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Lame messages and instant turn-offs
September 13 2016
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RHP User
9 years ago
In the latest episode Dexter's sister declares her love for him...An awkward moment indeed. Interestingly in Australian law you can marry your aunt,uncle,neice,or nephew but not a non blood related step sister or brother that you grew up with.. So in theory an awkward moment would be if you received a message,opened the pg only to find Aunty Gertrude or Uncle Bert staring out at you 😈 Q
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RHP User
9 years ago
I think we can all agree that as a message it was inappropriate and that the person sending it, to multiple women, is attention seeking. Regardless of anyone's acceptance, or not, of consensual adult siblings choosing to enter into a sexual relationship, the tone of that message is disturbing.... As you pointed out with your "wire brush" comment to Kis... Tall is an intelligent, measured man, and I'm sure he was simply attempting to lighten the thread, but Annie et al (yes, I did that on purpose) are correct in saying that a light or funny spin shouldn't be applied in this case. The message is inappropriate and, I'm guessing, was meant to cause distress/discomfort to the recipients - that's not funny... Shit stirring and playing Devil's Advocate are 2 different things - even at 3am 😉
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RHP User
9 years ago
I would also like to add to the above responses that the sender of that message has no idea of the background of the recipient and what a message like that might trigger. Fantasy is one thing but to send that as a first message is highly inappropriate on many levels. I just can't see the humour in it.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Comes across very charming and eloquent. Until you tell him you dont want to meet ( I knew something wasnt quite right ). Two of my friends on here have had the same experience with him. Once he realises nothings going to happen theres a nasty rant, you are a C**t, Bitch, Fu**ing Cockteaser.etc etc and its quite crazy. Then a week later, an apology. Its like a Jekyll and Hyde syndrome. I just hope no one meets him and displeases him.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Betty7216' I think we can all agree that as a message it was inappropriate and that the person sending it, to multiple women, is attention seeking. The message is inappropriate and, I'm guessing, was meant to cause distress/discomfort to the recipients - that's not funny... I'm a bit surprised at you S. Context is everything. This isn't a case of some poor misunderstood guy trying to gain acceptance of his societally-frowned upon, taboo kink. This is a guy purposely acting like a wankstain and nobody has to entertain his fucked up shenanigans.
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RHP User
9 years ago
You have such a way with words *swoon 😍
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RHP User
9 years ago
'Wankstain' is pretty swoon-worthy isn't it
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RHP User
9 years ago
Sure is!
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Tall74nHard9
9 years ago
Quoting 'Cyclone_Annie' Some things just need to be given a wide berth. Nothing can be said to put a humorous spin on that. Seriously ? WTF ?!? I would have thought that the big smiley face emoji should have given the game away that the commentary was very firmly tongue-in-cheek. Or is it simply a case that some people are allowed to get away with that, and some aren't ?? Do I really need to put footnotes under all my comments so that it is not misunderstood ? (Above comments are intended to be sarcastic in nature) *face palm* Tall
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Champagnesunsets' Comes across very charming and eloquent. Until you tell him you dont want to meet ( I knew something wasnt quite right ). Two of my friends on here have had the same experience with him. Once he realises nothings going to happen theres a nasty rant, you are a C**t, Bitch, Fu**ing Cockteaser.etc etc and its quite crazy. Then a week later, an apology. Its like a Jekyll and Hyde syndrome. I just hope no one meets him and displeases him.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Champagnesunsets' Comes across very charming and eloquent. Until you tell him you dont want to meet ( I knew something wasnt quite right ). Two of my friends on here have had the same experience with him. Once he realises nothings going to happen theres a nasty rant, you are a C**t, Bitch, Fu**ing Cockteaser.etc etc and its quite crazy. Then a week later, an apology. Its like a Jekyll and Hyde syndrome. I just hope no one meets him and displeases him. That sounds scary and nasty - might actually be worth reporting him, if you have that ^ in writing?
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RHP User
9 years ago
I certainly have...in my messages in my Koko profile. Trouble is...I also have the overly charming apology. He has had 2 profiles on here so far. As I said....I hope he hasnt the same demeanor when he meets people.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Luck_Dragon'Quoting 'Betty7216' I think we can all agree that as a message it was inappropriate and that the person sending it, to multiple women, is attention seeking. The message is inappropriate and, I'm guessing, was meant to cause distress/discomfort to the recipients - that's not funny... I'm a bit surprised at you S. Context is everything. This isn't a case of some poor misunderstood guy trying to gain acceptance of his societally-frowned upon, taboo kink. This is a guy purposely acting like a wankstain and nobody has to entertain his fucked up shenanigans. I read Annie's comment as suggesting that some topics must be given a wide berth and could never be lightened (i.e. the incestuous theme of the message) and not so much just the fact that it was an inappropriate message to KIS from her correspondent from a very literal suburb in the city of brotherly love. That got me on the track of "why do we (near universally) come down so hard against incest", and sweetfrangipani's comment about keeping him away from children. (Or that, as Betty has said the tone is disturbing - when I'd argue the only way the tone of the message is disturbing is because of the subject). I probably wasn't clear enough on differentiating that from thoughts on the appropriateness (or lack thereof) of the wankstain's message itself. (I was intending to keep it distinct from others who were looking at it from POV of someone trolling) (even on the end of a dressing down, can't help but smirk because of "shenanigans" - anyone else have words that just make you smile regardless of when they're used?) Betty: ego vide quid ibi fecerit :) Q: it's interesting piece of law IMO, IIRC it focuses on the 'abuse of power' aspect moreso now than the inbreeding.
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Quoting 'Tall_n_Hard' Quoting 'Cyclone_Annie' Some things just need to be given a wide berth. Nothing can be said to put a humorous spin on that. Seriously ? WTF ?!? I would have thought that the big smiley face emoji should have given the game away that the commentary was very firmly tongue-in-cheek. Or is it simply a case that some people are allowed to get away with that, and some aren't ?? Do I really need to put footnotes under all my comments so that it is not misunderstood ? (Above comments are intended to be sarcastic in nature) *face palm* Tall You can WTF all you want.The use of Emoji can never remove the basic tone of the original message. It doesn't remove the need to be sensitive to the subject.Taboo subjects may be discussed and dissected but never joked about unless you are a professional. I think artists like Eddie Murphy might be able to pull it off, maybe........ And you are no Eddie Murphy obviously.Paedophilia, rape and incest. Best you leave your little touch off them and *face palm* yourself a little harder in respect to the people that find these subjects very disturbing to them let alone others joking about it. My comments aren't sarcastic. They are serious comments.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'S_OnTheLoose' I read Annie's comment as suggesting that some topics must be given a wide berth and could never be lightened (i.e. the incestuous theme of the message) and not so much just the fact that it was an inappropriate message to KIS from her correspondent from a very literal suburb in the city of brotherly love. That got me on the track of "why do we (near universally) come down so hard against incest", and sweetfrangipani's comment about keeping him away from children. (Or that, as Betty has said the tone is disturbing - when I'd argue the only way the tone of the message is disturbing is because of the subject). I probably wasn't clear enough on differentiating that from thoughts on the appropriateness (or lack thereof) of the wankstain's message itself. (I was intending to keep it distinct from others who were looking at it from POV of someone trolling) (even on the end of a dressing down, can't help but smirk because of "shenanigans" - anyone else have words that just make you smile regardless of when they're used?) Nice save there Shenanigans is indeed a wonderful and smirk-worthy word
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RHP User
9 years ago
Let's go to the nearest toilet block for a root. As if.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Has just joined Pie... he had his first message yesterday... It went something like... "Mmmmm, love to meet you puurrrr I deep throat mmmm... (add in many more cat sounds and mmmm's). So why don't we meet for coffee and see how it goes?" Welcome to Pie my darling! *I'm thinking the coffee is kinda obsolete after the deep throat bit?? Milk? Sugar? Deep throat? hahha!
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Hes done good. Takes some guys months to get a reply. Might be a Tumeric Latte though
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RHP User
9 years ago
Wasn't even a reply, she sent the first message ;) It wasn't Pepper, so he's safe from the turmeric latte for now 😂😂 Pepper, before you spank me... I know you would just go the deep theist message without all the cat noises 👍
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RHP User
9 years ago
I've gagged on theism few times. And... no one is safe ^.^ Meow
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RHP User
9 years ago
At least your husband new what he was up for ;) ...meow.
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
I spelt turmeric wrong...... Ill be in for a posting for correctness.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Cyclone_Annie' I spelt turmeric wrong...... Ill be in for a posting for correctness. I have throat as 'theist' and Davey has knew as 'new'... you're in good company
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Betty7216' Has just joined Pie... he had his first message yesterday... It went something like... "Mmmmm, love to meet you puurrrr I deep throat mmmm... (add in many more cat sounds and mmmm's). So why don't we meet for coffee and see how it goes?" Welcome to Pie my darling! *I'm thinking the coffee is kinda obsolete after the deep throat bit?? Milk? Sugar? Deep throat? hahha! First message omg nice to know the women are squaring up the equation so the puurrring didn't do it for him Damn I'm gonna have to change my approach
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RHP User
9 years ago
Welcome to your husband Love the first message....was she planning on deep throating him in the cafe? lol
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RHP User
9 years ago
😂😂
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RHP User
9 years ago
ITouch even 😣
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Betty7216' Has just joined Pie... he had his first message yesterday... It went something like... "Mmmmm, love to meet you puurrrr I deep throat mmmm... (add in many more cat sounds and mmmm's). So why don't we meet for coffee and see how it goes?" Welcome to Pie my darling! *I'm thinking the coffee is kinda obsolete after the deep throat bit?? Milk? Sugar? Deep throat? hahha! That's it's actually a bloke
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Keepitsimple72' Quoting 'Betty7216' Has just joined Pie... he had his first message yesterday... It went something like... "Mmmmm, love to meet you puurrrr I deep throat mmmm... (add in many more cat sounds and mmmm's). So why don't we meet for coffee and see how it goes?" Welcome to Pie my darling! *I'm thinking the coffee is kinda obsolete after the deep throat bit?? Milk? Sugar? Deep throat? hahha! That's it's actually a bloke haha! He decided to give her very lovely offer a miss, so guess we will never know :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'PhoenixGirl' Welcome to your husband Love the first message....was she planning on deep throating him in the cafe? lol Thanks gorgeous! LOVE your new pic
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RHP User
9 years ago
Love your new pic too....ooh la la
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Keepitsimple72'Quoting 'Betty7216' *I'm thinking the coffee is kinda obsolete after the deep throat bit?? Milk? Sugar? Deep throat? hahha!That's it's actually a bloke realllllly dimly lit cafe and play Schroedinger's Blowjob?
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Room.....
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RHP User
9 years ago
Wanna join? 😈
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'PhoenixGirl' Welcome to your husband Love the first message....was she planning on deep throating him in the cafe? lol Don't knock it til you try it
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Quoting 'PhoenixGirl' Welcome to your husband Love the first message....was she planning on deep throating him in the cafe? lol Don't knock it til you try it Deep throating in a cafe?
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RHP User
9 years ago
I believe that's exactly what ITouch meant - bless her adventurous heart *might give it a miss on Sunday though?? ;)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Betty7216' Wanna join? 😈 Can I join in too I'll be down there soon :) xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Betty7216' I believe that's exactly what ITouch meant - bless her adventurous heart *might give it a miss on Sunday though?? ;) Nearly spurted tea all over my keyboard....oh the visual!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'PhoenixGirl' Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Quoting 'PhoenixGirl' Welcome to your husband Love the first message....was she planning on deep throating him in the cafe? lol Don't knock it til you try it Deep throating in a cafe? twas only joking but I never rule it out lol I have been known to get the guy to find a place with long table cloths
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yes I have a question - do you like teeth marks?
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
You girls would be a handful in a group. Add a liberal amount of alcohol.......... Be changing profiles next day.....experimental
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'AnnieWhichway' You girls would be a handful in a group. Add a liberal amount of alcohol.......... Be changing profiles next day.....experimental Welcome to next Monday
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RHP User
9 years ago
I am not even bi-curious but I can certainly appreciate the beauty and sexiness of many of the lovely ladies on RHP
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RHP User
9 years ago
What should one say ? We are on here looking for our own reasons , both similar objectives , if you like me send a message back . I love to chat - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
So I had a message and the message itself was pretty good so went to check out the profile and discovered that my own profile words had bee copied exactly on his profile.......copy and paste!! haha I had a bit of a giggle about it :) xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'naughty4nice' What should one say ? We are on here looking for our own reasons , both similar objectives , if you like me send a message back . I love to chat - Posted from rhpmobile I think all the above comments throughout the thread indicate how different we are, yet there are some common things not appreciated by women. Advice from me, and this is just me and what I like, but just keep the first message reasonably short and simple, express interest, flatter, make it about ME not a generic message, that always gets my interest, and non pushy. I find non pushy is the biggest asset for guys because, well firstly we are quite often busy, but sometimes women can be undecided, teetering, not really sure, then a few days later, or a few weeks later, might have another look and feel attracted, which is great, then if you have been nice and non pushy, she's more likely to follow it up. But the guys who push and make it all about them come across as being selfish, which in my opinion translates to intimacy, what kind of lover they are. How much do they care about the person, that matters, we are all individuals, so long as you treat any woman you contact as an individual and not a commodity, along with respect, you'll be fine. I don't know whether any of that made sense, only on my first coffee
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RHP User
9 years ago
It was another site, but one young lady told me that she was actually only 17, but was still willing for me to take her for a drink. She explained that I could be her father. I am still certain it was either police trying to trap people, or a fake profile looking for blackmail material because she seemed too keen. Either way it seemed a lose/lose situation, so I came back on here for another try. before everybody starts screaming "your profile says couple", I have a playmate that has a boyfriend and wishes to remain discreet. I live by myself and plan outings for us. Ok!! cheers
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RHP User
9 years ago
"You guys want to earn some money?" When asked doing what he responded " how much you guys after?" We had a good laugh but then wondered if we looked poor! 😳lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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Tall74nHard9
9 years ago
Quoting 'blissful_45' So I had a message and the message itself was pretty good so went to check out the profile and discovered that my own profile words had bee copied exactly on his profile.......copy and paste!! haha I had a bit of a giggle about it :) xx So , did he leave in that he also likes dominant men ? Tall
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'newbies6968' "You guys want to earn some money?" When asked doing what he responded " how much you guys after?" We had a good laugh but then wondered if we looked poor! 😳lol - Posted from rhpmobile haha not directly but I saw it coming from a few, offering massage services and so on Told them I didn't need to pay for it, when I did, I'd call someone else One guy on another site clearly ran a massage parlour, one of his pictures showed him and his partner, in a massage room, but it looked like a business, they're pretty easy to pick. I had another guy tell me his profession and although i can't say what it is on here, I did wonder whether he was trying to drum up business haha good news, he didn't charge
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RHP User
9 years ago
bit off topic but I've seen a chick's profile where she's holding a stack of money, heap of large notes, fanned out in her hand, and another few pics of her laying nude with the money all over her. Is that allowed, it looks like she's advertising a paid service. Seems odd that pictures like that would get approved when I have one of me laying on the beach in a bikini, that I can't get approved. Off topic I know, but just following the convo about being offered money
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RHP User
9 years ago
A message from a girl Wow does that happen I've never had a first message from a girl - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
So if life was a movie In the words of Sean Connory lol Whats a nice girl like you doing in a place like this??Couriosty has gotten the better of me so ladiesWould it matter if, lets say some gent (George Clooney for example) Sent 'HI" want to root tonightHow much conversation would go on before hand Great Profile+Lame pickup line=????Lame Profile+Great Pickup line=????
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'll answer that, and an interesting question. First though, George Clooney doesn't do it for me, so I'll choose Bradley Cooper So if I received a message from him, I would assume it was someone with stolen pictures lol so the poor guy would either get rejected straight up or in the unlikely event he managed to convince me, he'd still get the third degree, filtering stuff, checks. Okay, so let's assume he passed through all that, I would then not even bother looking at his profile, except for a perve and I'd be in the shower preparing for an urgent seeing to
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RHP User
9 years ago
what am I saying. Bradley, if you're reading this, I'd marry you. If you want a sexy woman to suck on your cock round the clock, call me
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RHP User
9 years ago
Great profile - lame pick up line...same puck up li e for all the women, he thinks he's all that and doesn't need to make an effort, you should be grateful such awesomeness deigned to talk to you. Lame profile - great pick up line...may get a response for the effort or quirkiness of the message. But I'd still be wary...lame profile means no real info available ( ask me's etc)... Just my take ATM, but my thoughts can change on a daily basis. ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
*Pick up line ...sorry, fat fingers typing!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Tall_n_Hard' Quoting 'blissful_45' So I had a message and the message itself was pretty good so went to check out the profile and discovered that my own profile words had bee copied exactly on his profile.......copy and paste!! haha I had a bit of a giggle about it :) xx So , did he leave in that he also likes dominant men ? Tall Haha clearly not the part of the wording that he likes ;)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Guys calling me 'babe' or just 'hi' messages. They really irk me. Also anything super sexual. On a related note, I saw a 50+ single male GUEST profile that said "Please ladies, if you are only a Guest how are we supposed to connect? Please upgrade your account so that we can chat." .....LOL. Miss Little xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
Have had a string of them, but the best was "Hi sexy bum" I responded with "Really??" and he came back with "Yes xx" as if I was looking for affirmation haha! Bless his cotton socks
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RHP User
9 years ago
The ones where a guy asks if he can watch and video me while I screw an escort that he will hire for me. Had this a a couple of times from guys pretending to be a couple or similar, its just weird and I fail to understand how they could think that I might be interested unless I was some financially deprived sex maniac that couldn't otherwise fund his bizarre hobby. The other one is the fairly frequent kind offer of blowjobs from guys but at least with this I know I've got a following if ever I decide to bat for the other team. I've seen the FWB's messages occasionally and it makes me cringe what some of the guys will do in order to try and get somewhere, very funny.
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Lifes_great
9 years ago
Quoting 'Betty7216' Have had a string of them, but the best was "Hi sexy bum" I responded with "Really??" and he came back with "Yes xx" as if I was looking for affirmation haha! Bless his cotton socks What an arse!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Softandcourious. Tell me what works - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Eiliethiya' *Pick up line ...sorry, fat fingers typing!! it's understandable you'd have pucks on the brain ;)
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RHP User
9 years ago
I have had more meaningful pick up lines yelled from the car windows of bogans than on this site at times - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Is the straight "you busy tonight?" Umm how about, hi how are you? I also don't like when people give me their numbers in the first message. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' "Oh wow you are gorgeous how are you im looking for someone who wants to keep me company today im home and bored and would be nice what you up to xx" Did you race on over??
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RHP User
9 years ago
😂😂😂
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Tall74nHard9
9 years ago
Quoting 'Betty7216' Have had a string of them, but the best was "Hi sexy bum" I responded with "Really??" and he came back with "Yes xx" as if I was looking for affirmation haha! Bless his cotton socks Obviously had his spectacles on upside-down - definitely not a 'bum' from my POV. Tall
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' "Oh wow you are gorgeous how are you im looking for someone who wants to keep me company today im home and bored and would be nice what you up to xx" I imagine them talking just like the message - super excited and no pauses for air.
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MrandMrsBrady
9 years ago
I (mrs U) don't like first messages that read like novels or messages that end in xx or xo or any other combination... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
a message from an individual, a message I haven't read I might add, from a profile with one picture only, a picture of his knob, the end of his cock, close up, that's it, no other pictures. Really?
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RHP User
9 years ago
What works? Well not just a message. A well written profile with everything filled out, some photos, a message that shows someone has read my profile. There's a list on this thread I think that Summer wrote. It's the commandments of messaging. Well worth the read.
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RHP User
9 years ago
from a profile with no pictures, 'ask me' for every single question and all the usual 'sexual animal' template crap, I receive my favourite message "Hi, how's your weekend going?" When I reply that sorry, you're not what I'm looking for, he responds "how do you know, I could be exactly what you're looking for" Well duh...?
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Seachange73
9 years ago
Pretty much same as yours. Anon template profile guy with liberal sprinkling of ask mes. But messaged with 'hi. Tell me a little bit of yourself '. Ffs. Did you even read my profile? I sooo dislike lazy men.
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MissBishere
9 years ago
Simply said I'm in town do you require a servicing
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RHP User
9 years ago
Wow how swoon worthy 😕 I hope you told him you're a highly complex European engine and you don't let backyard weekend mechanics anywhere near you?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Interestingly, sent almost a year to the day since he sent the last one Hi I no ur profile says ur strait do you fancy ur cock sucked? I come to you no words spoken then leave n have a good day Er........ no.But good for you, you industrious little community service worker, you.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Would you consider 2 hung guys? My GF would like to watch.
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RHP User
9 years ago
There is an older man who has repeatedly viewed my profile at intervals. My own profile clearly indicates I am interested in women only, but I suppose he might expect I should feel flattered... To my knowledge he has not posted in the forum. After about the fourth time he had viewed my profile, I took a look at his own profile to scope him out. One of his photos reminded me of Ivan Milat !
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Missb72' Simply said I'm in town do you require a servicing for an apartment? or a vehicle? was it a lube mobile? they're apparently _your_ mobile mechanics
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RHP User
9 years ago
You're absolutely stunning!!! Would love to catch up with you asap! From a guy who messaged me in April, I opened my pg for him and obviously didn't take the permissions back. Really buddy? It took you 6 months, well why don't I just jump on that right now?
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Tall74nHard9
9 years ago
Quoting 'ontology' There is an older man who has repeatedly viewed my profile at intervals. My own profile clearly indicates I am interested in women only, but I suppose he might expect I should feel flattered... To my knowledge he has not posted in the forum. After about the fourth time he had viewed my profile, I took a look at his own profile to scope him out. One of his photos reminded me of Ivan Milat ! You never know - it could have been. You don't know what privileges he may get inside. Maybe he's planning an outing ? Tall
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Tall74nHard9
9 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' a message from an individual, a message I haven't read I might add, from a profile with one picture only, a picture of his knob, the end of his cock, close up, that's it, no other pictures. Really? Must have considered it his only redeeming feature - face is obviously something nobody could bear to look at. Tall
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RHP User
9 years ago
lol yes exactly my thoughts
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RHP User
9 years ago
"I notice you've noticed me, and now I've noticed you too" ( or some such wording?!) Except..before that flirt I never knew you existed and sure as h3ll hadn't looked at your profile?! lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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Tall74nHard9
9 years ago
Maybe he had previously spied your pic, and was hoping that close enough was good enough. Could just be a shy starter. Tall
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RHP User
9 years ago
I've posted in here a couple of times so now have to confess about my own lameness in message sending. I just wrote out a response to a message and while attaching my pg I accidentally hit a sorry but no message lol. Wasn't what I intended to do at all haha. Made me giggle at myself ;) Xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
Whats some of the nicers messages you get? I try and say, Hello ...(name if available) Hows your weekend/week going? Hope your having a relaxing evening, after reading your profile noticed a few features followed by a compliment. Closed with Hope to chat soon Garreth! Yet so many dont reply or acknowledge, i know im not everyones cup of tea but id like to think that i quick hello and introduction/compliment would get more attention that "wanna root' let me know your thoughts... Gaz
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' "Hey, you a cougar?" A least he didn't say "u". p.s. Gaz, I'd definitely respond if you lived in Sydney. Thanks Summersolstice, Might even drop you a message, never know what might happen!!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'GolfAlphaZulu'I try and say, Hello ...(name if available) Hows your weekend/week going? Hope your having a relaxing evening, after reading your profile noticed a few features followed by a compliment. Closed with Hope to chat soon Garreth! ..snip...let me know your thoughts...quick tweak to the template, change the second "your" to "you're" - some won't notice it, but it'll irk others.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Luck_Dragon You look sensational in your corsets and heels and guys can tell when there is quality by the care and attention that you take in your profile including attractive sensual and erotic photos as well as normal cheeky or funny photos 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
All depends on the compliment..... If you compliment their pic, don't compliment them.....they'd get that a lot.....and an insecure woman will expect you to compliment their photo to boost their ego/self esteem.... Same with guys..... Besides they'd get that with every man, which started with their father long, long, time ago....so let's face it, ain't nothing they haven't heard before.... The best compliment I've found to be is discussion..... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
You me, let's do it
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RHP User
9 years ago
Stirry...I don't need to be or even like being constantly showered with compliments, but on the other hand if a guy didn't ever compliment me at all then I'd just assume he's not interested and some friendly discussion is as far as it would ever go. There is such a thing as playing it too cool, and if you think a woman is too insecure for you and only looking for an ego boost then I'm not sure I see why you would be communicating with her anyway. I will also say that I believe it goes both ways...if I'm genuinely interested in a guy then I will compliment him. I don't see anything wrong with giving a genuine compliment as part of expressing interest in someone.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I tend not to dish out compliments too much as I think anyone can spray compliments around as merely their game....which lets face it messages like "you're hot!!" Wait up.... My bad "ur hot..." Are pretty similar in intention as "wow, your profile pic looks amazing" The backbone for me is women can mostly tell a lot of things about a guy within the first few minutes of a conversation.... For example... I live next to this damn sexy looking lady, very similar to you actually....and within the first 6 months of my tenancy, saw her blatantly knowing the thoughts that'd ran through my head when she said "I've seen the way you look at me when we chat, we should do something about it" And..... I never complimented her at all....I merely treated her as someone I'd known for ages.... P.S..see what I did there??? ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I tend not to dish out compliments too much as I think anyone can spray compliments around as merely their game....which lets face it messages like "you're hot!!" Wait up.... My bad "ur hot..." Are pretty similar in intention as "wow, your profile pic looks amazing" The backbone for me is women can mostly tell a lot of things about a guy within the first few minutes of a conversation.... For example... I live next to this damn sexy looking lady, very similar to you actually....and within the first 6 months of my tenancy, saw her blatantly knowing the thoughts that'd ran through my head when she said "I've seen the way you look at me when we chat, we should do something about it" And..... I never complimented her at all....I merely treated her as someone I'd known for ages.... P.S..see what I did there??? ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Sorry about the double posting - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Sure if it's someone you're seeing in person regularly, you get all the non-verbal cues as well. When it comes to online communication things are a bit different though. And yes I did see what you did there
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