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Niceguys. A Dirty Word.

June 20 2010

Well it is time for me to post this issue. Well are we???? Here probably yes. Are we bad cos we treat women with total respect. Where as the bad boys and those ones which send those annoying " wanna fuck" messages give you gals less trouble. Do we inadvertantly give you a bad taste in hour mouth so to speak by saying too much. Wanting to get to know you first. Then not telling you that there is no spark. We don't mean it. We don't want to leave a trail of broken hearts cos we are looking for meaningful not meaningless encounters. Fab.

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Well mate she was me. Unfortunately for me she was only after the flavour of the month. Well I thank her in my mind for awakening my desires. What it truly feels like to be in love. I was veering worried that such feelings would never exist. We were like a pair of 16 yo together. The experience will last a lifetime. Cest la vie. Being a nice guy means that you are considered. Well iam probably too scary for girls to like. Well what I mean is I have trouble reciprocating their interest in real life. So I probably give off the impression that I'm stuck up or that I could not possibly be single. Well cicumstances have led me to be single. By next week I would have been here 6 months. I've enjoyed every second of my time here. I've actually given up on the chase. I've now been single for the same time. The longest in my life. I have not even gone out clubbing for 3 weeks now. Well I'm missing that. Lol. Should have gone with my daughter on Saturday night. Yes I can dance my ass off and not seem out of place. That is what life is all about. Enjoying every second and being in the NOW ! Dancing helps remind me of that. Bass pumping feeling the music. FCUK everything else. Well I'm learning. Lol. Oh by the way see you all at the S....... D.......... N........ There you might see me at my best. Well I'm working in it. Gettin practise at pool. Lol. I will even play with myself I don't care. Just as well most people ignore me as I my unatural hand usually wins. Lol. Well the last few games I played I got in the zone. Mrs P are you coming???? Fab

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I will even play with myself I don't care. Just as well most people ignore me as I my unatural hand usually wins. Lol. Fab Or out in the open young man? And I thought it was a noonsexual event and you were a niceguy. Hmmm maybe your standards are slipping a little. Kisses Focus

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'focusliason' I will even play with myself I don't care. Just as well most people ignore me as I my unatural hand usually wins. Lol. Fab Or out in the open young man? And I thought it was a noonsexual event and you were a niceguy. Hmmm maybe your standards are slipping a little. Kisses Focus whoo hooo if Fabs standards are slipping then i think i might be in with a chance....YAAAAY roxxy

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Ha ha I'm laughing with you. I didn't realize I was wide open. Lol. Banger sister appentice. Lol. Fab.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    My standards slipping. Me walking around like Micheal Jackson with my hands all over myself in public. Oh yeah. I ain't been single long enough. Lol. I haven't even Dug out my porn yet cos I usually fall asleep. Wow. Me in a slump I think. Well I'm gunna have fun. It looks as if I'm going to have most of the banger sisters and their appentice all to myself. Lol. God I might be in trouble. Need a Beenie to hide my hair. Lol. Fab.

  • StookyAndChooky

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    15 years ago

    nice guys don't get laid only the feral fat bastards do lol female chooky typing this blog by the way I should know my man is honest down to earth guy seems nice guys do cum last even if women do they nice guys come first its a lies lol I love my man being with other women but women seem to get off more if they with a nasty person to a nice person lol it is just me that feels this way

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Domina, how can I contact You?

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'fab69'My standards slipping. Me walking around like Micheal Jackson with my hands all over myself in public. Oh yeah. I ain't been single long enough. Lol. I haven't even Dug out my porn yet cos I usually fall asleep. Wow. Me in a slump I think. Well I'm gunna have fun. It looks as if I'm going to have most of the banger sisters and their appentice all to myself. Lol. God I might be in trouble. Need a Beenie to hide my hair. Lol. Fab. whoo hoo this banga sista is in....look out world roxxy

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I think I am a nice guy.. but I have a bad streak to me. I think I tend to attract girls who put across more that they want to just be friends than well one things leads to another and they are moaning screaming and exploding in a fit of god knows. the bad streak is more just pure cheeky that always lands me in some form of trouble that I don't mean to get in. I just can't help being me. I"m not saying I"m a Casanova. I always see the good in things as it stands there is to much bad shit out there may as well find the good. I don't complain about much. disappointed, dissillusioned nice guys complian about that stuff. does that not make me a nice guy if I don't?

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    ..is on her way. Kisses Focus

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Not to forget The Mistress's apprentice.... Talk about a feeding frenzy...I bags getting this on film...will be bigger than JAWS....

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    So... ummm assuming that the event is not fully subscribed without Moi' ... do I have to bring my own wooden spoon to this Banga Sister's event not to be named..... or is all equipment and props fully catered? :p Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'niceguy0068' Quoting 'Mynameonurlips' I have it on good authority that the drinks night is a NON SEXUAL event...How on earth Wayne intends policing that I don't know but Id love to see him try....lol! Whats this about feeling like the bearded lady at the fair?? LOLOL Too funny!! Hey...I said not to wax or shave the magic mound.. not ya face...LOLOL. Not to worry my gorgeous lil Banga sista...I've got your back covered if any big mean muscle bound hunka spunk tries making a move on ya. Together we will ensure theres no escape....mwuahahahahaha You want me in a police uniform??? hmmmm... maybe I can do that ;-) Is that a truncheon in my pocket.... hugs Wayne x More like a pocket flash light...hehe...you had that one comin...(as Earl would say) HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.....HA

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Mynameonurlips' Quoting 'niceguy0068' Quoting 'Mynameonurlips' I have it on good authority that the drinks night is a NON SEXUAL event...How on earth Wayne intends policing that I don't know but Id love to see him try....lol! Whats this about feeling like the bearded lady at the fair?? LOLOL Too funny!! Hey...I said not to wax or shave the magic mound.. not ya face...LOLOL. Not to worry my gorgeous lil Banga sista...I've got your back covered if any big mean muscle bound hunka spunk tries making a move on ya. Together we will ensure theres no escape....mwuahahahahaha You want me in a police uniform??? hmmmm... maybe I can do that ;-) Is that a truncheon in my pocket.... hugs Wayne x More like a pocket flash light...hehe...you had that one comin...(as Earl would say) HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.....HA HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA (roxxy quoting Earl) roxxy

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Mynameonurlips' Quoting 'niceguy0068' Quoting 'Mynameonurlips' I have it on good authority that the drinks night is a NON SEXUAL event...How on earth Wayne intends policing that I don't know but Id love to see him try....lol! Whats this about feeling like the bearded lady at the fair?? LOLOL Too funny!! Hey...I said not to wax or shave the magic mound.. not ya face...LOLOL. Not to worry my gorgeous lil Banga sista...I've got your back covered if any big mean muscle bound hunka spunk tries making a move on ya. Together we will ensure theres no escape....mwuahahahahaha You want me in a police uniform??? hmmmm... maybe I can do that ;-) Is that a truncheon in my pocket.... hugs Wayne x More like a pocket flash light...hehe...you had that one comin...(as Earl would say) HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.....HA my pocket flashlight... it's one of those 12" long D cell MAGLITES ;-) hugs Wayne x

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    cannie ya noot sae i neekid oonda thus kult.bonnie old Earl

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Well hoot ma coot if it eesn't ma bonnie laddie earl gooen commando unda thart funcy piece of tartan...och aye...it'd be a fine dey on tha marshes when weeeyne and earl shep oop & do the highland fling... meke ma day it would...reeelah poot tha boys to tha test!!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    hoot mon, beee mere than hoopier ta dooo ta flungweee lassie. harve ye goot somewherrre to parrrk mebrrrroadsword. dinnae wanna unjurrrre the natives bonnie girrrrldinnae ya knoooooEarrrrrrl

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Boot arm weth ya arl tha darmn wey when it coomes ta parken ya brrrroadsword...tho could be a beet taight...bin a while... Maneme

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    mwahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahhaochh, beeeen a wheeel ma seellf.ba geentle ooon ma lassie.hoots tha toooots mon.Earl

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    so - with 45 profile registed so far (and quite a few couples)... we're heading towards 80+ people comeing to the Sydney drinks night - great stuff guys. On the night it's hard to know who is who and you want to ensure you get the details of that cute hottie right so you can chase up later... therefore I recommend you check out this post from Mooka who found a hidden gem on the RHP site that we can all use http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Who-would-have-thought-RHP-is-useful-28731 Looking forward too it! hugs Wayne x

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Posted the above post on the wrong thread... sorry guys :-)

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    What a shame - thats the day I head to the UK for a month. But I did have a visual on the drinks front of a "guy bar" - where fem buys cocktail - takes it to the "guy bar" - curtain off back of a ute perhaps - where the cocktail then gets turned into a fluffy duck by one of an assortment of anonymous guys who then hand it back to the female to scull. Better get freezin it boys in ice cube trays. Mwah

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'mikle' Gentle and all on the virginal missus but Earl... then fuck her HARD As the song goes by tenatious D Lol XX I doubt an interpreter is required....you can well imagine my response to the above....aye och grrr

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Nice guys drinks night. Mm we might be a tad lonely. Well I would be Wayning men then. Lol. Ah hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahhaha Fab.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky' So... ummm assuming that the event is not fully subscribed without Moi' ... do I have to bring my own wooden spoon to this Banga Sister's event not to be named..... or is all equipment and props fully catered? :p Hugs Stalky As the apprentice I guess its my job to ensure all equipment is available and in good working order (damn its a tough job) please just message me said requirements to ensure a smoothly organised event - hell who am I kidding? i dont promise a wooden spoon stalky but i do have a very nice bamboo cane that might substitute well...care to try? Kisses Focus

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Focus I've been naughty. I need a spanking too. Fab.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    NICE GUYS FINISH LAST...

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I successfully managed not to have watched that movie...until tonight. Now I know why....I cried like a girl! Maybe even a nice one... Darn!!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'mikle' All you lot having fun over there and me an my mate Earl over here... I know... we should make an event in the middle ground... the Alice!! PMSL. Alice wont know what hit it. Last time i was anywhere close was a few years ago when I spent 7 memorable weeks in Windorah (google if you dont know) that was a hell of a few weeks. I did win some rum though. Drank the pub out of vodka, discovered a fondness for english backackers and gin and tonice realised i seriously hate small towns but had a good time, meet steve irwin (ok so more tham a few years ago) oops sorry Mikle Count me in for a meet and greet in alice - i am sure it will recover unlike windorah Kisses Focus

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Mynameonurlips' I successfully managed not to have watched that movie...until tonight. Now I know why....I cried like a girl! Maybe even a nice one... Darn!! You have tears Spike???? WTF is up with that? ;-)

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    See happens when one combines copious amounts of choccy AND a sentimental romantic movie? Bloody lethal combination!! DO NOT TRY THIS AT HOME FOLKS!!!!!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'fab69'Focus I've been naughty. I need a spanking too. Fab. i think someone else had better help me out here either that or i have a line up of guys bums in theair hehe what fun i could have.... Kisses Focus

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Mynameonurlips' See happens when one combines copious amounts of choccy AND a sentimental romantic movie? Bloody lethal combination!! DO NOT TRY THIS AT HOME FOLKS!!!!! given I've juts bought a couple more blocks of choccy. But I think I'll go watch a MAN movie or Sport or sumfin... hugs x

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Have you been gettin lessons off DominaT. Lol. Fab.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    No choccy and watch sentimental movies on my own (especially not Beaches or -for me - Once Were Warriors) I cry like a girl everytime with those 2. Kisses Focus *needs a new notpad as she keeps taking down pearls of wisdom from the banga sistas*

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Saw those ones too. Cried as well. Lol. Mmm I guess that's to be expected. I've stayed away from all movies for six months now. Lol. Me I could watch Girly flics all day. Well I am a nice guy. I even cry watching Gattaca. Well it's quite moving. Fab.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I have to agree nice guys always finish last ... I pride myself on being considerate, having her needs always looked after first etc. Some of us men do have gentlemanly ways about us, but nice guys do really finish last in life i'm afraid.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Nice guy, bad boy...yadda, yadda, yadda! Fuck I am so over the idea of matching some imagined persona that it hurt Reading the OP. Some people want to be treated like shit, some want to walk on human door-mats. It is my firm opinion that you just need to, no matter who you are, be clear about what you want, be honest about who you are, be as respectful as you want others to be, be polite, be open, don't take shit(unless you want that) and let the cards fall where they may. Not everyone you meet will live by the same motto but you give what you expect to get back and keep moving past the detritus that you will encounter as you go. Good luck.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    well put tatsnmore

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I don't have tats lol. Yes you are right there mate. To be with some one who treats you like shit is no way to live. I guess I needed to learn that lesson. I needed to learn it now. Learn it the hard way and when it was so blatant. That story went to the worst case senario. Lol. Wow I can laugh now. Huh I lost nothing in that lesson and gained so much from the experience. She didn't have a chance I had so much help from all of you. Thankyou all , Wayne. Aka Fab.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    "What a treat sitting back perusing the scrollings of both sex's on such a gen`re as Nice vs Bad Boys...When it cummms down to it, it's what we are looking for in our lives at that very moment, If we were to be honest with ourselves, what are we really seeking, a white night on a white horse wearing leather and studs.I was once told by several wiser older matured ladies, you get what you go for, no point wanting a nice squeakky clean boy, when in fact your inner yearings scream for a bad boy... and visa versa...One other piece of wisdom they hand'd me as well was,What type of bed fellow do you want laying next to you, that's character choice...Once again, no point going for a big person when your dreams are for streamline and power pack'd, and visa versa. ReverandLust. xo.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I know where you can get the BEST HJ in town....only $26!!!!! Where can ya get it???? Just cuts RFB1

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Ha ha hahahahahahahahahahahaha. Just cuts. Not the best place I think. Too many sharp objects around. Lol Fab.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    all men are the same...even the ones you think are nice turn out be be arseholes anyway they put things in your head...but then dont tell you they have changed their minds they just leave you stranded...some pretend to be friends but really just want to screw you over and fuck with your head why the hell cant men just be honest and straightforward i am and im a woman....why is it so hard for a man sometimes nice guys just arent roxxy

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Instead of asking why do nice guys tend to finish last, ask why do bad boys get the girls? You want to know the answer, because Bad Boys play Nice Guys convincingly. Bad Boys are only Bad in hind sight, cause the 'bad boys' i know only became bad when they did something wrong, but until that moment they were 'nice guys'. Girls like nice guys and bad boys know it, so they manipulate and deceive nice girls because everyone likes nice things. In a girls head there isn't a Nice Guy Bad Guy sorting scheme, there is Complete Pricks and Everyone else. Under everyone else there is branch groups which usually consist of the attractive, unattractive but nice, the awkward and then misc. Fact is. The term Nice Guy cannot be generalised, because my ideal nice guy is totally different to someone else. Although i am sure some traits are the same. and there is such a thing as being 'too nice'. Because nice, can mean easy going and easy going flirts with lazy and lazy is related to ignorance. I am sure there is a point where every nice guy has broken another girls heart and not because they wanted to, I doubt anyone that understand what a relationship actually means breaks up with someone because they want them to experience pain and hurt and if so... nice guy has just become a Complete Prick... but as that womans heart is breaking 'nice guys' become 'bad boys.' I really hope I'm stating the obvious here, because if this is a surprize to anyone, well at least you have an indication as to whats going wrong.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    insightful stuff VC! The male species falls naked before you.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    ....but I don't like jerks. I'm strongly inclined towards kind, thoughtful, considerate and, yes, even nice men. There's nothing sexier than genuine sweetness.You know what's wrong with jerks? They jerk you around. That's just not my bag.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Well Chicks DON'T like Nice Guys...so I like this Thread!...:)

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    For me I have always been one of the "nice guys" doing everything right, treating a lady with respect and the whole nine yards. What has it got me. NOTHING. Just girls who want to cheat, use me as a cash source, or just plain use me. Well screw that I will not play that game anymore. I will not lose my loyalty or respect for women but by the same time i will not panda to them anymore. Take me or leave as i am

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    The fact of being nice or not isent for us to judge for ones self .People Being upfront and asking for what you are after can only a good thing. The more honest we are about our expectations the more likely the outcomes will be satisfactory.just be say what you want to and treat the people you contact whith the respect that you expect your selves. please excuse my bad grammer

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I'm with "Jdpartyon"...I know how you feel...BEEN in a LONG Relationship and and was lied to during it!...and found out some "Truths"...really RIPS your ***Heart*** out...

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    For me, being truly who I am is more important than either having sex now or what's gone wrong with that in the past. Sure, being the "nice guy" has had its drawbacks, but that's who I am, and I'd rather be that regardless of the consequences. Besides, everything's going to have its problems. If I were a "bad boy" or even an out-and-out jerk I'd have to deal with what that does just the same. So I'd rather put it out there that I'm a nice guy, as I do on my profile, and wait for women who are looking for that. If I don't get as many messages or propositions as if I'd pretended to be more of bad boy, that's fine. Even if I did try to put on that persona, as soon as we met in real life she'd be able to see it was all a front. And what good would that do either of us? Being screwed-over once or twice isn't going to make me change who I am or believe that all women will do the same if given the chance. If that's a naive belief, at least it's a happy one. :)

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