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Niceguys. A Dirty Word.
June 20 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
are definitely the way to go...pity i can seem to find one that i click with...the problem is me i think...dammit.
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DonnaBrett
16 years ago
Okie kokie Ms Sweetiepie... a little hair pulling, butt slap & dirty talk...duly noted!! mmmmm....
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Tart_Du_Jour
16 years ago
Nothing wrong at all! Of course people want to be treated with compassion and respect. But being nice isn't always enough in itself. The problem is a lot of so called nice guys complain that somehow women are stupid and it's not fair that no one is interested in them etc etc. Being polite is great but that doesn't mean you should expect anything from it and I don't think anyone likes self pity. Personally I hate rudeness and "wanna fuck" messages but I like being someone who is confident and fun and maybe a bit cheeky at times. It is possible to be both :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Don't try to be something you are not... it won't work for long. Be yourself, be true TO yourself and enjoy it. There's more than enough lovely gals out there wanting respect etc. If you are not yourself then gals see through that pretty darned quickly and when they do, you can expect trouble... not that I've experienced it, but I've talked to enough of the gals here to know that they appreciate a little kindness. Be you FAB - just you and no one else. Wayne
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DonnaBrett
16 years ago
That's ok Ms S.....gotta give you girls want you want...so you keep "cumming" back for more!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
"Life is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets. So love the people who treat you right, and forget about the ones who don't, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance; take it. If it changes your life; let it." Latte xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Baise_Moi' Being polite is great but that doesn't mean you should expect anything from it and I don't think anyone likes self pity. There is being genuinely nice and then there is being a walk over. Sometimes we need to recognise the difference. A nice guy can be assertive while showing women respect. I like nice guys - you know the ones who are respectful, compassionate, treat a girl nicely - but they also need to be assured within themselves, know who they are, what they want and arent going to let me walk all over them just because they think its what I want. Kisses Focus
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RHP User
16 years ago
Focus. This thread is not really about me. Though at the moment it is pertient to me. Yes us nice guys can be all a girl wants. Then we can fall into the trap of being too nice and then treated badly. This may not be intentional. It just tips the balance of a relationship against us. I have done it every time. .......................................... This thread was aimed at us nice guys in general. After talking to someone about their previous trouble I realized that I too could have crossed the line and upset some here. It's all messy. Sometimes you are contacting several women over a month before you even meet them. To me this feels a bit of a sham. Wayne.
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RHP User
16 years ago
but the nice guys also need to be honest with what they want too i have found the nicest men i have met, the ones that treated me like a lady and are wonderful human beings.....they are the ones that once we meet dont ever contact me again sometimes i think at least with the "wanna fuck" brigade you know what your getting and what they want sometimes with the really nice ones you just dont so i think sometimes you just cant win hahaha roxxy
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RHP User
16 years ago
Some guys pass themselves off as being "nice" when in actual fact they're passive aggressive and manipulative. They hide behind the "nice guy" label and moan why they don't get laid, when they're sneaky with their emotions and reek of desperation.We *know* the nice guys when we encounter them. They're not desperate. They are smart, and funny and kind. They never lack for female companionship funnily enough even though they're not the hottest chillis at the grocer.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey,I am a nice and honest guy and I think assertive as well (been walked over before), but as fab69 said we tend to look for the meaningful encounters you know the ones you click with and are compatible with.Nothing worse than meaningless sex because you are still in the same place 15 minutes after its finished so what the point when a hand can do the same job.Is it so wrong tho for nice guys to actually want something more than a wham bam thankyou maam even tho that tends to happen when in a relationship.Girls it not that there is something wrong with you, you just have to fish till you find the right man who gets you and understands you.PK !!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'fab69'Focus. This thread is not really about me. Though at the moment it is pertient to me. Sorry Fab if you thought my comments were directed at you specifically. Just a general comment based on my own experiences. Can we kiss and make up? Focus
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RHP User
16 years ago
I created a post on this ages ago, in fact I think it was one of the first threads I started (I am sure 'someone' will immediately provide a link, fully synopsis and part credit for the thread).The upshot is I was at once commended and abused for admitting I am a 'nice guy'. Whilst quite a few publicly stated there preference for someone with manners and a healthy does of smarts, others, not so publicly told me I should get my butt off this site as it evidently isn't for me.What a lot of people seem to forget is that a 'nice guy' can still like sex, can still be cheeky, hell can even be a tad crude and most certainly will stand up for themselves. The difference is we know when and where to do it. We are not subservient backbone missing mumma's boys, we are not looking for someone to care for us, we are just like everyone else here. Well let me clarify, we are the ones who don't send the 'Wanna fuck' messages, we are the ones who turn up for a date on time, we are the ones who send a thank you after the date even if it was a total disaster.What intrigues me though is women who want the atypical bad boy then come in here and bitch, whine and cry how he treated her bad. Hello, he is a bad boy, that is what they do and that is why you met him - don't come the bleeding heart to us, we have heard it all before.I would even suggest that the nice guys (NG) far outnumber the bad boys (BB) but because the BB outnumber and are loud, proud, rude and crude the tend to stick out. Us NG's tend to be a little more circumspect on how we approach someone, what type of message we send, how we act in the chat room etc.Just remember ladies, the BB might give you a thrill in bed, but so will us NG's, difference is we will remember your name and if you are nice to us, even cook you breakfast in the morning!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
In reply to customer69 asking for all us nice guys to give advice to the others.I say no as nice guys have hard enough time trying to meet someone as is lol and because we are nice does not mean we won't stand up for you but we won't treat you lovely women like crap. If we were to give the other guys advice they would only be wolves in sheeps clothing. This is wear I draw the line and if they haven't worked out the lessons by now then they are a waste of time.PK !!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Some very good points on a very touchy subject. Thanks to focusliason for some very balanced words on assertiveness, and Polar_bear for stating some things that need to be said about manipulation. I'm no expert on passive aggressive personality issues, but I've read just enough to know that it's relevant to this topic. Niceguy0068 made some good sense and I can only add to it. Bottom line is, you have to be genuine. If you feel you're a too much of a 'nice guy' then work on genuinely developing some other aspects of your personality that woman might find more compelling. Sense of humour is a biggie. Appropriate cheekiness is another. Work on your spontinaity, and try not to be predictably 'Mr nice'. Be respectful and confident and whatever you do... make it your own. and don't go thinking I'm just being nice either.....
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RHP User
16 years ago
Nice guys win... I always reply to guys who just talk about everyday things..... hehe Prefer honesty and someone who can be themself.... I hate meeting a guy in person and he isn't who he made himself out to be... I spoke with a guy about anything and everything, we never spoke about sex, we never saw erotic pics of each other etc... I really enjoyed getting his messages everyday, I actually looked forward to coming home from work and reading them... We eventually met, he was the guy I was emailing... Everything fell into place and 9mths later we are still together, getting stronger everyday...
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RHP User
16 years ago
BTW fab69 very hot pic
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RHP User
16 years ago
Nice, Naughty.... These judgement values (adjectives) vary from person to person. I think maybe honest, civil, polite and understanding are attributes of the 'Nice Guy' and as for the 'Bad Boy' attributes, they should be displayed at the request of the woman as is her want. Integrity as to who you are and what you're looking for, is paramount for me. Be who you are and the rest takes care of itself. In theory.....
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'mooka'I created a post on this ages ago, in fact I think it was one of the first threads I started (I am sure 'someone' will immediately provide a link, fully synopsis and part credit for the thread).The upshot is I was at once commended and abused for admitting I am a 'nice guy'. Whilst quite a few publicly stated there preference for someone with manners and a healthy does of smarts, others, not so publicly told me I should get my butt off this site as it evidently isn't for me.What a lot of people seem to forget is that a 'nice guy' can still like sex, can still be cheeky, hell can even be a tad crude and most certainly will stand up for themselves. The difference is we know when and where to do it. We are not subservient backbone missing mumma's boys, we are not looking for someone to care for us, we are just like everyone else here. Well let me clarify, we are the ones who don't send the 'Wanna fuck' messages, we are the ones who turn up for a date on time, we are the ones who send a thank you after the date even if it was a total disaster.What intrigues me though is women who want the atypical bad boy then come in here and bitch, whine and cry how he treated her bad. Hello, he is a bad boy, that is what they do and that is why you met him - don't come the bleeding heart to us, we have heard it all before.I would even suggest that the nice guys (NG) far outnumber the bad boys (BB) but because the BB outnumber and are loud, proud, rude and crude the tend to stick out. Us NG's tend to be a little more circumspect on how we approach someone, what type of message we send, how we act in the chat room etc.Just remember ladies, the BB might give you a thrill in bed, but so will us NG's, difference is we will remember your name and if you are nice to us, even cook you breakfast in the morning!! Mate - I was with ya 1000% right up to the bit about cooking breakfast... sheesh.. know how to spoil it don't ya :-) But then I guess.. does Pancakes from the shaker bottle count as cooking? :-) Seriously though - yeah - Mooka is right... Wayne
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'mooka' I created a post on this ages ago, in fact I think it was one of the first threads I started (I am sure 'someone' will immediately provide a link, fully synopsis and part credit for the thread).Very nice of you to acknowledge the work done there
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RHP User
16 years ago
Wow!! I get treated like a princess by the new man in my life. I have never been treated so well by any man before. Nice guys are not a dirty word. Keep trying and find someone that appreciates you and what you do for them. Good luck to all the nice guys out there!!! xxxxxxxxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
How greedy can we women be? I mean seriously, if forum is anything to go by, the characteristics we want in a man include such outlandish specs as: Respectful, employed, sane well hung individuals with a good sense of humour who is present in mind body and soul & can hold a conversation about anything other than his ex wife/partner. Ok so I added the part about being well hung...if one is to dream then why not make it a good one eh?
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well I'm a bit fragile ATM so I need to say this. I have it all. I need to remind myself that. Been played with. Don't know why?? Why do you girls play games with us nice guys??? Don't you know that we will always treat you right?? I guess being a nice guy is that you accept these shitty games. Fab. Thanks naughtysexc that photo is real. I do have it all.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Now this is an interesting turn of events. A man suffering from the bad girl syndrome. aka, the oedipus complex. Tho most commonly noted in women: electra complex. Look at it from an educational perspective Fab, if the women you are currently playing with play nasty...then pay heed to the 'STOP' sign. Make note of the 'type'...cos you see, its you, not them that is at fault. (eg: are you a repeat offender eg: going for the same type time and time again?) Look for the square peg, square hole combo and you'll be right!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey My Name.....that is brilliant analogy. So So true, we all have choices both men and women in the types of people we choose to attract and then pursue. Sometimes it is a viscous cycle. Those big red stop signs do come in handy!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Mind you, it is extraordinarily difficult to break a lifetime habit of chosing 'the wrong' types. My apologies (yeah right) for throwing in the psycho babble Mein liebling, that is yet another habit I am also trying to shatter.....suffice to say...it aint workin lol latte_4_2: I concede to your round hole bizzo...upon reflection that is far more appropriate... :-)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Polar_Bear_Girl' Some guys pass themselves off as being "nice" when in actual fact they're passive aggressive and manipulative. They hide behind the "nice guy" label and moan why they don't get laid, when they're sneaky with their emotions and reek of desperation.We *know* the nice guys when we encounter them. They're not desperate. They are smart, and funny and kind. They never lack for female companionship funnily enough even though they're not the hottest chillis at the grocer. and you forgot to mention...not the biggest tools in the shed either...and some advice for nice guys...actions always speak louder than words...cheersjose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Gourmet_Lady' Quoting 'mooka' I created a post on this ages ago, in fact I think it was one of the first threads I started (I am sure 'someone' will immediately provide a link, fully synopsis and part credit for the thread).Very nice of you to acknowledge the work done there I could provide the link, helpful fukka what I am hehe but it's not that hard to find :-) Far be it from me to suggest I take credit for others efforts. Why? When I sure appreciate it when my own is acknowledged... Thank you. Hugs Deb
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RHP User
16 years ago
http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Bad-Boys-Vs-Good-Guys-26360
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RHP User
16 years ago
i doubt that we will find any truly true nice guy on this site, nor in these forums...A nice guy treats women and men with respect...and has impeccable manners...and dresses impeccably as well...treats everyone as if they are the only person in the world...and i mean everyone...whether large or small, man or woman, black or white...is a fun dancer...can cook for one or for 20 or more ...puts everyone before themselves...is a person who everyone wants to be around...is the first person invited to any party, do, dinner, etc...is knowledgeable in many subjects...has class and charisma...is what everyone aspires to be...A nice guy is a rare individual, and a joy to be around...So to all you "nice guy" wannabees...just because you say you are, don't make it so...jose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Nice-Guys-26416Lololol... Mrs P'
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RHP User
16 years ago
Disagree, a nice guy doesn't have to be all of those things.A person's capacity to be nice isn't reliant on his ability in the kitchen (I can cook, never done so for 20 people though, not alone atleast) nor their dancing ability. 'Nice' is based on their personality, their compassion, their attitude to others.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Utterly agree...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'comeandgetme68'i doubt that we will find any truly true nice guy on this site, nor in these forums...A nice guy treats women and men with respect...and has impeccable manners...and dresses impeccably as well...treats everyone as if they are the only person in the world...and i mean everyone...whether large or small, man or woman, black or white...is a fun dancer...can cook for one or for 20 or more ...puts everyone before themselves...is a person who everyone wants to be around...is the first person invited to any party, do, dinner, etc...is knowledgeable in many subjects...has class and charisma...is what everyone aspires to be...A nice guy is a rare individual, and a joy to be around...So to all you "nice guy" wannabees...just because you say you are, don't make it so...jose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
"Nice guy" is a term in the general public discourse and in popular culture for a male with certain personality traits and behavior. A typical "nice guy" is a man who is likely to put the needs of others before his own, avoid instigating confrontations, do favors, give emotional support, and generally act in a way consistent with the general meaning of "nice". It is an active debate whether these traits, which have historically been considered valuable in courtship, may actually make a man less desirable from a sexual perspective. Supposedly, "nice guys" spend a lot of time in the friend zone.Just because someone thinks they're a nice guy doesn't mean I agree with them...Hugs... Mrs P' >>> I ain't no Saint
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Quiserasera
16 years ago
well, I honestly think being a nice guy is a backward step on this site.......actually i'm sure it is.I've contacted lots of women with messages that don't have any come fuck me overtones, just a simple come have a chat over a coffee and see if we get on and majority of the time I don't even get a reply.Some of us men do have gentlemanly ways about us, but nice guys do really finish last in life i'm afraid
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yep, us nice guys do exist, mutual respect for both parties & as a guy, I hate being bullshited or screwed around as well.What sort of friendship is that !! Honest mutual fun is the key, not deadbeats, why bother !!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well here goes my first forum response. I would generally be called a "Nice Guy" by all of my female friends. Friends are very important to me and be they Male or female, i help out if i can. I am respectful,have good manners and open doors and walk on the curbside and all the other chivalrous things a man should do.However being just a nice guy doesnt spark the "Attraction" in women.Women need spark the X factor something out of the ordinary call it what you will ,its just how women have been programmed,And unless we find that bit of Spark or Intrigue within us well just go on being the same old Nice guy we always have been. So ive decided to start changing the way i behave,just little things in order to be that little bit more.....Unpredictable.. A bit more unusual, and more exciting to the beautiful women i meet. Only 6 months after my 19 yr relationship split,Im ready to move on from being just a "Nice Guy" To being an Extraordinary Guy. Andrew.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well when I got her text which said "you are very kind, gentle, and considerate but ..." I really did begin to wonder about this whole nice guy thing ... I pride myself on being considerate, having her needs always looked after first etc but regularly get the message that really they would prefer a bit of the rough, using kind of treatment ... maybe there is a balance in there, be assertive but not using ... but damned if I know where it is ...
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have to agree nice guys always finish last Im fed up with getting screwed over for my generosity and kindness. Everytime just gets thrown back in my face... ahh well ill find somone eventually hehe
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RHP User
16 years ago
Its a tough age bracket your operating in. Eventually some female will realise your worthy.At 21 you have plenty of time, to find that special lady.Cheers Nev
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RHP User
16 years ago
I am a nice guy but like it rough in bed - any NICE ladies out there like to give me a test run
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RHP User
16 years ago
a nice guy doesn't whinge about...being stood up...having to pay...getting screwed over...and so on...isn't it amazing how "nice guys" always see the good and never focus on the bad....( T.I.C.)jose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'NevandKj' Its a tough age bracket your operating in. Eventually some female will realise your worthy. At 21 you have plenty of time, to find that special lady. Cheers Nev haha thx. i know but its just really annoying. doesnt help that i find most people my age immature and flat out annoying lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
I don't put much stock in the whole 'nice guys finish last' theory. The reason 'bad boys' tend to have success is because they're confident by nature, where many 'nice guys' have to work at that. From what I've heard, it's not being 'nice' that turns the woman off, it's being clingy, coming across as desperate, holding back, that sort of thing.Also, remember there's no hard-and-fast rule for all women. If the women you pursue turn you down on the basis of being 'nice' then throw themselves at 'bad boys', it could be that they're simply not the right woman for you and it wouldn't have worked out anyway.
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RHP User
16 years ago
zzzzzzzzzzzz
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RHP User
16 years ago
The easiest way to get a thread to break 50, is to make it about 'large women' or 'nice guys'. Every desperado crawls out of the woodwork to point out "Hey - I dig large women", = I don't really, but I'm not having much luck with the hotties or "Hey - I'm not here just to root you, I cuddle on the couch too - I am a nice guy" = I just want to root you. I stand by one of my earliest posts, and reminisce and self-indulge at how this post sparked something really really awesome for me - but I digress. Y A W N Nice guys are just guys A Guy knows you can't get anyone drunk at a coffee shop, so would never suggest it as a first date. . A Guy will not expect sex after just one drink. . A Guy will only contact you a second time if he thinks he has a chance with your sister/mum/niece/best friend and needs a phone number. . A Guy would prefer to lose the "I'll get this" argument over the bill. He doesn't shit gold! . A Guy will not ask too many personal questions, he knows the answers are boring. However, he is willing to answer any question about himself with a lie about being a fighter pilot. . A Guy will know what face to pull to fake listening, and listening intently. He doesn't want to know the ladies opinion, it will most likely be wrong anyway. . A Guy will call you chicky babe... it's easy to remember, and if your memory is poor, is easily written on a palm. . A Guy will not sit through a chick flick. Don't you have a sister/mum/niece/best friend ?? . A Guy will sleep with your sister, your mother, your best friend, your daughter or niece. He know it's important to have mutual firendships. . A Guy is willing to settle for just being your friend. You will call it stalking, he will call you his girlfriend.
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RHP User
16 years ago
not blowing my own horn here... or should i? what? never mind.. anyway back to it. I like to think that i am a nice guy. i get told this many times and it seems like it is a failing of mine. This is a problem when i try and communicate with ladies on here also. So i am rather confused. When i use a bad boy angle that kinda works but they want a nice guy... make up ones mind lol... But 9/10 i am the nice guy so what do the girl think about that? lol feel free to add or rubbish my comment or feel free to talk to me haha
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RHP User
16 years ago
That doesn't sound anything like the nice guy I've been married to for over 20 yrs. It's quite funny really, most people underestimate him. It was only a few years ago when he asked me how I felt about 'playing' that I realised how much I'd underestimated him :-PHugs... Mrs P'
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'naughtisxcgirl' Nice guys win... I always reply to guys who just talk about everyday things..... hehe Prefer honesty and someone who can be themself.... I hate meeting a guy in person and he isn't who he made himself out to be... I spoke with a guy about anything and everything, we never spoke about sex, we never saw erotic pics of each other etc... I really enjoyed getting his messages everyday, I actually looked forward to coming home from work and reading them... We eventually met, he was the guy I was emailing... Everything fell into place and 9mths later we are still together, getting stronger everyday... I'll have what Naughti's having thanks!sounds lovely! congrats Naughti!JMO...BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
After reading MissBJ's quote of Naughti's post, I have to say it was the very fact that he was good company, trustworthy and respectful to the only woman on the pool team LOL that attracted me to Mr P'. I was like a little sister to the team and always treated well but he was the one I would go out of my way to ask to practice with me before comps. We made such a good team in the end that we won best doubles in A grade and runners up in B in the same year. Meant to be... Hugs Mrs P'
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RHP User
16 years ago
So are you some kinda pool shark or what?...lolguessing i could expect a resounding thrashing if we ever played!Cheers Nev..........excelllent at pool....NOT !
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RHP User
16 years ago
Ha ha I'd be cool to play against you Mrs P. I'm so inconsistent it's funny. I play with comp players. It's fun. I have a knack at bringing everyone down to my level. God I laugh. One time recently a comp player I was against missed all balls on the break three times in a row. Haven't laughed so much in ages. Fab. Oh by the way. It's cool to be a nice guy. You just need to be aware of what you are getting yourself into. Lol. Or out of for that matter. Thanks sincerely for everyones help. Hope to see you all in Sydney. Me backed off from my infatuation. Square peg. Is right. Coulg get me a chisel and square up the round hole but I would get splinters. Ouch. Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha. Oh well just because someone is from real life doesn't mean that they aren't like many on here. Thanks to my time here I realize that the memories are allways with you. Even for fleeting moments in your life. Well on with the search. Well maybe anyway. Me I never burn bridges. Time was against me yet again. But time just may be the answer. Thank you all again. This nice guy is well just looking for a sweet girl. Who is square?? Or slightly irregular. Lol. Wayne. Niceguy0068's nemisis.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'dupstep88' I have to agree nice guys always finish last Im fed up with getting screwed over for my generosity and kindness. Everytime just gets thrown back in my face... ahh well ill find somone eventually hehe There are women out there including me who gives all and gets the same treatment... I see that as them not being the right one, eventually you will find or be found by the one who sweeps you off your feet... Hang in there sunshine hehe Mikle.... You do look happy.... x x
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RHP User
16 years ago
What a silly thread, full of nonsense.Nice guy this, nice guy that.... lolz Who are you lot kidding, you could not tell a nice guy until he bites you on the arse, because most of you are to busy telling us what a nice guy should be and not simply accepting us for what we are, talk about double standards.lolz, funny thread....
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RHP User
16 years ago
I can see us having to get RHP State pool teams together. We'll get RHP to sponsor us, flying us round the country n all to play off against each other LOL. No ulterior motives here...I can imagine some possibilities for team names already. Hehe, how about... wait for it... The Nice Guys... hahahahaIt wasn't me... hehe... Mrs P' <<< Ms Debonair
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yes us niceguys are neglected. Passed over. As if we don't know how to fcuk properly. Some would think we don't know how to at all. Lol. We can certainly type it if we want to. Then there is the other how we get treated in general. A new woman is like a new horse. They will play up to see how well you ride. Lol. Sorry girls but it's true. Fab.
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RHP User
16 years ago
but the sydney drinks venue has wait for it...... pool tables... ;-) Now we just gotta get Mrs P over from WA and we're good to go. hugs Wayne x
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RHP User
16 years ago
I would take a genuine nice guy anyday. They are confident know themselves as an individual and that shows through. Guys don't doubt yourselves just be honest not a push over you are a human being after all and deserve to be treated as one be honest about your motives. The girls will come a running.... Because the nice guy is not always in the friend zone.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I love you and we haven't even kissed yet. Lol. I'm gettin worse. Oh mo more unwanted hits from our man on man brigade. Gotta love em tho. Oh no I just made it worse. I'll be test drivin a datsun soon. Oh no someone stop me. Come on you guys how many gay men have shoulder length hair. See way outta your stereotype. Lol. I'll stop now I promised to be good. Sorry if I dissapointed or offended. Oh I know. Ah ha hhahahahahahahahaahahahahhahahah. Fab. See you all on Sydney. On the 31st somewhere.
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Frankiesgame
16 years ago
Now ya talkin'
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'niceguy0068' but the sydney drinks venue has wait for it...... pool tables... ;-) Now we just gotta get Mrs P over from WA and we're good to go. hugs Wayne x That's pretty funny Wayne, specially considering our recent messages!Lol, hugs Deb (Mrs P' :-D)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sydney drinks night is on....woo hoo! Im thinking I'll come dressed in drag....I mean...as a female...oops...I mean...something with pockets....for all the balls Im hoping to sink....HAHAHAHAHAHAHA (courtesy of Earl)
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RHP User
16 years ago
blue leader unable to attend.engine and rudder probs.sorry guys. will get maintenence onto the problem and believe me chargeswill be laid ole chap.....ahahahhahahahahahahahahahaEarl
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RHP User
16 years ago
us nice girls...you know we get left behind all the time for bitches that treat you men like shit we do everything we can to treat our men well and love them with everything we have, help them out when ever we can and be there for them always...just to be told over and over again, your not what im looking for so maybe its not just the nice guys that left out in the cold...but us girls too (yes im classing myself as a nice girl...wanna argue???) roxxy
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'mynameisearl2'blue leader unable to attend.engine and rudder probs.sorry guys. will get maintenence onto the problem and believe me chargeswill be laid ole chap.....ahahahhahahahahahahahahahaEarl Dude - get your maintenance done n sorted... We'll make sure to have a drink on the night just for you There will be future drinks nights, I'm sure of it :-) This place I've got lined up can take a huge number of people, so I aim to fill it... :-) Take care mate Wayne PS - Sydney drinks night here http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Event/Sydney-Meet-n-Greet-Night-16093
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16 years ago
Quoting 'MrnMrsPeachypear' Quoting 'niceguy0068' but the sydney drinks venue has wait for it...... pool tables... ;-) Now we just gotta get Mrs P over from WA and we're good to go. hugs Wayne x That's pretty funny Wayne, specially considering our recent messages!Lol, hugs Deb (Mrs P' :-D) Life is an interesting experience... I'm bereft to think that 'life' offers me the most fantastic opportunity... and I have to turn it down... miss the chance of a lifetime to meet you and Lips and a raft of other names where I'd like to place names to faces Sorry if I'm hogging your thread at all Fab, I have posted on topic further back lol n I have to say you guys are all really nice hehe :-* Haha Frankie, I wonder what it was what distracted those poor fellas I played against when I was younger? Couldn't have had anything to do with me being a pioneer wearing those stretch jeans and singlets sans underwear... Lol hugs... Mrs P' <<< latish Sat eve contemplating how much fun they're having at the meet n greet in Freo
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16 years ago
Quoting 'MrnMrsPeachypear' Quoting 'MrnMrsPeachypear' Quoting 'niceguy0068' but the sydney drinks venue has wait for it...... pool tables... ;-) Now we just gotta get Mrs P over from WA and we're good to go. hugs Wayne x That's pretty funny Wayne, specially considering our recent messages!Lol, hugs Deb (Mrs P' :-D) Life is an interesting experience... I'm bereft to think that 'life' offers me the most fantastic opportunity... and I have to turn it down... miss the chance of a lifetime to meet you and Lips and a raft of other names where I'd like to place names to faces Sorry if I'm hogging your thread at all Fab, I have posted on topic further back lol n I have to say you guys are all really nice hehe :-* Haha Frankie, I wonder what it was what distracted those poor fellas I played against when I was younger? Couldn't have had anything to do with me being a pioneer wearing those stretch jeans and singlets sans underwear... Lol hugs... Mrs P' <<< latish Sat eve contemplating how much fun they're having at the meet n greet in Freo can't realy play but would of given it a crackahahahahahahahahahhahhahahahahahahahahaEarl, the piano man............
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16 years ago
Hey Earl? Shhh, I'm not really here... Hugs, Mrs P'
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16 years ago
Quoting 'MrnMrsPeachypear' Hey Earl? Shhh, I'm not really here... Hugs, Mrs P' no one will notice i'm sure my freind.we huntin wabbits...........ahahahahaahahhaahhahaahahahahahahaEarl
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16 years ago
2 much laying on pool tables mate...Hmmm Hugs Mrs P'
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16 years ago
one look at yer sexy arse andi got nothing.sorry mr PEarl
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16 years ago
N now we're back to bending over the pool table... Hugs... deb
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16 years ago
Quoting 'MrnMrsPeachypear' N now we're back to bending over the pool table... Hugs... deb gunna kick my arse if i keep carrieing onlike this................ahhahahahahahahahhahahaaaahahhahaahacould be fun.......................ahahahahahaahhhahaaaahahahaaahahhhhaaahahahahaEarl
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16 years ago
n now it seems it earl's turn to bend over the pool table... if you get my point...hehe
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16 years ago
Here I am. Gettin some but gettin burnt. Lol. I don't know what would be worse. Mmm I'm like Earl. Mrs P bent over a pool table. God talk about an unfair advantage. I'd wanna miss my shot so I could watch her. Especially love hiding the girlie sticks and leavin the cue ball way up the table so she'd have to reach. Lol. Naughty I know. Me I can almost reach the other end and play both handed. Lol. ........................ Any way. I was talking to a friend for support. I asked her what was wrong with me. Now six months single. Still lookin. Her answer. I'm a push over. Yep I agree. To honest too eager to please. Well if you really like someone isn't it natural to not play games. Should I play games as well to test them?? Or just watch the games they at on me?? Too many. Too harsh. Pull away and shout next??? Well this concept will just make things all the more easier. Well what is a simple test I need to play on them. Talk is cheap. Actions speak louder. Oh well. I'm off to do food shopping. Ha ha. Mmm not playing nice. I'm dressed in my hottest clothes. So I can catch the ones perving on me. Lol. Good for the soul right now. So what did Stalky say oh yes. Bananas on kiddie seat pointing up. Well I never heard of it. Many others won't either. But hey. I'm gonna perve too. Lol. Fab......................................................NEXT!!!!!!
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16 years ago
I think the Sydney drinks are cursed - I tried to click on the events link but it says the page is not available. Is anyone else having the same problem? Or maybe I am not meant to go.......... WAYNE - what is going on??? Meeka
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RHP User
16 years ago
It's on I'm in the loop. Venue is set and booked. Just wait for it in events page. Can't say no more cos of RHP policy. Lol. Got spanked over that one. Didn't we Wayne. Lol I mean niceguy as well. Mmm my post rate is almost back being good now. Methinks it will be on otherwise I'm comin to Sydney to hunt niceguy down. I know who to torture for info on where he's at. Lol. Mmm that will kill two niceguys both Wayne's in one go. The world would be different. Lol. See you there Meeka. Just need Mrs P to challenge at pool. Lol. Earl sorry to see your out of action man. Ha I killed off anothe wabbit thread a couple of weeks back. I have been neglectin the RFB raids. Need more. OBS and myname have also been quiet. Roxy has tried to keep up the standard. Ha silly stuff always makes me feel better. Lol. I'm up and down like a yo yo. Lol. Like up more. Fab. RFB 5 out on a recon. Targets yet to be attained. Lol.
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16 years ago
Wayne must have edited the event description. It takes ages for the moderator to approve changes to events.... I mean days... HUgs Stalky
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16 years ago
Those who keep spruiking about they are "niceguys" are generally not!!!!
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16 years ago
Quoting 'SWEETIEPIE2010' The nice guy who will still be chivalrous, who will walk on broken glass for me, who will defend me to the death if need be, protect me if protecting, who will give me the world and all of him too, who will always respect me in every way imaginable BUT.........if i can push him around or walk all over him or manipulate him in any way i'm not interested. My sex drive goes from overdrive to zero. Only one pussy in this relationship bebe (to quote the ever eloquent Gaz)unless i invite another one in of course. Fortunatly my guy is that guy and ....................I think i'll keep him. Mrs S xoxo i got all that. think i just like fighting but glad to see at leastone of you like roool men. rolled up at the ex's today andcaused an anxiety attack by the way i pulled up.love to make an entrance.......oooppsEarl
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15 years ago
I can imagine. NNNNNNNNEEEEEEEEOOOOOORRRRRR SSSSSSRRRRRRREEEEEAAAAAAACCCCCHHHH SLAM. Stomp stomp stomp. Bang bang bang. Lol. Fab. RFB5.
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15 years ago
Piano...my lips sorta get all confused and it comes out like peeearno. Just thought Id share that with you all RFB 1
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15 years ago
Hi myname. You've been quiet like me lol. I hope your reasons for being AWOL aren't as bad as mine. Lol. RFB5 reporting for duty. Lol.
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15 years ago
be sexy bad boy. girls love it no matter what they say
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15 years ago
Quoting 'fab69'Hi myname. You've been quiet like me lol. I hope your reasons for being AWOL aren't as bad as mine. Lol. RFB5 reporting for duty. Lol. Im having trouble typing let alone doing facial gymnastics (I'll leave that up to you Mein Munchkin) Just in for routine service Fab.....saving my energy for the BIG ONE...31st of July!!! See ya there RFB 5! Zoom Zoom!
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15 years ago
Myname. If you haven't been payin attention I'm coming to Sydney drinks. Be sure to say hi. Hoping Roxy makes it. Oh have you heard for OBS. That will be all of the BanGa sisters damn we should have never given up on that thread and gone for 400 posts. Lol. Ha ha ha. Fab. RFB5.
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15 years ago
I always did enjoy playing with the guys Hugs... Mrs P' XOX
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'fab69'Myname. If you haven't been payin attention I'm coming to Sydney drinks. Be sure to say hi. Hoping Roxy makes it. Oh have you heard for OBS. That will be all of the BanGa sisters damn we should have never given up on that thread and gone for 400 posts. Lol. Ha ha ha. Fab. RFB5. Doing my utmost to convince the fabulous OBS to make an appearance. I happen to know she is in great shape and rearing to go....just gotta stear her in the direction of the roxy...lol Got my fingers, eyes and toes crossed Roxxy will be there too.....'oh what a night!!!!"
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15 years ago
last time i said i was coming i was inundated with mail from men wanting to meet me there or take me so now im running a bit scared but then how could roxxy not be at The Roxy roxxy
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15 years ago
I have the exact opposite effect....I've had to give my word to be nice to some poor precious little prats. Suffice to say...it aint worth the paper its not written on....hehe Ridiculously happy that you're coming...watch out cos Im gunna give you THE biggest HUG! Mwuah!!
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15 years ago
if we dont pick up...which we arent going there for ofcourse...but if we dont then we go home together......what do ya reckon by the way im complaining...im happy getting no mail...to many men scare me, i feel like il be the bearded lady at the fair hahaha roxxy....go the banga sista's
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15 years ago
I have it on good authority that the drinks night is a NON SEXUAL event...How on earth Wayne intends policing that I don't know but Id love to see him try....lol! Whats this about feeling like the bearded lady at the fair?? LOLOL Too funny!! Hey...I said not to wax or shave the magic mound.. not ya face...LOLOL. Not to worry my gorgeous lil Banga sista...I've got your back covered if any big mean muscle bound hunka spunk tries making a move on ya. Together we will ensure theres no escape....mwuahahahahaha
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15 years ago
Well this is going to be great. Just look for the bus. Stuck on the otherwise of the nullabour. The WA contingent look to be stranded. Earls trying to fix the bus. No word from Mikle. Lol. Mooka seems to have dropped his donuts. Well I'm going. Trying to find the banga sister threads. To bring them back to life. Or at least see what we were up to. God time is going so fast. Less than 4 weeks folks. Are you ready. Lol Fab. RFB 5.
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15 years ago
Quoting 'Mynameonurlips' I have it on good authority that the drinks night is a NON SEXUAL event...How on earth Wayne intends policing that I don't know but Id love to see him try....lol! Whats this about feeling like the bearded lady at the fair?? LOLOL Too funny!! Hey...I said not to wax or shave the magic mound.. not ya face...LOLOL. Not to worry my gorgeous lil Banga sista...I've got your back covered if any big mean muscle bound hunka spunk tries making a move on ya. Together we will ensure theres no escape....mwuahahahahaha You want me in a police uniform??? hmmmm... maybe I can do that ;-) Is that a truncheon in my pocket.... hugs Wayne x
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15 years ago
....genuine niceness,works both ways...guy's..try being a woman whether it be on here, or any other site..or in the real world,gy's only want to know and interested in sex and only sex or what ever they can get from you.will use us,till the person that they really want comes onto the scene..So im with you Roxxy and Mickl...rather go with out than be used and fucked around with, and the drama of bullshit...
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15 years ago
Im almost like you. From a time in the past where we only concentrated on a girl one at a Time. Now on this website dating you don't know what you are chasing. Or this being a numbers game that you need to chase several at one time. I don't like doing this. I'm now a guest given up on all but one. Life is more about me now also having fun. Lol. Fab.
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15 years ago
Welcome to the ooze pond Diva101. You're comment is truely noted. I am 90% a nice guy. The whole idea of this thread was to find my own faults. Where I have let others down. That 10%. Don't be shy. Your input is Would be greatly appeciated. I know I can be confusing. I confuse myself alot. Lol. To make a big statement like you have needs more input. I'm not being nasty or sarcastic. Well I just want to be perfect so when I meet the girl of my dreams ( she will be perfect in my eyes ) forever will be there always. Others please feel free to comment. I'm open to criticism. Well it's a beautiful day here. I'm much relaxed putting off my chores. Yes I do house work. Lol. Thanks to all who have helped me with my recent troubles. I can be too much in love. Nothin ventured nothing gained and if you do find that connection dare to leap. Don't worry about hitting the ground as you will survive. To do it all again. Fab. Heading back to the clouds.
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15 years ago
Nice guys always get there......... Nice but norty even better................ Done the bad boy thing.It is all about them from what I remember.... Been married for 20 yrs to the niciest and nortiest guy! Deep down all boys are norty! LOL! Sometimes they just don't know it and need direction! LOL! Stil having fun directing! xoxox MRS SRFUn
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15 years ago
nice 1. pleasant,agreeable,satisfactory 2. kind, agreeable 3. bad or awkward etc etc what a lovely fine day it is and you looked so beautiful cmon fab while you were being so nice she was banging the best man
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