents. Take it easy. No point making a mountain out of a molehill. keep things in perspective and all will be fine.. Just move on and keep having fun.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    Story of my life here. They get scared at a positive return of their message. They are not sure what to do next except go have a wank. Well....not all of them....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I thought you sounded bemused, not mad at all?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Salt'nPeppa already summarized this in the 90s..... "My man is smooth like Barry, and his voice got bass A body like Arnold with a Denzel face He's smart like a doctor with a real good rep And when he comes home he's relaxed with Pep He always got a gift for me every time I see him A lot of snot-nosed ex-flames couldn't be him He never ran a corny line once to me yet So I give him stuff that he'll never forget He keeps me on Cloud Nine just like the Temps He's not a fake wannabe tryin' to be a pimp He dresses like a dapper don, but even in jeans He's a God sent original, the man of my dreamsYes, my man says he loves me, never says he loves me not Tryin' to rush me good and touch me in the right spot See other guys that I've had, they tried to play all that mac shit But every time they tried I said, "That's not it" But not this man, he's got the right potion Baby, rub it down and make it smooth like lotion Yeah, the ritual highway to heaven From seven to seven he's got me open like Seven Eleven And yes, it's me that he's always choosin' With him I'm never losin', and he knows that my name is not Susan He always has heavy conversation for the mind Which means a lot to me 'cause good men are hard to find" p.s the fact that I remember this song shows that I am not 20 :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I was confused by that response also? I wasn't the least bit mad, it was a general comment. I'd suggest people don't carry baggage, not a good look 👎

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Haha love it 😁

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Anywho, another one to throw out there. How many websites are you guys on, come on spill 😁 in relation to the cost factor, for men who are on multiple sites, it must get costly. I've noticed many of the young guys are guests, couple of reasons that spring to mind are, firstly they might not be as financially sorted, perhaps young families, early mortgage commitments etc., but is the decision to stay as a guest related to how many other sites they're on. Is rhp just a drop in the ocean for some? I've always been curious about this. I'd upgrade in a hot second if I could afford to and just wondered if you guys are on lots of sites, do you pick one or two sites to be a paying member and just a guest on the others?

  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    10 years ago

    I read it in a different light and missed your point. :-o So reread your post and I get you. But i do agree indeed. Perplexing behavior indeed again my apologies. Am having sauce with my humble pie for lunch. :-) . Cheerio. Xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    No worries, thanks, all good 😁

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Anywho, another one to throw out there. How many websites are you guys on, come on spill 😁 in relation to the cost factor, for men who are on multiple sites, it must get costly. I've noticed many of the young guys are guests, couple of reasons that spring to mind are, firstly they might not be as financially sorted, perhaps young families, early mortgage commitments etc., but is the decision to stay as a guest related to how many other sites they're on. Is rhp just a drop in the ocean for some? I've always been curious about this. I'd upgrade in a hot second if I could afford to and just wondered if you guys are on lots of sites, do you pick one or two sites to be a paying member and just a guest on the others? I'd say it's more likely that they're out at clubs/parties/etc and so mixing and mingling with a wider variety of people and potential hookups beyond their usual circle of friends.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Yeah, evident by how quiet my inbox is on a Friday night sigh 😥 damn these dudes having lives, what's with them? I have needs 😯😁

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Yeah, evident by how quiet my inbox is on a Friday night sigh 😥 damn these dudes having lives, what's with them? I have needs 😯😁 it is so evident who is single who is "attached" isnt it? The ones who stop communicating Friday 4pm and don't hear from them or see them until Monday .... nothing wrong with that in my views - but then don't attempt to act as if they were not attached...why bother keeping up fakery?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Lol yeah but with the young guys, they're out with friends their own age on a Friday night, which is the way it should be, so doesn't always mean they're attached. Doesn't bother me if they are anyway lol actually turns me on, no morals here, lost them a while ago and can't seem to find them hmm 😯😁

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    We can't throw the swag and the dogs in the truck and head out fishing and camping for the weekend? most of my single friend are near impossible to contact on a weekend, either on dates or have their kids and if neither of those they're out having fun. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'lilyorchid'Take it easy. No point making a mountain out of a molehill. keep things in perspective and all will be fine.. Just move on and keep having fun. We spend a good portion of our life trying to make a mountain out of our "mole hill" just to prove that we are "real" men. Life is generally simpler for men if they lose the phallic focus and try to pretend size doesn't matter. PS I'm not talking personally.........I have a 12 inch cock and it is THICK......not that its important!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Forgot to say different dynamic or different take on it in your age bracket of course. You're not ancient like me lol so no reason they couldn't be seen with you in public, so disappearing on a Friday and not reappearing until Monday, yeah i'd say attached. I saw a profile where the guy said he'd prefer daytime meets because he's busy with work?? Lol night shift? 😁😁😁

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Maybe he wants to fuck me on the boardroom table, that could be fun hmm but only during a board meeting 😉 😁

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I _touch,it wouldn't be a bored meeting for long 😜xxFreys

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Lol indeed it wouldn't 😁

  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'SYDnobarbie' Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Yeah, evident by how quiet my inbox is on a Friday night sigh 😥 damn these dudes having lives, what's with them? I have needs 😯😁 it is so evident who is single who is "attached" isnt it? The ones who stop communicating Friday 4pm and don't hear from them or see them until Monday .... nothing wrong with that in my views - but then don't attempt to act as if they were not attached...why bother keeping up fakery? Not sure I would say they are attached... I am a single mom with a very busy corporate career. I spend my downtime (not a lot) to catch up with my friends, family and doing thing with my Kids. And sports training. I also love going for drives down the coast in the weekends and stay overnight with family or B&B. so much to do in melb and surrounds. I tend to switch off my phone and laptop so no interruption and also keep my sanity. RHP is not very high in my priority list at the moment so I answer when I can or have the energy. It doesn't mean I am pretending to be single because I am very much single woman. I just happen to have a very active and fulfilling life outside RHP. Just my opinion.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I don't know how you do it :). There are people that could take a leaf out of your book....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    They're attached, no matter how busy you are, if you're into somebody, you get a chance to txt or msg at some time over a W/end. I've had ladies the same, they chat for 2hrs & the disappear, only to return the same time in 2 or 3 days later. Same deal, no pic's, no number & only want to chat on RHP. I've found them mainly to be ladie's that like to fantasize, or guys posing as women. All good, ya' work it out in the end.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Lol 😁😁

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    So today I get a message from a guy with a big dick, announcing this in the subject line lol so rest panned out about like I expected, I love a big dick, actually I love dicks fullstop, but why the need to announce oneself with their appendage? Lol 😁😯 oh and anyone is welcome to answer this, whether you work at Macca's or for a big company, and i'm not a suburb snob either so all welcome to respond, thanks. I had an awesome day too, just saying 😸😎

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    My less than flattering comments about men here are mostly in jest, I seriously love men. They're like candy, and who doesn't like a nice lollipop to suck on right? This is like one big candy store mmm licking my lips 😛😁

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Wonder why they call it a leaf? Makes more sense to take a page out of a book. Miss Freya might know??

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'I_touch_myself2'whether you work at Macca's or for a big companyI know what you really meant, but I got a chuckle out of "whether you work at Macca's or for a big company" considering they're one of the largest private employers in the world. (let's not get all technical on this one)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Omg we're the same age, I just realised, good vintage 😁

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Paper was originally made out of papyrus,a plant the Egyptians used..later it was made from cotton also a plant ..The best paper is still made from cotton..the Italians do it best ..vellum is also used,a very fine pigskin but extremely expensive ...xxFreya

  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Stirry' I don't know how you do it :). There are people that could take a leaf out of your book.... It is called being Celibate. Lol.. Oh, on second thoughts, that is not funny...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' so disappearing on a Friday and not reappearing until Monday, yeah i'd say attached. I saw a profile where the guy said he'd prefer daytime meets because he's busy with work?? Lol night shift? 😁😁😁 he could be working for the ambulance service...etc etc...the examples are numerous... I think the dominance of 9-5 working schedule is long gone..some people are available during the day for play some only in the afternoon or the evening.. for me this is a concern ...neither is whether he is attached or not..my only point is that if he is attached then don't list their profile as single but disappear off into the ether from 4pm Friday till 10AM Monday - no email no communication nothing cos it is pretty clear that he is attached so why keeping up the fakery?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I am still maintain my opinion that the majority of men on RHP are decent, respectful, human beings. I have made some friends - one of them thought of me when there was a tornado in SYD and I thought of him and called him when there was a fire in his region..that is friendship and feels much better than anything else. Of course there are the ones who are not decent, respectful and rather annoying, selfish, and do really think RHP is a website of hookers do the job for free etc but I think we women are rather intuitive in figuring those out...what remains are the men who make it through the 1st 2nd or 3rd cut, who are worthy of getting to know them. Even if only for a night or a date :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'RuggedlyRugged' We can't throw the swag and the dogs in the truck and head out fishing and camping for the weekend? most of my single friend are near impossible to contact on a weekend, either on dates or have their kids and if neither of those they're out having fun. - Posted from rhpmobile I live not far from the Murrumbidgee River and I'm close to a national park when you have the urge to do either or both .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I got 50 flirts from one guy yesterday, thanks dude, haven't had time to read them all yet 😱😁 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Yes I agree, it was a good year, especially for me, I was born 3mths prem & survived. Not bad considering the medical facilities of the day. Cheers Paul.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Paul you are a miracle baby to survive that 👌😁

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'PL1963' They're attached, no matter how busy you are, if you're into somebody, you get a chance to txt or msg at some time over a W/end. I've had ladies the same, they chat for 2hrs & the disappear, only to return the same time in 2 or 3 days later. Same deal, no pic's, no number & only want to chat on RHP. I've found them mainly to be ladie's that like to fantasize, or guys posing as women. All good, ya' work it out in the end. No I have to disagree. If I'm touring on the dirtbike I'm generally in poor reception if any at all, If I'm in the 4wd I'm doing something a lot more fun like fishing and generally out of range.. If I'm home my list for the weekend consists of:Grocery shoppingTaxi for the kidsSpend time with the dogs grooming, beach, parkMow 1000sqm block I live onWrite an article or five for my freelance stuffSee my mumFix the shit I broke on my 4wd the week before I find it very easy to forget about RHP and the world for a few days.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Yes from what I've heard it was amazing that I survived. My Mum walked and caught a bus everyday with my older brother in tow and expressed breast milk for me, I guess that may have been what helped. Nobody got to cuddle me for 3mths, maybe that's why I love cuddles now. Lol. Cheers Paul.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    We are all busy, I drive trucks 12hrs a day most W/ends, but I still send a "quick msg" if I have taken a "shine" to somebody. That's just me but. Cheers Paul.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I'd lay money on that breast milk as a magic potion and expert medical care. Really a miracle though, especially in those days. God there wouldn't have been too many babies that premmy who survived. Anyway lucky for us you did, you're an absolute delight 👍😁

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Made my Xmas. Cheers Paul.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    The biggest mistake men make online is not listening to women's wants/desires more often. Not all the time, but more often. The biggest mistake that women online make is thinking that everything that they want/desire is gospel across the board. Maybe we ALL/BOTH need to listen more and be prepared to meet in the middle more rather than both/all thinking they are right at all times.If men do not listen at all to women, then good luck finding one. If women don't listen to men more, then keep wondering why you can't keep one. Rocket science never came into this, so don't complicate and find someone with similar interests both in and out of the bedroom. Opposites might attract out of the bedroom, but they MUST be on the same page inside it. Hence the compromise. The moment either sex thinks they have it all worked out is the moment you get shown or reminded just how little you know ! Ask any guy that has met a women from a non online point of view, especially with alcohol involved and her "criteria list" will almost disappear if there is a physical connection. But remove the alcohol and come online and the hurdles a genuine man has to jump through is borderline ridiculous !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I've had some dodgy dealings here First guy I hooked up with on here I found out months later he was texting my bf and they were planning (without my knowledge) what he would do to me sexually and what I would like. He also did 3 no-show's during the course of us chatting. Always had a good reason so I kept making dates. Geez! Also my ex (who I broke up with partly becoz of the above dishonest and perverted act above) has so far made 2 male and 2 female false profiles on here to try and get to me. Each time they have been taken down after I complained but now I'm very cautious who I talk to. I've met some amazing guys from Rhp so I'm happy :) X - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    So are you suggesting alcohol, which then results in standards being dropped, is a good option? Yeah, no thanks, i'll stay sober and keep my standards thanks. Also understand that not all women are less fussy in real life. I'm way more picky in real life. On here, guys of all ages, whatever, can express interest, I will at least check out their profile, even if they're way outside age range or other criteria, but in the real world, - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Sorry, posted before finishing. I meant in the real world, I only have eyes for young and hot bodies. It gets more defined all the time, i'm not under any illusion that i'm anything special, but I can't change what i'm attracted to, it is what it is. I'll probably die a lonely old lady (found eaten by alsations 😱) but the common consensus on here is that women are more picky because of the male to female imbalance. Well not for me. And here or in the real world, I never drop my standards, i'd rather go without, and most times do, that's my choice, but needed to make the point that not all are fussier online, regardless of how many people hit you up. I do agree that we must be on the same page sexually, how many relationships do you see where everything else is great, except their sex life (and that's when they call me lol) Fuck that, I agree opposites isn't an option there lol 😁

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    RHP User

    10 years ago

    That sucks, your ex boyfriend sounds like a piece of work. I feel your pain trying to trust and believe the profiles are real. Good for you for not being bitter about your experience, can't have been easy 😃😎

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