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old pictures stolen pictures fake pictures ??
May 11 2016
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RHP User
10 years ago
You take people on face value....pardon the pun. But if you don't take your time to verify details, you're on the path to disappointment, or worse. My pics are all me, and I've never had anyone that didn't look their pics....
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RHP User
10 years ago
Not sure what you mean about taking people at face value? I do most times go through checks myself, but still arrive at the same deception at the other end. So whether or not I undertake proper checks, the point is there is, or seems to be from my experience, a high percentage of men who fudge it. This is commonly more a problem with male profiles, not to say women don't do it (we've heard the odd story about women doing it, but usually they tweak rather than resorting to complete deception). It's likely that's the reason you've never encountered this problem. At least that's my view on it, happy to hear the other side of the coin there. Any women been fudging it guys? Thanks for your coumment
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RHP User
10 years ago
How would I verify details? How do you do that? Very curious to know how you do it so well
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RHP User
10 years ago
Please can a ask that comments are about the topic, not a personal reflection on me. What I'm looking for are comments about your experiences with this issue, thanks
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RHP User
10 years ago
I imagine that you are looking at a lot of profiles and a lot of man message you. So this is partly a law of averages thing. We all know there is fakeness here,some. Profiles more than others. From experience I say ,never invest too much before meeting someone...do the image search,talk on the phone etc don't disclose too much,or do too much sexting until you are confident that he is the real deal and not a fantasist Mr.Grey hugs Q
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QLDtwo4fun
10 years ago
We have a small group of RHP friends who meet socially as well as at parties. We often laugh about the differences between we have encountered between RHP and reality. There are RHP years, 30 RHP years can be up to about 50 real years. There are RHP inches, you know where that issue is going. There are RHP dress sizes, or maybe there are many American women on here. Single, in RHP, for some, must mean there is one of me, not a marital status. It seems for some in RHP land it would be acceptable for me to describe myself as a 35 year old male model with have a 10inch penis.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Was caught out my very first date from an adult dating site. Didn't recognise him when he turned up. That was over 3 years ago, and I've seen him around, and he still has the same (now very) old pics on his profile. Thanks for the heads up, to a very suspicious man I met on a vanilla site; I know you can do 'live' pics from most phones, where you send a pic taken directly from your camera, rather than pulling them from gallery. Not sure you can on all phones, as I couldn't from my android. As I ended up taking a pic, holding up a piece of paper that said "Hello {so-and-so}". *wonder where I learned that technique from* Summer, I noticed Matthew is still with us. Some people are born to swindle. >,<
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ive said my story before. Chatted and met up with a guy with totally different pics. Not his at all. He didnt think he did anything wrong because "I dont want my pics on the internet for everyone to see", and yes, I walked out and wouldnt stay for"Just one drink".It's just stupid, wastes time, makes you jaded and suspicious of everyone, which I hate being like that. And yes, theres been some that use old pics. Lots of profiles on here and other sites have the same pic for the last few yrs that Ive been on. Why they dont update a newer one baffles me. Probably the best way to avoid it would be to skype. But I dont. I take it to phone, chat and swap more pics. If they make an excuse they have no more pics or phone wont send pics, Im out.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Whenever conversing sight unseen, one should initially stipulate: "If we meet up and you look nothing like your profile pic, then you have to buy me drinks until you do!" You will either be pleasantly surprised, or constantly pissed. Obi1
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RHP User
10 years ago
Far to many people use old pictures of when they thought they looked their best or simply use pictures of someone else altogether. We've reported a number of profiles that used pictures farmed from adult websites or other dating sites and complained about the fact that RHP does not double check pictures but understand that they probably get 100's per day and that it would be very time consuming. If we noticed any inconsistencies in pictures of people we are talking to we ask them straight up and if they don't have a fair answer we simply cut communication with them, not our loss there is plenty of genuine people that wan't to play. The using old pictures routine is not just men either quite a number of women and couples do it too. As far as we are concerned if you don't want your picture up on a dating site keep them in private, using a picture that resembles you is not ok and we have shown up to meets with an expectation of somebody looking like their picture only to find the picture was close to 10 years old and promptly told them to fuck off. Our pictures are genuine and expect the same from potential playmates. I'm sure most of you seasoned swingers & players know how to reverse search an image but for the newbies and such... You can reverse image search using google reverse image or our favourite is a website called "tineye".
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max_harlow
10 years ago
Yeah I've not been here long and twice I've had people turn out to be totally different to their first few pictures. I think being a single guy make's it even harder, as most of the real women here think you are just a fantasist/pic collector when you start to ask for more pictures to verify. - Posted from rhpmobile
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horneycouplewa
10 years ago
We have come across quiet a few profile/gallery pics that don't match to this day. What makes me giggle is when someone cams and I think hang on a minute, your pics are from 20 years ago...bit obvious Apart from we update most of ours with new recent pics every few months (as a good photo comes along lol)we also cam and show our faces and well maybe a few other things too, no surprises here. Possibly why we like private parties and group events
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RHP User
10 years ago
And people will tell you what you want to hear. Example of that is a recent hookup, both if us have safe sex,"always" on our profile, so I didnt mention it because I assumed we were on the same page. Fast forward to the "dirty deed" getting into it and I mention I have condoms in my bag. "Oh no, I dont use condoms, I cant feel anything and cant cum"..... Everything halted as we discussed our differences. It ended with me getting dressed and leaving because,"I was being a little over dramatic about it and hes never caught anything in all his time online so he's safe" Sorry for going off topic Touch, but it just goes to show that taking someone at "face value" as Stirry is saying is wrong way to go about vetting, is all we can do. If they lie, we will find out eventually. Pic or words. Just wastes time and is pointless.
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Seachange73
10 years ago
both men and women do it. but because I search only for single men, I do see it happen a lot with men. I do try to vet their pics and check their friends. I normally will not even go down revealing too much of myself or trust too much until I am certain they are who they say they are. Many ways to do it. Thank goodness for technology. Although... There is this one blond Melbourne girl, 29, who has 275 friends, most are men and the4 occasional couple, who appears in almost all the friends lists of men who contact me. She has blocked me. Anyway, when I asked the gents about her, they just get a friends request from her and when in contact, they just get referred to a link offline or are asked to forward their emails... I smell a scam but the men are so blinded by the hot blond Bella on the profile, reason goes out of the window... Oh the men..... bless their horny hearts...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Thanks to you all, and wow, Matthew McConaughy? I'll be like a dog with a bone now, top shelf Yes the forum has revealed a few interesting ones. One local or country boy let's say looked nothing like the model from the ad in his pictures that one was a bit obvious but I played along for a bit, naughty girl. Q, how true, hadn't thought about the law of averages but it has been busy in the last month or so. I've heard other women say the same, all over Australia. Our country is getting hornier lol Plenty of Mr Grey's floating around in perth, I give you the tip. Pepper, yeah I'm still doing that and still scare some off but only way I can think of to be able to trust and move forward, sad isn't it? DP I'm equally baffled about the old pictures still up and on different sites, I just don't get that either. Max raises an interesting point about men being looked at as picture collectors, I'd never thought about that but can imagine it would be a problem at times if you have to ask for more. Adelaide, well said, loved your post and love your firm stand on deceit, their pictures may have grey areas, but the trust thing is black and white for me too. If any of this shit sneaks in, seeya later. horneycouple I don't do the cam thing but if if you're comfortable doing it, it's a great way to get a real vision, for sure. QLDtwo if I was a 35 year old male model with a 10inch penis, I'd never leave the house
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'lilyorchid' both men and women do it. but because I search only for single men, I do see it happen a lot with men. I do try to vet their pics and check their friends. I normally will not even go down revealing too much of myself or trust too much until I am certain they are who they say they are. Many ways to do it. Thank goodness for technology. Although... There is this one blond Melbourne girl, 29, who has 275 friends, most are men and the4 occasional couple, who appears in almost all the friends lists of men who contact me. She has blocked me. Anyway, when I asked the gents about her, they just get a friends request from her and when in contact, they just get referred to a link offline or are asked to forward their emails... I smell a scam but the men are so blinded by the hot blond Bella on the profile, reason goes out of the window... Oh the men..... bless their horny hearts... bless their horny hearts indeed and their little cotton socks thanks for this and I also see those profiles with hundreds of friends. One of them looks like a famous young woman. Too good to be true, yeah me thinks
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Deep_Purple' And people will tell you what you want to hear. Example of that is a recent hookup, both if us have safe sex,"always" on our profile, so I didnt mention it because I assumed we were on the same page. Fast forward to the "dirty deed" getting into it and I mention I have condoms in my bag. "Oh no, I dont use condoms, I cant feel anything and cant cum"..... Everything halted as we discussed our differences. It ended with me getting dressed and leaving because,"I was being a little over dramatic about it and hes never caught anything in all his time online so he's safe" Sorry for going off topic Touch, but it just goes to show that taking someone at "face value" as Stirry is saying is wrong way to go about vetting, is all we can do. If they lie, we will find out eventually. Pic or words. Just wastes time and is pointless. No way, really? I'm sorry to hear that happened. You don't deserve that. That sucks and all the build up and anticipation
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Quoting 'lilyorchid' both men and women do it. but because I search only for single men, I do see it happen a lot with men. I do try to vet their pics and check their friends. I normally will not even go down revealing too much of myself or trust too much until I am certain they are who they say they are. Many ways to do it. Thank goodness for technology. Although... There is this one blond Melbourne girl, 29, who has 275 friends, most are men and the4 occasional couple, who appears in almost all the friends lists of men who contact me. She has blocked me. Anyway, when I asked the gents about her, they just get a friends request from her and when in contact, they just get referred to a link offline or are asked to forward their emails... I smell a scam but the men are so blinded by the hot blond Bella on the profile, reason goes out of the window... Oh the men..... bless their horny hearts... bless their horny hearts indeed and their little cotton socks thanks for this and I also see those profiles with hundreds of friends. One of them looks like a famous young woman. Too good to be true, yeah me thinks I know right? If anybody really wants to, they can do the extra vetting if the pic is too good to be true. The guy/girl should not be offended, instead be flattered. I understand that if they want to keep it private (don't want the missus to know, protect career prospects) but to some degree, if you intend to be intimate with someone, in every way, then you need to reveal yourself so as not to waste somebody's time, like your numbskull did with you. Truly annoying, eh, when we could be having hanging-off-the-chandelier sex with somebody else. Also a lot of the times, vetting can reduce the number of sexual encounters we want, coz we are picky and too clever for our own good. Lol Ahh, the curse of having taste and a lofty acute intellect.... eeekk.
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RHP User
10 years ago
hahaha yes it's a burden me must bear
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
People who use fake face photos must obviously know they have a head like a half sucked Siberian sardine. What i don't get is their thinking that we are going to turn up and think "Fuck they are dead ugly but gee, I've gone to all this effort so why not......." But really......"run like the wind, Forest" Bit like the couple with the inflatable wife.....surely they wont notice if she's not here....... Gawd, getting wound up. I'll burst me girdle. ......
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RHP User
10 years ago
I was just a little pumped to meet up with this one. Shame but its the first time Ive had that issue. Will make sure its part of the pre convo from now on. Even if its in their profile.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
If you have to Google "girdle", you are too young for me. ......
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RHP User
10 years ago
me must bear? oops Annie, you always have a way of saying what the rest of us are thinking, funny yet true
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RHP User
10 years ago
You're going to have issues with men, as I'm unaware of you meeting women to fuck....and I'm not trying to be offensive, but the context of the meet I think plays a huge part of how much we notice about others. I'm not denying men fudge it, fucken oath some do..... But the more people you meet, and how willing you are to meet masses of people, the more people will think they can get away with. I'm sorry if you think I'm being condescending or trying to shame you in some way, it's not my intention, but John West was known for what he rejected more than what was in his tins. Probably a piss poor analogy, but fuck it, it's the best I had at the time :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
No that's fine and I agree. Lots of rejecting goes on, too much I think at times. No offence taken, thanks 😃
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have that on my profile 😉 I am constantly hung over 😎 But really I don't trust pics at all anymore. If they ARE real they only give a bit of an indication of what the person looks like. It's better to meet sooner rather then later and find out the truth.
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RHP User
10 years ago
My post was supposed to include Obi's comment 😬
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RHP User
10 years ago
Noticed that some people's pics look like different people.? I agree xxticklishxx , sometimes you can't trust an image Q
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RHP User
10 years ago
Since it is so easy to open a camera up so some one can tell what you are really like in the looks department why would not ask some one to open their camera for you. If you find a guy who will not open his camera up then you have to start thinking mmmm something is not quite right here. From what I know if you ask a guy to cam he will normally strip faster than it takes the cam to load. Equally if you want to check his ability to make accurate measurements so you go "Hi can you show me your cock on cam..." I am here to say that 99% of guys wil go shit yes here have a look... LC
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' One profile, face pic = white, cock shot = black. I mean, c'mon! Maybe his face is white because all the blood drained out of face and into his cock...It is possible...ok maybe not
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'LoveCurvie' Quoting 'Summersolstice' One profile, face pic = white, cock shot = black. I mean, c'mon! Maybe his face is white because all the blood drained out of face and into his cock...It is possible...ok maybe not Michael jackson
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RHP User
10 years ago
Thanks for all the replies. I've also seen different race body to face etc. I've seen enough black bodies to be able to recognise one blushing. They'll have to do better than that
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RHP User
10 years ago
Why put up a fake pic? The truth always comes out!
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RHP User
10 years ago
I was over Kalgoorlie way a few years back. I had met with a driver at the pub to have a few drinks on our 24 hour break. Anyways, the pub was pretty cracking and I needed a piss. So as I'm standing at the urinal, cock in hand, getting my fingers wet lol, I happened to look over and notice a dark skinned guy with a white dick.. I was fucking amazed that that was even possible....so I've burst out to where my colleague was and told him about the dark skinned guy with a white dick.. His reply "that's not a black guy with a white dick *chuckles* that's just a miner that's been home for afternoon tea!!!" :p Lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Boom tish
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RHP User
10 years ago
I would find it to be a big betrayal of trust, as on a site like this you can only trust what the person uploads in the pictures. Is they can't be honest about how they look, what else are they lying about? Hopefully I never come across this, as the 2 women I have met have been honest, but should this happen, well I will feel the same way you felt
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sounds like the guys using fake pics.... might be catching up with the girls
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luvsilver
10 years ago
Single guy messaged Mrs Luv some time ago .His pics were mainly dick pics but there was one where his cock was yellow and just didn't look right.Then I read his profile and it stated he loved laying on the couch watching porn and eating Cheeto's Mr Luvsilver
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RHP User
10 years ago
this dog found her bone lmao and it gets funnier, there's more to this story, I'm crying laughing. But Matthew, you're kidding me right? Reincarnated before, yes, on my 'run forest run' list, yes
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RHP User
10 years ago
See you got him pegged. I ran into Enrique once as well. This is when we need a flirt that says something like "Famous yee not. Change your pics, before I report your ass"
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yeah I would normally report but with serial offenders lol they just reincarnate. Best to keep the enemy where I can see them. Game of cat and mouse 😯
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RHP User
10 years ago
Everybody wants to be desired.. to be happy I guess.. But to be anything more than who you are today just isn't quite right. I am very aware that Brad Pitt & I aren't related.. lucky to be the same species sadly.. but I am what you see and what I say. It may seem easy to put someone else's picture in your profile, but just imagine how hurt you're going to feel when the person/people you're meeting say "no thanks". Time to be real with yourself I guess.. what are you wanting from RHP?? pictures or fun? Pictures that aren't you.. Couples profiles that are really single guys.. Personally I'm tired of being doubted because of other people.. Not all guy profiles are fake, but geez
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes, if only everyone felt that way. Those individuals make it hard for all men to be taken as genuine, same as the ones who respond badly to polite rejection. I had that happen last night and have so many come into the forum and express frustration directed at me, though that's not obvious to others, I'm sure that happens to others in here as well. But it's poor form and puts women on the back foot, if that makes sense. So nice to hear there are still good ones flying the flag for our beloved men 😃
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RHP User
10 years ago
There are women who morph from fifty year olds to thirty year old burlesque dancers. A few male posters have been fooled by this woman in particular ...😷Q
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RHP User
10 years ago
definitely not just men Well, I just had a really nice message from a guy who had previously had pictures up not of himself, which we were both aware of, from a while back. Anyway, he has now seen the error in his ways and replaced with all pictures of himself, said he still needs to update and get new ones, but they are all of him. That's a great start and good for him. Well done. You said you didn't realise the effect it had on people but this thread made you realise how wrong it is. So good to see the positive come from this. I hope more will follow your example and do the same
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RHP User
10 years ago
We told rhp and there removed there profile - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' One profile, face pic = white, cock shot = black. I mean, c'mon! Maybe he was a miner that had been drilling for vegemite :p 💩
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RHP User
10 years ago
My profile. Re: Pictures. What you see is what you get. If I am having a first meet, I say "You will spot me easily. I am the guy that looks exactly like my profile". As I have posted previously, I recommend using something like KiK to share a current selfies. It is true that some of my pics are dated, but I include a photo taken date on many of my pics to make that known. BTW - "My old boat" means that it is an old pic of my boat that is long gone.😖 I included it just to clarify what I mean by "seeking fun & adventure". Re: About me. Same same. Detailed, candid and honest. My wife left me for a woman. Some would say that may turn some women off, but why should it? It was nothing to do with me. She still calls me the perfect man. I state openly that I work FIFO, 26 on & 9 off. Re: Messaging. I typically start by saying that I am very open book and will answer any questions as honestly and completely as I can. Recently I was asked, for the first time, a question that prompted this post by way of answering publicly The question: "Don't take offence at this but you're not 39. How old are you really?" The answer: 49. That is correct. I lied about my age...big time. How can I be so hypocritical after professing openness and honesty? It was a decision that I made when I set up my profile and it has always bothered me because it is a deceit. So why did I do it to start with? Several reasons: 1) I am one of the fortunate ones that hold my age well. Good genes I guess. I am younger looking and certaining younger acting than my peers who are in their 30s to early 40s. Most people guess me to be in that age group and are quite surprised to find out that I am much older. I don't think that you are as old as you feel. You are as old as you act (everyday). I run rings around my peers and still love riding the shopping trolleys down the aisles. 😁 2) A lot of the woman on RHP professing to be in their 40s look older than my mother, who is in her 70s. Are they lying about their age or did they just not age well? So I considered (at the time) that I was balancing the scales to a large extent. 3) Does it really matter? There are many couples on RHP that have a 15 year or so age gap. I think that is more about how old you are in yourself. Age is numbers is a poor reflection of that for many. Some people are far younger than their years and some are far older than their years. 4) The age filtering on RHP generally puts those over 45 in the retirement home where you have little hope of ever getting a chance. That being said, think that it is much easier for woman in the over 45 bracket to get attention than it is for guys. So what do I do now? I am going to change it.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'pillow69' We told rhp and there removed there profile - Posted from rhpmobile Good to hear the profile was removed. The site is good like that but poor form on the part of those people
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'SNAG4XTC' 3) Does it really matter? It does to me. I wouldn't be interested in someone who had lied about their age by 10 years. Also, I will be honest and say that previously after looking at your profile I didn't believe that you were 39 either. As someone stated earlier, our impressions of ourselves are often quite different and not always accurate. That's two women who realised you were most probably not being honest about your age so it's a pretty safe bet that there were more. At least you're being honest now, so that's good.
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MrFit71
10 years ago
My main profile photo may not be the most recent, which I state in my about me section, and have recent photos, in my private gallery. The main reason, I have kept the 4yr old photo as my profile image is because I think it is a good photo. I haven't put on any weight since then and it gives me an incentive to try to keep that fit. I don't see the point in lying in a profile as you will always be found out. In my mind I'll always be 40 but with an extra few years added on top!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Nice one. Bet you feel a bit 'lighter' having got that off your chest. You'll find complete honesty very freeing. I'm very impressed 😃 I'm making an especially strong coffee in your honor this morning. That's a compliment btw 😂😂😂 this is exciting, it could change everything. It can be the 'AA' of age skimming 'Hi, my name is *insert name* and I've been the same age for 20 years!' This could be the end of rhp as we know it 😯
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RHP User
10 years ago
I met someone from here many years ago Initially we didn't meet for like for a year as we lived in different states, but eventually our schedules allowed us to meet in a transit lounge at the airport He landed first and he went to meet me at my gate. I walked straight past him. Yes he looked like his pictures except for some small details. He had lost a fair bit of his hair , that happens, but he wore glasses permanently and in his haste to get to the gate, he forgot to take them off and change to contacts. I didn't know this about him as he never sent me any pics with him wearing his glasses so I simply didn't recognize him. When I finally figured it out it was all very confusing for a few moments, cause the thing is, I wear glasses about 90 percent of the time too and didn't wear them getting off the plain cause I was too self conscious. Same same, Id never sent him any pics with glasses on, except may be wearing sunglasses which are prescription. . He is one of those people that glasses really suit him and he looks very different when he takes them off and wears contacts. He wears very trendy glasses that add personality and highlights his features. My glasses are practical and dowdy so they don really change my face that much Bot of us are blind as bats without them. And after a few moments of initial confusion and laughs, we fell into our normal rapport built up over a year and we are friends still today.
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RHP User
10 years ago
honor obviously should have been honour oops
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RHP User
10 years ago
That made me laugh, as I was on a date last night and we were looking at the cocktail menu. It was small print and I was too vain to get my reading glasses out of my bag, so I suggested he order the cocktails and surprise me. 😎
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RHP User
10 years ago
With my spelling mistakes, I should have perhaps worn glasses when posting. I'm getting worse and worse The thing is, I used to wear glasses for long distance, but I'm now realizing that my eye sight is deteriorating rapidly. I had my eyes tested a few weeks ago and I was shocked at how much they have changed in 2 years, especially my right eye, genetic apparently. I've ordered new glasses and have been told that I will have to wear them more and more for close-up work and god forbid they are multi focal. I read my phone now like my parents read everything But Ill be honest, I don't think I will ever send a photo of me to anyone, wearing glasses and yes for people who wear glasses 100 percent of the time, I do believe when they take them off and do the switch to contacts, like my friend, they do look totally different. I like glasses, I find them interesting, just not on me.
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scubaboy69
10 years ago
Quoting 'Adelaide3some' Far to many people use old pictures of when they thought they looked their best or simply use pictures of someone else altogether... The using old pictures routine is not just men either quite a number of women and couples do it too... and we have shown up to meets with an expectation of somebody looking like their picture only to find the picture was close to 10 years old and promptly told them to fuck off. Like I said on another thread: "Whats the point? You'll only get busted when you meet them"
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Seachange73
10 years ago
it is one thing to have a fake pic of some unknown as your profile pic and another thing to have a pic of a famous guy like Matthey M on their profile. What the hell are they thinking? So today, a hot guy was looking at my profile. Abs galore and smoldering looks. Too good to be true. Reverse image search that this 34yo Melb guy is actually a famous American actor and rock singer (lead of band Daughtry). Well, we are all among rock royalty. Chris, if you are reading this, I am sure Beverly Hills is crawling with starlets, hot sugar cougars and rich lonely housewives who can certainly service your sexual needs? No need to caste your net across the Pacific. but maybe he heard how horny and kinky our RHP cougars get.... I touch, your reputation preceeds you...
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RHP User
10 years ago
But RHP rejected him... (bottom lip out)... well he is older than me... and most people wouldn't know who it was... Maybe I should try Harrison Ford (to old), Anthony Bourdin (HE LOOKED OLDER WHEN HE WAS YOUNGER) or George Clooney... At least if it is a famous person... everybody knows... chuckles... I wonder if they would accept... BTW... I met my my wife Amal... on RHP.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yeah it's a joke isn't it? What are they thinking? Good work for bringing them to the attention of others on here. Some are obvious, some aren't, and it's a great help Lily I seriously doubt they're coming all the way to Australia to meet I_touch lol even my vanity doesn't stretch that far
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RHP User
10 years ago
Here's some irony. I had a message from this guy who told me I looked like someone famous, but he couldn't tell me who?? Thought that a bit odd so didn't reply. Then I must have delved further and I can't remember exactly, can't find the messaging now, but I think I was of the opinion his pictures weren't of him, quite possibly a famous person lol maybe he thought I was one of his old connections (emphasis on 'old' there) All just seemed a bit strange at the time, although guys quite often send cryptic messages just to get a response. Surely he didn't really think I had stolen pics up. Nobody can steal that many pictures
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RHP User
10 years ago
if anyone sees Moby Lick pleasuring another woman on some other profile, please let me know I have a feeling he's been cheating on me. He didn't come home last night
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RHP User
10 years ago
I just saw Daryl Braithwaite this is turning into the who's who of show business. It might not BE him but it looks like him hmm
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' if anyone sees Moby Lick pleasuring another woman on some other profile, please let me know I have a feeling he's been cheating on me. He didn't come home last night If he is cheating on you and he is licking bareback in the other woman's profile, well that aint good. Such a putty mouth!!! Go wash his mouth with soap!!! Literally.
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Seachange73
10 years ago
I touch.... check your garden. Moby might be there, giving the garden gnome a good rimming and bj.
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RHP User
10 years ago
hahaha omg I didn't think of that lmao that's so funny
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RHP User
10 years ago
just reported another 2 profiles. Really big pixels and movie star looks, along with about a 20 yr discrepancy age to looks and a different age stated in the written part of course. Then I got to the nude yew I've never seen body hair like that. I don't think there'd be enough razors in the world to cut through that. Maybe he's a werewolf by night and that was his night picture
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hijacking my own thread oh well. So anyone need a doctor, is there a doctor in the house? No, too late, he's gone poof up in a puff of smoke. He'll be here though, shade of grey no doubt
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RHP User
10 years ago
I just updated my profile pic with a pic taken last night. It should show up soon. No hiding, shades of grey, if buts or maybes. That's me now.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I just saw a male posters pic,sorry but he looks ten years older than his stated age..women will other be shocked at how old he looks for a man in his forties,or say "forties,phtt no way Jose " 👿Q
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' You look like an oil painting! :-P Ive been likened to a water colour. I wonder what that is supposed to mean :S Washed outwashed upUnwashed not hahaor not.MMmm soap,,,,,
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RHP User
10 years ago
Will take camera (ph) :D :P
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RHP User
10 years ago
Wow, beautiful. Such a beautiful face. Nice pic 😉
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am hoping that analogy does not mean "Old and crusty" LOL. And straight back at you. Your profile pic is outstanding. You are a beautiful woman. 😛
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RHP User
10 years ago
You never know. Some people age really badly. I was quite shocked the other day when a colleague mentioned that he was having his 40th birthday. I thought he was much older.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta1' I just saw a male posters pic,sorry but he looks ten years older than his stated age..women will other be shocked at how old he looks for a man in his forties,or say "forties,phtt no way Jose " 👿Q There are so many like that. I always wonder, who are they trying to kid?
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' You look like an oil painting! :-P Do you mean in a Dorian Gray sort of way?
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
With some guys who are over generous with face pics. A whole series of portraits. One with a beard, one with a stubble look, long hair, short hair. Dark hair, silver hair. Which one is going to turn up......... Prob the bald one with the beer gut.
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RHP User
10 years ago
ahaha God I'm always asking them if they have facial hair, don't have facial hair, when was the white water rafting picture taken lol what is it this week?
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RHP User
10 years ago
oh and the other one, in stats they select 'shaved/waxed' for body and/or pubic, and then you see the vision.............
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Yes really, who gives a fuck about the size of the fish they caught 10 years ago when they had hair ......and 10 kilo lighter. Yeah im a bitch.
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RHP User
10 years ago
you're our bitch though
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RHP User
10 years ago
Some people age like fine wine..... Others age like milk :p
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RHP User
10 years ago
LMFAO. I'm going to steal that one. Nice one 👍👍👍
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RHP User
10 years ago
So...the secret of aging like a fine wine is ensuring that you get well laid. Hmm 😀
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RHP User
10 years ago
LMFAO. Sorry...but that was funny.😀😀😀 Just remember that the fine wine looks old and dusty on the shelf...but when you pop the cork...it shows it's class. Looks are deceiving. 👍👍👍 It is what is within that counts.
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RHP User
10 years ago
The sin problem IMO is tHAT SOME People are delusional,they genuinely believe that they haven't aged in the last 10-15years.So it wouldn't matter if there was a moratorium on "fixing" their pics it just wouldn't occur to them that it means them. Others I know for sure think nobody will want to meet them if they tell the truth. I often see pics of men who look at least ten years older than their stated age.Q
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes, I saw a man on the forum a few days ago, looked at the age, late 40's I think, then looked at the pictures, couple's profile it was, and there's no way that dude was in his 40's. I swear he looked 20 year older. Who are they trying to kid?And you're so right about the deluded ones not knowing it's them we're talking about, the ones who don't think they've changed WRONG People tell me I look years younger, whatever. I don't, the simple fact is that I AM my age and I LOOK my age. I might look pretty fit, look after myself, but I AM and LOOK my age and there's no hiding that, I don't want to hide it. Anyone saying they look years younger is deluded. You might think you do, no-one else will, that's the truth, but they'll tell you what you want to hear. What I don't get is why other people can't feel the same way and follow that example. And it's not just men, I can't even be friends with women if they lie, because one lie leads to another, I need to be able to trust. I recently made the decision not to befriend someone or to put a stop to a friendship forming for exactly that reason. Am I unrealistic with what I expect from people? Maybe I am, but I get to go home with me at the end of the day and I'll take my own company over someone I have to be second guessing, every time
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RHP User
10 years ago
Thanks Mr Urn. I love reading your comments, always polite but highlighting important issues, you are a joy to have in the forum, and thanks for the compliment I don't think they realise how offensive and how angry it makes honest people feel, and how like you say, a normally placid and calm person can turn into something quite different, perhaps after wasting hours, days, weeks, it's usually the time thing that makes my blood boil, along with the lack of respect. So we go through all the back and forth messaging, getting more pictures etc., only to find out they aren't in fact who we thought they were, female was a male, young male was an old male, guy in his 40's had escaped from the nursing home lol or the couples who are men, and I'll throw in my joke of men posing as men How is it they think it's okay to waste our time? How dare they. It makes me feel so violated. I really think it's a sick thing for them to do, but as Q pointed out, they don't realise that, they don't see the problem. Thanks Mr UrnI hope you're doing well and keeping Mrs Urn warm on these cold winter nights. I have my feather doona
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RHP User
10 years ago
slightly off topic here but what about NO pictures. I keep getting flirts and messages from profiles with no pictures, just received 5 flirts from a guy with not one single picture on his profile ?? Seriously, do they really expect any person would reply. And I get messages from men with pictures in private but not giving me access and again, do they expect a reply. I don't talk to visionless profiles, ever. One does wonder who they are and what they actually look like if they don't want to show themselves hmm
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RHP User
10 years ago
I actually saw my wife-to-be (and now ex) at a local Rock n Roll function. I was leaving because there were no single ladies within 20 years of my age (30) at the time. Someone stopped me and said "Why don't you dance with her". I looked where he was pointing and saw a girl sitting with her younger brother. I said "No thanks" and left, pondering "How could he suggest that I dance with such a young girl. That is just wrong". Later I found out that the 8 year boy beside her was in fact her son. And personally, now when people say "You got kids?" and I reply "Well a 28 year old", they look at me like they think that I am taking the piss and say "No way".
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RHP User
10 years ago
Good to see this topic. I've had numerous experiences with spurious profiles and always report them. The rhp team have been helpful and thorough when dealing with them.
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RHP User
10 years ago
tears welled reading that. I'm not a religious person either, though was raised a Catholic, but amen to everything you just said, and yes, I can 'live with myself' too, pretty nice place to be in really isn't it? And don't worry, I don't sleep either we are very alike Mr Urn, in more ways than you might realise
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' slightly off topic here but what about NO pictures. I keep getting flirts and messages from profiles with no pictures, just received 5 flirts from a guy with not one single picture on his profile ?? Seriously, do they really expect any person would reply. And I get messages from men with pictures in private but not giving me access and again, do they expect a reply. I don't talk to visionless profiles, ever. One does wonder who they are and what they actually look like if they don't want to show themselves hmm Eh we don't even reply to those without pictures be it couples, males or females.Serial flirters get blocked, although there is one guy who flirts every 2nd or 3rd day who i don't block, i want to see how long it takes before he gets bored with it.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yeah I find them a bit creepy, in fact I find any profile without pictures creepy. With the exception of new people who need a few days or whatever to get sorted and find out about the site. Beyond that, when they start hitting on people without showing themselves, yeah nah, there's something downright weird about that IMHO
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MissBishere
10 years ago
Ok so here it goes. I've been caught a few times by fake pics or really old pics or lies about height, just your standard stuff. this last one though was very different. We met through a bust group that I have, he was introduced by another member. We chatted as a group for months, then one day he sent me a private message. A conversation started and a connection was made. We talked on the phone for 5 hours the first time and then everyday after that for at least 30 minutes, it became a daily ritual. We video chatted, exchanging pics and all was good. After weeks of this he arranged to come to Brisbane (he lives in Sydney)so we could meet. We spent 24 hours together and all was sweet. There was a strong connection. The weekend after we met was Mother's Day, he was spending the weekend with his mum and kids at the family home/property 50 minutes for Melbourne. We texted all weekend and he sent pics of where they were and what was around. These pics were of the house and cows and the family cemetery and each one had a story. While I was telling my mum about this man I couldn't remember the name of the town where he said the house was so I thought, I'll reverse image search it, he had said it was used for some functions now it's sure to come up....it sure did...as a house in Adelaide in the grounds of the SA UNI. I was confused, I was pretty sure he had said Melbourne. At first I thought I must have it wrong, then I thought, I'll just run these other pics..... Well. All of the pics came up from places all over the world. Some were just small pieces of much larger pics. The cemetery where he said his grandparents are buried and his wife and little girls ashes are spread is in the USA. Even the pics of the cows are from some Angus stud in the USA. Yes I asked him about the pics, no he had no explanation. He really didn't answer it at all. Why would he do this? What was the purpose? We had met, we seemed to have a really strong connection. Is everything he told me a lie? Is it possible to come back from this? I still don't have any answers to those questions and I probably never will. So how do you trust after that? Anyone, not just him?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Had he told you he was single? Maybe he had a busy Mother'sDay weekend with his wife?
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MissBishere
10 years ago
He said he was very much single for a long time. The whole thing still has me confused and plays on my mind.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Omg that's shocking, disturbing. The thing with liars is it becomes normal for them, one lie leads to another. As far as coming back from it, that's the hard bit, particularly after you've made that strong connection. It hurts, even smaller lies hurt when you trust a person. What starts with a feeling of disappointment, for me, turns to anger pretty quickly. It's a low act to deceive like that, your guy takes the trophy though for extra effort 🏆 wow! Did he offer any reason, guess that would have just been more lies. Puzzling though isn't it?
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RHP User
10 years ago
At some point we all want to trust another person. You met him and you had a strong connection. What more can you do...no matter how much we want to believe in others, there will always be some that areperpeptual liers.
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