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So tell me...does this ever actually work for guys??
February 22 2014
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RHP User
12 years ago
I feel sick just reading that. It's absolutely vulgar and disrespectful! I feel sorry for anyone who has to put up with that. That person will get an automatic block from me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
They are just sucking the head - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I knew a Guy who believed if he pinched ten Women's bums , he would get lucky with one . Although it was shameful to watch , I have to admit that he did get lucky with one in twenty . He showed me that even though the odds were completely stacked against him , he could still find some success . I guess the same could apply here , although it's not something I would like to try . Any Guy who writes that sort of stuff to a Woman is obviously Wanking and in the heat of passionate self-indulgence but there is a very small chance that his method may have worked before ... Considering that the Guy is masturbating during Messaging , as soon as he Cums he will probably lose interest in the conversation . Personally , I have trouble talking dirty to a Woman even when she's requested it . GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have to admit that your Profile blurb does leave you open to this sort of behaviour . (Random sex with young guys , no emotional input). Perhaps a few tweaks and some re-wording would help filter out some of the Freaks . Just trying to help... GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Some men do have this fetish as do some woman. Just Sayin....
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RHP User
12 years ago
when people refer too any sexual act as Filth, Sick, Deranged etc..........that makes me feel sick. Of course with the exception of anything illegal.
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RHP User
12 years ago
as I sit here suffering from Wineflu........ I am sick
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RHP User
12 years ago
Received them -yes. Like them - no Do they work with me -no My action to them - block and delete. - Posted from rhpmobile
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twinshadow
12 years ago
it would be worthy, of a "cool story bro' " response.
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RHP User
12 years ago
What Id like to know.... goes hand in hand with the "does it work" topic question.... ... is who teaches guys that this just might work?!!! Because it seems from forum comments, its an all too frequent message style.So if, as we may well learn that it doesnt work....... at what point does the sender reconsider their approach in light of the poor result?!!! DG
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'MisterGreen' I knew a Guy who believed if he pinched ten Women's bums , he would get lucky with one . Although it was shameful to watch , I have to admit that he did get lucky with one in twenty . He showed me that even though the odds were completely stacked against him , he could still find some success . Any Guy who writes that sort of stuff to a Woman is obviously Wanking and in the heat of passionate self-indulgence but there is a very small chance that his method may have worked before ... Considering that the Guy is masturbating during Messaging , as soon as he Cums he will probably lose interest in the conversation . Messages like that can make me laugh. Obviously this guy had thought this thing through quite well!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't get them very often and yes they get an automatic block from me... I guess I was just curious as to what someone is thinking to send a message so vulgar to someone, especially as a follow up message from a first message of how are you, do you want to chat... I have no problems with dirty messages, provided they are follow ups from earlier messages that are along the lines of asking what you like or would like to do, having said that, I believe there is a certain way for naughty/dirty messages to be written...and that is most definitely not it!! Tacky tacky tacky...ugh 😁
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RHP User
12 years ago
We've had numerous guys send us those types of messages in the past....even though our profile states, "No guys!" And these guys wonder why they're services are not wanted by so many.. The problem with these types of guys is they've slept with their mothers way too long, sucked their thumbs till they were 16 and been deprived of Black label Penthouse magazines growing up... Way too much built up testosterone. Now that they're at an age were they can legally buy porn dvd's, they're wanting to live a fantasy life as a porn star. Must be, with the trash that comes out of their minds and mouths.. You should be able to report these "Dumb Asses" and they should be booted from RHP...
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MissBishere
12 years ago
I guess it must work for them at some point as so many do it. I sometimes find them funny and sometimes they right piss me off. Sometimes I reply to enquirer if that approach actually works for them. If I'm not in the mood I just delete and move on. A few I have engaged with but always find these guys are all talk and have no intention of ever meeting they are total time wasters. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
it reminded me of when kids tell a story and it comes out as one long breathless sentence.. and, and, and, and, and, and
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes to both of your posts here so far. Well said :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Word for word. He is actually a nice bloke but has a fetish for married women. Some people have a foot fetish, others have well you get the idea. There are loads it fetishes out there. This is after all a sex site isn't it? - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
So I just read the original Forum Post. "Message received in reply: my dream is to fuck you married pussy and ass and stretch them as much as you can handle and the i fill both your used stretched holes with my cum and then you go home to your hubby and make him fuck and lick your used cum dripping holes and then you suck all my cum of his cum covered cock." So, he will not be wearing a condom....... Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
This a sex site........ Is usually the response I get when I tell those message senders to go forth and multiply. I reckon they're living out their own sick little fantasy when they send them. Cause that's your mind set when you're 35, living at home with mommy and she touches you up every night when her drunken boyfriend has finished with you...
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gazpacho
12 years ago
Talk about being shamed! You want to know what men are thinking. Well, I was just saying what's on my mind. Where is the problem? Hugs Gazpacho. P.S.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think some people here are failing to realise that the man in question has used this as his introductory message . I don't see a problem with Dirty Talk when it has been mutually agreed upon . On the upside , at least this guy has inadvertently shown , from the beginning , that he has no Respect for Women. NEXT ! GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'fitzychick'This is after all a sex site isn't it? I see it this way...... a Bar is an adult site too.... but walk up to a complete stranger with your cock out telling people you want to fuck their arse/lick you for hours/cum on your face/ & you wont be disappointed/etc etc..... and see how well you get on. And the good ladies of RHP are offering feedback on how well that kind of approach works. Its creepy. Its sex offender--ish. Its a block. DG
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'ApolloThirteen' This a sex site........ Is usually the response I get when I tell those message senders to go forth and multiply. I reckon they're living out their own sick little fantasy when they send them. Cause that's your mind set when you're 35, living at home with mommy and she touches you up every night when her drunken boyfriend has finished with you... Seriously did you write this shit. Talk about respect...I reckon YOUR assumption sucks ass farts.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Quoting 'fitzychick'This is after all a sex site isn't it? I see it this way...... a Bar is an adult site too.... but walk up to a complete stranger with your cock out telling people you want to fuck their arse/lick you for hours/cum on your face/ & you wont be disappointed/etc etc..... and see how well you get on. And the good ladies of RHP are offering feedback on how well that kind of approach works. Its creepy. Its sex offender--ish. Its a block. DG Your have your hand a fucking STIFF mermaid. If that isn't creepy what the fuck is? In all seriousness though "Its sex offender--ish" for fuck sake and I thought you were intelligent. You're great suck hole I will give you that! HAHAHA and this one GOOD lady say's..go for it mate. Filth is good. You may just start of with a little more thought towards your subject.....unless of course you love turning them off in which case you WIN hahahahaha....... Love it!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'gazpacho51' Talk about being shamed! You want to know what men are thinking. Well, I was just saying what's on my mind. Where is the problem? Hugs Gazpacho. P.S. bet it was something sick and perverted........damn I fucking missed it! I was playing with Ms kitty thinking about all that cum.
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On_Safari
12 years ago
Forgive me but.....are you surfing the crimson wave or something? ~ Indy
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RHP User
12 years ago
It is my opinion in here.....THE SANDPIT. ........fuck me Indy..............You have to come up for an excuse for my heated opinions such as the crimson wave........I resent that. Blame it on the hormones you think .......... How about blame it on the shit I read in here on a daily basis. In Spirit of course
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RHP User
12 years ago
The difference between a sex site and a bar is that not everyone goes to a bar to pick up and get laid. Everyone on here is looking for sex. Plus if you had read the profile description of the guy who sent that message then you would have seen the exact text there as well. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
We're talking about a message from a complete stranger who knows nothing about you, so completely impersonal. It's not like the guy is grabbing your bits in public or following you home.
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RHP User
12 years ago
If I was to get such a message I would just reply back with a 'no thanks' Each to their own, that's how the guy chose to put his message as and no judgement from me here. If this was on a vanilla dating site where people are clearly saying they are looking for companionship/life partners, then yeah I would be very offended and upset at such a message. But this is rhp, if this was t about sex then why would most of us bother in putting up nude/semi-nude pics of ourselves on here? Why would we be talking about orgies, sex parties, taking it up the arse, DP's etc? To those who liken this to a bar, would you rock up to your local bar/pub wearing those fuck me boots and undies with strategic holes on them and nothing more or just stark naked as some of us are in our photos? Do you think they would even let you in? I like most of us are on here to get a good rogering or to feed our kinks and fetishes and anything else on top of that is an added bonus, eg meeting like minded people, the forums etc So, yep, this is a sex site and we all have our kinks. If you don't like expletive messages then maybe clearly say that in your profile. I for one just got wet reading that message in the OP - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have finally learnt. Delete and block, after you tell them to fuck off, if that's how you feel. It's them who has the problem, not you.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' when people refer too any sexual act as Filth, Sick, Deranged etc..........that makes me feel sick. Of course with the exception of anything illegal. Absolutely agree! Bloody prudes!
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RHP User
12 years ago
The prudes are rude! That is what I think. I much prefer the message above then the let me tell you all the ways I would like treat you like a princess, and lay you down on a bed of roses before munching on your twat all night nonsense. Romantic drivel, boring crap!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Quoting 'fitzychick'This is after all a sex site isn't it? I see it this way...... a Bar is an adult site too.... but walk up to a complete stranger with your cock out telling people you want to fuck their arse/lick you for hours/cum on your face/ & you wont be disappointed/etc etc..... and see how well you get on. And the good ladies of RHP are offering feedback on how well that kind of approach works. Its creepy. Its sex offender--ish. Its a block. DG Used to happen to me when I was in my 20's. The blokes are usually better now.... usually.
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RHP User
12 years ago
What a creep it ruins it for the actual good people on here - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' What Id like to know.... goes hand in hand with the "does it work" topic question.... ... is who teaches guys that this just might work?!!! Because it seems from forum comments, its an all too frequent message style.So if, as we may well learn that it doesnt work....... at what point does the sender reconsider their approach in light of the poor result?!!! DG There are men out there who are like this, ergo there must be women out there who are receptive to this. The 15 women that write on this forum are not enough to conclusive conclude that this doesn't work....ever.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' There are men out there who are like this, ergo there must be women out there who are receptive to this. The 15 women that write on this forum are not enough to conclusive conclude that this doesn't work....ever. The fact is that these forums are not representative of the general RHP population, at all. Not for males or females. I often tend to forget that as well when I get on my high horse about something . So sure we can spout our opinions and have our say, but we should remember that we in forum land don't speak for all, not by a long shot.
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RHP User
12 years ago
lol..... the guys can keep sending those messages... for the same result. Makes little difference to me, Im not receiving them (often)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' lol..... the guys can keep sending those messages... for the same result. Makes little difference to me, Im not receiving them (often) But you don't know ALL the results. Do you? Really DG you are as stubborn as a donkey at times, aint you!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Oh.... that was said in a "ooh you are a naughty boy voice"
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RHP User
12 years ago
Assuming this is a first message it's gross! It's usually a good idea to build a rapport before you get into the heavy stuff! Clueless - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
If you want to talk about your dreams wait until you've been married five years, and then get a shrink. Horses for courses, only an unhinged person would send a message like that and only a psycho-bitch would answer. It's unnerving when you message someone and they reply back like, 'when do you wanna fuck?' 'What do you want to do?' is an attempt to illicit such a response, it's like the reverse-engineering of the 'I wanna use your mouth as a toilet' greeting message, but even less thought has gone into it :p I tell them, I want to move to South America after completing current projects successfully and I'd really like to be there before the World Cup...what about you? Because surely what you want, and what you aspire to isn't coming three times in the same woman without using the same hole twice? That doesn't take a genius it's basically just being able to count. 'Annie you say you want me to do things to you like the sun and the moon... All I want bang bang bang I no wanna know your name All I want bang bang bang ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
thats unfair lolso you have labelled all young men as time wasters cause one stood you up !i think you maybe talking to the wrong ones Post your Comment
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meandyou121
12 years ago
Just reading that is all f$&@ed up can't comprehend :-(
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes I've received several No I don't like them No they don't work for me and I'm pretty open minded I received 1 once and showed a friend who helped me reply hehe It was a fabulous reply and worked a treat lol the guy who sent it turned out to be very sorry and not a bad guy just a shame he started out the way he did . - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
If you have ANY self respect BLOCK and DELETE these SCUM!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Maybe someone has an example where such a message did work. Yet to read that in a topic..... but then who'd own up to it LOL
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Maybe someone has an example where such a message did work. Yet to read that in a topic..... but then who'd own up to it LOL All the kinky fuckers left the forum ages ago so nobody will own up to it here anymore. But I know women that have responded to messages like that with "I will meet you down at the park in an hour." So there! ner ner ne ner ner!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Couldn't have said it better myself! Obviously this sort of thing works because otherwise why would somebody write it! Each to their own I reckon
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gazpacho
12 years ago
Oh! Was that you in the park, Meeka?? I think there are plenty of guys who really don't have any idea what to write, and I suppose, after having written all the niceties with little or no results, are willing to give anything a shot. It's understandable. People really do enjoy getting their jollies off. I think a little empathy though goes a long way, and that's a two way street. Not everyone on RHP gets approached. I think there ought to be a month where guys are not permitted to contact women... So the women have to do the inspirational writing for a change instead of hanging back and being the fucking critics. :) Hugs for the boys Gazp
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RHP User
12 years ago
People can be so critical even when it's not necessary. If you don't like the message then delete and block etc. From what I read this wasn't the first message, OP said it was reply #2 or so? No? To answer your question DG. Once I got messaged by a guy on here and he sent through action pics of what he was keen on doing with me. At first I was like 'geez talk about being forward' then I felt my pussy twinge from the pics, then I replied him nicely saying his approach had been a huge turn off, we swapped a few messages after and he was ever so polite, I met the guy and well, a lady doesn't kiss and tell 😈😈 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I expect receiving one of those is greeted by the same horror when I'm excited to see someone has been peeking at my profile...go to see who it is hoping it's a hot woman, and I get an eyeful of penis profile pic :/ argghhh
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RHP User
12 years ago
That is the hardest thing...what to write in that first message.
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RHP User
12 years ago
No! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
It might be to you, but to them it could be a fantasy? Would you prefer them to woo you so to speak and then partway down the track send something you find worthy of the title to my reply? Would you prefer to find out in the beginning that their fantasy doesn't work for you and you allow them to go on their merry way? I know I personally don't want my time wasted, isn't that a better way to have things? No I don't send things like what has been stated in a first second or even third message, but that doesn't mean the replies come through from each attempt at contact, quite often I don't get anything, what can you do but smile, carry on and take a chance on someone else who might take your fancy.
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joanne1991
12 years ago
As soon as it gets to that stage it's just time to block them, I don't like blocking men but honestly they are not here to seduce you but just to get their rocks off, it does nothing for me other than turn me off, fellas come up with some much better lines
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RHP User
12 years ago
Some guy messaged me once to ask if I use contraception because he likes having random bareback sex with girls not using any! Wtf!!! Good luck with your search buddy! Although... The other night some Manchester lad came up to me outside a bar and told me he'd give me the best ten minutes of my life, well I laughed and blew him off. Then proceeded to be told by staff it was past lockout... So I drove us somewhere pretty and was delighted to not long after be having an amazing orgasm naked under the stars lying on the boot of my car. I suppose sometimes you can't judge a guy by his pick up line and it's a girls prerogative to change her mind at short notice :p X
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RHP User
12 years ago
I get them... Read them.. have a laugh.. check his profile and see if he's hot... If not, delete it and move on... It's a sex site.. Everyone has different fetishes and different ideas of what's exceptable and what's not.. 😇
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23' Quoting 'Meeka100' There are men out there who are like this, ergo there must be women out there who are receptive to this. The 15 women that write on this forum are not enough to conclusive conclude that this doesn't work....ever. The fact is that these forums are not representative of the general RHP population, at all. Not for males or females. its such a turn on when you ladies talk statistics... I'll be up all night
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madotara69
12 years ago
I can't for all reason get around this cuckold idea, harmless role play, OK, but deliberately humiliating a partner to see them suffer while you have sex on display in front or passed on for a high with a stranger, well not my cup of tea. Some it is and it is not for my judgement to discriminate to what tickles others fancies, as long it does not sit outside physical, mental unwanted abuse, or under the age of consent. I have seen women display courage to this sort of behaviour or fetish, maybe as an attack to the idea of an ex and bitter to the relationship, or just fetish and the naughtiness to it all. So it is intended for the one who says fuck yeah, bring it. If one is looking for a missionary style sort of sex date with a clean shaven suit and tie sort of guy, then this aint the site to be fluanting the goods. Vanilla covers a fair range of sexual preferences, outside of vanilla there is a diverse world of discovery and unless open minded or experienced to know the ins and outs with things, just got to expect your profile and suggestive pics to being a little naughty, dirty minded, you are puting yourself up as a target aproach to many types of suggestions from some dirty fuckers, who are not really being offensive, untill you have said your piece to it. Mado Mado Tara xx
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madotara69
12 years ago
As long "it sits outside" of mental, physical and age of consent. Sure you know what I meant anyway but.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Not worth a comment - total wanker
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RHP User
12 years ago
Can't believe guys can even approach a lady that way . DHs ruin all the hardwork we good guys do - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I dont see too many regulars having their daily banter in here... Cum got your tongue in a slurry. :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
that I have not considered...and if I try it, I'll let you know how I go...bawawawawawawaw S'nP
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RHP User
12 years ago
Great to see someone mentioned how the forums don't represent the wider RHP community.. I've heard that before! :) A couple of points I want to make to say it can and does work; A woman very close to me has two profiles on here.... One looking for passionate lovers, smart respectful men who have an open minded sexual outlook........... Her other profile is for pure fucking men as randomly as possible.. No names, meet in quite parks late at night etc etc.... This profile when online will meet the first guy with a half decent body, and the more vulgar the message the better... It's for pure sex... So messages like "I'm going to make you gag on my cock" as an opening line will work wonders on her. Secondly, the actual message OP refers to will play right into the hands of cuckold couples looking for a bull... And me being an extremely experimental person have dabbled in cuckold nights with my wife.... Now my wife is a shy type and hates chit chat.. She wants a guy to come over, get naked and take her... And this type of message would appeal. And thirdly, to my surprise, I came home one night after hours of sex with a random hook up.... I was completely sexually content for the night, and when I got home 2-3am out if habit I checked Rhp ... Happened to be a woman in my suburb ( the suburb I lived in at the time) I sent her a message along the lines of I can come over and fuck your brains out etc something vulgar that I completely thought she would discard and as I was already sexed up for the night, didn't care .... She first responded with "does that really work on anyone" I responded back by saying, "I'm only looking for the type of woman it would work on" To my surprise, she said, "well it's worked, I'm so horny, here's my I can give you my address if you get here within 5 mins"!!! Wow... And she was a late 20's early 30's hottie !!! So I say more power to them... Clearly doesn't work on the women who have commented so far, but it does work.. So just say no, and wish him luck on his search. - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
12 years ago
We grab and squeeze that lovely clit of yours inspirit, call it singing lessons if you like Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have to only thank the idiots who write introductory messages like that. Anything that helps to cull the overwhelmingly large proportion of male competition on this site is a plus. It's not reserved to women though. Even though my profile says "straight" I had a guy not so long ago open with "I'd love ta tongue ya nut" (verbatim).
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RHP User
12 years ago
Like so many things on here, it is comes down to preference. There are somethings I don't like or understand and may not go there. He's put his fantasy out there, if it's not yours, say no and block if you like. If you like it, go for it. I don't think we should judge someones fantasy (as long as it is legal) or approach. It may work very infrequently for this person, but if he hits on a person who shares his interest then that is fantastic for both of them.... the rule of sales... x number of calls, produces y leads, produces z sales. Whatever approach is used it is the sale that matters.... A different approach might get more sex, but may not get the type of thing he wants. He may have read something in a profile made him think that maybe his approach may work... or perhaps it is the x, y, z theory. He may also only send those message when in a particular mood and wants a particular thing, but at other times sends the message other blokes do; who knows? What he requested was not illegal, just not what the recipient was turned on by. So, no and move on. I don't like blokes that wear women's clothes, and I often get messages from guys (often married blokes) who want to dress up and be treated as a woman. Not my cup of tea, so I say no thanks and move on. I don't judge... there are blokes out there who would be turned on by that. The x, y, z theory.... sent it to a few more and someone will want what he's selling!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'blond_gypsy'I have to only thank the idiots who write introductory messages like that. Anything that helps to cull the overwhelmingly large proportion of male competition on this site is a plus. It's sad to hear guys say the ones sending crap messages ruin it for the rest of them. Take advantage of it and make yourself stand out. After 20 messages titled "hi", the man that writes"I own three pairs of Converse" is the one I want to jump.
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Seachange73
12 years ago
Quoting 'blond_gypsy' I have to only thank the idiots who write introductory messages like that. Anything that helps to cull the overwhelmingly large proportion of male competition on this site is a plus. It's not reserved to women though. Even though my profile says "straight" I had a guy not so long ago open with "I'd love ta tongue ya nut" (verbatim). . B_G You got away easy. I think a lot of women here are just inundated with filthy intro messages. A massive surprise to myself when a joined a few weeks ago as some people have no sense of self-respect or total disregard for the people they message to. And they get surprised when we are NOT attracted to the dickheads that they are. And you are right, it helps with the culling...
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RHP User
12 years ago
this is a sex site if you do not like the sex talk get off
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have tried a few different opening messages to get a response. The thing is there are so few people on this site with the manners to reply. Agree with most of the comments here about this douche bag!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
12 years ago
Quoting 'redhot666' this is a sex site if you do not like the sex talk get off Sex talk can be sexy between consenting parties but if it is shoved down your face on intro messages, that is just plain rude and devoid of general manners. Regardless where you meet people, there should always be some level of respect and courtesy. Just like in any social setting like going to a restaurant or a pub, you don't like some random stranger walking up to you and talking dirty straight up. But if this is to your taste, you go for it. but most people, as per forum response, would find this disgusting....But there is always the block function. Wonderful to have for morons like that.
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RHP User
12 years ago
i would send his message back, but correctly spelled and punctuated, with a footnote about practicing safe sex ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Good manners and politness never go out of fashion x - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
And no, I'm not vanilla, no I'm not a prude and yes I like the dirty talk.... My question was simply to see if anyone else found this initial approach cringeworthy like I did...or if it actually does work, I guess on a few occasions it may... I have engaged in many back and forth dirty talk messages and enjoy them immensely.... I personally think this sort of message, out if the blue, without an initiating previous message, something like, so, what would you like to do to me if we meet....is a little off putting, especially when the offers of "stretching both holes" and "make your husband eat my cum, he doesn't know what you've been doing" are really not up my alley... I'll pass on having my ass and pussy fucked bareback by some random because that's what he's into...and much prefer the approach of asking if this is the sort of thing I might enjoy. I just find the other approach disrespectful and makes me really, really not want to meet the person...but that's just my opinion and we are all entitled to one. Oh, and for those who suggested if I don't like it leave...I won't be doing that any time soon, I prefer the delete and block method...it leaves me here to meet the hotties that make me wanna let them fulfil their fantasies with me 😊
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Quoting 'cougar4fun' And no, I'm not vanilla, no I'm not a prude and yes I like the dirty talk.... My question was simply to see if anyone else found this initial approach cringeworthy like I did...or if it actually does work, I guess on a few occasions it may... I have engaged in many back and forth dirty talk messages and enjoy them immensely.... I personally think this sort of message, out if the blue, without an initiating previous message, something like, so, what would you like to do to me if we meet....is a little off putting, especially when the offers of "stretching both holes" and "make your husband eat my cum, he doesn't know what you've been doing" are really not up my alley... I'll pass on having my ass and pussy fucked bareback by some random because that's what he's into...and much prefer the approach of asking if this is the sort of thing I might enjoy. I just find the other approach disrespectful and makes me really, really not want to meet the person...but that's just my opinion and we are all entitled to one. Oh, and for those who suggested if I don't like it leave...I won't be doing that any time soon, I prefer the delete and block method...it leaves me here to meet the hotties that make me wanna let them fulfil their fantasies with me 😊 Passive Aggressive....MUCH?? Telling someone to leave.. IME,that's rude and disrespectful. Who are you people to deny someone of this site?? Telling people to leave, is not going to fix the issue, rather it dismisses and pacifies it. Not supportive to the OP at all. Great answer OP! :) Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
I guess I would just have to say that bloke does not know much about intimacy. What about all of the other stuff like a meal or a drink out somewhere together and that first magical time you touch, and then the knowledge you can look deeply into the eyes of that person who is the object of your sensual desires and suggesting adjourning to their place, the long hard kiss on the beach or against a tree on the way to the car and then you are there together with nobody else around for the first time. Glasses, chilled bottle of dry white wine and some sexy throbbing music in the background, you strip each other slowly caressing each other all the while and then holding each other tight and kissing, stroking, massaging laughing, sharing your desires… taking turns fulfilling each others fantasies… seems like a much better approach to me…. Why does it have to be about fucking… that's great but there is so much more…..
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RHP User
12 years ago
I wish there was a "like" button on the forums... I wasn't wanting any sympathy from the post, didn't expect to be told if I don't like it leave, I was more curious as to what people who send random messages like this hope to achieve and if there are women out there that respond positively to this approach. My description of the message, was my opinion if it, one that it seems many agree with. Some who don't...There's plenty of things people on this site do to others that we may not like. Being stood up, tyre kickers, harassing txts, I've seen posts about people being stalked, harassed and followed by people they have met on RHP. I don't for one second agree that if something you don't like goes on, you should just leave. There are plenty of ways to deal with issues on this site, uninvited messages from randoms are the easy ones to deal with...delete and block. My question was simply one of how others would respond...I've found the responses a very interesting read! Thank you to all those who've provided constructive feedback 😊
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RHP User
12 years ago
Short answer no! Long answer oh hell no!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't even have words for how wrong that is.
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Seachange73
12 years ago
Quoting 'bradcritchlow' Good manners and politness never go out of fashion x - Posted from rhpmobile Yes you are very right. It is surprising that some people that just because this is a sex site that manners and politeness does not exist in the same space. It does not have to be mutually exclusive. Dirty talk has its place and time.
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Seachange73
12 years ago
Quoting 'cougar4fun' And no, I'm not vanilla, no I'm not a prude and yes I like the dirty talk.... My question was simply to see if anyone else found this initial approach cringeworthy like I did...or if it actually does work, I guess on a few occasions it may... I have engaged in many back and forth dirty talk messages and enjoy them immensely.... I personally think this sort of message, out if the blue, without an initiating previous message, something like, so, what would you like to do to me if we meet....is a little off putting, especially when the offers of "stretching both holes" and "make your husband eat my cum, he doesn't know what you've been doing" are really not up my alley... I'll pass on having my ass and pussy fucked bareback by some random because that's what he's into...and much prefer the approach of asking if this is the sort of thing I might enjoy. I just find the other approach disrespectful and makes me really, really not want to meet the person...but that's just my opinion and we are all entitled to one. Oh, and for those who suggested if I don't like it leave...I won't be doing that any time soon, I prefer the delete and block method...it leaves me here to meet the hotties that make me wanna let them fulfil their fantasies with me 😊 Yes. agree there. Just amazing how somebody suggested that you leave the site if you don't like it. How stupid is that. And miss out on potential great men to meet. It's a numbers game and see if we can sift through the bad apples from the good ones. Any self-respecting person here would have some level of discretion and taste and not just open their legs for anyone. And why should we put up with their disrespectful attitude? If I want to be a wanton woman with a naughty man, it would be my choosing at the right time and with the right man. And if I do have those moments, I love it. I had similar intro emails and I relate. Block, block, block. Good luck to all of us.
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Seachange73
12 years ago
Quoting 'lilim' i would send his message back, but correctly spelled and punctuated, with a footnote about practicing safe sex ;) Cracked myself laughing. Thanks for that.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'coops14' So I say more power to them... Clearly doesn't work on the women who have commented so far, but it does work.. So just say no, and wish him luck on his search.
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madotara69
12 years ago
of cosmic amanomanomalies and has uncovered, the the untill now normal way the universe calls upon it's angels, last time an act of Rod spelt with a G, everyone calls him and her God, simple errors, histories glitches should never repeat, tell your selves before you go to sleep. Last time Jake and Elwood were called to an act of Rod. It's a bit of a read cougar4fun bet you are, hot fun, sorry. You've got the legs of a fantasy, so once you have read this, because no one else will, he he, you will see everything a little less than normal, as you have unknowingly began a sequent of events, larger than Ben Hurr, salvation has our wings unfold, and in this message, your talking to angels instead, and we offer you protection as Tara won't for sake me, offers a lot of love and effection, whether Im right or wrong, where ever life takes me it won't break me, I'm loving Angels instead. your message from Rob, spelt with a G, Gob and the Gods are looking at you now. Hope you don't think my post earlier was directed at you OP, just the general population on this site need to be a little tolerant to some things that may shock them, the type of message refered to in the opening topic point, seemed to me a cuckold type of language, I don't speak it though Coops mentioned it to. If we are to accept gay and bi and any number on the j mans scale of 1 to 10. We are in amongst just about every type of fetish, race, gender, transvestites, transexuals, swingers, random, open relationship, wankers, live sex feed AVI and audio, we have elderly women still turning a few virgins, sick of a diary full of meets for sex, simply gorged themselves on the young fellers who dare say "wanna fuck", maybe just "hello" or "hi", next thing booking a room with no idea what they have got themselves into, these old girls are leading by example, and I don't feel it is rude to say some of them are nanna's, so we have our nanna congregations too. Dogging,cheating, single, married, women taking to men with strap ons, Beppy sponges have opened the game to all in any time tell, we have Jack rabbits, others who are trying to pull a rabbit out of a hat, Giant cocks, vagina's like open windows, some just sit and let their fucking machine root em stupid, Scat, needle play, bondage, humiliation, FB's, FWB's, tits and arse, pilots, bankers, the bakers dozen, legs eleven, Batman (special appearances only) a gazpacho, a fucken mermaid, fuck we even have a Luckdragon, a fruit loop, last but not least from a fellows perspective, a group of some being the sexiest women on the planet , because RHP is the place to be. So what would be considered normal or shocking other than disrespect, I did not see the OP disrespect anyone, just a topic example for a message that she personally doesn't find appealing, tomorrow she could find herself having a wonderful root with her new found lover who used a bit of that shocking shit, that was quite shocking, multiple orgasms from the energies. Time and trying a few new things, the topics in the forums, chat rooms and cam up, fetishes, it all starts to blend in to a orgy with the full book of everything except normal. About the only way anyone could safeguard themselves from the multitude of languages and mannerisms, write into your profile you would like to meet marry and have children. But even then bound to get one of those " I want to love you and respect you in the morning and keep loving you until the wife catches me, or husband. Wonder if it would be rude and shocking to send a guy our message, "hey the lovely wife thinks your a fucking hot looking guy that speaks with flowing words that has her pussy wanting you to join with hubby and stick your perfect cock into everything next to that other cock which happens to be who is sending this message, have you got a week to spare and come over to find every single combination two cocks can please a lady, Sorry, we can not separate passion from sex with playmates, as they come to join our spirits, we all fall in love to the intense heights of intimate tangles whilst we each take turns at cumming so many glorious ways, it is our intentions, you become the part with us that will be the best adventure in this life, was the times we all fucked and figured out what our meanings are for why our spirits were destined to their being chosen for, " The most searched wonder the human race was born to it's part in the universe Simultaneous combustion of three forces of energy cumming in multiple sequences of uncontrollable multi orgasms the three way bang to the beginning of cold fussion and it's answer to fuel all creations of star dust the public transport through dark matter and to God him and herself as caretakers of the cosmos and beyond. Yes this is a little complicated and you are to be, not just our future fuckbuddy but to a humble sacrifice of missing a few waves and some of the replies to all those ladies you are waiting from to your normal manner of sending the chance for a root. It is to be the RHP experience and a mission to be completed and presented in persons too the hands of God. Tara has been blessed with the holiest of holly holes and the passions to ensure we three fit to be the key of Double penetration perfected in position. You have been cordially invited to join with us and fuck until the end of time. If you can't bring yourself to such the task, you can tell Tara, I'm not going there, so counting on you, you dirty fucker, fucking you have to do this, fuck her, and I choose fuck her too, fuck you me and her, can't not give a fuck, fucker you fuck or we are all fucked. Seriously you need to get fucked and I'm not fucking going to fuck for the both of us for much longer, it's your fault for writing that dirty fucken stuff, so what if you thought it was a harmless little poem, It caused the great flood to begin, so you better learn how to swim. A few naughty words turned into the cold bang of warmth your cock has to endure now, hope you have a grip on the power those few cheeky words have led to, and I was just settling, enjoying the tranquillity, and trying to lay under the radar from sex for a bit." How bloody rude!!!!! fckn poets " I mean that seems to me a perfectly normal sort of message. And The fucker at the other end " the poet" Reurned a message to confirm his attendance be pending on how long it takes to walk from Western Australia, to Sydney and the furthest end of it as well. How long does it take to walk from Perth to Sydney, fuck it's been a couple of days? Wish Stir it was about, could have tossed him a carton of VB to go get this dawdling bloody poet in his truck. It's hard work being a fckn Angel for God, for the Devil for cash, and a Prince of the Universe. Love to be able to be a rude bastard just for one day even. Yeah OP, you just put it up there, can't see where anyone should be directing all that confusion at you personally, but it is easy to feel like you're copping it. thing is you only said it wasn't your fancy, nothing judgemental to the, educated guess chief executive of that company that puts the ball bearing in a spray paint can, or Ruddy himself, bit frustrated for losing the world tour all expenses paid, he had planed, now he is a teacher, Looks close to the letter he received from his cabinet, highlighting his attributes. Yep, a political notification is all that message was, look at the context. Need to set your inbox to trash propaganda type Spam mail. Hope this helps cougar4fun, you're not a bad sort so you may need all the help you can get, wait till one of these kinky dirty fuckers try to butter you up, with a room no 24 at the Tangara Express from Wynyard to Central (five star train station), try for a bit of crumpet in the lower deck at 2am, when there won't be many passengers to keep quiet for. But that's the rush. Knowing you've been caught out, but they have to look at you to show they know. And that would make them bloody perverts, so they just fidget and pretend to yawn, well that's what they did on the way home from the meet and greet, when Tara and I were having a little kiss. Heads up if you get a message to having a NSA meet for a quicky or a good slog on the western line. Might end up on the porn tube though, Safe sex is the public transports priority these days, so is some ussured privacy, those hidden cameras are all over the place, keeps the strange types off the lovers caboos. Come on baby, you know there's something missing, don't find nothing no more coincidences, look in theses eyes and you will see, things will happen but only if they are meant to, the beats so lonely, i'll bet it's lonely at the top. It's not your time to make a change, just relax, take it easy, your still young, that's your fault, there's so much you have to know. You will still be here tomorrow, But your dreams may not. Can't you see, no one ever spoke to Noah, they all laughed indstead, workin on his ark, workin all by himself, only Noah saw it coming , forty days and forty nights, took his sons and daughters with him. All you who sit in high places, the piece is gonna fall on you. Normal messages? surely there is something amusing and in good spirits to reply with something as grand to highlight the most interesting suggestions, might be a nice guy who just clicked on your profile, sitting next to the cuckold dirty girls profile, and would be ever so gratefull you sent him a word or two and he got to send the words of passions to the right lady, Rod, God, it happens. (inspired by some last words from Unrushed, short posts, not the bloody chat rooms.) Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
You truly are The Lizard King ;) GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'MisterGreen' You truly are The Lizard King ;) And Mr. Mojo Risin'. "Mr. Mojo Risin' Got to keep on risin' Risin' risin' Come on risin' risin' Whoa! Wang! Bang!"
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RHP User
12 years ago
If come over will you bend for me :) Oh your last post I cbf reading...can you only use 2 sentences in future..You know my attention span is limited.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Do you seriously think the guy is a sick fucker or it is just his kink...Some people are actually wet and hard by the message he sent back... I mean really it is just a fucking message. Who so serious about it? RHP is a VERY OPEN sex site if you hadn't noticed. We all explore our sexuality on here because people ARE open and do not expect judgements. For those of you men who have found it sick and perverted.....WHY? Take the obvious out it! For those woman who have.....WHY? and again take the obvious out of it! Though in answer to both I assume having sex with any of you would be ummmm prudish Let's assume I sent a message of similar nature to a guy........it would be classed as hot well except for the prudes. Truly worth a though?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69' We grab and squeeze that lovely clit of yours inspirit, call it singing lessons if you like Mado Tara xx I was whistling the other day and some one came up to me and said.. "Hey, Do you think I need to see a gynecologist audiologist"..I said "why" while looking perplexed... He said "Cause I can hear a kunt whistling"
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RHP User
12 years ago
To answer your questions "Does it EVER WORK ON ME". Well I agree that getting a message like that too early with no preamble is off putting and I don't like it either. I prefer a more subtle seduction, absolutely. However, if I knew a guy and he sent me a similar message then yes it would work on me. I have been known to send a similar type of message to lovers myself. Gee.... am I bad? I do declare I can be pretty filthy when I am in the mood and I know the other person is receptive to it. I am attracted to smart and articulate men, but they have to know how to be dirty.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' when people refer too any sexual act as Filth, Sick, Deranged etc..........that makes me feel sick. Of course with the exception of anything illegal. there is nothing wrong with this, except that a guy needs to ease on into what he wants and not just lay that on a person he has never met. He also should look to see if said person is into safe sex, that part would piss me off , if a person says they want to cum in me and don't read that I always practice safe sex. yet in fantasy talk to my lovers and text I will often say I want your cum in me , or fuck my arse( yet I have never had anal sex) Its all part of the psychology of imaginative sex, it does not translate into reality unless you want it to. some people are into all kinds of things and some just verbalise this, I know because I do phone sex and get paid for it and your hair would curl at the stuff people talk about. if its illegal I just steer them away from that or say flat out, shall I transfer you to another operator. a fetish, and a fantasy do not always mean reality. so the best thing is to be polite and say, no thank you that's not for me. There is no point to get annoyed about it, after all it could be just a lonely soul getting their only bit of attention from the internet. if a fetish is not for you , then we are all adults here and we can just step away from the people too kinky for our tastesthere is always someone that may match up with that desire, and to call them filthy blah blah blah, is to my mind very narrow minded and rather ironic for a sex site.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'lilyorchid' Quoting 'bradcritchlow' Good manners and politness never go out of fashion x - Posted from rhpmobile Yes you are very right. It is surprising that some people that just because this is a sex site that manners and politeness does not exist in the same space. It does not have to be mutually exclusive. Dirty talk has its place and time. What exactly is that place and time? Just that I have some spare time on my hands, and I would like to be at that place at the right time. Manners count I agree, but sex sites, well honey if its romance your after, there are some nice tame sites, so your sense of being a lady do not get ruffled. LadyT taking her tea, pinkie in the air. well bust my buttons some disgusting man ask to see my flange. I had a fit of the vapours, and had to call for smelling salts.
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RHP User
12 years ago
At least he was polite to start with - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
12 years ago
People are strange when you're a stranger Faces look ugly when you're alone Women seem wicked when you're unwanted Streets are uneven when you're down When you're strange Faces come out of the rain When you're strange No one remembers your name Truth is Tara is absolutely beautiful and smart enough for both of us, so I get a little bit of lea way to focus on the meanings of what may mean something if it had something to mean too. And that requires the aid of bullshit to better understand some of the answers these meanings provide and I think bullshit is amazing, some of it so fantastic, almost to the point of being unbelievable and that's when you know you're onto something of discovery. So If We were to send a message to you Meander, well it wouldn't be without reason or meaning, so far we can say we have stuck to that, last time we chatted it meant something and came to reason. But it's been tempting to have a dabble and send a message, just really out of interests sakes and to not take the discovery to an limited opportunity, might as well address it now. It's too the triple penetration idea you posted a thread too, and that you plan on posting a thread to the reflections upon achieving it. Just the reminder really, silly to even suggest you would need to be reminded, so it's more to satisfy my impulses rather than interupt your train of thoughts. Gonna say it anyway, I reckon that you could find some real meaningful meanings when in the moments of synchronisation to the three parts to your quarter being a full felt achievement, you only get a small window of opportunity to leave the commitment and look at the wonders the unknown have to show some means, I reckon there would be some real fancy stuff going on within yourself, during that adventure, hopefully you get that team spirit to give you a moment to yourself and not to be for thoughts to the weather or time of day it is. It's real pioneering stuff, and got to be for better to all mankind to what may well come from it all Meander, inspirational and Rod is sure to send an angel or two out and light things up for you, no doubts to it being a Rodly experience, and not to mention the Devil will have a wad of cash to throw at it as well. Open your eyes and look up to the skies and see, Momma Ive just found three men, didn't mean to make you cry, if i'm not finished this time tomorrow, carry on carry on, as i'm just out of control, Beelzebub has a devil inside of me, and nothing really matters, nothing really matters to me, any way the men blow, mothers please tell your children, it's not just an easy thing I've done, in a house with three rising studs, and live in sheer blissfully, with these studs in missus me. as I am the last scene, to you I am full of things, making veins blue, powerful and smooth, when my head explodes, out of my skin like the water it's going to flow this time readily, for you all too see. So selfless and caring such a surreal calmness to the bizarre scene, not quite like being in your finest cocktail dress, grilling hamburgers. Well it would be disheartening if that as a message was to be facing an anticipated assumption for defensive reasoning to try and see to it, rude and not very nice, a kick in the nuts and blocked for eternity. Shit we didn't even ask for a root or to see your tit's or any of the normal sort of textbook sure thing approaches, and certainly not suggesting that yourself would have that kind of message system. It would seem to make sense you Meander would be fondly waiting for a steady stream of men messaging you, in order to the bottom line being not such an easy configuration indeed quite a challenge to master that ships company with able seamen, spit and polished and synced in tune to blow the sunset with the Bosun's pipes lasting in key holding to steady flow untill the final pips. Yep, pirates need to know their rivals, and you Meander ain't just any port in a storm, a prodigy yar ar and swords shall cross to you for honour to the code. One final mention, for no particular reason, just that if it turns out Meeka happened to be one of the last men standing by you, then the efforts to such a quality for the false moustache, could easily be seen as simplicity for overlooked better intentions nothing for challenge, nor lack of taking to the task even taking lead to the matter at hand and pride outstanding. If you can figure out how that may have come to mind, I'd love to know? I'm just an angel of encouragements.
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madotara69
12 years ago
Yes your attention span, well over this side of the state of men, your attentions would be well and truly taken past a quicky and taken to reading fine print on your own bubbles, each one having in spirit cum to names. like moon bubble and sky bubble and love bubbles. yeah well, those longer posts and messages I'm talking about you not too you. Plus same same to short attentions and cumming in short time, which is very handy, but we would need to carry out a safety induction if you happened to take to a lasting orgasm and we know you wouldn't shut up during it so to the lengthy dirty filthy suggestive conversation confetti and bubbles floating thick, best we keep it short and straight to the point, it's safer anyway, your untameable and just fucking sexy. Some are just meant to be that way because any more and unstable would have men getting hurt, just have to accept it, you would be to wild given the time to it.Hope you're not getting any ideas.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' I mean really it is just a fucking message. Who so serious about it? Quoting 'LadyTuscan' a fetish, and a fantasy do not always mean reality. so the best thing is to be polite and say, no thank you that's not for me. There is no point to get annoyed about it, after all it could be just a lonely soul getting their only bit of attention from the internet. if a fetish is not for you , then we are all adults here and we can just step away from the people too kinky for our tastes Quoting 'madotara69' Yep, pirates need to know their rivals, and you Meander ain't just any port in a storm, a prodigy yar ar and swords shall cross to you for honour to the code. I'll put up my Pirate pic just for you today.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Firstly, I think sending a message like that either takes a lot of balls or lack of brains (or both), and I guess you have to make that judgement for yourself... By all means delete and block. However, I think it would be wrong to put something in your profile warning guys not to send messages like this. Otherwise instead of sending you those messages and showing you clearly what they're made of, they might spend a while longer and mask their true intentions in softer/nicer language, making your job of discerning between those worth your time and not, so much harder. I suspect what you're really looking for is those who don't need to be told how to speak to a lady. At the same time, I see from the comments on this thread that the approach may well be deliberate, and may well work for some, so depending on how much patience you have you might try prompting this sender to have another go (2 stikes policy?)... Still, if it were me, I wouldn't waste my time. Delete and (optionally) block...there's plenty more out there.
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