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women looking for men
February 06 2013
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RHP User
13 years ago
Ok folks how about this then i am in a open marriage my wife and i both have profiles here and we are totally aware of what we are doing have done this before but decided to take a break for a while. Now my wife she will get hits left right and centre and be call MILF , Cougar . Now i am cool with this totally and do meet the guys but a Married guy like myself who has his wife permission , is not cheating at all, tells her everything and is open to everyone gets caledl a cheating prick, dirty old man and of course the best one sorry you are not what i am looking for yet they are older and mmmmmm not attractive sorry to say, Now my wife is hot as she is beautiful and the guys i have meet appreciate her and our relationship being so open. I have only ever met a hand full of women that do understand what we do and accept it. So can someone please explain the double standards. Now to thos ewomen who thing i am not what you are looking hey sorry your badluck you miss out lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'ScratchyandItchy'a prime example of how the forums can turn to shit!!! @ChiefGazza, whether people get what your saying or not doesn't really matter, you've been open for discussion ..where others haven't. we have differnet ideas and opinions..if you dont like them then dont post...or alternatively dont read @Shinasbabe ....your buttons are so easily pushed hey, do you really believe in your own hype?? ....you act as if we're all below you ..must be an american thing Criticising one for their spelling simply because they are schooled in another country you think is acceptable..? and then one makes a reference to the fact that my resume wouldnt be acceptable because I spell different is a nice thing to do do you ? ...and I addressed accordingly ...and then having a shot because they come from a different country you think shows tolerance...?? MMmmm...interesting Of course I believe in my own hype I believe in me..problem with that is ?....and if one does not believe in themselves who else is there for them to believe in ? I am comfortable with who I am..you know being a Amercian and all....are you ? And as for being anyone being below me.....of course not (what a silly thing to say ) .....anyone being above me. ? ......no.........we are equal and we all bleed the same................. Have a nice day . Oh and btw OP...I dont agree with your views in full , however you have shown wit and articulation...you have been a interesting read...
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RHP User
13 years ago
And it is sincere I shouldnt have had a shot at you and where you live..that was low of me...and poor of me (bad Shinas) I hope that you will graciously accept my apology........... Im a stauch patriotic Yank and I make no apology for that........it is what it is..............and I know what its like when Im American bashed (which goes on a bit here since Chevron moved in) and has a shot at me..for my Americanisms..but I had no rite (right) to do the same to you I try to hang on to my Americanisms because I dont have much of home left in me anymore.....and if any out there is an expat like me, you will kinda understand where I am coming from Again my apologies OP .. Shinas
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Nomidlifeissues' Ok folks how about this then i am in a open marriage my wife and i both have profiles here and we are totally aware of what we are doing have done this before but decided to take a break for a while. Now my wife she will get hits left right and centre and be call MILF , Cougar . Now i am cool with this totally and do meet the guys but a Married guy like myself who has his wife permission , is not cheating at all, tells her everything and is open to everyone gets caledl a cheating prick, dirty old man and of course the best one sorry you are not what i am looking for yet they are older and mmmmmm not attractive sorry to say, Now my wife is hot as she is beautiful and the guys i have meet appreciate her and our relationship being so open. I have only ever met a hand full of women that do understand what we do and accept it. So can someone please explain the double standards. Now to thos ewomen who thing i am not what you are looking hey sorry your badluck you miss out lol There are no double standards, its the difference in the way men and women think and/or their attitudes.... Most women (& yes im generalising) but my friends and those i know would like to ultimately meet a man for them, ... a man who is available both emotionally and physcially, who has the time, need and want for intimacy, not one who needs to get home to the wife or collect the kids from school. From my personal past experience the majority of men who say that their wife knows about what he's up too etc... is bullshitting me... and im not interested in that - a woman who wont get near a married man chooses not to do so because of her morals, ethics, his availablity etc.... - a man on the other hand... will appear to want to shag anything (again yes i know im generalising), but from male friends points of view, they either dont want the hassle of follow up calls etc... so love they married lady because she's safe, or are younger than she and wanting to experience a Cougar....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Nomidlifeissues' Ok folks how about this then i am in a open marriage my wife and i both have profiles here and we are totally aware of what we are doing have done this before but decided to take a break for a while. Now my wife she will get hits left right and centre and be call MILF , Cougar . Now i am cool with this totally and do meet the guys but a Married guy like myself who has his wife permission , is not cheating at all, tells her everything and is open to everyone gets caledl a cheating prick, dirty old man and of course the best one sorry you are not what i am looking for yet they are older and mmmmmm not attractive sorry to say, Now my wife is hot as she is beautiful and the guys i have meet appreciate her and our relationship being so open. I have only ever met a hand full of women that do understand what we do and accept it. So can someone please explain the double standards. Now to thos ewomen who thing i am not what you are looking hey sorry your badluck you miss out lol & just because you say these women who you do speak to are 'mmmmmmmmmmm not attractive sorry to say' - try and remember we all like different things... thats what makes us all individuals... i just hope those ladies as you have described above are not reading this.... sounds like sour grapes to me
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RHP User
13 years ago
*singing* here comes another one, just like the other one .... :-P
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RHP User
13 years ago
I did spend three years prior to meeting my partner on this site and other of its ilk. I klnow exactly what went through my mind each and every time I hooked up with a man, married or otherwise. I did it for sex. Honestly I was not looking for a permanent man...just a permanent friend with benefits. I didnt want him to spend the night, didnt want him to take me out, away for weekends, call me drunk in the middle of the night when he was horny, call around pissed with his mates because he thought I was easy game because...lets face it...being on this site I must be easy right? I did not want someone that I had to introduce to my child the next day. I wanted a man who came back more than the requisite two point five times. I wanted a repeat performance, preferably at least once a week. Someone who treated me nicely, politely and like a totally desireable woman. I wanted total discretion as I work in a sensitive area in a small country town, I did not want someone who smirked when they saw me down town, I did not want someone that told all his mates at work that he hooked up with me. In all seriousness what I wanted I could only get from a married man. Had I found a single man in the right age group who could give me that then I would have fucked him as well. Suck it up princess, we have sex with whom we choose, regardless of society norms and niceties.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Single women in your age group? They want to stay single because of the last fucking arsehole that shit all over them, treated them like dirt, left them broken and raw while they walked off with a younger slimmer model... and no it did not happen to me....I generalise.
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RHP User
13 years ago
ditto!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thank you everyone for both your positive and negative responses. Please feel free to continue to use this thread, but this will be my last posting.If I have exposed myself as anything but a caring, feeling, emotional person then crucify me, for thats exactly what I am.If I sounded angry when posting this forum, yes guilty, it was not my intent. Although through no fault of my own.Believe it or not, but my entire life has been pretty much dedicated to the others around me, Im the most selfless person I know. I try had to be selfish but cant, sad but true. Others are continually before me.Due to the overwhelming emotional responses to this thread I felt compelled to invite the lady in question over for a chat and a glass of wine. I mentioned to her the about this thread, of which she knew nothing about. I showed her my initial comment and your subsequent responses... Well I left her to read both threads in there entirety, popping back in now and then to make sure she was ok and refill her glass, sometimes sitting for 5 or 10 minutes now and then to communicate with her. She would laugh, she would cry, She would get angry, she would sigh.The laughs were generally for my quirky ways and words. The crying was for her own self pity. The anger, which I thought would be directed to me, was directed to the ones of you that dont know me but passed judgement anyway. And the sighs, were for what could have been but never will be now.When she left, she cuddled me and thanked me for the time, the effort and my words both here and with her.She text me when she got home, which I asked her to do so I knew she got home ok.... it read... "thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you for being YOU Garry"I wont have contact with this lady again, for my own personal reasons, and NO nothing ever did or will happen between her and I.So, my fellow netties, in return for your responses both positive and negative, I say....thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you for being YOU And hope that maybe we have all learned something small, something large, something for us, something for others.Who knows, today could be the first day of the rest of your lives. Please take care and stay safeSincerely yours Garry
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RHP User
13 years ago
Its not that all the good ones are taken.....but all the taken ones are good ;p
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RHP User
13 years ago
Sorry, just checking, has anyone seen my moral compass?? I may of left it on one of these forums inadvertently..Oh all good!! Found it under the couch with my understanding and empathy. (and a couple of mintie wrappers and that bloody remote I thought I'd lost forever... ) Read these posts and learn a little people, we all have a contribution to make and should respect each others in return. X
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RHP User
13 years ago
Deceiving someone else no matter what the circumstance is unethical of course. but being consumed in its destructive path is something you wanna steer clear off, as the use of social media/networking to vent is riddled with hazards and should be approached with caution as the line between constructive observation and 'unattractive rant' is subjective and won t help your cause. That said your entitled to say what you want to... And if it helps, good on ya (I mean that with sincerity), however just remember those married partners you speak of we're not always married and have in their past made at least 1 woman happy enough to accept a proposal.. - (which is more than i can say for myself) I'm not married either but it sure as hell isn't someone else fault - I'm prob not ready, and after a couple previous relationships may be a bit more cynical (never handy if your looking for a wife).. And we all have our demons that we should work at - starting with ones self as you will find when it comes to changing others (well you know the saying about flogging a dead horse...)
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captainkaos
13 years ago
I just flicked through and I was bored. lol. Quoting 'JayJay_66'Its not that all the good ones are taken.....but all the taken ones are good ;p Hey, hey, hey. That hurts. lol.
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RHP User
13 years ago
it's just like dinner.Eat small portions at a time,chew well and swallow
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Messolonghi' Nudierudie2, I read your post with interest, particularly the last line. What is this new uniform?- Posted from rhpmobile Quoting 'Messolonghi' Nudierudie2, I read your post with interest, particularly the last line. What is this new uniform?- Posted from rhpmobile Chivalry, reinvented itself at various points during its lifetime, evolving with changing attitudes towards gender roles and sex. It distanced itself when women asserted their equality.As men and women began exploring the constraints of a sexual relationship and it’s relation to marriage, chivalry heralded this exploration, and allowed itself to extend to a general common decency for all human beings. Men and women held doors open for each other, and dates went dutch.It lasted through the invention of automatic doors, mobile phones and internet dating. It evolved once again as bras were burned, birth control was celebrated and friends gained “benefits.”It re-evaluated its core principles era upon era and never backed down from innovation. Even while under siege for seeming chauvinistic, sexist and archaic, chivalry was always willing to embrace modernization and conform as best as it could.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm terrible at cryptic crosswords too ... :-/
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RHP User
13 years ago
Doesnt mean there are no good ones left for the taking ;))
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RHP User
13 years ago
Nice little piece of reverse psychology ... don't lead the poor lad astray.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'paintme' I'm terrible at cryptic crosswords too ... :-/ But only the easy ones.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Gazza, don't let the sycophantic hordes deter you mate. While I think you're premise is ill informed , conviction and tenacity are real character traits and you have put them on display.First of all I think it is fair to say that your reply rate percentage and number of emails received unsolicited is about as good as is gets ... trust me dude the rest of us would be delighted with those numbers under the circumstances.I am married and can tell you a vast majority of single women do not seek out married men ... well not this one anyway. You must simply be targeting the ones that are for their own reasons - several have been pointed out in the thread ?The disparity between how easy it is for the women (basically choosing) and the men (competing vigorously) creates a situation where the power dynamic is clearly in the women's favour - summed up nicely by Abe Lincoln hundreds of years ago "Nearly all women can stand adversity, but if you want to test a woman's character, give her power"Even your relatively good unsolicited email count and response rate indicates some are failing the test. It is one of those suck it up "Such is Life" things.
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RHP User
13 years ago
hi sexy want to chat
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RHP User
13 years ago
Methinks you've disturbed the occupants of this interplanetary craft. That's not hard to do mind you.I can't really help with your original post because I've never been on here as a single woman but as a woman I promulgate I would only be interested in unnattached men. Peachy
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'paintme' as to how you have developed this perception. Is this perception based on a qualitative or quantitative analysis and it would be helpful for us single women to know exactly how big your sample size was in your study? May I suggest a calming bath and a glass of wine before you respond ... Sample size??? well I study mine all the time, but alas it is still pitifully inadequate to confirm even the basest theories...... is there some trick i am missing here? Something you know but have,t yet shared????I ask for the greater common good of course.......oh BTW as for the thread.......I am married, but me chatting to someone and you chatting to someone are not mutually exclusive events...its not a competition bud...just be yourself and if that doesn't work, well put on you supersuit and be someone else...chicks just can't resist a man in spandex!!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
i like your theory, im a single bloke looking for fun at 47 i could be the oldest toyboy ever
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RHP User
13 years ago
Certainly not even remotely interested in men who are married.
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RHP User
13 years ago
first reading this you seem to be a man with contemp with this subject? Are you angry with one particular person? mmm seems like it. Me personally I have no problems seeing a married or single man on here, hello do you know what site you are on? I think perhaps because you may have had a bad experience and just venting? There are reason all people on here and if you are a judgemental person perhaps this is not for you? Its about meeting ppl friends with encounters or not. Sexuality is about openess with ones self, single, gay, married, etc u get my drift. To categorise all people in one rant is just that a rant. I think you should go to an actual dating site that fits you. p.s good luck on your journey
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StookyAndChooky
13 years ago
Some single women chase after married men it's like a game to same of them usually they want to see the guy without Wife knowning what's going on had an similar situation myself I found out ask her directly she said that it was a joke which at the time I took seriously, seems not many women are willing to play with my man even though its all above board unless they are seeking couples or single guys I guess it's different strokes for different folks sorry to hear your run of bad luck we have had our fair share of bad luck on here so your not only one hope there is single women out there for you that would be interested in you as you are in them Chooky female of couple here - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Gaz, maybe just chill and take it as it comes, who knows, you might just find that woman you are after is right under your nose (and not necessarily on here). If you can't find her here, so be it, no point stressing. But beating your head against the wall ain't going to help. If diamonds were easy to find, would they be as valued?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Dear Gazza, As you just said, when you correct someone it's "to edify mot humiliate them". In that case, brace yourself to be edified. Your posts have been littered with spelling and grammar errors. There are differences between your and you're, wit is spelt with one T, and good syntax is easy to follow, unlike your directionless, voluminous and repetitive posts. Also, I think you meant to say "not humiliate them" but made a typo instead. We all do that and auto correct tends to mess with our intended words, as I strongly suspect it has several times for you in this thread (yes I have no life, so I did read the whole thing). Again, these aren't criminal offences but if you're going to edify someone who uses a commonly accepted alternate, but technically correct, spelling of a word, then may I suggest you brush up on your proof reading skills, pause before punching the send button and get your own ducks in a row first. Xoxo Monique PS: I still think your cute though, and clearly we could have a top argument and then some make up sex if you like......oh, I'm married though, is that going to be a problem? ;-D - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Perhaps toughnfit YOU could put your hand in your pocket for more than one thing, and pay for a membership, then you could send a message yourself!! 😇- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well as you can see Im 43yrs old and would like nothing else but to date a man in my age group. Single, seperated or divorced. But not married, i have slept with a married man but the guilt I felt of betraying his wife was too much for me. Sad that it wasnt for him. It only lasted a week and he still still sends messages to see if I interested enough to see him. However it is always met with no sorry not interested.I have found that some men my age are interested in younger women and thats all good if they havent been married or had any children. As I understand that a woman of my age is not going to want children or even possible to have one.Seems most of the men I attract are in there mid 30's and even some under that. Really would like a partner my age that I could introduce to friends. Nothing against the 30 something men as all the ones I have met have been great respectful men and I have enjoyed there company.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'wombat9' i like your theory, im a single bloke looking for fun at 47 i could be the oldest toyboy ever I AM !
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RHP User
13 years ago
how hard is it to find a sexy single ladie for a smooth night of drinks at mine? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Ok, where did you get this fact from exactly? Because I cant possibly see how it could be true! As for the possible few, and most likely very young, women who might be, then Id say youd be more likely to know the answer than women who dont actually do that!! Maybe the married men treat them nicer than the single ones cus they appreciate it more? Who knows, you are the guy so think what youd be like if it were you....what would you do differently? Maybe there is your answer? As for the rest you said.....holy shit dude! As a divoroced woman who hasn't done a single thing you said, im really really offended! In fact almost hurt! How dare you categorize ALL women with one foul swoop! You need to stop now before you destroy the rest of your life with hate! Trust me, Ive seen it - oh and it wasnt woman realted by the way. Yes this place is harsh! Yes it hurts sometimes but noone is making you come on here are they? Get off it then! Simple! FYI, its not so green on the other side of the fence either!
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RHP User
13 years ago
i have some tips that may help! i leave my browser open all day and night while im awake that is! girls tend to search online guys and check you out. and when i do search i search far and wide i met a gorgeous pole dancer from melbourne who came to me and had a relationship with for a year just thru a lil extra research!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I myself prefer my men 40 and over,under that for me is too young, As long as their fit,can hold a conversation,have great stamina,then naughty nurse is iinterested.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Luckdragon23, cute ass!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hmmm Im what they would call a newbie to this site after 25yrs of loyal marriage and never Slept with another woman then decided that after 10yrs and sex 3 times that i need to find sex for my self and felt a tendancy towards bisexual urges which I have since tried , the sex is the pull not the adoration for men cos i love women too much but I think and have been told that women pick up on vibes that were married and don,t tempt or try to tempt married guys in general and 25yrs i never noticed if i was being hit on I find it hard to be forwards anyhow and hate to think that if i do i would get knocked back, cos I WAS married, or too short, or now too old but am fitter than most my age or younger and certainly longer lasting than most in fact takes too long that it worries me or that maybe there isn't anyone that can pop my cork well enough to make me blow like a young boy yet I have no problem with my self, self esteem or worry of not being worthy is also a factor for guys my age as the general attitude "I" feel is once ur clocking age, is that your past it when I know we are not, I can be a slut if i wanted and wish sometimes I was but my shyness always keeps me from taking that step especially with the ladies, the few rare occasions Ive tried Bi sex with a guy I still found it quite uncomfortable with my self because I question my sexuality as ?I so Desire women and Love pussy licking and sucking them boobs OMG the body of a Woman!!! So my answer to my thoughts to women and picking men is that its all different for the individual but as society rules, Young ones tend to get it all now because of youth not wisdom or experience, oldies want the youth for the freshness and vitality but still yearn for the wise and elder partners who know what they want, ME? Id be happy to have sex with someone new and full of what she/ they want and still teach me something having been locked away like a loyal puppy for so long I'm scared to venture onto the Street, SO Try to think of these things as we search for the list of goodies out there, newbies need guidance however young or old we are and those willing to show please lol kick my door down, I get lots of requests from the guys cos guys are easy in retrospect but women are fussier, and so You should be, we men have trampled our attitudes to them like were all that, so what do we expect to be treated, saying that,, I really dont know the answer anymore as aged as I have become worldly but young and still fit in heart and body,hoping Time will Tell,, look forward to having fun with you out there but I need the enticement ladies sorry Im not one whose easily Rampantly blind to my urges, and guys thx for the offers too smiles, Probably got totally off track but hey its a forum maybe this would spark another debate
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RHP User
13 years ago
very true chiefgazza i agree with your comment,married men musnt be happy that's why they cheat,and yes single men are more attractive and true,the women see $$$ signs in their eyes and go for the married man that won't offer them anything at least you know you will have fun with a single guy,and by the way some men in there forties are pretty sexy as well,they are out there.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well what about the one's who don't and have just joined
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WoodyWoodcock
13 years ago
I see...married men looking for SEX outside of their marriage mustn't be happy. Maybe a credible excuse, but I this assumption is evidence of the primal difference between males and females. I am attached, not married, but 30 years attached to the same women. It's not about betrayal, deceit. That comes when we seek out lurve and become emotionally attached to the other party. That is betrayal and the reason I believe that many females often cannot see the wood for the trees. All of those brothels...servicing single men LMFAO! Notice not too brothels and sex workers competing with the same for woman. Why, woman generally don't want to visit a stranger for 20 mins, hand over cash for the "privilege", do the job, shower and leave. For a male this is the perfect date and ironically, cheaper than the socialised way of getting rid of a load. Hmmm now we enter a can of worms! Males have a single primary purpose, to spread his seed to proliferate the virus on boots...yep the human race. Then hunting follows. Females have the consequences of the knuckle dragging seeding machine, which they grow and nuture before and after birth. Dad bolted ages ago continuing to inseminate as many incubators as possible. All of this primal stuff remains our primary instinct...we can't eliminate the innate. All the rest is environmental and social conditioning. Marriage....LOL 😄 unless you really believe the whole creationist concoction, designed to train humans to operate against their instincts, then The whole concept of marriage is uncovered for what it is...a piece of paper. What a sad world we live in where some many, non religious people, feel that a certificate of marriage cements the commitment of their loving relationship. Maybe that's why so many fall apart. Marriage is a crock, in my view and yes, I respect that others have a different view, but really wtf. If hoy have joined RHP to find a life partner, good luck and enjoy, but if you joined like many males and I presume many females, for a FB, FWB, a date or whatever NSA reason, please consider that a certificate if marriage means F-all. The commitment of the couple to each other must transcend the piece of paper and the ownership charms (rings). An attached person, I presume, is categorised Married. Is this the way the anti married person contingent classify "Attached". OK thesecond bit much briefer...i sometimes see Married Women seeking Single guys, the same with Attached women. This is their choice, but logic 101 rated a FAIL. I don't get the moral high ground in these cases and yep couples love this shit too. Now I will lead with my chin... As a generalisation women cannot separate emotion from sex. It's a chicken and egg thing. Females need to do the genetic scanning, make an emotional connection and then the knickers might come off. Males set the bar. It may start high, but as the nuts swell in jism, the bar will drop incrementally until the seed is ploughed in. The bar then gets raised to its re capital position as he sneaks out the door at 3:00am. Next, are we attached males unhappy with our partner/wife before joining a site that promotes itself as a vehicle to connect people who want to get laid. Some will be, but I'll bet my left ball that this will apply to a smaller percentage than those who are perfectly happy, but curious to satisfy fantasies that their partner has no interest in,or maybe they just want to empty out more often. For all of the sycophantic metrosexual blokes out there taking the Ill tell them what they want to hear crap...you know it...at least admit it or zip it. This is the reason why fathers rarely like their prospective son on law...Dad knows that all men are driven by the need to bury their ferrets and release the seed for potential procreation of another to perpetuate the cycle For me, I have no issue looking for some activities that my partner simply has no interest in exploring. I have resolved this issue with myself and will always take steps to ensure that neither me or my play friends are remotely interested in an emotional bond and to emsure that the others viruses, bacteriL and fungal infections stay with their host. If you have a "no Married person"policy. Good for you! Married and attached people do not seek a relationship and are not there perpetuate ingrained religious dogma You and me baby ain't nothing but mammals, so lets do it it like they do it on the discovery channel. Attached or Married guys or women, sport some very desirable differentials to their single counterparts. They can keep a relationship together, otherwise they would be single They do want to take unnecessary risks and will assure total discretion. They do not get blinded by emotion, because they want your body not your SOUL! When it's over, guess what...it's ove,no tears, no stalking,no emotion. This is what I think you might call consensual sex between conserving adults. Single people....most would have had many more partners than me, for instance and may be more likely to go bare back or take other risks too gain acceptance of the other party...you know emotional stuff. The married person has less to hide in a NSA moment and will get to the point, rather than telling you whatever you want and need to hear to make youcpliant. The married guy will tell the needy to, politely, piss off. Sorry, I'll shut up, but hope that if I haven't made any slam dunks, maybe the moral elite might take a second or 2 to consider that following a romantic notion based on religious dogma, does not place them in a position to criticise or exclude those that are seeking to live a full life. For me, I have some bucket list items to tick and of I don't seek outside, I may well have lived a penultimate life. If I can squeeze the ultimate life out of chasing my dreams or fantasies, then so be it. I'll be dead a bloody long time and forgotten a long time sooner. I guess that I just totally alienated my target audience, but I think that you are all wise enough to know that not everything I wrote is a load of wank. It's simply what guys will acknowledge to each other, but not so stupid to blurt it to their meal ticket for sex. Haha... Now take aim 😄
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WoodyWoodcock
13 years ago
Ladies & Gents, Practical homework: Male exercise - next time you go to a party, a club, etc, slip a ring on your wedding finger...chose something that looks real. Repeat the exercise on another occasion without the ring Guaranteed result - unless you go out of your way to be a dick and you do engage conversation with Females, you will get hit on. The guy with no ring...unless he is drop dead gorgeous, famous or dripping cash...FAIL. This has been proven time and time again. Wassup girls? It is very weird particularly when you take account of the rhetoric. Womanisers and pick up artists, I think not ladies 😜
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RHP User
13 years ago
I can do that !;-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'WoodyWoodcock'Ladies & Gents, Practical homework: Male exercise - next time you go to a party, a club, etc, slip a ring on your wedding finger...chose something that looks real. Repeat the exercise on another occasion without the ring Guaranteed result - unless you go out of your way to be a dick and you do engage conversation with Females, you will get hit on. The guy with no ring...unless he is drop dead gorgeous, famous or dripping cash...FAIL. A man wearing a wedding ring? (Or not wearing one, but the indentation on his finger showing he just took it off?) Easy. Never. Ever.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'WoodyWoodcock' Ladies & Gents, Practical homework: Male exercise - next time you go to a party, a club, etc, slip a ring on your wedding finger...chose something that looks real. Repeat the exercise on another occasion without the ring Guaranteed result - unless you go out of your way to be a dick and you do engage conversation with Females, you will get hit on. The guy with no ring...unless he is drop dead gorgeous, famous or dripping cash...FAIL. This has been proven time and time again. Wassup girls? It is very weird particularly when you take account of the rhetoric. Womanisers and pick up artists, I think not ladies 😜 Proven time and again?!Sorry Woody...... My own experiences and observations just fit that stereotype/urban myth.And if they did... it would only say something about the premeditated deception people are prepared to engage in.I think that the majority of the single non-ring-wearing men you talk about failing...... do so because of their own failings.Because even the most basic logic says that if a single guy was interesting enough to a single woman, and knew how to create attraction within her...... why would the guy fail?!!!And the simple answer is... he wouldnt.... unless HE failed.... failed in approaching well, engaging her, and attracting her.Women WANT men to succeed with them..... they really do..... they dream about the guy sweeping her off her feet.... but she's not going to make it easy for just any guy to do it. The only real benefit to a single woman of talking to a guy wearing a wedding ring, is the perception that he is taken, and therefore she can feel comfortable just talking to him without fear that she has to suffer yet another guy trying to hit on her..... badly.If a single guy wears a wedding ring to gain an effect.... she will inevitably reward his deceit when she does find out the truth...... with another fail to his credit.DG
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'WoodyWoodcock'Ladies & Gents, Practical homework: Male exercise - next time you go to a party, a club, etc, slip a ring on your wedding finger...chose something that looks real. Repeat the exercise on another occasion without the ring Guaranteed result - unless you go out of your way to be a dick and you do engage conversation with Females, you will get hit on. The guy with no ring...unless he is drop dead gorgeous, famous or dripping cash...FAIL. This has been proven time and time again. Wassup girls? It is very weird particularly when you take account of the rhetoric. Womanisers and pick up artists, I think not ladies 😜 Sorry but gotta agree with others.... sounds like a crock of shit or urban myth... take your pick. This single lady does not hit on married men, nor would a considered amount of women I know. Unless a single guy is drop dead gorgeous, famous or dripping cash he fails in meeting women??? Nah.... i dont know what demographic of women participated in your poll, but i gotta say... wrong! Not all of us superficial, money hungry, star chasing ladies... Encouraging others to deliberately deceive woman by posing as married .... now thats a fail
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13 years ago
Quoting 'SassyMissM' Quoting 'WoodyWoodcock'Ladies & Gents, Practical homework: Male exercise - next time you go to a party, a club, etc, slip a ring on your wedding finger...chose something that looks real. Repeat the exercise on another occasion without the ring Guaranteed result - unless you go out of your way to be a dick and you do engage conversation with Females, you will get hit on. The guy with no ring...unless he is drop dead gorgeous, famous or dripping cash...FAIL. This has been proven time and time again. Wassup girls? It is very weird particularly when you take account of the rhetoric. Womanisers and pick up artists, I think not ladies 😜 Sorry but gotta agree with others.... sounds like a crock of shit or urban myth... take your pick. This single lady does not hit on married men, nor would a considered amount of women I know. Unless a single guy is drop dead gorgeous, famous or dripping cash he fails in meeting women??? Nah.... i dont know what demographic of women participated in your poll, but i gotta say... wrong! Not all of us superficial, money hungry, star chasing ladies... Encouraging others to deliberately deceive woman by posing as married .... now thats a fail Bravo!
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RHP User
13 years ago
butter popcorn ...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Aaaahhh, but I'm married to him. Anyone else's married man is theirs and never to be mine for even a moment without the woman's express permission. And if I'm really good as I should be, I'll say thank you to her afterwards! Peachy
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13 years ago
Ive been SOOOO tempted to come out of myself imposed retirement from this topic on SOOOO many occasions, especially in my defence of previous comments, from such fine and upstanding patrons of these forums. For all you boring TWATS both male and female that have "agreed" with so many others comments in the past 8 pages of this topic in these forums, AND IN ALL THE OTHER FORUMS IVE READ.... please either kindly fall into the abyss you call "life" and never return, OR give US all something with substance... I AGREE WITH I AGREE WITH I AGREE WITH I AGREE WITH I AGREE WITH I AGREE WITH I AGREE WITH I AGREE WITH I AGREE WITH I AGREE WITH I AGREE WITH I AGREE WITH I AGREE WITH I AGREE WITH I AGREE WITH BLAH BLAH BLAHHHHHHHH Because comments such as "woodywoodcock"s has just totally defecated all over the rest of the pitiful "burps, farts and tummy rumbles" of comments and thoughts put forward by 98% of you all. When are you going to realise that life is NO dress rehearsal and grow some opinions of your own selfish desires and trains of thought. Its NOT about what was 1st mentioned in this forum about pointing the finger at myself and my "so-called" short comings, nor was it about the way that others will perceive my "so-called" RANT...What its about is having an opinion of your own, something that makes you UNIQUE... NOT being a sheep and bleating out the same thing to confirm you go with the flow... stand up and be counted and be an individual with your OWN feelings ... emotions and beliefs..
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RHP User
13 years ago
Interesting.DG
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RHP User
13 years ago
bazinga!
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RHP User
13 years ago
We search for a man that has a feeling of silliness and likewise somebody who conveys themselves as being a sure individual in the way he looks and suspects...............
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RHP User
13 years ago
agree with you Gazza
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RHP User
13 years ago
Woody - i did not read your comment as it is way too long.However, the general gist i get is that "married Men" get luckier.I have to agree with this, but it has NOTHING to do with the ring on my finger.I get hit on WAY more by ladies now when i go out, than i EVER did as a single blokeAnd it has ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to do with a gold ring on my finger!It has EVERYTHING to do with attitude!You see, i dont go out looking to "Pick Up" as it were.I go out with the boys to catch up.We as a group tend to ignore all the ladies, and just have fun as a group of Brothers!And we do have Fun - Shit loads!I guess this appeals to the ladies more than a group of half pissed fucktards trying to score!As a result we do tend to attract ladies.I believe it has a lot to do with our scent - We don't smell like desperation!Thats my take anyway - Just wish i knew this BEFORE i got married, because there is NO WAY ON EARTH i would ever cheat on the most beautiful woman on earth!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Cant help but agree ! Hope thats okay, given the rules that seem to apply
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RHP User
13 years ago
I hear frustration, and I can sympathise to an extent... it is quite difficult (in my short time here) to get a response to your messages, and it can be a little demoralising/ denting to the self esteem.... I'd be interested to know HOW to attract girls here via a few paragraphs... (haven't had too many issues in real life previously, but I don't seem to have the same success here!). Meeka - any suggestions for well mannered good looking guys? Chief Gazza, I don't think you're on the money with the married thing.... I think it is just the (initial) impersonal platform. Don't give up, there are a lot of good people out there.
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RHP User
13 years ago
For me, I want more than sex, I want to like the other person and have some sort of connection and I refuse to enter into that with someone I know is attached. From that initial connection sometimes things grow and I wont knowingly enter into that with someone I already know is unavailable. I find a lot of guys on these sites say they are single or separated and arent, Ive had a few couples get in touch and then strangely only the man is available. From these experiences Ive come to notice a few things that serve as red flags....like guys who only want daytime meets...not to say that people dont have night jobs but this to me is a sign to be more careful. I have ended up with attached/married guys a couple of times. I dont like their deceit when Im pretty clear that this is what I dont want...there is no respect for me and my choices as they take that away from me with lies.I also dont like to come second (third fourth or fifth!) with whoever Im seeing and have someone else's limited availability so this is not about judging someone for what they do but for me its a clear choice that I make and communicate and I dont like the lack of respect when Im lied to.For me it has little to do with whether the wife/partner knows and approves, its simply not a direction I want to go in. For me its more about my right to make choices about my life and having that respected. Honesty, trust & respect are of high importance to me.As for guys with wedding rings, in a pub or something, well this hasnt happened to me for years but if I talked to them it was because I viewed them as safe, as in that I wont be hit on....naieve (spelling) I know! Thesedays I know better and keep some distance if its getting flirty.Gaz, Im a woman & I wasnt offended at all by your original post, I think its great that you said what you were feeling and put it out there for discussion...how open of you. I hate to agree with you after your last post but I do, we grow through facing our feelings and by opening up about them and I thought it was great. You put far more of yourself on a public post than I would have dared! :)Funny you should say tho about men over 40 being obsolete if unmarried, I do recall my Mum telling me something like that when I was younger...if a man isnt married by 40 he never will be....but no its not what I believe.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'ChiefGazza' Quoting 'Meeka100' Very pleased to make your acquaintance. It is a conundrum isn't it. With such calm, sensible single men as yourself in offer... Who would ask for more. Eh? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯- Posted from rhpmobile Thanks for your comment, and very pleased to make your acquaintance also Sheesh you would think Id nearly run out of things to say by now. but alas !!! nahhhh Is nt sarcasm the lowest form of Witt... that always sounds nastier than what I intended, and yes more than likely my forum topic came across as abrupt also, begging your pardon Madame Meeka, not my initial intention :o) Possibly my frustration at society in general, and what men and women have become. We have all these whizz bang gadgets to make "everything" faster for us but do we utilise the time saved to the best of our ability in "any" facet of life?? Just like "toughnfit" mentioned, making a judgement call on a person and what makes them tick, personality, character traits, habits, all within a 100 word self written account of ourselves. Is that really a proper use of the time we save from one day to the next one week to the next?? Is that truly an educated judgement call.... I think SNOT !!! I think you should STOP replying to all of these comments now & funnel all of your energy & imagination into writing an enticing & interesting introductory message to the sexy seductive SINGLE WOMAN that catches your eye & your interest!You are wasting precious time writing all of these forum posts & think you should look at improving your profile a little & maybe add some more pics that show your impeccable dress sense &/ or your impressive pecs & abs....Just a suggestion & hope it helps you....PS I have been guilty of meeting up with a married man for drinks & a chat & did my very best to resist his charms but failed miserably I'm ashamed to admit! He was very attractive & very charming & witty & wish I hadn't agreed to meet him again..... but OMG the sex was fantastic!
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