Sex with a cheating partner ???

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  There are other threads to be read. We're just having a "discussion" here.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Quoting 'couplesint'Omg get over it you 2 we are all sick to death of it.!!!! FFs I am no longer visiting forums can't stand the crap. Leesa xxx i'm over it too.... time to move on i guess.... cheers leesa.... and sorry hey?

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Quoting 'mikeandshel'unlike you, or others...i dont see infidelity as a solution or escape from an abusive partner...in fact, i'd see that as incredibly foolish and careless.....why throw fuel on an already raging fire? why give the abuser another reason to be abusive? get out and stay out... dont make the situation even worse.... dont defend one sin by using another as an excuse. You still choose to ignore that leaving your spouse is still a "sin" and still creates as much pain in most cases as an affair. You are also ignoring that a person can find themselves in a position they feel unable to extricate themselves from for reasons you have shown yourself of being incapable of comprehending. Again, I beseech you, recognise that having different priorities and values to your own does not make a person wrong. I defend your right to make your own life choices. Have the common decency to acknowledge that other people have the right to live their own lives without your harrassment.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  "Lets open a can of worms...   So, many of us here know the fact that there are cheating partners on this site and other sites.   The question I ask is... Why do people think it is okay to have sex with those cheating partners ? Both you and I know that if it was your own partner doing the 'dirty' on you... you would be pissed off. So why do it to somebody else ?"SIMPLY BECAUSE PEOPLE DONT GIVE A FUCK. THEY CARE ABOUT THEMSELVES! Why is that so hard for people to understand? I don't agree with cheating, I'd hate to be cheated on. But it's not up to others to make decisions on behalf of someone elses wife/husband/bf/gf. Its up to the individual who seeks a sexual relationship while being involed. People need to stop passing the buck on the "mistress" or other party. I do understand "cheating" to be a fetish or kink for some as well. that doesn't condone it, its just a fact that it is.I guess we all just have to understand people have different desires and morals. Judgement should be placed upon the cheating parties for not having the balls to let their partners know they need more from their sexual side of life.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Your words stating that I am against extra marital affairs is totally WRONG... I brought this topic up as something for me to learn what other people have experienced ...and ... what others would like to share.   I haven't judged anyone at any given time.   So next time you decide to say what people are about...make sure you read your facts correctly.   Thanks mate :)

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I'm an open book and am attracted to that same quality in others. For me, dishonesty simply isn't sexy.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Where you wrote, "Both you and I know that if it was your own partner doing the 'dirty' on you... you would be pissed off. So why do it to somebody else ?" I took this to mean you were against extra marital affairs but as it was put forward as a question and not an indictment, I didn't feel it was offensive. My comments were meant to illustrate that people could have opposing views without condemning each other. My point all along has been that, without knowing what another has been through, it is wrong to pass judgement on them. I'm sorry if this was unclear, not only to you but to the others I named. I honestly respected the way each of you expressed yourselves.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Quoting 'JELLEUS' Judgement should be placed upon the cheating parties Another person who can't see that an affair is a symptom not the underlying problem in most cases. Over half the adult population have engaged in extra marital affairs at some point in their life. You're going to insist that not one of them had a valid reason inspite of the fact that you have no idea what motivated these actions. I guess some people just need to pass judgement on others to try to convince them that they are somehow superior. Guess what. I'm not fooled.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  The site is introduced as "Australia's hottest adult dating and social networking site". It goes on to describe the "popular RHP Nation Niches". These include, "Fetish Search", "Hot Asian Dates", "Adult Dating", "Cougar Search", "Gay Personals", "Lesbian Personals", "Bi Encounters" and "Married and Seeking (get sexy on the side)". People seeking to play outside their marriage are part of this site's target demographic. They have been invited here. If you resent their presence, perhaps it is you who are in the wrong place. Don't let the door hit you in the arse on your way out.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Quoting 'jensman1903' Offering up ancient, generic insults instead of trying to actually make a point is somewhat innane, don't you think. You signed your last statement as 'the "uncool" one'. You had previously state that you were posting as a couple. Slip ups like that, while small, are very revealing of the kind of decietful person you are but thanks for playing anyway.   Whilst it was a small slip up it was also intentional just to see if you were paying attention so top marks there, and your more than welcome mate....cheers

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