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What have you always wanted to know?

March 07 2013

Guys, Girls, is there anything you've always wanted to ask the other sex but have never had the opportunity?   Ask away!   Lets get multiple answers from the forum.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    My questions are long..and many........... currently alphabetising them....getting them in some some sane order to fire off rapidily.... so will check back..but heres one to kick it all off       Guys - why are you so slow on the uptake - when its obvious a chick likes you ? - I mean seriously - how often do you meet a chick , who likes you just for you ?..hanging out for something better ??       Has prime position on the couch next to KarynB...and pours her a glassy of bubbly - here you go.........     except I still have delayed posting...arrggghhh

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    My list: alphabetical, chronological, hypothetical, pie charts, graphs, mean median & mode! HELP, I need a mathematician!!!

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Thanks for the bubbly Shinas.   Great question!   My question......Can you guys REALLY fuck anyone?   We hear again and again that "any hole will do"....can you really do that? Doesn't some level of attraction come into play??

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Shinas - Some guys, me being one of them, are a bit slow. It might be obvious to you but not to the guy. Besides, the guy might be shy. Who can a guy tell if she likes a guy? Karybn - I can't speak for other guys but I wouldn't. I thought I could but then I go, who am kidding. If I would never approach her as a friend there is no way I'll sleep with her. Would women pick up any good looking guy? Pray tell, what do women mean by good looking?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Women: what do you *really* think of cum (jism/sperm)? Visual, taste, smell, feel, it's presence, the way it arrives, the works. Love it, hate it, care less?- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I love it when my partner cums its amazing and such a turn on but also builds my self esteem to know he was so into that. As for the after feel when the passion has died down and the stuff is still there it kinda grosses me out (it feels so unnatural) but bit dramatically just a tad :p- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Love it.... love the taste, texture and the process of sharing it! Watching a man cum, will turn me on EVERY time Quoting 'Messolonghi' Women: what do you *really* think of cum (jism/sperm)? Visual, taste, smell, feel, it's presence, the way it arrives, the works. Love it, hate it, care less?- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    ALot of guys out there are just plain scared of rejection, no matter how confident they seem and Karynb some guys just talk a whole lot of shit, especially when they have their beer goggles on. I have known some guys like that but in truth they are a rarity and others are just plain drunk.Have you known any women like that?

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Not personally...but i guess you are right, they must be out there...... Quoting 'good_vagabond'ALot of guys out there are just plain scared of rejection, no matter how confident they seem and Karynb some guys just talk a whole lot of shit, especially when they have their beer goggles on. I have known some guys like that but in truth they are a rarity and others are just plain drunk.Have you known any women like that?

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Messolonghi' Women: what do you *really* think of cum (jism/sperm)? Visual, taste, smell, feel, it's presence, the way it arrives, the works. Love it, hate it, care less?- Posted from rhpmobile Quoting 'karynb' Love it.... love the taste, texture and the process of sharing it! Watching a man cum, will turn me on EVERY time Quoting 'Messolonghi' Women: what do you *really* think of cum (jism/sperm)? Visual, taste, smell, feel, it's presence, the way it arrives, the works. Love it, hate it, care less?- Posted from rhpmobile paint me

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Messolonghi' Women: what do you *really* think of cum (jism/sperm)? Visual, taste, smell, feel, it's presence, the way it arrives, the works. Love it, hate it, care less?- Posted from rhpmobile I love it.Love the visual of watching a man masturbate and ejaculate. I find it a real turn on, especially if he's ejaculating onto me. I think it's incredibly sexy to have him cum on my boobs, and then rub it all over them... If the guy is inside me I love the way I can feel him get even harder and bigger right before he cums... I also love to have a guy cum in my mouth, I find it very erotic. Not going to lie, I don't find the taste all that appealing, but in the grand scheme of things it's a small issue that I'm happy to deal with, and you can swallow in a way that means you don't really taste it much.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I pretty much ask what I want, when I feel like it.... its a bit of the no-filter policy.... but I have no issue with it.But given this opportunity to ask multiple women at the same time...........I pay particular attention to my fingernails, ensuring theyre clean, very short and have no sharp edges whatsoever................ so how the hell do you girls do it to yourselves and to others with those long claws... if you complain that other guys have scratched you in the past with their relatively short nails?!??!?DG

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'I pretty much ask what I want, when I feel like it.... its a bit of the no-filter policy.... but I have no issue with it. But given this opportunity to ask multiple women at the same time...... .....I pay particular attention to my fingernails, ensuring theyre clean, very short and have no sharp edges whatsoever........ ........ so how the hell do you girls do it to yourselves and to others with those long claws... if you complain that other guys have scratched you in the past with their relatively short nails?!??!? DG Guilty as charged DG. I have those nice long, manicured nails (usually in vibrant colours with pretty designs drawn on them). Im so used to them that I know how to be careful and when theyre too long and dangerous for play.   Being well looked after theyre not rough, the shape is slightly rounded corners on a square tip and incase they do get too long I have gloves (cotton and latex) for any anal play I might be indulging in with a partner, and if the lead up (putting on said gloves) its a bit scary or daunting well I have a lovely little vibe Im more than happy to use.   As for scratches etc from shorter nails I usually find those come from people (male and female) who dont look after them (nail files were invented for a reason people) however noting that you are aware of the necessity for filing ones nails Im sure yours would be no problem.   Kisses Focus

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I have long fingernails......and yes it can be an issue. I had to learn to masturbate all over again....with new techniques. Just changing the angle slightly is the key. I'm always wary of my fingernails and scratching ot tearing others. Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' I pretty much ask what I want, when I feel like it.... its a bit of the no-filter policy.... but I have no issue with it. But given this opportunity to ask multiple women at the same time...... .....I pay particular attention to my fingernails, ensuring theyre clean, very short and have no sharp edges whatsoever........ ........ so how the hell do you girls do it to yourselves and to others with those long claws... if you complain that other guys have scratched you in the past with their relatively short nails?!??!? DG

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Anyone who is appealing in appearance. Keys: great smile, well groomed, good teeth, Not neccessarily traditionally tall, dark and handsome. Quoting 'zu7bcv' Shinas - Some guys, me being one of them, are a bit slow. It might be obvious to you but not to the guy. Besides, the guy might be shy. Who can a guy tell if she likes a guy? Karybn - I can't speak for other guys but I wouldn't. I thought I could but then I go, who am kidding. If I would never approach her as a friend there is no way I'll sleep with her. Would women pick up any good looking guy? Pray tell, what do women mean by good looking?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Oh... Yes...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    1. Does the toilet roll really work to measure your cock?? 2. MEET and GREETS... What do you guys want to hear from us women, between meet and greet days?? Example: During those days between.... Do you want to hear from us? What exactly do you guys want to "hear"? What turns you on and what turns you off meeting again?? Foxy- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'good_vagabond' ALot of guys out there are just plain scared of rejection, no matter how confident they seem and Karynb some guys just talk a whole lot of shit, especially when they have their beer goggles on. I have known some guys like that but in truth they are a rarity and others are just plain drunk.Have you known any women like that? That is my biggest fear...rejection especially from someone whom I do like - don't want to make a fool of myself.I find it a little difficult sometimes...So what EXACTLY to you good guys like to hear..what are the key words.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    My question. Why do people feel the need to be abusive on this site for no apparent reason? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'karynb' Thanks for the bubbly Shinas.   Great question!   My question......Can you guys REALLY fuck anyone?   We hear again and again that "any hole will do"....can you really do that? Doesn't some level of attraction come into play?? To answer your question: No. No, no, no, no, no. Just because I'm a single bloke, doesn't mean "any port in a storm". There must be attraction, both physical and mental.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'worksaway79'My question. Why do people feel the need to be abusive on this site for no apparent reason? - Posted from rhpmobile Because they are hiding behind a keyboard and most people bat way out of their league on here as they feel desired with all the messages they get! Bet you in real life they don't get looked at twice though! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'worksaway79' My question. Why do people feel the need to be abusive on this site for no apparent reason? - Posted from rhpmobile That's it!! I'm definitely moving to WA...If I met you no way would I be ever rude to you. Best answer and reason is; BECAUSE THEY CAN!FOXY - leaving couch to pack bags.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Foxy's coming to WA (it even rhymes!)Then we can show you how we use toilet rolls for measurement, you can help firey with his problems in your own unique way and the word worksaway would like to hear is just YES.Hooray Hooray

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    my question why do people play games on this sight...are there real people on here..??? dis- heartened... and over it!!!!

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    well worksaway79 the same could be asked on why people must tell such blatant lies about his profile friends

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'mahooo72' my question why do people play games on this sight...are there real people on here..??? dis- heartened... and over it!!!!

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'SuperFox' Quoting 'worksaway79' My question. Why do people feel the need to be abusive on this site for no apparent reason? - Posted from rhpmobile That's it!! I'm definitely moving to WA...If I met you no way would I be ever rude to you. Best answer and reason is; BECAUSE THEY CAN!FOXY - leaving couch to pack bags. Quoting 'SuperFox' Quoting 'worksaway79' My question. Why do people feel the need to be abusive on this site for no apparent reason? - Posted from rhpmobile That's it!! I'm definitely moving to WA...If I met you no way would I be ever rude to you. Best answer and reason is; BECAUSE THEY CAN!FOXY - leaving couch to pack bags.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Foxy smells a rat...FOXY

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'worksaway79' My question. Why do people feel the need to be abusive on this site for no apparent reason? - Posted from rhpmobile Peeps always have a reason Roidboy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Please be aware of the OP, (karynb) who has posted this Forum Topic in good Faith.It would be disappointing if, her and others who have posted in this Forum, see something that we don't need to see nor be made aware of an issue that should be dealt with privately.I don't need an explanation just for you to be aware the disrespect to the OP.FoxyQuoting 'METRIC' Quoting 'SuperFox' Quoting 'worksaway79'

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Good point Foxy on your post above, well put.Now I'll just dry my tears and throw out the toilet rolls because Foxy's not coming to WA, she's probably cumming, just not here in WA.Bwaaaaahhhhhaaaaaaaaaaaa

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'SuperFox' Foxy smells a rat...FOXY mahooo72 smells a rat too...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    sorry ...if that was meQuoting 'worksaway79' My question. Why do people feel the need to be abusive on this site for no apparent reason? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Messolonghi' Women: what do you *really* think of cum (jism/sperm)? Visual, taste, smell, feel, it's presence, the way it arrives, the works. Love it, hate it, care less?- Posted from rhpmobile yep i love it ..if it tastes good i will swallow..if i can see it ...it turns me on ...love watching a man play with his cock..yum...i would rather have it on my chest or face..not really in me..then i know he or she has had a good time..

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'mahooo72' sorry ...if that was me Quoting 'worksaway79' My question. Why do people feel the need to be abusive on this site for no apparent reason? - Posted from rhpmobile I have no idea why you were singled out with the other person...You asked a legit question, while Metric was just being vindictive! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I'm indifferent to it but, for some reason, can't swallow it. It just hits my stomach and makes me retch, which is deeply unsexy. So, sadly, I'm a spitter.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'xFunlovingx' Quoting 'mahooo72' sorry ...if that was me Quoting 'worksaway79' My question. Why do people feel the need to be abusive on this site for no apparent reason? - Posted from rhpmobile I have no idea why you were singled out with the other person...You asked a legit question, while Metric was just being vindictive! xFunlovingx

  • happy0450

    happy0450

    13 years ago

    Dear Karynb - While difficult to generlise, this is a common misconception. Many of us love to kiss, cuddle, make love rather than just fu@k. I think if anything the sterotypes are being reversed

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    is here and told me to join.I put my seeking age older because I like older men but I am worried that I will wear them out.I spent 50 years with one man so I am a little nervous.Does anyone think I should try younger men,say in their 60s.?

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'karynb' Thanks for the bubbly Shinas.   Great question!   My question......Can you guys REALLY fuck anyone?   We hear again and again that "any hole will do"....can you really do that? Doesn't some level of attraction come into play?? Absolutely not. In fact, my 'will fuck' list is unusually small. One of my best female friends told me something yesterday that I'd never considered, but was so true. She said in the past when mutual female friends had expressed an interest in me and asked how to proceed, she'd told them that I'd either be interested in them in, in which case they'd know about it, or I wouldn't, in which case there was pretty much nothing they could do to change my mind.It's a little frustrating at times, not reciprocating when I know something could develop out of it, and not really fair, but it just goes to show that maybe sometimes there's truth to the whole 'he's just not into you' scenario. I do know that most of my male friends aren't as 'discerning' as I am, but it still doesn't mean they'll fuck just anyone. There are of course guys that will do anything to rack up notches on the bed-post, and I don't think men and women approach it quite the same, but I don't think there's as much difference between the sexes as you might imagine.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Luckdragon23' Quoting 'Messolonghi' Women: what do you *really* think of cum (jism/sperm)? Visual, taste, smell, feel, it's presence, the way it arrives, the works. Love it, hate it, care less?- Posted from rhpmobile I love it.Love the visual of watching a man masturbate and ejaculate. I find it a real turn on, especially if he's ejaculating onto me. I think it's incredibly sexy to have him cum on my boobs, and then rub it all over them... If the guy is inside me I love the way I can feel him get even harder and bigger right before he cums... I also love to have a guy cum in my mouth, I find it very erotic. Not going to lie, I don't find the taste all that appealing, but in the grand scheme of things it's a small issue that I'm happy to deal with, and you can swallow in a way that means you don't really taste it much. Can I Keep You PLEASE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I can't speak for most guys, but personally i'm scared of rejection, however as an infrequent drinker i do love to watch the "crash and burn" merchants chasing everything upright with a pulse on a nite out.   I'm pretty shy, and as such find the idea of being rejected plays a huge part in my reluctance to openly try to engage someone i find attractive, i've also lost count of thge number of times people have said "they're just being friendly" at what point does friendly change to something more? maybe i just don't recognise the signs, maybe i just don't want to overstep the mark?   there is nothing more attractive than a confident attractive woman taking the lead (and, yes, that has happened to me)   as for what do guys like, well im not an "any hole's a goal" kinda guy, i need to find someone attracrive to want to go there, perhaps im a bit too fussy? Not that i can afford to be! but there is something very sensual about feeling wanted, wether it be fun in the bedroom, or something more substantial.   Happy hunting girls ;-)

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    What's with your "Disappearing Act"? The Act as good as Houdini and something David Copperfield would be proud of......POOF! Gooooooone.. A woman has to assume you've died..right?? Then BANG days later contact.. Why can't some men just man up be honourable with a little self pride, be honest and say if they are just not that into you?? Pretty passive-aggressive and down right rude and offensive, if you ask me..just sayin.. Oh I know some women do it too..however my question is put towards men in this case...so if a man wants to ask the women, he can post his own question...LOL Foxy- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    You meet here You start chatting You meet You play - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I can almost orgasm without manipulation over watching a guy I'm attracted to cum. Love watching them wank so much! I love cum! I'm an eater big time - always need my protein ;) Everyone tastes different but I have to say some taste absolutely delicious. That's when I know I have a real "chemistry attraction" to them. I do also love the feel of creamy cum smoothing over my breasts - feels amazing. I practice safe sex but when I'm with a trustworthy ongoing partner there is nothing better than the feel of their cum inside u. I love how it turns to almost water consistency and u "relive" the moment for up to a day after every time u feel your lips get clammy.. It makes me feel naughty having them inside me still like its my own naughty secret. Here's cheers to our hot juices! (Yes I love my own cum too) Fun and pleasure my darlings xxx- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Firstly great idea on a topic karynb. I would just like to know why Women on hear when you send them a message generally don't reply. I am relatively new here and haven't met anyone from here as yet. Is it just me that finds this extremely rude. I would much prefer honesty and someone saying "Hey you're not my type but thanks for the message". I know I am not Brad Pitt or George Clooney but didn't think they pushed my face in the dough to make Gorilla Biscuits or a head like a smashed crab. On the advice of someone quite prominent on here I changed my profile to contain more information about me and being honest. Thanks "B", but to no avail! "Sigh". I have even turned off my auto renewal because I think I am waiting my time. Anyway thanks for reading. PS - Luckdragon, wish I lived closer to you. xx

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Foxy, so what exactly would the measurement technique be? Trying to stuff it in there and see how much pokes out the end?

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'karynb'My question......Can you guys REALLY fuck anyone?   We hear again and again that "any hole will do"....can you really do that? Doesn't some level of attraction come into play?? There has to an attraction to start with. And sex is NOT just about a cock in a hole. It's about the BEFORE, the teasing, the tantalizing, the texting, the chatting..then the NOW, the exploring, the tasting, the feeling, and more..and then the AFTER, the stroking, the kissing, the feeling, mmmmm, need I say more?

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'SuperFox' What's with your "Disappearing Act"? The Act as good as Houdini and something David Copperfield would be proud of......POOF! Gooooooone.. A woman has to assume you've died..right?? Then BANG days later contact.. Why can't some men just man up be honourable with a little self pride, be honest and say if they are just not that into you?? Pretty passive-aggressive and down right rude and offensive, if you ask me..just sayin.. Oh I know some women do it too..however my question is put towards men in this case...so if a man wants to ask the women, he can post his own question...LOL Foxy- Posted from rhpmobile What surprises me isL We have a wonderful night, great times, great sex, a bit of sleep (lol), more sex in the morning, go to work, send a text and WTF, she doesn't know who I am So my question is:Why can't a woman say she has had a great time, but it was a "oncer", or why can't she say that I am just a notch on her belt? Or is that just too difficult?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Measure our cocks with the toilet roll? That's a new one.. How and why would we go about that?   Fit

  • happy0450

    happy0450

    13 years ago

    So many questions, but starting out slowly, do most women have names for their toys. One friend calls her fav toy Big Blue, seemingly not that imitative as apparently, its big and blue. Another calls her fav toy Bob…for battery operated BF. ??

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    "If it doesn't fit in the roll...Its to BIG..." So I have read in the Forums here and there - besides a measuring tape..LOL LOL I looked and toilet rolls are quite large -I reckon if I was "gifted" I would tear it - but then again I'm sure mine would be elegant with some substance... ;-) Foxy- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    We women have names for lots if things, darling..toys included. ;-) This Fox loves her "wrabbit"...hehe

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Hmmm, maybe i'm in the minority....but i never thought to give them names. Don't want to get them confused with my lovers! Quoting 'happy0450' So many questions, but starting out slowly, do most women have names for their toys. One friend calls her fav toy Big Blue, seemingly not that imitative as apparently, its big and blue. Another calls her fav toy Bob…for battery operated BF. ??

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I would say it is up to you if it works or not. Mine doesn't quite fit in, gets about a quarter of the way there. Whether it works or not though, who can tell. I guess you would have to see the cock to decide oof the rule works.   Did feel a little odd doing it though. haha. Never knew there were so many uses for a toilet roll.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    HAHAHA You've made my day darling... The Myth is TRUE!!!! Foxy

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    hahahha.   Never thought anyone would call me darling for putting my cock in a toilet roll.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Clearly I need to stop putting mine in the recycling bin!!! However I do wonder who thought of the concept that a toilet roll was the perfect size comparison for a pussy!&$@!! My rational side says its just something we all have that's easily accessible and easy to refer to. I did have an ex partner who sent me a pic of his cock beside a can of Red Bull. I wasn't aware it comes in 2 sizes!!!! 0_o Ouch!!!- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Why in the hell do guys get so abusive when they get knocked back? I could never understand why they send you messages saying "You're too old anyway" or "You're too fat" or "You have saggy tits" messages when a girl says no! Do they think that highly of themselves that they are in just utter disbelief that someone said no or do they think at my age I should be grateful for sex and that they chose me? xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I am going to guess here... I think some people can't or don't know how to handle rejection...those feelings that go with...so they try to say something mean and hurtful to make themselves feel better (sooth their emotions) when infact its actually shows their true colors. I guess as wel, cause you can say "no" some people aren't used to that and think they are gods gift when infact they aren't..LOL No one deserves to be spoken to or created like that.. I am sorry that happens to you...of all people on these forums, you don't deserve them. Foxy Oh the toilet roll Myth and Red Bull can is too funny. :-)- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    My question   Why do a lot of women seem to have trouble coming to terms with the concept that a man can still shower them with affection, spoil them rotten, be generous in and out of bed and just generally treat them right... while at the same time not be falling madly in love with them and still be able to enjoy a polyamorous relationship?

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    and return a sms/phone call ?     Why do people chose to be cruel ?

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'SuperFox'I am going to guess here... I think some people can't or don't know how to handle rejection...those feelings that go with...so they try to say something mean and hurtful to make themselves feel better (sooth their emotions) when infact its actually shows their true colors. I guess as wel, cause you can say "no" some people aren't used to that and think they are gods gift when infact they aren't..LOL No one deserves to be spoken to or created like that.. I am sorry that happens to you...of all people on these forums, you don't deserve them. Foxy Oh the toilet roll Myth and Red Bull can is too funny. :-)- Posted from rhpmobile What gets me is that this last guy and I have been texting on and off for over 2 years (he went overseas for a year) and it is nothing more than mateship! All of a sudden he went off his tree yesterday and I got no less than 120 texts of him putting me down! I ended up googling him (something I have never done before) and spoke to the President of his footy club and also his job! Fingers crossed, all quiet today! But it's not only him...I find other guys get abusive too when I'm not interested in meeting! I just don't get that...rejection happens to us all...we are not all everyone's cup of tea...Why is it so hard for some to take that rejection! Although I must point out...most of the guys I reject send back a message thanking me for replying to them! It's just that handful that are just downright mean! xFunlovingx

  • enduran

    enduran

    13 years ago

    Everyone gets rejected once in a while...i do find it more frustrating if someone is not interested but does not say so after a few messages. Still i would never be abusive...what's the point? Do they think it is change their mind?!?! Doesnt make sense.I think you would have a better chance to change their minds later if you are nice about it. And even when you cannot stand the reason for being rejected...it is ultimately their choice!

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Shinas' and return a sms/phone call ?     Why do people chose to be cruel ? They are not being cruel, they are just CLEARLY not interested in you and wish for no more communication! Move on and leave them alone!!!!!! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'xFunlovingx' Quoting 'Shinas' and return a sms/phone call ?     Why do people chose to be cruel ? They are not being cruel, they are just CLEARLY not interested in you and wish for no more communication! Move on and leave them alone!!!!!! xFunlovingx   But settle petal...they just did ..so all is good in the world :)

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    If you dont actually cum have you still enjoyed the sex?   Or If the sex really is good would you always come??

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'worksaway79' My question. Why do people feel the need to be abusive on this site for no apparent reason? - Posted from rhpmobile I find most forums have some kind of bitchyness going on. Not just this one. A lot of whinging too. Whinging is everywhere. You'd think this was the third world.

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    13 years ago

    I've had this "problem" quite a few times over the last couple of months but I wouldn't call it a problem. It's only a problem if we make it one. Every time I haven't cum I've still enjoyed myself a great deal.. If it occurred more regularly I could imagine it would get frustrating. And the sex has been absolutely fantastic whether I've cum or not..

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Shinas' Quoting 'xFunlovingx' Quoting 'Shinas' and return a sms/phone call ?     Why do people chose to be cruel ? They are not being cruel, they are just CLEARLY not interested in you and wish for no more communication! Move on and leave them alone!!!!!! xFunlovingx   But settle petal...they just did ..so all is good in the world :) My take is they are gutless individuals who dont know how to have an adult conversation, way too many game players for my liking... Glad to hear all is good in your world Shinas

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'sunshine_man' Quoting 'worksaway79' My question. Why do people feel the need to be abusive on this site for no apparent reason? - Posted from rhpmobile I find most forums have some kind of bitchyness going on. Not just this one. A lot of whinging too. Whinging is everywhere. You'd think this was the third world. One reason - because they are operating from their own insecurites - as they have nothing else..........and they chose to be like this...all you can do, is ignore...and move on   All is excellent in my world SassyMissM.............all that has happened has happened for a reason....and Im damn glad it has happened.......................................2 weeks and counting (happy dance ..on crutches )

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'SassyMissM' Quoting 'Shinas' Quoting 'xFunlovingx' Quoting 'Shinas' and return a sms/phone call ?     Why do people chose to be cruel ? They are not being cruel, they are just CLEARLY not interested in you and wish for no more communication! Move on and leave them alone!!!!!! xFunlovingx   But settle petal...they just did ..so all is good in the world :) My take is they are gutless individuals who dont know how to have an adult conversation, way too many game players for my liking... Glad to hear all is good in your world Shinas And what if the woman is calling and texting and emailing non stop when they are told to STOP? Who is the gutless individual then? Not the person that told them to fuck off! It's the person who keeps harrassing them! NO means NO for any sex...not just females!!!!!! xFunlovingx

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    13 years ago

    peanut butter in the fridge?i've only ever seen guys do this, not sure why.you can't spread it after that.

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'karynb' Thanks for the bubbly Shinas.   Great question!   My question......Can you guys REALLY fuck anyone?   We hear again and again that "any hole will do"....can you really do that? Doesn't some level of attraction come into play??Personally no I can't there has to be a connection. I'm not saying a deep and life changing connection but there has to be common ground and an attraction. But thats's just me. I am a GHOF after all.

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    enduran

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'xxticklishxx' If you dont actually cum have you still enjoyed the sex?   Or If the sex really is good would you always come?? I still enjoy it even when i dont cum. As long as my partner is enjoying it as well and cums...i never had neither of us coming.

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'worksaway79'My question. Why do people feel the need to be abusive on this site for no apparent reason? - Posted from rhpmobile I wish this forum had a 'like' button!

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    13 years ago

    Wow...arent you a passionate piece! So maybe you know of a story that the rest of use dont.... cause your siding with the blokes which is very unsisterhood like! but obviously you know something we dont.... Still comes down to common courtesy... yes, no, thankyou.... GROW SOME BALLS!!!

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'SassyMissM' Wow...arent you a passionate piece! So maybe you know of a story that the rest of use dont.... cause your siding with the blokes which is very unsisterhood like! but obviously you know something we dont.... Still comes down to common courtesy... yes, no, thankyou.... GROW SOME BALLS!!! Bwahahahahahahaha @ Sisterhood!! And yes I agree ... the women that stalk and cause problems in relationships and threaten should grow some balls and know when NO mean NO!! When you are told NO a hundred times over...and keep contacting the person or friends of that person...then that is not being courteous at all...that is just being God Damned rude and Stalkerish! Oh PS: I side with the truth!!!!! xFunlovingx

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    13 years ago

    i forgot the whole quote with reply thing..... but this ones for xxfun

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'xFunlovingx' Quoting 'SassyMissM' Wow...arent you a passionate piece! So maybe you know of a story that the rest of use dont.... cause your siding with the blokes which is very unsisterhood like! but obviously you know something we dont.... Still comes down to common courtesy... yes, no, thankyou.... GROW SOME BALLS!!! Bwahahahahahahaha @ Sisterhood!! And yes I agree ... the women that stalk and cause problems in relationships and threaten should grow some balls and know when NO mean NO!! When you are told NO a hundred times over...and keep contacting the person or friends of that person...then that is not being courteous at all...that is just being God Damned rude and Stalkerish! Oh PS: I side with the truth!!!!! xFunlovingxWhat is funny is a chick flapping her wings for a guy.... i mean what are you doing>???? he has a big cock? it feels good? why are you siding with the cock??? wow.... but go for it sweety.... in the mean time you have me!

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'xFunlovingx' Quoting 'SassyMissM' Wow...arent you a passionate piece! So maybe you know of a story that the rest of use dont.... cause your siding with the blokes which is very unsisterhood like! but obviously you know something we dont.... Still comes down to common courtesy... yes, no, thankyou.... GROW SOME BALLS!!! Bwahahahahahahaha @ Sisterhood!! And yes I agree ... the women that stalk and cause problems in relationships and threaten should grow some balls and know when NO mean NO!! When you are told NO a hundred times over...and keep contacting the person or friends of that person...then that is not being courteous at all...that is just being God Damned rude and Stalkerish! Oh PS: I side with the truth!!!!! xFunlovingxWhat is funny is a chick flapping her wings for a guy.... i mean what are you doing>???? he has a big cock? it feels good? why are you siding with the cock??? wow.... but go for it sweety.... in the mean time you have me!

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'SassyMissM' Quoting 'xFunlovingx' Quoting 'SassyMissM' Wow...arent you a passionate piece! So maybe you know of a story that the rest of use dont.... cause your siding with the blokes which is very unsisterhood like! but obviously you know something we dont.... Still comes down to common courtesy... yes, no, thankyou.... GROW SOME BALLS!!! Bwahahahahahahaha @ Sisterhood!! And yes I agree ... the women that stalk and cause problems in relationships and threaten should grow some balls and know when NO mean NO!! When you are told NO a hundred times over...and keep contacting the person or friends of that person...then that is not being courteous at all...that is just being God Damned rude and Stalkerish! Oh PS: I side with the truth!!!!! xFunlovingxWhat is funny is a chick flapping her wings for a guy.... i mean what are you doing>???? he has a big cock? it feels good? why are you siding with the cock??? wow.... but go for it sweety.... in the mean time you have me! I don't fuck mates, I don't fuck guys in another State either...do they have big cocks? No idea...never seen a cock pic either! As I said I go for the TRUTH and the TRUTH only! If you want to believe lies .. then that is your perogative....more fool you! But whether you are male or female...Stalking is NOT OK! And it would be a shame that you think that it is ok for females all for this "Sisterhood"!!! xFunlovingx

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    13 years ago

    Who said anything about stalking??????   A lady asked a question...about why her text wasnt followed up on??? I gave what i thought was a an adult response... not sure why you are attacking me right now...     but im siure theres one right????

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'SassyMissM' Who said anything about stalking??????   A lady asked a question...about why her text wasnt followed up on??? I gave what i thought was a an adult response... not sure why you are attacking me right now...     but im siure theres one right????   After seeing the movie ... "He's Just Not Into You" ....It was a great line from the movie! Attacking? Umm read back! I was staying ON TOPIC! And yes, if you call and text someone over and over and they don't reply...it is form of Stalking! Me? I call or text once, if he doesn't call back or text...i delete the number! If I'm told to fuck off...I fuck off! I don't need nor want to live in a dilusional world like some! xFunlovingx

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    13 years ago

    Please ladies please settle   For the Record FL - my post was not directed at our mutual "friend" ....my post was in reference to another..who contacted me this afternoon..after a funny and strange minsunderstanding regarding a lost phone number and broken cell phone...........and a "jump to a conclusion" on my behalf....all good now..happiness reigns - however I appreciate that you could misinterpret that and its admirable that you would go into bat for your friend.   As for our mutal friend - well only two people really knows what went down there and that is us two and of course both of us will come from our own perspectives...and you you are quite correct - they werent "into me" .they just gave every indication that they were. Accordingly.. I now see that its the best thing to have happened for us both......and I wish them all the best as I wish the same for myself and for you . You were kind to me FL when I was sick..I will always remember that with Louise Hay etc...   SassyMissM..all that fire and passion....now lets save it for when your here.., for when we go to Northbridge and for arguing over the footy ok...love you xxx

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'xFunlovingx' Quoting 'SuperFox'I am going to guess here... I think some people can't or don't know how to handle rejection...those feelings that go with...so they try to say something mean and hurtful to make themselves feel better (sooth their emotions) when infact its actually shows their true colors. I guess as wel, cause you can say "no" some people aren't used to that and think they are gods gift when infact they aren't..LOL No one deserves to be spoken to or created like that.. I am sorry that happens to you...of all people on these forums, you don't deserve them. Foxy Oh the toilet roll Myth and Red Bull can is too funny. :-)- Posted from rhpmobile What gets me is that this last guy and I have been texting on and off for over 2 years (he went overseas for a year) and it is nothing more than mateship! All of a sudden he went off his tree yesterday and I got no less than 120 texts of him putting me down! I ended up googling him (something I have never done before) and spoke to the President of his footy club and also his job! Fingers crossed, all quiet today! But it's not only him...I find other guys get abusive too when I'm not interested in meeting! I just don't get that...rejection happens to us all...we are not all everyone's cup of tea...Why is it so hard for some to take that rejection! Although I must point out...most of the guys I reject send back a message thanking me for replying to them! It's just that handful that are just downright mean! xFunlovingx The President of the Footy Club must have spoken to him...not one text today, first time in a week with no texts...Ahhhh Peace...Lovin' It! xFunlovingx

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Driftwood1'I've had this "problem" quite a few times over the last couple of months but I wouldn't call it a problem. It's only a problem if we make it one. Every time I haven't cum I've still enjoyed myself a great deal.. If it occurred more regularly I could imagine it would get frustrating. And the sex has been absolutely fantastic whether I've cum or not.. I hoped that was the case. As a woman I dont always have that mind blowing orgasm but that doesnt mean it didnt feel fucking fantastic and satisfying.

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'xxticklishxx' Quoting 'Driftwood1'I've had this "problem" quite a few times over the last couple of months but I wouldn't call it a problem. It's only a problem if we make it one. Every time I haven't cum I've still enjoyed myself a great deal.. If it occurred more regularly I could imagine it would get frustrating. And the sex has been absolutely fantastic whether I've cum or not.. I hoped that was the case. As a woman I dont always have that mind blowing orgasm but that doesnt mean it didnt feel fucking fantastic and satisfying. xxTicklishxx, For me, sometimes the planets don't allign for whatever reason. If my partner has orgasmed, preferably more than once :) and I have had a good time then I don't feel bad about the rare time I didn't cum myself. Swings and roundabouts as sometimes the planets won't align for her as well. Also I think its important to communicate to her that I didn't for reason x,y,z so she doesn't feel guilty that I didn't and its all good.

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'xFunlovingx' Quoting 'SassyMissM' Quoting 'xFunlovingx' Quoting 'SassyMissM' Wow...arent you a passionate piece! So maybe you know of a story that the rest of use dont.... cause your siding with the blokes which is very unsisterhood like! but obviously you know something we dont.... Still comes down to common courtesy... yes, no, thankyou.... GROW SOME BALLS!!! Bwahahahahahahaha @ Sisterhood!! And yes I agree ... the women that stalk and cause problems in relationships and threaten should grow some balls and know when NO mean NO!! When you are told NO a hundred times over...and keep contacting the person or friends of that person...then that is not being courteous at all...that is just being God Damned rude and Stalkerish! Oh PS: I side with the truth!!!!! xFunlovingxWhat is funny is a chick flapping her wings for a guy.... i mean what are you doing>???? he has a big cock? it feels good? why are you siding with the cock??? wow.... but go for it sweety.... in the mean time you have me! I don't fuck mates, I don't fuck guys in another State either...do they have big cocks? No idea...never seen a cock pic either! As I said I go for the TRUTH and the TRUTH only! If you want to believe lies .. then that is your perogative....more fool you! But whether you are male or female...Stalking is NOT OK! And it would be a shame that you think that it is ok for females all for this "Sisterhood"!!! xFunlovingx It is best to completely ignore these types of people as you will never be able to debate, discuss or bounce ideas off of them due to their nature.Don't go there... if you want your sanity

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    13 years ago

    Why do people take such pleasure in gossip, rumour, spite and unkindness. I see it on the forums often enough and it makes my stomach turn. It's adults at their worst - acting like petty children when they should be grown up enough to know better. Why is it so hard to just let things that are none of your business go? If you can't add kindness to the world, why not just say nothing? It's surely a small and pitiful joy when a grown adult seeks pleasure in someone else's misfortune, poor judgment, or pain and sadness. And so there's absolutely no misunderstanding - yes I'm referring to posts on this thread but also to many posts over the many years I've been here, where forum posters have shown their nasty side and led me to shake my head in disbelief. So, why? Feel free to enlighten me.

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    13 years ago

    Something I struggle to understand too :-(

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    13 years ago

    I struggle with that at times too.. I think sometimes people just want to be HEARD or LISTENED to. Sometimes I think its good tho for others to read and post for everyone to read...that way people can be their our own judge of things... When things get dragged on from Forum to Forum...that upsets me to read it, beyond my control what others post so I just skip, ignore and let them be. Its funny how different personabilities shine through. There is not much we can do about what others post as they are their own person...What gets me is when people have fake profiles to stir the pot....sorry but they stand out a mile away!! That gets to me- and its not OK to do as its is vindictive and nasty...let the go I say. :-) Chin up sweetness and keep posting the awesome posts you post. :-) Foxy - Posted from rhpmobile

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    13 years ago

    or fora,is full of flora and fauna.Just like any oher community or village,there are the nice guys and girls,the bullies,the wits..some of us are just a half of that one...the uber sexy,the intie-lecht-uals,the judgemental,and so it goes on. Most of us fall into at least one category,....some more,....on any one day,depending on whether or not the planets are configured in a particular way or if the moon is on the wane or the wax posters will inhabit a particular aspect of their persona.....the problem is that once the POST button is clicked,ya cant take it back. We are also a sensitive and fragile lot at times,and often we think that something said is referring just to US,when we were further than the moon from that posters mind. Sometimes it really heats up in here,just like LRE's Bakery,sometimes we play nice in the sandpit,sometimes we need to take our bat and ball and go home....till we work out when ,if or how we want to play again. Sometimes there is a lull and everything seems so calm and peaceful I go into a coma.

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    13 years ago

    Is bad spelling and grammar a turn off to other users?   If I need an interpreter to decipher a message or profile I wont respond. Am I being too fussy????   (sorry but I really am not interested in the bitch fight going on in this forum)

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    13 years ago

    I think it's cabin fever. Maybe too much time spent online. However I have lost instant postings recently because someone doesn't understand my humour and kept complaining about me, sadly I was only having a joke with them. No matter I must remember to ignore them. I do like a bit of gossip though. Hate me if you must. :P People do get heated at times as they are standing up for friends. Understandable. I just think it is a shame that some people don't stop to think that there are always two sides to every story... And If someone is filling your newbie ear about how awful some people in the forum are. Maybe that person is actually the trouble maker. Not the people they are talking about.

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    13 years ago

    Welcome back Freya. Lets hope this recent lull is only a phase. ;-)

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'xxticklishxx' Is bad spelling and grammar a turn off to other users?   If I need an interpreter to decipher a message or profile I wont respond. Am I being too fussy????   (sorry but I really am not interested in the bitch fight going on in this forum) Sometimes it is and sometimes it isn't for me...I try to be opened minded especially when it comes to males as some of them are not real computer literate..This is how I see it....Some men are just not built to sit on a keyboard as they are normally hands on..like to use their hands to build/fix things...so at school maybe they left earlier than others as a schoolroom was not for them as they would've rather be someone where like in a mechanic shop or something - they just wanted to be out there building or fixing.so I tend sometimes to be fair there and think like that. NOW on the other hand if you need and INTERPRETER hummmm that's a language barrier...is that something for you??Some people it is ok and others not...it's a personal choice. You are not wrong or right if you choose not to go there.FOXY

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    13 years ago

    GRAMMER = GRAMMARSee I am not perfect - I made a spelling erro...lolFoxy

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    13 years ago

    How long can a newbie be considered a newbie???

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100'I think it's cabin fever. Maybe too much time spent online. However I have lost instant postings recently because someone doesn't understand my humour and kept complaining about me, sadly I was only having a joke with them. No matter I must remember to ignore them. I do like a bit of gossip though. Hate me if you must. :P People do get heated at times as they are standing up for friends. Understandable. I just think it is a shame that some people don't stop to think that there are always two sides to every story... And If someone is filling your newbie ear about how awful some people in the forum are. Maybe that person is actually the trouble maker. Not the people they are talking about. It was stated by a newbie the other day that she got messages from people warning her about certain people on these Forums...Not the first time I have heard it either! It always goes back to a certain "group"! I was blocked because they were told that I was friends of a person that they disliked! Now this person is not on my friends list and neither do we chat much on the Forums..so how did this "Newbie" find out we were friends? Because someone told them! I am just convinced that those "Newbies" have no mind of their own and are more into gossip and backstabbing in the background than what they like to admit! Sad for them...as they don't get to know people on their own values and could be missing out on the most amazing people! How sad to get a message warning you against certain people on here therefore not allowing you to enjoy the Forums and to read with distaste and anger whenever they post! I would rather read the humour and stories and make my own judgement on someone! xFunlovingx

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