M56
women looking for men
February 06 2013
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RHP User
13 years ago
Gazza, you're miffed, I guess. Are you saying there is a "pattern" of single gals chasing married guys? And overlooking you (had to ask, 'cause you're so angry)? Interesting.....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Very pleased to make your acquaintance. It is a conundrum isn't it. With such calm, sensible single men as yourself in offer... Who would ask for more. Eh? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
There's so many folks here with so many different tastes . Maybe you've just had a run of bad luck . I'm a Single Male and I've met up with Gorgeous Single Women here. No problems for me yet but hey , I'm only new here ;)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
as to how you have developed this perception. Is this perception based on a qualitative or quantitative analysis and it would be helpful for us single women to know exactly how big your sample size was in your study? May I suggest a calming bath and a glass of wine before you respond ...
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RHP User
13 years ago
popcorn in the microwave I hear?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Are you saying that single women appear to go after married men, and bypass single men such as yourself?And you're wondering what's going on in their heads?Or have I totally misunderstood?
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RHP User
13 years ago
If I find a woman attractibe I see those qualities in her husband and vice versa. Who could refuse a two for one deal. :P
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RHP User
13 years ago
Married men are emotionally unattainable. Married men USUALLY don't become a clingon....enough said me thinks. Don't get bitter....get better.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I seem to find a lot of profiles from single women that clearly state they are not interested in married men. So, I would think that would invalidate your statement. Not that I had much luck in meeting these women but hey, as someone told me.women get 100s of messages/flirts on this site. So, perhaps you need to stand out more to be noticed. If not, perhaps make your profile catchier. Women love reading profiles, right? You could try going out to meet women instead of relying on a website only. RPH has got a lot of events organised for people to meet.Well, good luck. Keep you chin up and hopefully you find someone.
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RHP User
13 years ago
..get married. Then you'll be fighting them off with a stick.You're welcome.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Im not sure your post just did you any favors however I do understand your angst.... but in answer to your question, Im single...no way in the world would I entertain being with a married man...and yet on here that is all I seem to attract.... works both ways ..and for the ladies that prefer a married guy over a single..well to each their own..pointless ranting..it changes nothing... chill hon xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
See what happens when you keep telling the newbies that the 'Ladies, would you look at my profile...tell me if I've misspelled anything and look at my penis' approach has been done to death?*shrugs...oh well* Thanks for showing us your boobies, Paintme...may I please have some popcorn?
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RHP User
13 years ago
you piss and whine any harder ? Mate you really haven't done your self any favours. Maybe you give off a certain vibe that deters the sort of woman you are looking for? Mike
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RHP User
13 years ago
I answered on your other posts, married men do not get as may women as single men on here. women can bonk anything at any age on here, and they do many women want more than a fuck, its a bit of a contradiction really, if you fuck young hotties they are not going to be taking you out to meet mother, as your older than mother this is the wrong place to meet women if you want a relationship and dito for women to meet men its like rockinghorse shit, but I believe it does happen I have a few married lovers as that suits my lifestyle, no problems of attachment but then all I want is sex so the thing is to just match your needs with a profile that suits you. women go for men on here for one reason, laws of attraction pretty simple really.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Ahhh I feel your pain gazza, 'tis difficult to attract the women being a single lad :P I've had a similar issues I guess you could say but maybe its just one of those things that you must keep persistent with? Do the ladies have any advice as to what would make the 'single men' more apealling to you?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Guess what OP....I'm a single woman and I'm not at all interested in married men (unless their wife is present as well ).Funnily enough I'm also not interested in single men who post angry, disparaging generalisations about single women on the RHP forums.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'And finally.... there is nothing less attractive to women... than a man who complains. She can see it in you before she ever hears you speak your discontent and it signifies a lack of confidence, lack of strength of character and is highly likely to show that he will be incapable of providing her with the exciting life of emotion and happiness that she craves.So I won't... Except...And as zu7bcv said:as someone told me.women get 100s of messages/flirts on this site. So, perhaps you need to stand out more to be noticed. Very true, I think I've got close to 800 messages now and I only joined before Christmas... That's not including flirts, which I rarely reply to...
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On_Safari
13 years ago
Especially if they're around 40 to 55!!! Does that make me evil???? Heads up to hun, I've been the woman who paid plenty of child support on top of the mortgage. It's not just a male state of affairs..... Settle petal, count to 10 and start again. Ya gotta roll with the punches.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Why is it that women judge a guy on here by the stupid 100 character space given without even giving a though to weather or not they are actually worth writing a msg to. Hmmm- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
I said love,I said pet, I said dear.There are wayyyyyy toooo many men in Perth.I told you not to leave Brisvegas.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Freya, am watching Fast Forward as I text! But I digress... Mischievous Lad nailed it. In fact, as I can attest, single women are not knocking down married men's doors like the final stages of the zombie apocalypse. You might think so, but it simply ain't the case. As I alluded to on another recent thread - keep going. Don't walk away or you'll never come back. Ultimately, it's about character - and there are enough ladies with brains out there that recognise character as an equal aphrodisiac to rock hard abs. Which I have too! Really! Honest...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13' I said love,I said pet, I said dear.There are wayyyyyy toooo many men in Perth.I told you not to leave Brisvegas. Pardon me all that wrote comments before Miss Freya... but Im obviously totally disfunctional so Im starting back to frontFreya I was told that all the blokes were on the mines and that the women outnumbered the blokes. Shit Tassie here we come
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RHP User
13 years ago
go outside put your hands down your pants and pull yourself together huh
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thanks for you commentMate your preaching to the converted here.. I totally agree with you there, but in this case I agree that both the male and female species are guilty of this same disregard for what people are and seem to be from those 100 words. I like to think that my profile is well worded, and in the wording itself gives a small window of who I am and what Im looking for.Quoting 'toughnfit' Why is it that women judge a guy on here by the stupid 100 character space given without even giving a though to weather or not they are actually worth writing a msg to. Hmmm- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' go outside put your hands down your pants and pull yourself together huh Blocked by you?? But still comment ??? yeah your female alright.. a perfect example of the best of both worlds
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'On_Safari' Especially if they're around 40 to 55!!! Does that make me evil???? Heads up to hun, I've been the woman who paid plenty of child support on top of the mortgage. It's not just a male state of affairs..... Settle petal, count to 10 and start again. Ya gotta roll with the punches. Thanks for you commentYou are married yourself, and Im sure your hubby knows and allows you to do this. But I never called anyone evil, I also dont have any qualms about who pays what to whom for whatever children. Although I do find it funny that when a male expresses himself in an open forum that he is labelled as angry, that I have angst, I have disparaging generalisations, I piss and whining .. and Im sure the list will go on. Maybe Ive been on sites like this too long and type too flippantly for my own good, but the perception of anger was never meant to come across. Perhaps frustration for the answers, but never anger. (This quote may be duplicated for the relevant parties)counting to 10 and point taken
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'tuscanred' I answered on your other posts, married men do not get as may women as single men on here. women can bonk anything at any age on here, and they do many women want more than a fuck, its a bit of a contradiction really, if you fuck young hotties they are not going to be taking you out to meet mother, as your older than mother this is the wrong place to meet women if you want a relationship and dito for women to meet men its like rockinghorse shit, but I believe it does happen I have a few married lovers as that suits my lifestyle, no problems of attachment but then all I want is sex so the thing is to just match your needs with a profile that suits you. women go for men on here for one reason, laws of attraction pretty simple really. Thank you for your commentOk let me put this scenario into the equation... YES women are approached in amazing numbers on this site by married and single men... Is the the slightest of chances that women having soooo many choices of men to choose from that more than likely the women are going to choose a married man (whether they know or not know) considering the chances are he was snabbled up previously for good reasons?? And also considering that women are inundated by men and the endless flow of messages that they can have TOO many choices to choose from and find that their judgement could be in the slightest way hindered or impaired from making a proper call on this situation??
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Miketheduc' you piss and whine any harder ? Mate you really haven't done your self any favours. Maybe you give off a certain vibe that deters the sort of woman you are looking for? Mike Thanks for your commentAs Ive said previously people can take what Ive written as anger or even piss and whining in your words.It was meant to provoke responses, and seems that Ive done that successfully.As for doing myself any favours... Once again people can interpret what Ive written how ever they want, Im cool with that and each to there own. Im sure that we all give off certain vibes to each and every person that we encounter, thats what makes us who we are and what sort of people we attract. Some ladies like bike riders some dont, its what we are that matters most, and I believe that by being true to yourself and to who you are is more than halfway to your destination. I find that throwing my feelings out for responses not only allows me to understand my own feelings but also take on board others perceptions of a similar manner.*start recording here.... Although I do find it funny that when a male expresses himself in an open forum that he is labelled as angry, that I have angst, I have disparaging generalisations, I piss and whining .. and Im sure the list will go on. Maybe Ive been on sites like this too long and type too flippantly for my own good, but the perception of anger was never meant to come across. Perhaps frustration for the answers, but never anger.Thanks again
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23' Guess what OP....I'm a single woman and I'm not at all interested in married men (unless their wife is present as well ).Funnily enough I'm also not interested in single men who post angry, disparaging generalisations about single women on the RHP forums. thank you for your commentPossibly from the nature of your response you yourself has either been betrayed by a married man that you had no idea he was married. Or considering your profile has nothing pertaining to being involved or not with married men, that you are guilty yourself of the exact thing Im asking for answers to. Dont beat yourself up about it, or me either, come to terms with your infidelity and share more with us *start the record here...Although I do find it funny that when a male expresses himself in an open forum that he is labelled as angry, that I have angst, I have disparaging generalisations, I piss and whining .. and Im sure the list will go on. Maybe Ive been on sites like this too long and type too flippantly for my own good, but the perception of anger was never meant to come across. Perhaps frustration for the answers, but never anger.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thanks for your comment...I will respond to the main quote in dealing with the person that wrote it. FYI... and this is even before you read my blatant ranting....You get over 800 messages in a little over a month I have sent 528 messages Reply Rate: 65% I have received 345 messages I have sent 647 flirts Reply Rate: 12% I have received 77 flirtsThe message responses are reasonable, but the wink responses are appalling...before criticizing others step into their shoes and walk a mile and see if your thoughts are as warranted as they were previously :o) Quoting 'OneEmerald' Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'And finally.... there is nothing less attractive to women... than a man who complains. She can see it in you before she ever hears you speak your discontent and it signifies a lack of confidence, lack of strength of character and is highly likely to show that he will be incapable of providing her with the exciting life of emotion and happiness that she craves.So I won't... Except...And as zu7bcv said:as someone told me.women get 100s of messages/flirts on this site. So, perhaps you need to stand out more to be noticed. Very true, I think I've got close to 800 messages now and I only joined before Christmas... That's not including flirts, which I rarely reply to... Quoting 'OneEmerald' Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'And finally.... there is nothing less attractive to women... than a man who complains. She can see it in you before she ever hears you speak your discontent and it signifies a lack of confidence, lack of strength of character and is highly likely to show that he will be incapable of providing her with the exciting life of emotion and happiness that she craves.So I won't... Except...And as zu7bcv said:as someone told me.women get 100s of messages/flirts on this site. So, perhaps you need to stand out more to be noticed. Very true, I think I've got close to 800 messages now and I only joined before Christmas... That's not including flirts, which I rarely reply to...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Shinasbabe27' Im not sure your post just did you any favors however I do understand your angst.... but in answer to your question, Im single...no way in the world would I entertain being with a married man...and yet on here that is all I seem to attract.... works both ways ..and for the ladies that prefer a married guy over a single..well to each their own..pointless ranting..it changes nothing... chill hon xx Thanks for your commentNot a spelling nazi, however favors is american, favours is australian/englishwell as for doing myself any favours, Ive previously touched on this issue, and if by exposing myself as a feeling, thinking, open minded man then so be it. I believe that as men we are restricted by society and its whims as to when we should and shouldnt open ourselves up to constructive criticism. Why are approx 60% of the respondents to this thread posing negative responses rather than positive constructive responses?? Are we as Australians really a population of knockers with no real avenue of venting and reinventing answers to what Id call a real issue on sites such as this??You and the majority of women on this site seem to attract married men whether they admit it or not, generally they dont.Some men lie about it, and some are honest about it, whether they are honest to their partners also Im unsure. Yes I realise that this works both ways for males and females but surely, and sadly the men are the greater of the offenders.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Manly_McHardon' ..get married. Then you'll be fighting them off with a stick.You're welcome. Thank you for your commentIm sure Ive seen a movie "Hitch" I think with Will Smith as the sex and relationships counselor where guys who are single pretend to be married and the success rate of scoring sex increases dramatically... Is this a psychological advantage that makes men more appealing to women because they realise that women and I quote "Love with their ears" ???Haven't you ever seen that episode of Seinfeld where George does the exact same thing. He wears his old wedding ring to a party and tells everyone that he's married and all the women become extremely attracted to him.Women on the other hand wear a ring to warn guys off. go figure !!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'zu7bcv' I seem to find a lot of profiles from single women that clearly state they are not interested in married men. So, I would think that would invalidate your statement. Not that I had much luck in meeting these women but hey, as someone told me.women get 100s of messages/flirts on this site. So, perhaps you need to stand out more to be noticed. If not, perhaps make your profile catchier. Women love reading profiles, right? You could try going out to meet women instead of relying on a website only. RPH has got a lot of events organised for people to meet.Well, good luck. Keep you chin up and hopefully you find someone. Thanks for you comment Once again please forgive me for my "generalisation"excellent some constructive criticism much appreciated. Although I have met women from this site and others that do have no married men on their profiles and are either tricked into believing the man is single, some have an idea but still after being thrown into an emotional and sexual roller coaster still choose to pursue the attached men. Also some women not wanting to be identified as a home wrecker label their profiles no married men and still do it... once again a 2 way street ... but men are the main offenders both giving and receiving TSK TSK Im not the moral police, but its way bigger than just a blokes cock, its their partners, their children, could mean the job the house and more. So those repercussions are never thought about when starting that venture
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'toughnfit' Why is it that women judge a guy on here by the stupid 100 character space given without even giving a though to weather or not they are actually worth writing a msg to. Hmmm- Posted from rhpmobile enlighten me...Or does he mean the dreaded "profile"?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Ghostbusters' Married men are emotionally unattainable. Married men USUALLY don't become a clingon....enough said me thinks. Don't get bitter....get better. Thanks for your commentI like your saying .. dont get bitter .. get better... Im not bitter, more so delving for other angles of thought and perception. One can never have enough rational thoughts to choose from and make a judgement call from that
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'EuropianBliss' If I find a woman attractibe I see those qualities in her husband and vice versa. Who could refuse a two for one deal. :P Thanks for your commentoh and for contributing to my low percentage rates for replies to messages and flirts :o( LOL... no hard feelings, nothing ventured nothing gained I have sent 528 messages Reply Rate: 65% I have received 345 messages I have sent 647 flirts Reply Rate: 12% I have received 77 flirtsThats what sucks about percentages though .. I can never get those rates to go up even if everyone from this point onwards replies to every message and flirt .. my % rate stays the same. Which leads me to this train of thought... is this really a numbers game ?? Is this all about timing?? Surely apart from mathematics there must be other numerous contribution factors
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'OneEmerald' Are you saying that single women appear to go after married men, and bypass single men such as yourself?And you're wondering what's going on in their heads?Or have I totally misunderstood? Thanks for your commentIm not directly saying that single women are going after men and if they are the rates would be what Id think minimal, but yes it happens. As previously stated I think its a group of factors that contribute to those rates rising. Dishonest men, yes ladies they are out there. And seriously they arent all that hard to spot. I think I seen another thread you commented on Miss OneEmerald this guy was blatantly and obviously hiding major points from the lady but possibly that lady was in denial, ummm a dose of separation anxiety, (cant be single for any length of time) ... the possibilities are endless. As for whats going on in the opposite sexes head, well thats one I generally try to avoid to a degree and also understand and be more obliging Mens heads... footy.. beer.. boobs.. the back shed... beer and boobsLadies heads.... shoes.. shopping.. make up .. dresses... shoes and shoppingsettle settle ladies and gents.. just a "basic general" break down.... dont stone me or burn me at the stake
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'paintme' as to how you have developed this perception. Is this perception based on a qualitative or quantitative analysis and it would be helpful for us single women to know exactly how big your sample size was in your study? May I suggest a calming bath and a glass of wine before you respond ... Thank you for your commentBy the way I am answering this whilst in the lotus position lol Intelligence without mileage is bullshitLife experience, too many years on the net, spending time with yourself and in return getting to know who I am / we are personally. Most people wouldn't have a clue who they really are because they are too busy trying to please others, rather than being in tune with ones self. So to a degree its a developed perception, but also skills and knowledge accumulated living life and being true to yourself. HA @ my sample size, nearly instinctively asked would you like that in real inches or RHP inches ;o)Sample size, at a guess Id say 10 - 15 thousand people over a 15 year time span. If you would me to elaborate later Id be happy to. Reminds me of an old De peche Mode song ...People are people, so why should it be, you and I should get along so awfully??So we're different colours, And we're different creedsAnd different people have different needsIt's obvious you hate me, Though I've done nothing wrongI never even met you, So what could I have doneInstinctively as humans we are scared, feel threatened, and potentially violent when confronted by something thats new and where we lack understanding. Embracing those fears, understanding them, and learning about the unknown is what builds knowledge and character. dribble dribble blah blah .. read into it what you want, challenge those emotions and be a better person for it :o)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'MisterGreen' There's so many folks here with so many different tastes . Maybe you've just had a run of bad luck . I'm a Single Male and I've met up with Gorgeous Single Women here. No problems for me yet but hey , I'm only new here ;)- Posted from rhpmobile Thanks for your commenttotally agree, different horses for different courses.But I dont believe in good or bad luck. I prefer to describe it as being fortunate or unfortunate. There is a difference, luck is chance ratio's and percentages. Being fortunate or unfortunate is more to do with opportunities which we can have a say and take a part in the outcomes. Whether positive or negative outcomes. Its like be careful what you wish for because you may just get that wish to come true and find its not all its cracked up to be. I think it was Newton that said.. for every action there is an equal but opposite reaction. Anyhow enough of the maths and science lessons... thanks for your comments and enjoy yourself here
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Very pleased to make your acquaintance. It is a conundrum isn't it. With such calm, sensible single men as yourself in offer... Who would ask for more. Eh? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯- Posted from rhpmobile Thanks for your comment, and very pleased to make your acquaintance also Sheesh you would think Id nearly run out of things to say by now. but alas !!! nahhhh Is nt sarcasm the lowest form of Witt... that always sounds nastier than what I intended, and yes more than likely my forum topic came across as abrupt also, begging your pardon Madame Meeka, not my initial intention :o) Possibly my frustration at society in general, and what men and women have become. We have all these whizz bang gadgets to make "everything" faster for us but do we utilise the time saved to the best of our ability in "any" facet of life?? Just like "toughnfit" mentioned, making a judgement call on a person and what makes them tick, personality, character traits, habits, all within a 100 word self written account of ourselves. Is that really a proper use of the time we save from one day to the next one week to the next?? Is that truly an educated judgement call.... I think SNOT !!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Messolonghi' Gazza, you're miffed, I guess. Are you saying there is a "pattern" of single gals chasing married guys? And overlooking you (had to ask, 'cause you're so angry)? Interesting..... Thank you for your commentMiffed possibly, Pattern, most certainly, of single girls chasing married men, more than likely not. But Id certainly say from my interpretation of society and its moral standing on this issue and many others, we most definitely live in a more promiscuous time than ever before. Hey Im far from angelic and would never claim to be so, but once again, generally speaking, we are more accepting of all things sexually than history has ever documented. Sure some kingdoms such as during caligula's reign in rome was a wild raunchy sex romp. And during those times in rome and greece, homo-sexuality was generally accepted. But in todays day and age in a modern society we are more moralistically lacklustre, than any before us. And for this reason Im not an "angry" man ... Im a "happy" man. Disillusioned at times yes, but Im a thinker. Probably too much at times, which Im sure after reading my responses you will tend to agree.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Its all about perception. This site is dedicated to people from all walks of life. It gives all of us an opportunity to communicate, and possibly the chance to share new experiences. Yes there are woman attracted to married men, just as there are men attracted to married woman. Gaz you must try to be as patient and open as the rest of the people on this site, that's all. Most of all it is supposed to be fun. Good on you for joining this community and I do hope you find what you are looking for. :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'toughnfit' Why is it that women judge a guy on here by the stupid 100 character space given without even giving a though to weather or not they are actually worth writing a msg to. Hmmm- Posted from rhpmobileYou'd never judge someone until you got to know their personality inside and out -- you know, the whole thing about judging a book by its cover. This is not a perfect world, however -- this is a world where sometimes we need to judge the intentions of a stranger in a split second. Thankfully, evolution has given us all sorts of tools for doing it, whether we know it or not.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Doldie' Its all about perception. This site is dedicated to people from all walks of life. It gives all of us an opportunity to communicate, and possibly the chance to share new experiences. Yes there are woman attracted to married men, just as there are men attracted to married woman. Gaz you must try to be as patient and open as the rest of the people on this site, that's all. Most of all it is supposed to be fun. Good on you for joining this community and I do hope you find what you are looking for. :) Cheers for that DoldieSee now thats the sort of response I actually expected from the forums here. Once again Ive mentioned previously, why is there a need to belittle someone asking for suggestions and support. I do realise though that I have placed myself in the firing squad line and ready for all types of responses. So once again thank you all for your input Not the finger pointing and the name calling, name calling is what people stoop to when intelligence is exhausted. So therefore its a reflection of the person that "stoops" "swoops" and scurries off
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Nudierudie2' Quoting 'toughnfit' Why is it that women judge a guy on here by the stupid 100 character space given without even giving a though to weather or not they are actually worth writing a msg to. Hmmm- Posted from rhpmobileYou'd never judge someone until you got to know their personality inside and out -- you know, the whole thing about judging a book by its cover. This is not a perfect world, however -- this is a world where sometimes we need to judge the intentions of a stranger in a split second. Thankfully, evolution has given us all sorts of tools for doing it, whether we know it or not. Awwww Miss Nudie.. wow the 1st chatter to comment thank you precious. In the other forum it was mentioned about "devolving" I must go back and wrap some knuckles for that comment thanks for the reminderEvolution, hmmm agree about the tools maybe we overlook our evolutionary gifts more than we should. Although I do believe that some of those caveman/hunter/gatherer traits will always be with us and generally Id say most havent mastered those traits to there benefits.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Gazz Dude?..Don't read too much into what other people do or even say on here! You will never understand half of it no matter how you try?People are complex and complicated enough generally. Just stick to knowing who you are and what you want and go from there. That is all any of us can do and that is all that really matters. As far as wanting a "married guy" goes? I personally couldn't think of anything worse. Yuk!
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13 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Gazza..... step into the Man Cave.Now.... I love a good rant as much as the next guy.... but.........C'monnnnnn Gazza....... BE the "Chief" part of your name..... and Man Up! Is this the big problem you're claiming it is?! Really?!!!!!Im a 41yo divorcee........ Sure, Life got rocky for a while there, but its good now, and Im back babyyyyyyyyyy! I simply cant see what where the problems your talking about exist.... other than within yourself. If I want to talk to a 25yo woman.... I will. If I want to talk to a 40yo woman.... I will. Do I care if she may consider i'm jaded and broken?! Hell no.... because I got over my shit, packed it into a small bag and stowed it in the overhead locker ready for takeoff to an exciting new life! If you meet women who are drawn to married men.... the solution would obviously be.... ......meet OTHER women. There are plenty of them out there!And it is impossible that theyre all attracted to ONLY married men.Sorry mate.... Im not buying it.... that, is just an excuse.And finally.... there is nothing less attractive to women... than a man who complains. She can see it in you before she ever hears you speak your discontent and it signifies a lack of confidence, lack of strength of character and is highly likely to show that he will be incapable of providing her with the exciting life of emotion and happiness that she craves.Please...... take these comments in the manner in which they're intended.The only problems and limitations here.... are the ones you've decided apply to yourself.And limiting beliefs that we create for ourselves can destroy inner confidence quicker than .They dont. So stop it!!!!!Now.... stand tall, chest out, deep resonating voice, own your personal space.... and go get what you really want tiger!DG UH HUH there you are 1stly thank you for your comments and also some blokie tough love. By the way I love what youve done to the decor in the man cave Ive written my own previous threads on this forum for the "liberation" of men and there values as men. I was appalled at the lack of support from men in general on that thread. Is it an offense to show how we really feel as men to other men?? I think not and actually encourage it completely. Anytime a male expresses himself in any way shape or form he is ridiculed for such actions. Is a "meek" man considered a "weak" man Y E S ... but how far from the truth can that be. The sooner that the "knockers" (and Im not talking boobs blokes) out there learn to grasp the concept of sharing and supporting other men the fucking better for men in general.Is this man really complaining?? I challenge you all to read each and every reply that I have carefully replied to individually, and then tell me that someone that thinks on my level who wrote the 2 topic threads with the intent of a more deeper conversation than just a bloke whinging and complaining. To provoke conversation and another level of thought is the prime focus for me... Its not about single women and married men. Its about the bigger picture, being more proactive rather than reactive from both sexes. *now lets all hold hands and sing koombiahhhYes every day in each of our lives should be a challenge, if its not then we are just sheep following aimlessly after the next sheep. Be a shepherd and lead the sheep, be an explorer of life. the world has lost its true explorers because we think we have discovered it all and there is nothing left. Look inside and begin a journey of self exploration that can only bring each of us closer to who we really are, and in doing so, like the wake from a boat we will inadvertently propel others around us into these amazing realms Seeing Im being so deep Id like to share this short but thought provoking poem if I may Face piles and piles of trials with smiles :o)It riles them to believe that you perceive the web they weave. And keep on thinking freetake care and peace
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13 years ago
Quoting 'deepbluesumthing' Gazz Dude?..Don't read too much into what other people do or even say on here! You will never understand half of it no matter how you try?People are complex and complicated enough generally. Just stick to knowing who you are and what you want and go from there. That is all any of us can do and that is all that really matters. As far as wanting a "married guy" goes? I personally couldn't think of anything worse. Yuk! Thank you for your commentsReally appreciated actually, yes i feel that concentrating on my strong points is a good way to go.. now let me make a listboyish charm *checksense of humour *check... dry but existent have all my own teeth *check... and smile have all my own hair *check... no combovers heregeneral wellness *check... never spent a day in hospital *touch wood tooFriends and family *checkdance moves like jagger *check... not the lips thoughOk then Im ready for action got my dance shoes on my bellbottom pants and my psychedelic shirt
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13 years ago
Have you honestly read your OP Gazza??? Lol
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13 years ago
Why do I feel belittled and just a little bit sick?
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13 years ago
... just cover up my boobies for a while and hide back under my rock. Anyone want to join me??
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13 years ago
Quoting 'OneEmerald' Quoting 'toughnfit' Why is it that women judge a guy on here by the stupid 100 character space given without even giving a though to weather or not they are actually worth writing a msg to. Hmmm- Posted from rhpmobile enlighten me...Or does he mean the dreaded "profile"? Yes oneemerald.. the dreaded profile, from what I can gather. I tend to agree with him though, women and men alike make judgement calls on the 100 or so words plastered in profiles. It has little bearing on what people are personality wise and so many other traits are excluded from that section in the profiles section. BUT people make those calls without a blink of an eye. maybe video introductions would be a better forum. But hey !!!
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13 years ago
Quoting 'Twisted_Mister' Freya, am watching Fast Forward as I text! But I digress... Mischievous Lad nailed it. In fact, as I can attest, single women are not knocking down married men's doors like the final stages of the zombie apocalypse. You might think so, but it simply ain't the case. As I alluded to on another recent thread - keep going. Don't walk away or you'll never come back. Ultimately, it's about character - and there are enough ladies with brains out there that recognise character as an equal aphrodisiac to rock hard abs. Which I have too! Really! Honest... Thanks for your commentBut in all seriousness ...single women are not knocking down married men's doors like the final stages of the zombie apocalypse. Dont you think thats just a little bit overboard of an assumption??? NOR was that what I was trying to imply it either... But whether they are willingly or unwillingly partaking in such antics, it is happening and happening in a more frequent occurrence than most would like to admit. Id suggest reading all my replies to the postings in the thread and putting the pieces together for yourself. Also in no way, shape or form was I trying to question any of the ladies intelligence. Actually the target of the quote was women that do seek married men, and a heads up to some women that may not be as sexsite savvy as most that fall prey to the men being dishonest about what motivates them. Community forums like this are there to service the community within the site itself. self help if you please .
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13 years ago
Quoting 'Ghostbusters' Have you honestly read your OP Gazza??? Lol Thanks for your commentYeah Ive read it, Im not sure what parts your questioning but please feel free, thats what forums like this are for. Is everything in black and white straight forward? Or would reading between the lines also be a good idea? After all do you believe everything a politician or a used car salesman tells you? Possibly you also need to read all the responses posted by me to each and every person thats taken the time to participate. Collectively all the postings answer more questions than just one, a multifaceted discussion covers all bases
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13 years ago
humility, kindness and respect. I am not attracted to married or attached men as you have asked (somewhere) in you OP. If you could please simplify your OP for me (goodness knows I am a mere mortal), perhaps I would understand what point/s you are trying to make. Dot points would suffice. Thank you.
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13 years ago
...rational thought reigns supreme. Quoting 'paintme' ... just cover up my boobies for a while and hide back under my rock. Anyone want to join me?? *slips back under the Rock of Conscious Contemplation*'Hi there...nice shoes, now can I please see your boobies? Pass the popcorn...too'.
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13 years ago
The rock of conscious contemplation. Think we should patent that. It's personally delivered in a sexy low wing sports aircraft and comes with a bottle of Moët, black stilettos, e-cups and honey flavoured popcorn. Handcuffs, paddles and lighter fluid optional....
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13 years ago
There's married women, married men, single women, single men, the between, and the outright bloody complicated one's. One thing they all have in common - it's their own business who, what and where they do. It's not up to you or anyone else here for that matter to pass judgements on what other people chose to do....Hello we are all on a site that many people would cringe over which is why some not all would never mention in their day to day chit chats 'oh have you heard about red hot pie, great site for casual hook ups' .... person ponders 'wow tart or what'....So for those who are honest and open about their situations I say good on them, the ones who hide the details of 'marriage' not the best but also none of my beeswax.
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13 years ago
'If this rock's rockin'...don't bother knockin'.It's more fun to play with them...then argue with them 'bout next to nearly nuthin'.
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13 years ago
Your whole OP really just wreaks of irrational thoughts. Women are emotional communicators. Men are logical. You cannot rationalise or attempt to rationalise emotion, impulse, etc. the only rational thing to do is to accept it as it is, and enjoy the journey, not question it.
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13 years ago
I prefer older men... I am not a cougar! I love confident sexy men and that often comes with age. I love that an older man is also interested in pleasing me and not just getting his rocks off.
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13 years ago
Quoting 'Ghostbusters' Your whole OP really just wreaks of irrational thoughts. Women are emotional communicators. Men are logical. You cannot rationalise or attempt to rationalise emotion, impulse, etc. the only rational thing to do is to accept it as it is, and enjoy the journey, not question it. Not all men are logical nor are all women emotional communicators....just saying in a completely unemotional way of course
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13 years ago
Dear Gazza, You do tend to remind me of a much younger (mentally), less exposed to the rigours of the nasty d world me. About 30 years ago. No matter how much you dress it up, and no matter how you try and rationalise it to yourself - and let's face it, it will be to yourself and yourself alone judging by the puerile nature of you comments here ( replying to everyone individually? Really?) you are indisputably one of those 'men' who gives the rest of us a bad name. So you don't instantly become neck deep in offers from supermodels here? So what? Do you really, really think this isn't anything that any other make on this site hasn't been through, or is still going through? Jesus, young feller, you really need to stop sooking and either carry on or walk away. And if you walk away, you'll never be back. Getting all sorts offers every day is the prerogative of the ladies here. That is it, and you cannot change it. In fact, you've done yourself a great disservice by whining like a little kid who dropped his ice cream because now every single person on this site knows you now to be a desperate little fellow who will cut and run when the crusts aren't cut off his sandwiches. I said somewhere before that to be a MAN on this site is one of the great character tests we can face. And you failed it. Dismally. In fact, in biblical proportions. Grow up, and them come back when you've grown a pair. Which I doubt will happen. If it's good enough for the rest of us, ladies included, then it's good enough for you. Rant over. God, I hope this gets through.
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13 years ago
go round and round,round and round..la la boo hoo hoo....now what did you say GB,ah yes...but I am just tooo choked up and feelin' toooo emotional to respond. sob,sob,why is he soo unkind? OOOPS,oh no you just drove over a rather large rock,you need to get back on the yellow brick road Tinman
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13 years ago
Just my humble opinion but stop using capital letters followed by the exclamation marks - i dont like being SHOUTED at!!!!!! and as someone else has said use the emoticons... that way those reading your thread will take it the way you've intended. I have gotten myself into trouble on many occasions with the written word... often goes pear shape but was not intended... As to your question.... i'm not into married or attached men and state it clearly in my profile... but still receive messages from them. I would have thought that the majority of the ladies on here would rather a single guy over a married one anytime. Married men are not freely available either emotionally or physcially at the drop of a hat or when im up for some fun because he's at daddy day care!....their life revolves around their family - and rightly so - but as a single lady, i dont like coming second... not when there are so many yummy single guys out there who will let me come first
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13 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13' go round and round,round and round..la la boo hoo hoo....now what did you say GB,ah yes...but I am just tooo choked up and feelin' toooo emotional to respond. sob,sob,why is he soo unkind? OOOPS,oh no you just drove over a rather large rock,you need to get back on the yellow brick road Tinman *sings...If i only had a brain ... ooops tinman ummm he needs a heart apparently like a lot of men
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13 years ago
Never....by emotional communicators I don't mean crying, clingy, etc...
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13 years ago
Quoting 'SassyMissM' Just my humble opinion but stop using capital letters followed by the exclamation marks - i dont like being SHOUTED at!!!!!! and as someone else has said use the emoticons... that way those reading your thread will take it the way you've intended. I have gotten myself into trouble on many occasions with the written word... often goes pear shape but was not intended... As to your question.... i'm not into married or attached men and state it clearly in my profile... but still receive messages from them. I would have thought that the majority of the ladies on here would rather a single guy over a married one anytime. Married men are not freely available either emotionally or physcially at the drop of a hat or when im up for some fun because he's at daddy day care!....their life revolves around their family - and rightly so - but as a single lady, i dont like coming second... not when there are so many yummy single guys out there who will let me come first Thanks for your commentSheeeshhhh do people only read half the postings??? Ive explained for the lack of emotes, Look contrary to popular belief this thread has a reply to each and every posting. Yes I realize that emotes trans lay certain emotions, but people think what they want anyways. Please if you dont understand the lack of emotes, then look for that reply My intent in here is honorable, if people misconstrue the true meanings then is that really my deal? I think not.Yes I totally agree with you about the married men sassymiss... but this is also touched upon in previous forum postings.Once again thank you for your response and please feel free to check out the other tags
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13 years ago
I will never walk up stairs and post at the same time again - referring to the above post. Makes me sound like a juvenile 42 year old, whining about things he can't change.
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13 years ago
and what about the married men who are chasing us single girls???? it works both ways....and dont even start me on ex's who dont participate in fair settlements!!! You have obviously had some bad experiences, but hey havent we all???? Have you ever thought that the girl who actively seeks a man who is already "taken" really just wants some fun, and he obviously isnt going to be the man of her dreams, or the type that they mention in their profile, and because of that there wont be any pressure to continue if not suitable.Join some different sites if you find the women here shallow, Quite frankly I dont know anyone who is chasing a married man, so maybe you need to screen your dates a little more carefully.........and should married men on here be trusted??? By whom their wives??? probably not- unless they have their permission. By single women? why not, at least we know they aren't afraid to commit!
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13 years ago
Quoting 'Kelly78Again' Quoting 'Ghostbusters' Your whole OP really just wreaks of irrational thoughts. Women are emotional communicators. Men are logical. You cannot rationalise or attempt to rationalise emotion, impulse, etc. the only rational thing to do is to accept it as it is, and enjoy the journey, not question it. Not all men are logical nor are all women emotional communicators....just saying in a completely unemotional way of course Thank you for your comment Miss kelly Men are from Mars and women are from Venus ... yes we are blatantly and obviously different, Im sure we can come to a happy medium btw Kelly good to see your adorable face again Ive missed our verbal jousts
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13 years ago
Quoting 'Ghostbusters' Your whole OP really just wreaks of irrational thoughts. Women are emotional communicators. Men are logical. You cannot rationalise or attempt to rationalise emotion, impulse, etc. the only rational thing to do is to accept it as it is, and enjoy the journey, not question it. thanks for your commentummm i prefer to think its a collective of feelings emotions and questions...just like at school answer the ones you can and carry on to the next, if time permits then come back and try to answer
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13 years ago
Quoting 'DontLookDown' 'If this rock's rockin'...don't bother knockin'.It's more fun to play with them...then argue with them 'bout next to nearly nuthin'. thanks for your commentIm rather glad you came back, there was something I feel I owe to youRE: your profile... did you know that its a fact that Darwin on his death bed denounced his lifetime of works as something that was not only a "theory" but also acknowledged that as he grew older he looked back and laughed at the ideals within that "theory" Our perceptions when we are younger change constantly as we grow older. But Im sure the ideals we end up with at the end of our lives far differ from what we started out with as a basic foundation.Once again thank you for your comments
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13 years ago
Quoting 'Nudierudie2' Quoting 'toughnfit' Why is it that women judge a guy on here by the stupid 100 character space given without even giving a though to weather or not they are actually worth writing a msg to. Hmmm- Posted from rhpmobileYou'd never judge someone until you got to know their personality inside and out -- you know, the whole thing about judging a book by its cover. This is not a perfect world, however -- this is a world where sometimes we need to judge the intentions of a stranger in a split second. Thankfully, evolution has given us all sorts of tools for doing it, whether we know it or not. Call me sexist.... but in MY perfect world, everyones arse would be as gorgeous as yours *braces for the sexist backlash... pardon me in advance
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13 years ago
Quoting 'paintme' humility, kindness and respect. I am not attracted to married or attached men as you have asked (somewhere) in you OP. If you could please simplify your OP for me (goodness knows I am a mere mortal), perhaps I would understand what point/s you are trying to make. Dot points would suffice. Thank you. Paintme come hither precious one hold my hand and we can go from posting to posting and break it all down
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13 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' ... is to ask it.... and listen to the replies.You've dominated your own topic with replies.Gazza...... dude...... I think theres a reason we have two years, two eyes and one mouth.DGPS... I luv ya Bro,.... but you still whinged. OHHH you mean by replying to these responses ... ????What the ??? I thought that by responding to each and every posting i was giving my personalised service to my few but loyal participants. Ive given each response its acknowledgement of fair points, and taken quite a lot on board also... Im finding this rather helpful and more like a form of therapy. Im meeting new people and sharing ideas and ideals with each of you. I thought you all might like the personalised touch. You know like one big happy family of nutters ;o) ***NOTE i used an emote Still unsure where I actually was still whinging....
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13 years ago
Quoting 'ChiefGazza' Quoting 'Shinasbabe27' Im not sure your post just did you any favors however I do understand your angst.... Thanks for your commentNot a spelling nazi, however favors is american, favours is australian/englishAnd stopped being so self involved and read some of the profiles of the people that commented, you will see I am in fact American (stated clearly on my profile) ...problem is ???...want me to undo 25 odd years of education....to suit you ??
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13 years ago
apparently he does read profiles ... he sat in the lotus position for me. I wonder if he'll try the fun stuff mentioned in Saskia's thread ... ? Or is he just all words ...?
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13 years ago
Quoting 'Shinasbabe27' Quoting 'ChiefGazza' Quoting 'Shinasbabe27' Im not sure your post just did you any favors however I do understand your angst.... Thanks for your commentNot a spelling nazi, however favors is american, favours is australian/englishAnd stopped being so self involved and read some of the profiles of the people that commented, you will see I am in fact American (stated clearly on my profile) ...problem is ???...want me to undo 25 odd years of education....to suit you ?? thanks for your commentoh please ... self involved ?? I'm taking everything that is posted extremely serious. Oh I see so I have to read everyone's profiles also and tippy toe around each persons personal needs and wants?? Problem is.. last time I looked we were in Australia, and when in Rome.. you know the rest. No I don't want you to undo any of your 25 odd years of education. But also in saying that when I do correct someones spelling its to edify then mot humiliate them. The way I was brought up here in Australia especially if the person keeps making the same mistake is to help them by giving them the correct spelling *which I gave you both ways and the country of origin... so that the person isn't continually making the same mistake and therefore depending on the circumstance possibly a resume or a job interview that they aren't jeopardising a possible job placement all for adding or subtracting one letter.
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13 years ago
Yes oneemerald.. the dreaded profile, from what I can gather. I tend to agree with him though, women and men alike make judgement calls on the 100 or so words plastered in profiles. It has little bearing on what people are personality wise and so many other traits are excluded from that section in the profiles section. BUT people make those calls without a blink of an eye. maybe video introductions would be a better forum. But hey !!! Sorry, but the profile then becomes critical! If I had that attitude, then I would potentially be seeing 100s of men, because I shouldn't judge them on their profile? That's ridiculous! The profile is apart of the filter in deciding who I respond to or see. It is laziness and a lame excuse when men say don't judge me on the profile. If you were overwhelmed with 100s of messages, how else would you decide?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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13 years ago
I'm outa here. The OPs responses are making me grind my teeth and my jaw is hurting... Oh and its not due to responses to my comments, its the responses to all the others that I find "incredible".- Posted from rhpmobile
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13 years ago
Quoting 'ChiefGazza' Quoting 'Shinasbabe27' Quoting 'ChiefGazza' Quoting 'Shinasbabe27' Im not sure your post just did you any favors however I do understand your angst.... Thanks for your commentNot a spelling nazi, however favors is american, favours is australian/englishAnd stopped being so self involved and read some of the profiles of the people that commented, you will see I am in fact American (stated clearly on my profile) ...problem is ???...want me to undo 25 odd years of education....to suit you ?? thanks for your commentoh please ... self involved ?? I'm taking everything that is posted extremely serious. Oh I see so I have to read everyone's profiles also and tippy toe around each persons personal needs and wants?? Problem is.. last time I looked we were in Australia, and when in Rome.. you know the rest. No I don't want you to undo any of your 25 odd years of education. But also in saying that when I do correct someones spelling its to edify then mot humiliate them. The way I was brought up here in Australia especially if the person keeps making the same mistake is to help them by giving them the correct spelling *which I gave you both ways and the country of origin... so that the person isn't continually making the same mistake and therefore depending on the circumstance possibly a resume or a job interview that they aren't jeopardising a possible job placement all for adding or subtracting one letter. Yes...you should take some time out to read other profiles.. or is that below you...? ...instead of pontificating............for a while there after your inital post - I checked you out and I was somewhat interested - till you hit the keyboard.........your wondering why women are bothering with you..? >check out the last 3 pages of this thread..........the answer lies within.......... As for me, thanks...but Im earning 6 figures..so Im doing ok...you know with the resume that I have and all ........... you know minus a letter here and there....... And in case you havent noticed its Americans running the big business in Perth now........why do you think they imported someone with my credentials ? Rome. ???... expats rule this city now, havent you noticed ?, guess not living down in Wycombe... Anyway good luck with it all ....youve made lots of friends here...you will do fine........... OOpps thats my tongue in my cheek...
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13 years ago
Quoting 'OneEmerald' Yes oneemerald.. the dreaded profile, from what I can gather. I tend to agree with him though, women and men alike make judgement calls on the 100 or so words plastered in profiles. It has little bearing on what people are personality wise and so many other traits are excluded from that section in the profiles section. BUT people make those calls without a blink of an eye. maybe video introductions would be a better forum. But hey !!! Sorry, but the profile then becomes critical! If I had that attitude, then I would potentially be seeing 100s of men, because I shouldn't judge them on their profile? That's ridiculous! The profile is apart of the filter in deciding who I respond to or see. It is laziness and a lame excuse when men say don't judge me on the profile. If you were overwhelmed with 100s of messages, how else would you decide?? - Posted from rhpmobile Im not sure if mischeviouslad will appreciate me replying to yet another response.. but Im not stopping anyone else from participating .. sheesh Im hoping Im encouraging itDoes the 100 words describing who you are or what your after become critical?? or does the pictures play the integral part in the decision making ?? Yes i agree it would be ridiculous, I wasnt suggesting that... and I think this topic was touched upon in another conversation. I do trust the better judgement of the women on this site, quite possibly though contemplating the thought that all men with washboard stomachs and large muscles, ALL have perfect personalities and amazing characteristics, might be a bit far fetched.. and on the other hand to say men of a lesser physical stature ALL have perfect personalities and characteristics is not a valid point either So ideally all us men can do is to trust that better judgement of the ladies :o)
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13 years ago
Quoting 'Shinasbabe27' Quoting 'ChiefGazza' Quoting 'Shinasbabe27' Quoting 'ChiefGazza' Quoting 'Shinasbabe27' Im not sure your post just did you any favors however I do understand your angst.... Thanks for your commentNot a spelling nazi, however favors is american, favours is australian/englishAnd stopped being so self involved and read some of the profiles of the people that commented, you will see I am in fact American (stated clearly on my profile) ...problem is ???...want me to undo 25 odd years of education....to suit you ?? thanks for your commentoh please ... self involved ?? I'm taking everything that is posted extremely serious. Oh I see so I have to read everyone's profiles also and tippy toe around each persons personal needs and wants?? Problem is.. last time I looked we were in Australia, and when in Rome.. you know the rest. No I don't want you to undo any of your 25 odd years of education. But also in saying that when I do correct someones spelling its to edify then mot humiliate them. The way I was brought up here in Australia especially if the person keeps making the same mistake is to help them by giving them the correct spelling *which I gave you both ways and the country of origin... so that the person isn't continually making the same mistake and therefore depending on the circumstance possibly a resume or a job interview that they aren't jeopardising a possible job placement all for adding or subtracting one letter. Yes...you should take some time out to read other profiles.. or is that below you...? ...instead of pontificating............for a while there after your inital post - I checked you out and I was somewhat interested - till you hit the keyboard.........your wondering why women are bothering with you..? >check out the last 3 pages of this thread..........the answer lies within.......... As for me, thanks...but Im earning 6 figures..so Im doing ok...you know with the resume that I have and all ........... you know minus a letter here and there....... And in case you havent noticed its Americans running the big business in Perth now........why do you think they imported someone with my credentials ? Rome. ???... expats rule this city now, havent you noticed ?, guess not living down in Wycombe... Anyway good luck with it all ....youve made lots of friends here...you will do fine........... OOpps thats my tongue in my cheek... Personal slurs ??? Im sure there is a relevant section in here with the topic of sarcasm being the lowest from of witt. And categorising people on the location they live in.. I think your serious... So guys that wear pink shirts are gay also.. look Im not going to justify myself I am truly sorry if I offended you enough to retaliate in such a manner. Please forgive me.
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13 years ago
a prime example of how the forums can turn to shit!!! @ChiefGazza, whether people get what your saying or not doesn't really matter, you've been open for discussion ..where others haven't.@Shinasbabe ....your buttons are so easily pushed hey, do you really believe in your own hype?? ....you act as if we're all below you ..must be an american thing
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13 years ago
Quoting 'Twisted_Mister' Dear Gazza, You do tend to remind me of a much younger (mentally), less exposed to the rigours of the nasty d world me. About 30 years ago. No matter how much you dress it up, and no matter how you try and rationalise it to yourself - and let's face it, it will be to yourself and yourself alone judging by the puerile nature of you comments here ( replying to everyone individually? Really?) you are indisputably one of those 'men' who gives the rest of us a bad name. So you don't instantly become neck deep in offers from supermodels here? So what? Do you really, really think this isn't anything that any other make on this site hasn't been through, or is still going through? Jesus, young feller, you really need to stop sooking and either carry on or walk away. And if you walk away, you'll never be back. Getting all sorts offers every day is the prerogative of the ladies here. That is it, and you cannot change it. In fact, you've done yourself a great disservice by whining like a little kid who dropped his ice cream because now every single person on this site knows you now to be a desperate little fellow who will cut and run when the crusts aren't cut off his sandwiches. I said somewhere before that to be a MAN on this site is one of the great character tests we can face. And you failed it. Dismally. In fact, in biblical proportions. Grow up, and them come back when you've grown a pair. Which I doubt will happen. If it's good enough for the rest of us, ladies included, then it's good enough for you. Rant over. God, I hope this gets through. Yes I had my initial rant, but each and every reply has been generally a pleasant experience. And never have I retaliated by verbally insulting anyone who has taken the time to respond. Unlike yourself.Also I am terribly upset that I have failed in your perspective of me. I must have forgotten who I was here for others or myself. I never intended for any of this to become a personal slanging matchWHERE ARE THE RULES HERE ?? WHERE DOES IT SAY THAT I CANT REPLY TO EACH AND EVERY POSTING ??
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13 years ago
but I am gonna stick up for Gazza.He doesn't post often but when he does he excites people.Ladies you all go on about looking for a man with a brain,here he is.I honestly don't know why he has asked this question if it relates to him because if you read his profile and look at his pics he should be spoilt for choice. Now to answer the question,why do single women choose married men over single men.In my experience it is because they dont want more than an uncomplcated relationship and women know that they wont be so at risk of wanting more from them.You see, single men of a similar age to a woman,show potential for something more,that is dangerous emotional territory.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13' but I am gonna stick up for Gazza.He doesn't post often but when he does he excites people.Ladies you all go on about looking for a man with a brain,here he is.I honestly don't know why he has asked this question if it relates to him because if you read his profile and look at his pics he should be spoilt for choice. Now to answer the question,why do single women choose married men over single men.In my experience it is because they dont want more than an uncomplcated relationship and women know that they wont be so at risk of wanting more from them.You see, single men of a similar age to a woman,show potential for something more,that is dangerous emotional territory. Hey may have a brain, which allowed him to construct an appealing profile, but this post and his subsequent responses to commenters also indicate an ego the size of the Grand Canyon. Confidence is good. Arrogance and a belief in your total superiority over all others is not.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yes Gazza has so much potential - hell I was interested.......................until I started reading................arrogance.........appealing for some..............but for many....Ive met very few men that can back up what is typed from behind a compute monitor... Freya as per usual, what you state is correct. If I wanted no emotional attachment I too would probably go the way of the married man as well as all you write is true ..but I know me, I know my heart and I know what I want...... I also know what its like to have marriage vows made of mockery of ...plus I know what its like to be hurt.........and I for one refuse to purposedly set out to hurt anyone...........and these tiype of entanglements always ends in tears for one party or the other.... So I will for the time being continue on my eternal quest to meet a lovely single, interesting man in Perth - my quest equates to that of Galahad and the Holy Grail..............and my quest will as it does every Saturday ..start at the beach...... Everyone..have a awesome day !!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
ONCE a man turns 40 does that render him COMPLETELY USELESS to the opposite sex??NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! Naughty forties comes to my mind - completely unseless?? NO.Are married men on sites like this to be trusted?? Coming from a single woman...married men who state on their profiles married do not appeal to me.I am not attracted to them... My morals, integrity mean more to me then being with a married man.I believe if a man is married it's a no go zone..He has a chosen wife.Married men who are married and state they are single on their profiles to attract women - well to me it's that lies and deceit. unattractive - does not appeal to me. This is my argument - why lie?? Just say your married...simple really??I am attracted to single men - age is no issue for me..I don't want lies and deceit in my life when my life is complete with no complications..Why take on more?? However some women are just attracted to married men-they have their own reasons (vice-versa)- I can't judge them on what they want to choose if that is their choice..That really is Ok if they want to do that..heck who am I to judge?? I think it all comes down to what each individual person wants to get their needs meet - Age does not come into that.I feel for single men on this site...it's competitive and after a while it must destroy ones self-esteem over time.I have had this conversation with a single male friend of mine- I am so glad he was open with me so I can put myself in his shoes.There is someone out there for you - they just haven't found you..
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'ChiefGazza' Quoting 'SassyMissM' Just my humble opinion but stop using capital letters followed by the exclamation marks - i dont like being SHOUTED at!!!!!! and as someone else has said use the emoticons... that way those reading your thread will take it the way you've intended. I have gotten myself into trouble on many occasions with the written word... often goes pear shape but was not intended... As to your question.... i'm not into married or attached men and state it clearly in my profile... but still receive messages from them. I would have thought that the majority of the ladies on here would rather a single guy over a married one anytime. Married men are not freely available either emotionally or physcially at the drop of a hat or when im up for some fun because he's at daddy day care!....their life revolves around their family - and rightly so - but as a single lady, i dont like coming second... not when there are so many yummy single guys out there who will let me come first Thanks for your commentSheeeshhhh do people only read half the postings??? Ive explained for the lack of emotes, Look contrary to popular belief this thread has a reply to each and every posting. Yes I realize that emotes trans lay certain emotions, but people think what they want anyways. Please if you dont understand the lack of emotes, then look for that reply My intent in here is honorable, if people misconstrue the true meanings then is that really my deal? I think not.Yes I totally agree with you about the married men sassymiss... but this is also touched upon in previous forum postings.Once again thank you for your response and please feel free to check out the other tags You post a topic and then because i have a similiar opinion to someone else i shouldnt have voiced my opinion because its already been said? then you tell me to 'feel free' to read your other threads.... thankyou for your leading me to the light and beg my pardon for wasting your time Having said that im absolutely thrilled you agree with one sentence of mine....giddy up! I hope you dont misconstrue the true meaning of what i have said - not really my deal though is it? (*insert whatever emoticon you desire)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13' but I am gonna stick up for Gazza.He doesn't post often but when he does he excites people.Ladies you all go on about looking for a man with a brain,here he is.I honestly don't know why he has asked this question if it relates to him because if you read his profile and look at his pics he should be spoilt for choice. Now to answer the question,why do single women choose married men over single men.In my experience it is because they dont want more than an uncomplcated relationship and women know that they wont be so at risk of wanting more from them.You see, single men of a similar age to a woman,show potential for something more,that is dangerous emotional territory. Gazza knows only too well what i think of him...and i am rather surprised or shall i say Illuminated by some of the regular forum contributors and their attitudes in this post, others not so much as they have become highly predictable.If you really want to know where he is coming from or why he asked this question, i would suggest you pop into the chat rooms and ask him.Gazza is indeed the intelligent knight in shinning armour riding in on the white steed that some of you ladies are seeking...Yet still I see you waste your time on the looser's covered in aluminum foil riding a wooden horseChivalry is not dead...It just got a new uniform
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RHP User
13 years ago
This has been an entertaining read and if you get to Tassie, look me up Gazza.Oh, but I possibly wouldn't meet your standards because I did once get involved with an attached man, didn't chase him though or knock down his door. Our affair stemmed from a long friendship and at a time when both of us were experiencing intense loneliness, our guards slipped. I did feel guilt and remorse but given I am a lapsed Catholic, could not avail myself of absolution through the confessional. Instead I live with a determination never to repeat this transgression, which is why I state on my profile If you are married or attached, I don't care how sexy and good in bed you think you are, I'm NOT interested :) Now, come on over to Tassie and you share with me how you think we can get men to be more honest about their emotions I'll even co-facilitate a workshop or two with you if you like. CheersWildly amused
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RHP User
13 years ago
I love how in your post it isn't until the last remark that you lay any of the blame of responsibility on the married man. The rest of it is entirely the womens fault.Question.. women may meet married men from here and yes the responsibility does lie with both parties, however WHY are married men on here in the first place? Did you even stop to consider that? If they weren't on here, we wouldn't be meeting them!!!!There was a column written in the Herald Sun newspaper earlier this week surrounding online dating, and a statistic resonated with me, that 20-30% of 'single male' profiles on these sites are in fact married. How are we supposed to make sound judgements when a lot of men lie about their relationship status'?And yes, you DO sound like a bitter divorcee!
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RHP User
13 years ago
There have been quite a few threads on cheating and if anything RHP has shown me is that everything is not straight black and white and there many reasons why people cheat. Some selfish and some which are just dependant of circumstances or lesser of two evils.Yes there are a portion of guys that lie about being married but women are more than capable of making their own decisions as to if they want to go there or not without the moral police passing judgement. Gazza, yes there no rules on the amount of times you can post but just as in RL just cause you can doesn't mean you should. While some of your comments look like you mean well others reek of arrogance.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Great post mate, I reckon the men should post more. I look forward to reading the replies from this, but one of the scary parts of reality is a mate of mine and I went clubbing, to meet girls, before we entered the club he said put a ring on so you loo taken........so to humour him I tried it.....the real disappointing thing was it worked, and it worked extremely well......Call it the idea they everyone wants something they cant have (male and female) , and feel its an achievement if they get it, however when the excitement boils over , it gets boring and the next challenge starts.....Its scary, but then again the old fashioned ideals of dating and marriage have changed dramatically
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'jokerza' Great post mate, I reckon the men should post more. I look forward to reading the replies from this, but one of the scary parts of reality is a mate of mine and I went clubbing, to meet girls, before we entered the club he said put a ring on so you loo taken........so to humour him I tried it.....the real disappointing thing was it worked, and it worked extremely well......Call it the idea they everyone wants something they cant have (male and female) , and feel its an achievement if they get it, however when the excitement boils over , it gets boring and the next challenge starts.....Its scary, but then again the old fashioned ideals of dating and marriage have changed dramatically HUMMMMMMM...... misleading women are we just to get a shag - your friend needs a good spanking?????
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RHP User
13 years ago
Nudierudie2, I read your post with interest, particularly the last line. What is this new uniform?- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Easy fix, narrow your search parameters to single women seeking single men. I'd suggest you chill out a bit as the women here have the pick of whoever they want (within reason) and as has been mentioned, no one likes an angry guy when they could have a guy who's calm and relaxed, doesn't purport himself as a security risk should things not go well :-/ take a step back, take a deep breath and jump back in when you're ready
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RHP User
13 years ago
Sarcasm is the lowest form of wit. Not "Witt" but that's just how we roll in Australia right? Helping those who are........ I dunno whatever you said so shinas hahahahaha
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