What’s with all the hateful critics on here?

We joined RHP because we were interested in seeing what / who was out there to join us in our sexual adventures and potentially enhance it should we connect in the right way. We have a range of fantasies that excite us however we are accepting in the fact that others on here will not share the same fantasies, and we are cool with that as we can accept that not everyone has the same fantasy. We make a point of not passing judgment on others who have fantasies that we are not into however we see post after post on these forums where people, be it couples or single males/females, are torn to shreds by people who don’t agree with other people’s fantasies including squirting, creampies and hot wives, to name a few (yeah, they are some of our fantasies) Question is, what makes your fantasies, your opinions of what is acceptable or not, so valuable that you feel the need to harshly judge everyone has fantasies that don’t align with your principles? There are plenty of examples in these forums where people are shutdown and criticised because something in their profile doesn’t perfectly align with the question they are asking in the forums, they are assumed to be a single male posing as a couple or just a fake a profile, they are bullied to the point where they feel it is best to leave the platform altogether which really just feeds the trolls on here who think they are fake. More than happy for you to assess our profile as happens to everyone else, but note that we don’t care about negative comments so probably easier to just address the root question of this post, being what makes your fantasy, or your opinion or your values so superior that you think it is okay to judge people and attack people because they do not align.