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Sex - How Many Have you Slept With?

July 16 2012

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I'm sure research will vary depending on the source... But I've found this:   Australian men have on average 24 sexual partners, and women claim to have bedded 11 partners on average.   Question... How many people have you slept with?   Just a curious question...if you're keen to answer, start your reply with your number, then provide a comment.

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  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    As long it is safe count does not matter... I do not count for me it`s pleasure and having good time! Sex up ur life! Fuck And Fly

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I prefer quality and want to develop my experience with same partner more and more. I never thought that it was just a one night ? I wish I would have a time machine , the unprepared one night stand can't forgetting I am missing her so much , I am so helpless

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Still blown away that people are being so coy about the question, seriously, why bother writing a whole paragraph on why you're playing your cards close to your chest when in your profiles you have disclosed that you're interested in being pissed on and copping it up the arse?. Oh the irony.Oh, about 12 or so I think?.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    all I know is if they fall asleep I'm doing something wrong, aside from that it's my business!

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    If I were to sit down and work it out, I expect I could come up with a number that might be close but would it be accepted or would you (or others) think I was skiting or exagerating. It's really a no win situation for some of us and maybe we'd like to voice that opinion even though it doesn't answer the question asked. If you don't like it, feel free to skip over this post and move on to the next.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    more to the point would be, who was memorable....and that number is fivex Hugs

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I have a nice feeling when I saw your pro

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I have a nice feeling when I saw your pic

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    what? this week? hahah

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'jensman1903' If I were to sit down and work it out, I expect I could come up with a number that might be close but would it be accepted or would you (or others) think I was skiting or exagerating. It's really a no win situation for some of us and maybe we'd like to voice that opinion even though it doesn't answer the question asked. If you don't like it, feel free to skip over this post and move on to the next. Seriously, I'm not really that interested, but what is bemusing is peoples willingness to post a whole page of stuff about not wanting to answer, when the best way not to answer is to say nothing. As for judging anyone? why would I be on a sex site judging people?, I'm hoping everyone here is mega promiscuous and horny (not really fussed about blokes to be honest).

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I would say this is about right while in high school lot of action from 2nd half of yr 11 and all of yr 12 (thanks to studies that I attended away from home).While in Uni - quite busy in between exams (great for stress relief), cowgirls and foreign students from Europe you rock girls...After Uni (life as a photographer has its benefits)Then life in Hollywood as a photographer benefits tripled.... showing awards, still on movie sets, magazine covers definitely pays off.Move to Perth, decrease in action until after divorce...Yep I would say that number is about right....Granted, I'm no Wilt Chamberlain with over a 1000 reported...

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Half whatever a guy says and double whatever a woman says.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Hmmm, ...maybe I should say 500 then???

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Just kidding.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I didn't realise I was supposed to be keeping count. Whoops.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    love it! an honest answer!

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I too am finding it unusual and slightly hilarious that everyone seems to be exploring the question and the ethics of asking, rather than just answering. Surely it doesn't matter in a place like RHP?   I would estimate my (Kitten's) count at ~25-30. Lost my viginity at 15, youngest guy I ever slept with was 19 and a virgin, eldest was 45 and a married CEO.   There ya have it!

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    but we never EVER fart

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    24 average? thats a bit harsh. I'd say only a few have been average, definitely one wish-I-hadn't-bothered, but otherwise, i'd say a good dozen lovely above average woman   ( I wish I could include a few that I regret now that for some dumb reason or other at the time, I didn't go with my desires.... if I could include the wish-I-hads, I could get somewhere close to the stats )

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    but I have had sex with 17 men and 2 women.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    iv'e fukced but slept with.......

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    ... but who's counting. :)

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Hi lots time omg For 1yer with 22yer women I'm haw sex 876 time

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I asked him how many partners he had had. he said " dunno bro, every time I try to count them I fall asleep"

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    And as long as you play safe numbers just mean more experiences and an opportunity to get new ideas! It sure has been fun reading this forum topic MsC xo

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    do you mean how may in each state? hmmm will get back to you

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Sexy135' Hi lots time omg For 1yer with 22yer women I'm haw sex 876 time Well at least one of your brains is getting a workout.Quoting 'gavmac'I asked him how many partners he had had. he said " dunno bro, every time I try to count them I fall asleep"

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    16. I'm not afraid in letting people know i'm sexual. why should women be ashamed or worried by how many partners shes had because of fear of being labelled slut while guys are usually congratulated the higher the number. And i havent even scratched the surface of what i want to do with men ;) x

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    My numbers around 15...... but thats doesnt include trips to the brothel :S

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    died when he was 73 and according to his memoirs had sex with 120 womenx Hugs H

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Most men talk themselves up. I believe the guys who say "4 cause I've had long term girlfriends" and of course good old turbo_staplz! Quoting 'turbo_staplz'My numbers around 15...... but thats doesnt include trips to the brothel :S very funny!

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Just remember all the good ones

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    i always had a list of men id slept with names and what kind of lover i stoped writting them at about 60 i know its over 100 but not to much as i started feeling guilty id slept with so many and i didnt want to go ummmm i cant remember his name or who was that i forgo tmen fuk alot its great it shows they r romeo and can get laid obviously cause they r good at it or whatever reason its great for men to have a decent list but women its frowned apon thus why women wont tell u the honest amount we dont want to b judged by alot of u men or alot of u women men who want it all the time and if u could u would do it often with many as ive noticed in my many years of talking to men not saying allll men but the majority would yet u want to b the first not the last which is near on impossible these days i started being sexually active at a very young age to young now i look back wayy to young but u cant change things i was very aware of my sexual power didnt understand it just knew i had it i settled down with first partner at 15 he was 25 and did my parents try and sperate us but i was pretty independant by then and so they had to except it and i was a country girl most the gilrs in my class were pregnant at 15 both my kids were very planned by both parties now i may scare alot of males away and it doesnt mean im a slut either but if i started at 13 im 42 now so 29 yrs sexually active i was in relationship or relationships for approx 14 yrs of those 29 yrs leaves approx 15 yrs ive been single and able to have sex with diff men so if u work that out on a average it doesnt sound so bad lol sometimes im embarrassed to say as men and women judge u based on it r presumptious and presume yr a slut im far from i just love sex and sadly meet users and liars my matres have even tried to date me up and they even still pik the same assholes i do some have been great decent men but most r liars and i have heard some lies in my life but when u hear the best u r shoked u here another even better ive had one nighters and lovers over periods ive had a few lovers at once now i prefer regular lover im very fussy i know what i want and i would rather wait for the perfect mix than just anyone i love intimacy im very loyal when im with someone yet the ellusive mr right for me is still a mystery ive just got rid of my last lover today after finding out hes been lying through his teeth to me and he came across decent honest and a good man yet he wasnt sadly he was stringing me and others along so here i am back again in the never ending search for a agood man that i am attracted to on every level so there u go i decided to let it out and b honest as im very honest sadly and u know its a relief to say it there its done im still me and im still a good decent woman i simply have been luky to have had variety in my life give or take a few complete twots so ladies dont b worried about what others think they will think it anyway u know what im sayingxxx and no never once have i got a std thankgod

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    mrsf- alot and I am soooooo not delving into numbers.. but I play safe and I enjoy it so who cares right?! lolmrf- also alot, but again safely and all in fun :D

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'xFunlovingx' Me? More than Mother Theresa ... just a tad less that Belle de Jour! I remember a part in American Pie...that when it comes to partners, what number a male gives you...you halve! And for women...you double! Would anyone REALLY be honest with their numbers? I saw the movie What's Your Number...and it made me piss myself when she was writing her list...I so could relate to her when it came to writing a list! Guy at park Guy in the back of the train Cop under the Bolte Bridge Cop with muscles Bwahahahahahaha.... Hugs...xFunlovingx There is such movie? That is freaking hilarious! I would say at least 20 percent of my list would be composed of those nameless descriptions. That's what a lot of traveling does to a single woman... where was it exactly? with whom? aaah doesn't matter.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    A total of 6 until I turned 40 - we have been happily married for 24 years, we still are but now we include other people in our beds on occasion ! ...................................................................... I am not sure how many men I've slept with now , I play safe , I work hard so party rarely - but when I party - I REALLY like to be naughty . Id say the number is around 30. ............................................. I feel like I have satisfied an itch , so now heading more to quality meets and playing with men I know and like . I've learnt alot about myself during this time, and have loved every orgasmic second of it!

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    A total of 6 until I turned 40 - we have been happily married for 24 years, we still are but now we include other people in our beds on occasion ! ...................................................................... I am not sure how many men I've slept with now , I play safe , I work hard so party rarely - but when I party - I REALLY like to be naughty . Id say the number is around 30. ............................................. I feel like I have satisfied an itch , so now heading more to quality meets and playing with men I know and like . I've learnt alot about myself during this time, and have loved every orgasmic second of it!

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    8 my whole life.

  • sprong

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    13 years ago

    Most of the studies done on this (apparently scientist get horny too), it turns out that guys are usually quite truthful with the numbers, and girls almost universally under report sexual partners. The prevailing theory is that women are under ubiquitous social pressure to appear 'chaste', where as the guys are not... From a bilogical point of view, you'd think it would average out evenly (I mean,all those straight guys must be sleeping with women, right?). But I dont know if that's because some women get waaaay more sex than the average, or not... There's always that scene from 'Mr and Mrs Smith' where they confront each other over how many people they've seduced... Angelina Jolle: 312 Brad Pit: What?! How? Angelina Jolle: Some were two at a time... :)

  • Mr_MrsJones

    Mr_MrsJones

    13 years ago

    I find a lot of the time that people presume that because I am here, and because there are semi nude photos of me out there on the big bad world of the interwebs (not just on here) and because I write about sex and post said stories on my blog that I am quite promiscuous (I know that isn't spelt right but I don't really care right now!!). The reality is that compared to most of the respondents here my number is quite small, about 20, over my whole life. I sometimes feel embarrassed, not because the number is that high, it really isn't. But because it is smaller than some people assume it is. I am not falling around with my legs in the air for every person who walks past me and shows interest. Whoda thunk it?   Mrs Jones.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    "Australian men have on average 24 sexual partners, and women claim to have bedded 11 partners on average."I'm confused. 11 women sleep with 11 men. Does that mean there are 13 men (to make up the 24 men in total) left over who are sleeping with women who don't exist?

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    When I was living in Europe and the US, petite tanned ladies seem to be an exotic attraction. So anyway, here goes:I had sex with at least 150 men and 12 women, excluding hand jobs and repeats acts. I have been in threesomes but never orgies or swingers' parties. I live my life the way I want to live it. Enough said!

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    me about 4 or 5 and my gf about 6 or 7

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'unfrogettable'... but who's counting. :) Oh, Actually slept with? That's different.... um...4.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    To many I'm love sex 4 -5 different women ewry night before marry nothing wrong stel want more end more live life

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    A gentleman never kisses and tells....be it 1. He is secure in the fact that his partner won't care. 2. He's not alive to be able to

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    but easily over 300. i'm not boasting, but i'm not ashamed of it either. judge away kids

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I lost count after 100 and that was when I was 23 and before I was a Swinger.... I would say it's close to the 1000's...LOL. The last 6mths though I have been very tame finding I need a real 'connection' with someone to be intimate... OMG I became lame haha

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Lame? Ever comsidered that, just perhaps your growing up?Cheers Felonious

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Oh yes absolutely I have grown up :)

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    did you work in the mourge?

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Considering this is a "sex" site..a lot of people seem to steer clear from talk about their sex life. 38 :)

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Sexy135*To many I'm love sex 4 -5 different women ewry night before marry nothing wrong stel want more end more live life*Do you work in the mourge? Or do you just have fat fingers?

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    15 women and 3 men...

  • jezebel_jj

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    13 years ago

    JJ - Including everything from the swinging scene its probably circling around the 150 mark (and this is not overstating). I think this would be higher if i wasnt in a completely monogamous/non swinging relationship for about 8 years. Number went up quite quickly in the last 2 years.Tavi - Before starting on the swinging scene, 6. For only a couple of months ive been doing it its probably up to around 15. So hard to keep track at parties!

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Loyal wife of 15 years =1 seperated =1 rebound guy old school mate=1,boyfriend at present=1+ 2 couples so 6 men,but you really should have asked how many eye fucks Ive had being the perverted little bitch I am ;)

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    mees never asleep

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'EuropianBliss'mees never asleep 2 the rest I fucked, never got a wink of sleep

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    have a regular or nowadays irregular lady who admits to well over 100 and another a few years ago at 70 plus. I wouldnt be far behind them I cant believe that anyone on this site would be single figures lol

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I was talking to a lifelong mate the other week... he is in a new relationship, and his new squeeze asked him this very question.. He said "About 12" he is my age, and he is probably right.. he asked me.. I said "Dunno mate... maybe 40.. ish.." He replied.. "Get Fckd caveman.. " Then he proceeded to remiind me... Nearly 30 years in Kalgoorlie from 1980.. when life was.. well.. different.. alternative.. I guess we did work hard, play hard, and lived harder still. From memory, 1) 3 individuals on one day. 2) 3 girls 2 guys in one bed 3) 6 guys 5 girls in one house 4) 9 different in 1 fortnight period. 5) 2 girls (about) 15 guys in one house.... (But that added to the girls tally.. not mine) and I do believe theirs went up 15 each that day 6) 2 year period in Kalgoorlie (outside the above) was exceptional... I had a good attitude, was MUCH younger, buff and wild...   Honestly... What the mate suggested, shocked me.   I dont do so well these days :) Long hair and huge beard and skinned knuckles worked well then.. not so now Thank fck for girls getting drunk though.. it helps these days :)   caveman ( don't try to fight your biology)

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Who are all these men sleeping with? Because they're not sleeping with the women

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quick math... wind the boys down and the girls up.. and the numbers are not too unequal... AND I do know women who have had a SHIT load more partners then me.. and ANY OTHER man I know :)

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Well I'm 44 have been sexually active since 12 I love sex some say I have a problem with it as I can go for hours and daily so I would say more than a thousand easy if not 2 as I love the idea of broffels as its safe sex and you can choose a different partner daily

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'cavey50' Quick math... wind the boys down and the girls up.. and the numbers are not too unequal... AND I do know women who have had a SHIT load more partners then me.. and ANY OTHER man I know :) I'm pretty sure the actual women out there who like sex make up for the majority of women who don't. MrsSplicey

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Yep.. exactly.. and of course.. however you look at it... Girls can get it a damned lot easier then boys any day of the week.. IF they want to go down that road :)

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'cavey50' Quick math... wind the boys down and the girls up.. and the numbers are not too unequal... AND I do know women who have had a SHIT load more partners then me.. and ANY OTHER man I know :) meeeeeeeeeeeeeeee   TR the strumpet!

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'cavey50' I was talking to a lifelong mate the other week... he is in a new relationship, and his new squeeze asked him this very question.. He said "About 12" he is my age, and he is probably right.. he asked me.. I said "Dunno mate... maybe 40.. ish.." He replied.. "Get Fckd caveman.. " Then he proceeded to remiind me... Nearly 30 years in Kalgoorlie from 1980.. when life was.. well.. different.. alternative.. I guess we did work hard, play hard, and lived harder still. From memory, 1) 3 individuals on one day. 2) 3 girls 2 guys in one bed 3) 6 guys 5 girls in one house 4) 9 different in 1 fortnight period. 5) 2 girls (about) 15 guys in one house.... (But that added to the girls tally.. not mine) and I do believe theirs went up 15 each that day 6) 2 year period in Kalgoorlie (outside the above) was exceptional... I had a good attitude, was MUCH younger, buff and wild...   Honestly... What the mate suggested, shocked me.   I dont do so well these days :) Long hair and huge beard and skinned knuckles worked well then.. not so now Thank fck for girls getting drunk though.. it helps these days :)   caveman ( don't try to fight your biology)     You do very well, and that disguise does not hide a thing , I know your Pierce Bronson , hidding out in a cave I think you would still get more sex than hot meals

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'feloniusfossil' Just waiting, to see who the biggest braggers are. I call rule of threes' Felonius I'm not telling. At the end of the day women are STILL labelled sluts for fucking around. Men are STILL labelled champs for fucking around. It's my secret and I'm not telling!!

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I was a bit of a late starter, but I've also barely been in relationships. I dunno, I can get laid a lot easier than I can get a girlfriend. I'd say my average is 2 a year since I started. Some years were a lot more than 2, and I've had some real lean years too. I was once with a woman who asked me the number right in the middle of sex. I never did figure out if she was going to be horrified or turned on by the figure, I was only her second.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    *smiles*

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Someone said before that no one would be in single digits. Being that I married my first, I'm actually willing to admit that I am. Only just tho hahaha

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    It goes up each day ;)x

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