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What have you always wanted to know?
March 07 2013
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RHP User
13 years ago
I reckon you can still feel fairly new to RHP and the whole experience for 6 - 12 months. Depends on the person and how comfortable they feel. In relation to the forums... If they have never really participated in a forum before you would be pretty green to the dynamics I would think. But that's just me. Everyone is different.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'lil_bit_angelic'Why do people take such pleasure in gossip, rumour, spite and unkindness. I see it on the forums often enough and it makes my stomach turn. It's adults at their worst - acting like petty children when they should be grown up enough to know better. Why is it so hard to just let things that are none of your business go? If you can't add kindness to the world, why not just say nothing? It's surely a small and pitiful joy when a grown adult seeks pleasure in someone else's misfortune, poor judgment, or pain and sadness. And so there's absolutely no misunderstanding - yes I'm referring to posts on this thread but also to many posts over the many years I've been here, where forum posters have shown their nasty side and led me to shake my head in disbelief. So, why? Feel free to enlighten me. Because friends have been hurt.. Relationships have been broken up.. And just maybe because some people post certain things to upset someone intentionally while looking innocent to everyone else! Sorry but I will stick up for my mates anytime and I will stick up for the "Underdog" (so to speak) as I find it really nasty to post with a smile on their face when in fact they know the person that is reading their posts is in pain and hurting and unfortunately can block them from messaging them..but can't block them from the Forums! It is also my way of letting them know that I know what is going on and I don't think it is ok to make someone suffer on purpose! That is just downright nasty to the point of Forum bullying as they have no other contact with that person other than on here! Oh plus I'm Calabrese! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Did I miss somethng?What on earth did you say?But I have unwittingly upset someone in the past too.....am looking for my politically correct book of humourous quotes as I type.Want me to send you a copy?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Why do tradies always start so early in the morning? You even seem them sitting in their trucks much earlier than they're allowed to start work as well, sometimes before it's even light. It's not to beat the traffic 'cause the motorway is chocked with tradies at that time of the morning... It's not to make the most of the daylight 'cause we have daylight savings (here, at least, where our curtains are more fade resistant)... Who can tell me?ps. Peachy... I've been on other forums (not sex related, and many years ago, I confess) where 'newbism' was judged by how many times you'd posted... others by 'reputation points' awarded by other members... in all cases, like here, I think I've always felt like a newb until the day I closed my account even if that was years later.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I do think it is important to note that regulars can form strong bonds over time and will stand up for each other without getting both sides of any story as it happens often. At this point they are not defending each other but attacking instead. I think any newcummer could well find that daunting as I know of several who have been 'attacked' who are now regulars themselves, after surviving that first onslaught. On one occasion, a forumite expressed how they felt about their mother which was for some reason taken personally by another forumite who then protested long and loud about their mother. This forumite was then joined by several others in attacking the first forumite without taking into account different experiences in life. This caused a lot of pain to the person who'd shared their intimate feelings on an aspect of their life with no intention of their comment referring to anything but their own experiences. That was clear to me from the outset and I could relate to that persons experiences. Oh yes, and the upshot of that is that I think it fair that newbies are given some insight into the workings of the forum and then it's up to them what they make of it.It's up to each individual what we take on... Recently I was informed someone was bagging me out in the chat rooms... with no profile at the time, I could not get in there to see for myself (and I haven't verified this one, so that keeps me out of the chat rooms quite nicely too). So I have asked them not to tell me anything anymore, working on the theory of, what I don't know can't hurt me. People will believe what they want to believe and if they want to believe any old rubbish they hear, then I probably don't want to know them and wouldn't care what they think anyway!Peachy
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RHP User
13 years ago
To never have a mobile phone break down ever again!! Yes this is all pretty daunting stuff to read and it started with my mobile breaking down on me. Sorry to all involved, hope you all have a lovely rest of the week.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Newbies. I reckon you can still feel fairly new to RHP and the whole experience for 6 - 12 months. Depends on the person and how comfortable they feel. In relation to the forums... If they have never really participated in a forum before you would be pretty green to the dynamics I would think. But that's just me. Everyone is different. Quoting 'Messolonghi' ps. Peachy... I've been on other forums (not sex related, and many years ago, I confess) where 'newbism' was judged by how many times you'd posted... others by 'reputation points' awarded by other members... in all cases, like here, I think I've always felt like a newb until the day I closed my account even if that was years later. Thanks both of you, I thought a little about my question while I was out shopping and had already decided I'd like to expand on it. There are quite a few dynamics to take into account beside the amount of time I thought, including how long one has been a lurker of the forum which would give them the chance to potentially have some deeper understanding of the dynamics behind it. Still, I do think the amount of posting as mentioned by you Messo would absolutely have something to do with it. The idea of reputaion points is interesting too. I guess something for me, which I was also thinking while shopping, is about products that have NEW embazoned across the cover and I'll be there months later thinking... Ahhh, not new anymore for goodness sake!!! That I suppose comes from my recognition of the product/ a person that I now recognise in their own right and at that point, the newness is definitely starting to wear off. That of course is only taking my own recognition of newness into the equation. There then is their own recognition of newness as touched upon in your last sentence Messo, as to how you feel about it. Thanks for the thoughts, much appreciated. On a slightly different tack but still along the line of newbies, something that bothers me is people who arrive and act like newcummers when they are in fact regulars who deleted their old account and have now come back for another round. I've seen some even refer to themselves as newbies when I know different because of the interaction thay are having with other members of the forum who of course know the situation. There was at least one (confirmed) who was still running their old profile and posting on both but they have a very distinct personality. Such a shame as they were very admired for their forthright attitude but this was nowhere near upfront. Not a bother really, maybe they'd like to reinvent themselves but most fall into their old pattern which then makes them recognisable and obviously fails in the reinvention potential. Makes me question all the more how people can support multiple personalities as in the catfish program that was on recently. Many thoughts, thanks for reading... Peachy
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RHP User
13 years ago
Ignorance is such bliss.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_Devious' Ignorance is such bliss. I think it is why I'm programmed to be the eternal-newbie.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Messolonghi' Why do tradies always start so early in the morning? You even seem them sitting in their trucks much earlier than they're allowed to start work as well, sometimes before it's even light. It's not to beat the traffic 'cause the motorway is chocked with tradies at that time of the morning... It's not to make the most of the daylight 'cause we have daylight savings (here, at least, where our curtains are more fade resistant)... Who can tell me?ps. Peachy... I've been on other forums (not sex related, and many years ago, I confess) where 'newbism' was judged by how many times you'd posted... others by 'reputation points' awarded by other members... in all cases, like here, I think I've always felt like a newb until the day I closed my account even if that was years later. you will find that it is because of daylight, they start at the crack of dawn-literally to make the most of the sunlight hours. Often in domestic circumstances it is to get to a clients house before they leave for their work for the day.
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RHP User
13 years ago
When you masturbate alone, do you prefer to get the job done quickly or do you like to take it nice and slow? How much time would you spend on average?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Messolonghi' Quoting 'Ms_Devious'Ahh Peachy... Ignorance is such bliss. I think it is why I'm programmed to be the eternal-newbie. No' 2 rule of The Seven Rules of Life: What others think of you is none of your business. Peachy
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RHP User
13 years ago
No hate here Meeka. I don't like the pettiness, but hey, like everything else it's really none of my business. I posted because I was frustrated that this thread, like so many, descended into a bitch fight. It reminded me of one of my all-time favourite quotes - "Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people." Eleanor Roosevelt
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RHP User
13 years ago
Tradies start early in the day to beat the heat, to make the most of the light in winter and to make the pub by 4pm Quoting 'Messolonghi' Why do tradies always start so early in the morning? You even seem them sitting in their trucks much earlier than they're allowed to start work as well, sometimes before it's even light. It's not to beat the traffic 'cause the motorway is chocked with tradies at that time of the morning... It's not to make the most of the daylight 'cause we have daylight savings (here, at least, where our curtains are more fade resistant)... Who can tell me? ps. Peachy... I've been on other forums (not sex related, and many years ago, I confess) where 'newbism' was judged by how many times you'd posted... others by 'reputation points' awarded by other members... in all cases, like here, I think I've always felt like a newb until the day I closed my account even if that was years later.
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RHP User
13 years ago
You mean right now, this time, or more generally? I've been quietly going since I read the OP in the spit roast thread... so, about 45 minutes ;) It depends... there are long, slow, and even lazy times (an hour, more)... there are short, sharp, "gotta deal with this" times (minutes, not even a few)... there's even the "wank as hangover cure" - it hurts, but 9 times out of 10 it'll blow out the headache, so to speak. OK, I think I'm about done..... back to the spit roast for the final glazing... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'MrsPeachyPier' How long can a newbie be considered a newbie??? Was only this year when I stopped feeling like a newbie. Guess it relative from person to person.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I suppose I can respect that a regular returning to the forums can feel like a newbie upon return, especially if there has been a big turn over in posters. Please don't think I take take anything I say as Gospel, I have lots of thoughts and quite often see things from new persectives. <3Who would think such a simple question could be so complicated in reality but that's RHP for us hey Araps, I'm glad I asked. Not only is it generating many new thoughts for me but I get to hear how other poeple see it. Glad you don't feel like sech a newbie these days! Peachy
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RHP User
13 years ago
Please stop.......no don't stop..........please stop.........no don't stop. OMG....my brain is scrambled! Have i ever mentioned i think in pictures? Quoting 'Messolonghi' You mean right now, this time, or more generally? I've been quietly going since I read the OP in the spit roast thread... so, about 45 minutes ;) It depends... there are long, slow, and even lazy times (an hour, more)... there are short, sharp, "gotta deal with this" times (minutes, not even a few)... there's even the "wank as hangover cure" - it hurts, but 9 times out of 10 it'll blow out the headache, so to speak. OK, I think I'm about done..... back to the spit roast for the final glazing... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'lil_bit_angelic' Why do people take such pleasure in gossip, rumour, spite and unkindness. I see it on the forums often enough and it makes my stomach turn. It's adults at their worst - acting like petty children when they should be grown up enough to know better. Why is it so hard to just let things that are none of your business go? If you can't add kindness to the world, why not just say nothing? It's surely a small and pitiful joy when a grown adult seeks pleasure in someone else's misfortune, poor judgment, or pain and sadness. And so there's absolutely no misunderstanding - yes I'm referring to posts on this thread but also to many posts over the many years I've been here, where forum posters have shown their nasty side and led me to shake my head in disbelief. So, why? Feel free to enlighten me. What do we do?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'good_vagabond' To never have a mobile phone break down ever again!! Yes this is all pretty daunting stuff to read and it started with my mobile breaking down on me. Sorry to all involved, hope you all have a lovely rest of the week. When one cant access a phone number.................how much cursing must have been going on ? :) Pretty sure you've got my number now !!!! Yep ..pretty sure..
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RHP User
13 years ago
Why does it take so long to reply to a simple text message...I'm not saying you don't reply but what I am saying is "Why does it take overnight or a day to reply back??"I get excited when a reply comes through...like a kid in a lolly shop and love the surprise - but the WAIT...OH GOOD GOD -can't stand that - that drives me bloody insane!!!!!Foxy
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RHP User
13 years ago
old Aussie slang for phone is dog and bone right?....the dog ate the phone
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Freya77' old Aussie slang for phone is dog and bone right?....the dog ate the phone OH DUH!! So we have to wait till the dog sh*ts the phone - that's the wait. FOXY
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RHP User
13 years ago
... almost had an accident reading your last post :-) KK
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RHP User
13 years ago
I would like to know why couples only use photos of one partner on their profiles and not both
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'SWCple' I would like to know why couples only use photos of one partner on their profiles and not both A lot of couples profiles will only have pics of the woman, to entice other couples or women. The man may not be as goodlooking, or maybe they just want to give others a sense of security? Though I do know a couple of which the girl is happy to show her face on here, while the guy prefers to exchange pics via email only.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I am regularly on car sites! The knobs that hide behind their online rudeness and abusive ess Are everywhere ! They have to go off topic to comment about this is wrong or you've missed a small tidbit! But usually they don't even have a restored or classic car !!! Most good sites weed these guys with restricting their posts n comments until they are regulay logging on! There are lots of dodgy people out there ! They get upset if you don't give out personal details!
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RHP User
13 years ago
know matter where you go there are always going to be people who are Rude and their are some people who we just can't no matter what gel with...I just think "Well their behavior is not my issue - but theirs"....Good Luck with your cars!FOXY the 2004 DODGE Viper STR10 Heffner Twin Turbo model
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RHP User
13 years ago
The reasons why I may not reply: 1/ too busy to reply to all msg's I get ( inbox I'd flooded each time I log on). And I don't spend all day on rhp- I have a life :) sometime I just don't even notice a msg if there is 30 there.... 2/ you are outside my age limits and I don't even read your msg. 3/ you don't have a pic 4/ you may come across rude/demanding sex- yes I do get some msg's that are more like booking for a hooker..... Keep searching boys not for me 5/ or that I'm just not interested. I have tried sending generic replies but then some guys just reply to that reply.... I have meet done beautiful and genuine people on here that I've had great fun with ( and continue to have fun with). But boys I get only 6 nights a month to play and am approached by more men than I can meet/handle so I'm going to be a little selective. Everyone has something amazing to give and offer, but my time is limited and its impossible to reply personally to everyone that msg's me.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I love women that look after their feet and know how to turn me on with them... Do many women enjoy stocking/barefeet play???
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RHP User
13 years ago
some men contact a woman to ask them to let another woman know that they want to contact them...grrr... I find it insulting and just plain rude....small rant over....
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RHP User
13 years ago
As a guy Foxy, you answered the question why it takes a long time. The delay is done on purpose so that you become intrigued by the message. You get all excited and want to read it that very moment, If you had got a response back instantaneously, you would have taken the guy for granted and gone, meh, he replied I'll just read it later. Freya, it is called networking, putting the feelers out. A guy asked his friend, she would say, read the profile. She is not interested in meeting. Guy gets crestfallen and repeats the process for other women. Seriously though, a lot of guys are shy. You have a few who will talk to a total stranger but a lot of guys will just sit quietly waiting for someone (meaning anyone except him) to make the first move. Asking a third party (friend) to do the introductions helps with the contact.
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RHP User
13 years ago
zu I am not their friend
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Freya77' zu I am not their friend Yeah, that would just be weird.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Alcohol can influence that decision... Ive been places I would rather forget.. Lol Any hole though? Na... I do know some that do though!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Your a real sport!! And you've got an ass to die for!! :)
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