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Parties...no single men only couples boo hoo
October 29 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'countrytouch' Quoting 'MissBrunette69' Lets do it have a singles party!! Miss B 💋 - Posted from rhpmobile Well ahead of ya, already searching for venues hehe. Whoever has one in their state first can give feedback for others :) I am sure there are couple of options for nice spacious apartments for hire in NSW - Sydney :) A singles party with meet and greet beforehand would be one I would go for!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'The_3somes' I find it funny that the singles on here are complaining about exclusion then want to organise a Singles party? Is that not the same thing lol? Yes but I don't see the conflict. It's not either/or. You can have all types of events. I don't complain about exclusion because I am actually invited to many events, and Melbourne probably has most to choose from. If I wanted to I could go to at least one party every weekend, but that would probably bankrupt me :) The same as there is a market for couples-focused events, there is also market for singles events, swingers or not. The same as there is a market for women's only gyms, for men's sheds, for over 50's events etc etc. I'm certainly not going to complain about not being allowed into Fernwoods, or not being allowed insurance through APIA. :p
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'KrissySYD' I am sure there are couple of options for nice spacious apartments for hire in NSW - Sydney :) A singles party with meet and greet beforehand would be one I would go for! Of course. A meet & greet event first is preferrable. It also allows you to get ideas on future events, feedback on the current one, and to ensure that all future invitees are genuine and respectful. And the fact that they have attended, shows they are probably more likely to show up to other events.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well I have a suggestion... hire a suite in a big hotel in your capital city... The Sofitel in Melbourne... multiple rooms, multiple places to do whatever takes your fancy... sit and enjoy the view if you wish... I am happy to organise... in Melbourne.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I don't even bother applying for those type of parties for the reasons mentioned by the OP. I know what I offer and anyone is welcome to have a look at my profile to see if I'm right for them. However I've been knocked back 4 times in the past because apparently I'm "too kinky for this type of party" as if I walk around with no control over myself, thrusting fetishes upon unsuspecting couples. I know most couples don't give a shit and I know a lot of women would love the opportunity to meet someone with my particular brand of open/honest/safe kink which I dial up or down depending on the person. Couples are always looking for single guys who understand rules and boundaries -- it's like the organisers don't really READ the profile, they just skim the surface. I would suggest some kind of register that guys can jump on for various parties and then allow women and couples who have also registered for the same party to cast some kind of vote that would say you definitely want that single guy to attend. The single women and couples have an opportunity to discreetly see if their profile has anything enticing on it. Maybe you just want to have a drink and put the feelers out or maybe you want to skip ahead to the fun part, but I believe those who are actually attending should have a say. The organisers can then put a cap on the amount of single guys for a healthy ratio. Say the cap is for 10 single guys: take the 20 profiles with the most interest then choose 10 at random to attend. I understand that the number of genuine single guys who are certifiably sane on this website are in short supply but it's rather easy to do. You can even make it so only verfied profiles are allowed to register (guaranteed face pic on profile whether private or public and much more likely to be genuine) which will thin the herd very quickly. What it would also do is improve guys profiles haha. I know mine is far from perfect but most guys will change theirs after seeing a few other profiles that are succeeding at being invited to these events Relying on organisers to select the men for the parties by hand is unfair and goes against the point of the party:it's supposed to be about the attendees. All of them. If the single women attending a party want more single men, I'm happy to attend. But I'm not jumping through any hoops to please an organizer. Organizers, couples and certain single men don't realise something really important: The genuine single guys? The ones who really know what they're doing, are well put together, articulate and with a sense of fun are in really short supply. It's not like we're starved for options that we'll go to great lengths for an organiser when we can just arrange our own meets. The organiser should be doing everything they can to ensure the happiness of their female and couple patrons who want a better selection of single men that attend these parties and it's the organisers turning many away who would be a great addition to a party. Just my two cents. Apologies if these points have already been made
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mexicans
10 years ago
There lies the problem of generalisation "men think with there cocks" . it pisses me right off. I go to parties and yes , do have fun whether sex involved or not . Some men are pushy and expect value for money whether they single or married . The ladies on the other hand can be fun or a high maintenance type . I go for social side as those that know us will agree . There should be a way where singles can attend at nominal cost if there behaviour is known to be acceptable and courteous . I think the high cost is to weed the undesirables out .Had experiences of some rude singles especially when intoxicated .Thats my thoughts on subject , and i did not think with my cock .
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RHP User
10 years ago
I don't see how cost comes into it? Charging more for singles men or women doesn't weed out the undesirable. Just because you have the money to attend doesn't make you acceptable. I Will go chat to a gentleman based on their manners and decency not on the size of their wallet. I often find those with the heavy wallet that you allow in are more arrogant and class themselves above )and yes I'm generalizing according to my experiences ) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I went to a "club" here once upon a time and wanted to have some fun with my guy, started to fool around a bit in a public room, but was very quickly put off by the 20 or so single men (most significantly older "daddy" figures in my eyes, which is not hot for me) crowding around the perimeter of the room, wrinkly cocks in hands watching on eagerly from no more than a meter away from us. That's not my idea of a sexy shared experience, that's what happens when there are no limits put on the number of single males allowed in. Totally gave me the creeps and I never went back there again. Having said that, each to their own, I'm sure there are exhibitionist types out there who loved this vibe. Private parties are the way to go for sure.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Parties should be open for single men as women and not only for them together but also for couples as many couples also enjoy threesomes . Couples who don't want to meet singles in parties should go to only couple parties which is , to my point of view, too limited and a bit boring. But there should be also parties with all kinds of people, bi or not, mixing in a friendly and respectful freedom which doesn't mean that it should be the mess. Some rules of conduct and fair play are necessary but , as we did practice in Europe, we never had any problem with single guys but only, some rare times, with married people who didn't play in a fair way.I am minding to open a swingers sauna club with time for gay men, women, and time for mixed couple/singles. I don't know if I can at the moment but I'm pretty sure that many people would love it if they feel safe and in a open but fair environment.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Mstr_Full' Well I have a suggestion... hire a suite in a big hotel in your capital city... The Sofitel in Melbourne... multiple rooms, multiple places to do whatever takes your fancy... sit and enjoy the view if you wish... I am happy to organise... in Melbourne. sign me up
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'CaptS' Organizers, couples and certain single men don't realise something really important: The genuine single guys? The ones who really know what they're doing, are well put together, articulate and with a sense of fun are in really short supply. exactly As a single woman I want to go to a party where there are genuine single guys - who can hold a conversation, who are articulate, who are respectful, and who are modest and who can behave respectfully..if they are easy on the eye then it is a bonus. However to me it seems the basis of choice at most parties (not all!) is looks - both for single ladies and men ..now I am not looking for a supermodel cos I aint one myself.. I am looking for genuine people with respect, fun, who can behave and treat me and any other lady as the most important gift they ever been given for a few hours!
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MrJingles
10 years ago
MrJingles parties are always great fun with just the right mix of guys, gals and cpls. Come along Its fun...
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RHP User
10 years ago
I couldn't have said it any better myself !! Agree a million times over - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Single men are purely a cash cow.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Thankyou....i would love yo host a sex party for single men and women only and NO couples aloud...lets see how the couples feel. - Posted from rhpmobile
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girlbicurious
10 years ago
Couples does not mean, married, engaged, involved or going out together.It means two people (one of each sex) go together to the club or partyIf you want to enjoy yourself, find a person of the opposite sex and invite them along. Once inside, split and enjoy yourself.That way there is always and even number of men and women.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'girlbicurious' find a person of the opposite sex and invite them along. Errmm... Easier said than done? :P Although a higher possibility on here than asking randomly on the street! Quoting 'girlbicurious' Couples does not mean, married, engaged, involved or going out together.It means two people (one of each sex) go together to the club or partyIf you want to enjoy yourself, find a person of the opposite sex and invite them along. Once inside, split and enjoy yourself.That way there is always and even number of men and women. In my research, don't most parties designed for couples "frown" on that kind of thing? If they want even ratios, they can simply invite even ratios, so what's the point them of calling it a "couples" party? Many even stipulate so on their profiles/websites, that they must be bonafide couples, and sometimes must "both" be playing, and sometimes arrive AND leave together. That's probably half the reason there were apparently single men on the loose (and related dodgy behaviour) at the last Saints event (not that I went, but these were the complaints mentioned on here). I would never go to a couples party under false pretences. If I was going with a fwb/fb for instance, I would admit that and ask the organisers if that was ok. But I have heard of parties that aren't fussy, they just want the ratios and for a single guy to be able to "contribute" a woman to the event. An older documentary by Louix Theroux sees him investigate a swingers party, on such terms, that he bring someone along (which he did, but had no further involvement other than getting in the door). I guess all parties are different and people will just have to ask the organisers exactly what they are and aren't looking for.
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Naughtydouble
10 years ago
We browse around on here but we have a much higher success rate just going out general parties clubs and pubs and its kinda fun when its not a swingers thing great to watch reactions hear what they say and see something quite different in there eyes have had a lot of fun. Shock tease and leave
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RHP User
10 years ago
Rather than put the onus on the organiser and whine and complain, throw your own parties! Its easy enough, and you can make the rules and be as gender specific as you wish with your ratios, don't invite any couples at all and go for your lives. I'm sure if you put the effort in it would be a success. Private Parties are throwing a singles only party in Perth. For the singles sake I hope its a roaring success. But if you don't like the statuts quo the best way to change it is to go and do something about it. Yes an organiser should have his guests wishes first and foremost....after the parameters of that party have been set. Most parties describe exactly what type of party and the guests to expect there in their description. If thats not a party to your liking....don't go. If people stop attending parties and throw their own instead with more success I'm sure you'll see a change in the status quo.
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RHP User
10 years ago
We are on it..... Organising as we speak... Watch this space single peoples!!!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Simpatica2015' Thankyou....i would love yo host a sex party for single men and women only and NO couples aloud...lets see how the couples feel. - Posted from rhpmobile :) especially after the recent topic regarding "women on RHP" I am not interested in going to a party where there are couples. I realized it is not my cup of tea, it does not suit my personality so I am not even going to try it. A party where equal or similar number of single men and single ladies - similar age group - that is all it takes.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yup sign me up too, no couples, long as it's not with old people. Oh that would be people my age lol but i'm sure a cougar can be snuck in on occasion mmm - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm not a groper , I'm not a pest , I don't behave like a dog on heat , and I'm smart enough to know a fool and his money can easily be separated.. Spending time with people I know and where the sex comes without conditions is much more appealing .. But that doesnt mean I wouldn't like the experience of a swingers club .. I'm naturally curious , but I prefer to go with a female just as curious and not as a single guy...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sasha ... Our next event is run by me ... Give me a ratio ads up soon ...u already have my number - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
It seems to me a number of people are just looking for excuses not to attend a swingers/sex party or club. "Too many rules, don't like couples, want the perfect single guy, everyone will be skinny or young, I am scared I won't be attracted to everyone." Guess what? Most people that attend, particularly private parties, are your average Joes and not all of them will be attracted to you either. There will be hot people, skinny people, old people, curvaceous people, voyeurs and exhibitionist. Everyone has some part to play. Single men can be pushy, as can women & married men. It isn't very helpful making such sweeping generalizations. Some parties you will like, some you won't. Everyone is different so asking for people's opinions or accepting a few comments on a forum of strangers is silly. If you are interested in seeing what it's about. Get out there and see for yourself. As always, you only ever do what you feel comfortable doing and nobody is expecting you to do anything - just watch if you want. Pushy people are everywhere you just tell them no, and walk away. Simple as that really. So go on, live life instead of just talking about it.
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'Angel_Whisper' It seems to me a number of people are just looking for excuses not to attend a swingers/sex party or club. "Too many rules, don't like couples, want the perfect single guy, everyone will be skinny or young, I am scared I won't be attracted to everyone." Guess what? Most people that attend, particularly private parties, are your average Joes and not all of them will be attracted to you either. There will be hot people, skinny people, old people, curvaceous people, voyeurs and exhibitionist. Everyone has some part to play. Single men can be pushy, as can women & married men. It isn't very helpful making such sweeping generalizations. Some parties you will like, some you won't. Everyone is different so asking for people's opinions or accepting a few comments on a forum of strangers is silly. If you are interested in seeing what it's about. Get out there and see for yourself. As always, you only ever do what you feel comfortable doing and nobody is expecting you to do anything - just watch if you want. Pushy people are everywhere you just tell them no, and walk away. Simple as that really. So go on, live life instead of just talking about it. welcome to the forum. hope you are enjoying it. I think some of your posts make sense and thanks for sharing Have we met before? Your writing is very familiar but maybe you have been here before and just a name change. Welcome just the same.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'd love to come to a party that you're at Sasha, especially if you're wearing those sexy heels! Let me know when you want to go to one x !!!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm not sure what post your reading and who your comments are directed at? I don't judge, or make excuses. I go.. My post, concern , angst , has NOTHING to do with personal appearance in anyway. It is do with being a single lady and being "expected" to enjoy a couple. I would like to play just as much as the next person but I choose my preferences not the couples.. I am simply annoyed that couples seem to think they dominate this world, and I am sick of seeing single men (some my friends) constantly being ignored , pushed to the side , OVER CHARGED just because of a " perception...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Are you hitting on me in an open forum ? Or should I be checking my inbox? ☺️ :) :) :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Sasha_007' I'm not sure what post your reading and who your comments are directed at? I don't judge, or make excuses. I go.. My post, concern , angst , has NOTHING to do with personal appearance in anyway. It is do with being a single lady and being "expected" to enjoy a couple. I would like to play just as much as the next person but I choose my preferences not the couples.. I am simply annoyed that couples seem to think they dominate this world, and I am sick of seeing single men (some my friends) constantly being ignored , pushed to the side , OVER CHARGED just because of a " perception... In my experience, its the single women who dominate this world, not couples. The fact of the matter is most parties are geared towards couples because couples host them. They want to be with other couples or women as the woman in that couple is bisexual. Singles can go to a pub/club/any fucking where and pick up other singles and not be frowned upon. Couples unfortunately aren't afforded the same luxury. Why do a lot of parties not cater to the single man? Because a lot of men in couples aren't bisexual and thus not interested in men. You'll find a lot of the women are however, and so they like more women there. If this upsets you and you don't wish to play with couples, don't attend these parties. Go to other parties or even pleasure lounge. There's plenty of single guys there.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hey hun I will be having a private party in January at my home, I will be inviting my friends that consists of couples and lots of lovely single females and males. I will also encourage the singles to bring a single friend with them to meet new people as well.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well would you be partial to me hitting on you?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Thanks ms silk look forward to it! :) @downunderwonder my preference is that this discussion should be private - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Think thas reet luv, single blokes get priced out or turned away at the door as it really is caterd for couples who wana spice things up. Hence attractive women like ur self bein brought in as dare i say it, bait. To get the rich couples in, now a bit of swingin never hurt no one but if thats not ur thing then i think u shud let me take u for a beverage & we can discuss it further. A single guy. - Posted from rhpmobile
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