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Sex - How Many Have you Slept With?
July 16 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
numerically challenged and I only have ten fingers...no eight fingers two thumbs...er..what was the question again Oh yes...how many people have I slept with...hmmm I never sleep if someone else is in the bedx Hugs H
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm so sending this link to my cheating ex so he can read this bit of info He will expire ( always has been my desire) from choking to death induced by laughing so hard !!! 24 ....pftt ...funny as As for me a lady never kisses and tells.....some subjects are not for forums ... This is one of those subjects
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RHP User
13 years ago
And what's the average age of persons that these statistics were taken from? In a lifetime? At 30? At 50?
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RHP User
13 years ago
......and less than Sharon Stone
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RHP User
13 years ago
Me? More than Mother Theresa ... just a tad less that Belle de Jour! I remember a part in American Pie...that when it comes to partners, what number a male gives you...you halve! And for women...you double! Would anyone REALLY be honest with their numbers? I saw the movie What's Your Number...and it made me piss myself when she was writing her list...I so could relate to her when it came to writing a list! Guy at park Guy in the back of the train Cop under the Bolte Bridge Cop with muscles Bwahahahahahaha.... Hugs...xFunlovingx
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RHP User
13 years ago
7 I cant believe people on THIS type of site are being so weird about answering this question. People on here say some quite disgusting things and yet they are to ashamed to reveal a number ? Why are people so embarrassed? Perhaps you shouldn’t be on this site if you’re already uncomfortable with your number of sexual partners. - Chloe.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Just waiting, to see who the biggest braggers are. I call rule of threes'Felonius
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RHP User
13 years ago
a gentlemen would never ask - and a lady would never tell(but if one did ask, id lie and give my standard response of "oh about 20 or so,")that is quite an understatement, but I have learnt never, ever to reveal the real number as boy has it caused some problems in the past when I have!apparently only men can be promiscuous and get away with it? who woulda thought hey!
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RHP User
13 years ago
It gave similar stats (maybe the very same, I don't remember) so we did a quick poll around the lunch room, at work. Most of the women claimed two or three lovers throughout their lives (it was mostly a middle aged group) with one of the lasses admitting to five. With this as a control group, you've got to wonder how high the count can get for an individual to lift the average from three to eleven.
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RHP User
13 years ago
How is this list supposed to be counted anyway? If we discount the fact that you're being coy by phrasing it as "sleeping with" and we all deny sleeping, does it have to have been in a bed to count as bedding them?Does it count if they made me cum but they didn't cum and vice versa? Is penile/vaginal penetration the decider? In which case does it immediately make me a girl-on-girl virgin again? What about anal?What about anal if a girl did it to me with a strapon?The devil's in the details, as they say...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Only 2 at the same time. Oh, wait, that's not what you're asking...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Meaning: had sex with while sleeping... (to go the PC version, wet dreams) HUNDREDS!!!!! :D
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RHP User
13 years ago
"How many STD's do you have?" (or have had or have risked by being stupid). In my case, none. THAT is the question I personally prefer to have answered :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Funny how many people responded to the forum about the wierdest place that've done or rimming or their GB + orgy experiences, but the phrase 'Men don't ask and women don't tell' suddenly applies to this question. - just an observation.Mine is no more than 20, though I am only young. My goal is to beat Pierre Woodman and Wilt Chamberlain, but with quality ofcourse...lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well, I like promiscuous women... significantly increases my chances of getting some!In fact, I only recall sleeping with one women who was less experienced than I... Maybe I should learn to lie better.
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RHP User
13 years ago
this may come as a shock.....women liex Hugs H
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totallygenuine
13 years ago
Greyeyeshobart now I definitely need to bring the priest with me 2 at the same time huh???? TG.
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RHP User
13 years ago
my god a number i would say proberbly over 500 females,,,,,, see i used to live at swingers clubs when ever they were open. So come people call me a slut.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Hesione'this may come as a shock.....women liex Hugs H LOL no we don't,hehe! Loved your 1st comment too.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Generally men overstate, women understate.
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RHP User
13 years ago
after the first.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Hesione'this may come as a shock.....women liex Hugs H You just don't tell the truth, big different.
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RHP User
13 years ago
difference*
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Smilingwithfun
13 years ago
Who cares, its you you are with now that counts.
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RHP User
13 years ago
750 +++ , i would say ' how many people have i slept with ' well there was this one weekend, back in 1978 where i think the count was somewhere around 250, per night for 3 nights... yep that was the June long weekend, and we were on the motorcycle Snowy Run Rally, and 250 of us all slept together in the Dalgety Town Hall, just out of Jinderbine ... friday to sunday so by my maths 250 people x 3 nights = 750 , number of sexual partners ..... now that different all together
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RHP User
13 years ago
from faded memory let c (12+12-24+0+7)*0 ahh not good at numbers...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Nice profile picture by the way. It looks really familiar, almost like I've seen it before...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Both sexes lie in these surveys, men up the number because its okay for them to be promiscuous, the more the better!!! And women lower the number, so as not to seem too slutty...
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RHP User
13 years ago
None, zip, nada, zilsch, not a single one etc etc.Why, I hear you ask? Simple, I was awake for each n every single one of them :-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Men HAVE had..... Women CLAIM to have had...... . Oh you doubting Thomas...... . As for me....I have had as many sexual partners as I wanted to have, when I wanted, how I wanted and I do not feel the need to tell anyone how many that is...or was...or maybe in the future.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Great answer Hesione....not even after an intense play session ? LOL
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RHP User
13 years ago
i never kept count, but at a guess it'd be high 20's to low 30's.i can still name first 10 or so in order.and no, i'm not overly proud of the fact that the count has gotten that high although some people might be.
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RHP User
13 years ago
@TGYes, please bring along the priest. I have confessions to make too, and these demons of mine need exorcising... It's going to have to be some holy, holy, holy water to work though.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Boys may keep count..Men don't..
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RHP User
13 years ago
So men can't count ( bit like they can't measure) and women lie.I don't care if women lie..........long as they do it with their legs open
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well i did use to keep a list in a book but it only had 126 pages and each page has 32 lines and i used the last page 4 years ago June 21 must have been the solstice !!! So lets see that is 4032 I am 39 now and lost my virginity at 15 so that is 24 years less the for years making that 20 years of book keeping. Ok so we have 201.6 per year but i was married and 100% faithfull for 7 years in there so subtract the 7 years that makes 4032 / 13 = 310.153846153 per year( hmm 46 wasted days every year) add the 4 years 1240.61538461 plus the book 4032 = 5,272.61538461 Dam who was that girl the .61538461.....? so that is 782 wasted days in the past 17 years What was teh question again ?
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RHP User
13 years ago
if a guy gives me a very high number, i assume that though the package may be appealing, the sex wasn't good enough for many of the women to come back for seconds, thirds, thousands... If I had to pick an ideal sexual partner, I'd pick someone who has had a whole lot of sex with a modest number of women, especially if he wasn't in a relationship with several of them. My best sex partner by far was a philosophy grad student who had never had a girlfriend but had been FBs with a modest number of women for 10 of his 33 years. While I think money spent on buying dick is always a bad investment, I would be willing to make an exception for him alone. My second best sex was with a boyfriend, a young'un who had only slept with his two girlfriends.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I had only slept with 6 guys by the time I was 24........then we stumbled upon a sex websiteXXX
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RHP User
13 years ago
i used to slepp in the same room with my children, when they were very little, and were not well, because my lazy wife couldnt be bothered with the kids when they were sick. i was a good father then, and still am a darn good dad today, but they are now all grown up and moved on with their lives. as for sexual partners. it was 2. my ex wife and my current wife. and thats all we do is sleep. no action happening today, cause she is not interested.
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RHP User
13 years ago
for the sake of keeping count may be childish, but you should probably be able to list and locate every sex partner in recent history from a public health perspective. As for my number, for penetrative sex, I'm averaging about 2/year for every year of sexual activity. In reality, just lots of Goldilocks-ing, finding the just right and exploring, having the sort of mind blowing sex that makes you forget/neglect the little things (work, school, eating, friends, family, chores).... and then moving to a new country or finding a boyfriend who's not nearly as good but gets the job done
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brent3250
13 years ago
been in long relationships most of my life my first was when i was 19 , so ive only slept with 5 woman
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RHP User
13 years ago
or is that 2 + 2 or two ate two... umm, seriously' I stopped counting years ago, but I would say the average of 24 for a male would be fairly close.... tried to do a head count and got confused at about 20 and then found myself double dipping... naturally Im gunna err on the side of more than less... after all' my pride is at stake here ' so if I missed anyone I'd feel cheated... oppps why is my nose growing >> hmmmmUm'' seriously.... confident of 24.. give or take 1 or a few...
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RHP User
13 years ago
I can count them on one hand but everyone has been a stunner! Who cares how many would you go there again should be the question.
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QLDtwo4fun
13 years ago
More since marriage than before,
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RHP User
13 years ago
Australian men have on average 24 sexual partners, and women claim to have bedded 11 partners on average. And with roughly equal numbers of men and women in society I knew there were way, way more bi curious men than were letting on. Any port in a storm, fellas...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Just the other day I asked my kiwi mate how many sexual partners he has had. He said " Dunno bro, every time I try to count them I fall asleep"
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RHP User
13 years ago
I know there are some I would rather forget.Cass xxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
60 you can think i am liaring but i dont care and no not proud of it wish i didnt break many girls hearts now paying the price thats why i am single for
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don't sleep with mine... so none. :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
who counts? ffs lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'gavmac' Just the other day I asked my kiwi mate how many sexual partners he has had. He said " Dunno bro, every time I try to count them I fall asleep"
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hmmm let me think...More than Madonna ..... (well maybe?)but less than Gene Simmons.... ( He really did KISS & TELL!)Practice makes perfect & Safe Sex is good practice.And in the words of Jack Nicholson's character..."You can't handle the truth!!"
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'PrudishNympho'My best sex partner by far was a philosophy grad student who had never had a girlfriend but had been FBs with a modest number of women for 10 of his 33 years. While I think money spent on buying dick is always a bad investment, I would be willing to make an exception for him alone. That's very interesting Nympho. Do you think the fact that he never has a girlfriend is a key factor which drives him into investing a lot of effort into his performance? For example, Wilt Chamberlain who is notorious for having slept with more than a thoudsand of women addressed that it is because of all of the rejections he had experienced, that he regress his romantic failures into sex seeking behavior.
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RHP User
13 years ago
.....yes honestly 4 (........and que the sledging........hahaa) Always had longterm partners which generally puts a stop to a decent number tally. ....Hence why i am here.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Where did OP go?
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RHP User
13 years ago
...Um I dont know. I would estimate that mine would easily be in triple digits. I used to be a regular at GBs and didnt keep count of the number of people there....my Mother calls me a slut (affectionately and for a damn good reason) even if I was pressed and asked to count them I still couldnt tell you. I was once asked this question one boring night at an abattoir I once worked at and I couldnt give them an accurate answer even then. This was 5 years prior to my joining RHP. I dont care how many sexual partners a person has or has had as long as they are clean. Kisses Focus
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have heard men want the woman to be his first and women want the man to be heri last - I would say high 20's
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RHP User
13 years ago
Taking into account the halve it/double it rule Mr and I are both above average... Honestly lost count and probably couldn't give you a number even if pressed...
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RHP User
13 years ago
I totally agree
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have been in 4 relationships So 4 is my number Never had a one night stand ,its just not me, im greedy I take quality over quantity.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I've never really had a view on what number is or isn't reasonable - mine or his. I've had sex with enough men to know that I don't want to add any more to my list unless it's in a passionate, loving, deeply connected way. I do know a man whose number is over 2000. Yes, that's 2000, not 200. I haven't had sex with him, so I can't comment on how skilled he is, but I know he got there via some unhealthy hang ups. Alarm bells right there! The most extraordinary sex I've ever had - and it was breathtaking every single time - was with a man who'd had 4 partners before me. Not only was he astonishing, he brought out something in me that no man before or since has seen. He had an incredible, intuitive sense for how to touch me. I was a much better lover with him than I ever knew I could be. Numbers ... who cares ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
To know better than to kiss and tell....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Before I started typing I was convinced I would reveal my number.... then i thought.. hold on.. I KNOW that my number doesn't reflect anything about my character, my values or what i believe to be right or wrong.. I KNOW its just an indication as to how many people out there felt that they could connect with me on such a level that they were happy to get into bed and NOT sleep with me... but have great amazing sex with me most of whom I am still friends with!I know that if i said my number it would mean nothing to anyone else except maybe provide a premise on which to judge me.. by those who dont know me.. and on a site like this.. I have to say its a bit like the pot calling the kettle black!!! I agree with you Chloe_doll...If mine was less than 10.. you might think.. awh.. inexperienced or cute.. especially for a 27 year old, fit, confident, healthy and outgoing guy.. you might think i was rather reserved and probably VERY BORING!If mine was more than 50 you might say.. ok thats about average (despite what those rubbish surveys say)...If it was 150... well maybe some of you are thinking.. if you've had group sex or enough 3 ways maybe you can bulk up the numbers... 150.. a big number but for some im sure you're still thinking.. AMATURE ...To be honest, although i never counted as such, I stopped taking notice when i was 19.. and somewhere in the 40's... I was single and I knew then that I wanted to enjoy and share myself with people I was attracted to.. that was before I was the man I am today, as confident and as enthusiastic and as open minded... no STDs, no close calls and no dramas... and i have enjoyed 3 strong relationships in between my fun and frolicks ...Does it actually matter what your number is??? Some people think if they sleep with you they could tell... well .. come to bed then and lets see... just be sure to add 1 to your total x
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Waterbabes' I had only slept with 6 guys by the time I was 24........then we stumbled upon a sex websiteXXX Then someone introduced me to RHP :-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thats a different story. In that case l would guess only about 999. just cant understant why my nose keeps growing. .?
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Goodvintage
13 years ago
150+ Was single and lived and worked all around the world ... a great time was had by all...some nice cultural exchanges...Never had any STD's...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Some of my most memorable moments have been when travelling.. Just love the differences....
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casanovastudd
13 years ago
...on average its usually about 20 - 25 a month.
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RHP User
13 years ago
6 . 2 before I meet my wife 3 from RHP in the last 2 years yep 6 in total & btw I am 41 . & I maybe the only honest person here
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RHP User
13 years ago
Ummm does it count when youv'e been intoxicated and cant remember?? But remember a room full of horny people earlier! Hmmm,, Ummm.. ??? FUCK IT !! TOO HARD !! Who gives a shit really about numbers ! It's what you remember about the sex that counts ! It's got to have you wanting more , over and over again, weather your with 1 or 20 sexual play mates a month! I'm sure wev'e all had a few not worth counting !
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RHP User
13 years ago
Can U ask you something ??? If you getting 25 roots each month... why do you need to be here ???Pinoccio found a new home... Dont confuse your handy work with the real thing....
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RHP User
13 years ago
twenty-five different women a month and ten days for repeats Mr.Cassonova?You are indeed worthy of your chosen name. I looked at your profile,impressive validations. Jay I doubt he is a Pinocchio...not a big nose ......x Hugs H
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RHP User
13 years ago
The subject is people you have slept with, so repeats don't count.Some quick averages for Casanova.Lets be conservative and say 20 chicks in a 30 day period.He needs to bed a new fem every 30 hours on average.That's just averages though, he may be really prolific on weekends,and less active during the week.In any case it sounds like a full time job, but not impossible.Some guys just have that ability to talk a chcik out of her knickers and onto her back...lolIs it sex addiction? who knows.Sounds like it works for him and the chicks, good on him I say!Cheers Felonius
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RHP User
13 years ago
A man that sleeps with so many women, really cant take a critic so he never goes back the second time. My list is bigger than Santas and just as full of lovely toys
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RHP User
13 years ago
I've had sex with about 12 girls.My one time with a blonde girl from new zealand she was awesome.
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RHP User
13 years ago
More than 25 for MR, and perhaps more than 35 for Mrs
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RHP User
13 years ago
Im still a virgin
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Midnight_Run81' To know better than to kiss and tell.... Whilst not a huge number, i known enough lovely lads and lass's to know what i like ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I used to be a blonde girl from New Zealand... oh but my Marcus would have to be a couple of years older than me...
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Playful2looking
13 years ago
Oh dear men have never slepted with as many women as they say. Women always underestimate the number of partners. From my limited research women have had way more partners then men on adverage. ask the single men on here how hard it is to get laid then ask the single women. The difference is men are more likely to cheat once in a relationship; where as women fuck like bunnies between relationships. When a guy is in a realtionship he seems to get a a lot more attention from women. When he is single women seem to know and avoid. The best wingman a single guy can have when out looking. is another woman either your sister or just a close friend. The women take notice of you and get competitive.
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RHP User
13 years ago
74.5 .5 was boring n fell asleapp lmao
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RHP User
13 years ago
I've heard things like this often before, and I'm no statistician, but it has always confused me enormously. How is it numerically possible for men to have on average 24 partners and women 11? Putting to the side the gay fraternity and the sapphic sisterhood (which we'll assume numerically balance each other out), if it's a statistical average, for every different partner a male has, a female has to have a different partner in return. And since there are a roughly equal numbers of men and women, the ratio of averages should be roughly 1:1.I find it an interesting brain teaser, actually. I can see how if there weren't equal populations you could have a different number. eg. if there are 2 women and 1 man, and the man sleeps with both women, the male average is 2 and the female average is 1. But if there's 2 of each, both averages are 1. The statistic could theoretically be possible if it's only counting people who have had sex at least once. I'm trying to abstract out if there are other conditions that would validate the figures. Yes, this sort of puzzle may or may not be giving me an erection. Maybe I SHOULD be a statistician.Assuming the polling methods are sound (which is a big assumption), it's also possible that a) they're the median numbers, not the mean numbers, b) men inflate their number and women devalue it, or c) all of the above.As for me, tally up another "I don't kiss and tell." Enough to know what I'm doing*. Not enough to think I can't learn anything**.*"Insert Tab A into Slot B!"*"Wait, what's Slot H and Tab R? Is it supposed to look like that? And what the hell is this Allen key for?!"
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RHP User
13 years ago
That's not too bad an effort. If I lost my virginity at 15 then it's almost 2 a year. Nothing wrong with being a serial monogamist :P
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RHP User
13 years ago
No Girls , becasue they were all ladies
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RHP User
13 years ago
Your thinking is flawed! Cheers Felonius
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RHP User
13 years ago
maybe 8..
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RHP User
13 years ago
Agreement!!! its like males want you to be this sexual deviant but have had very few sexual partners!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'feloniusfossil' Your thinking is flawed! Cheers Felonius But is my reasoning?
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RHP User
13 years ago
What if i don't keep a count and have kind of lost track? Hell maybe I should have kept their jocks or something. Minxy x
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RHP User
13 years ago
13 women. Only a couple were boring in bed.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have never kept a tally .....and never ...will.....I believe it is a respect thing:)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Three serious relationships, one friend with benefits and the 5th......well......he's special.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Jason is your nose growing ha ha at twenty 74.5 is the amount of times you think about sex and pull your cock between breakfast and smoko
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RHP User
13 years ago
Something inbetween 30-40. Not sure exactly how many. cant wait to make the half century!! lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
what a great answer
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RHP User
13 years ago
Lol 24 in a lifetime.... try 24 in one night ok...maybe only half that ;)
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J_N_L
13 years ago
A few more if you count oral sex. I've only had sexual intercourse with women I've dated. That could be why my number seems low in comparison to the OP's stated Australian male average of 24
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RHP User
13 years ago
....how many I've slept with and yes I am keeping count, but I won't tell :-) I'm just saying I'm closer to the male average than to the female lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
it would be nice to be young enough to still remember how many men there have been but at my age my memory isnt that good any more! I went without for 8 yrs after my divorce so I think I can indulge a bit more now! I look at it as making memories for the nursing home!
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RHP User
13 years ago
so double that
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